18 OF INTEREST T Prudence and Prudery By DOROTHY DIX A problem that confronts every girl t some time or other Is where to draw the Une between prudery and prudence In her dealings with men. Bhe doesn't want to be a prunes and prisms sort of a girl, one of the kind who Is always on the lookout for a ■bock, and who takes hold of a man's arm as If she would prefer to use the tongs In touching It. She wants to be !fre, and frank, and fearless, and yet 1W maldenliness shrinks from any familiarity from one of the opposite •ex, and so the question of how to maintain a thus-far-and-no-further at titude toward men becomes a very difficult one for a young and inexperl ■nced girl. The difficulty is further enhanced •ly the fact that every normal girl de jalres to be admired and to receive at ttratlons from men, and she sees that tho popular girls—the girls who have •boots of beaux and are overrun with llnvltatlons for theaters and parties >nd every amusement—are the free and-easy girls who permit little liber ties and in whose presence a man docs 'aot need to put much restraint upon •either his tongue or his manners. An older woman could tell such a ifflrl that she was taking a short view of the subject, and that while the fast woman will always get the most serv ile*, admiration and attention from imn, she is seldom the woman that they marry- They like to be with her •when they want an hour's amusement, ifor she is Jolly and amusing and easy (to talk to, and they have to make no Effort to change their mental attitude 1n her presence, but when a man thinks of a woman as a companion for a lifetime and not a day, he wants something better, purer, more wom anly, and one for whom he has more 1-espect. Men are cruelly Inconsistent In their 'dealings with women. They amuse themselves with one type of woman, nd then they marry another. A man Will teach a girl to drink cocktails and than refuso to marry her because she does it. He will spend weeks per suading her to kiss him, and then be I i Mother "Yes, son, you can have all the rfl Bham you can eat. 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In the church ■( theater and *-nernl conversation. The AUTO MASSAGE atop, bend' R nolaes and makes the cure of deafness possible. Km Remember, we would not allow such a demonstration In our .to IB unless we had Investigated In the Instrument thoroughly "tore J. C. McNaniara, an expert, from New York Cltv, will be with ... P7 on the above daya. We most earnestly request you to call mu. . ! K privately and receive expert advice without charge. Every Instrument E guaranteed. Ask or write for booklet. Tell your deaf friends? Hj With H. C. CLASTER, 302 Market Stmet. Try Telegraph Want Ads V FRIDAY EVENING* HARHISBURG 5®SSi TELEGRAPH SEPTEMBER 22, 1916, suspicious of her because she does it. He will persuade a girl to go to see a problem play and then condemn her because she went. No girl need ever be afraid that she hurts herself in a man's opinion by womanly reserve and dignity. He may laugh at her a bit for a little Puritan if she won't go to restaurants with him without a chaperon, and if the very suggestion of an oft-colored story dyes her innocent cheek with scarlot, but in his heart ho respects her for it. She is the kind of girl that he would like his sister to be and that he hunts up for himself when he marries. If you will notice you will see that the gay, brilliant, good fellow, much admired belle of a season, who was a connoisseur In mixed drinks and dou ble entendre stories and an expert at cards seldom marries as well as the s£y little girl whose only attraction was the white halo of her innocence, and ignorance, and purity. Another very practical argument for maidenly reserve may be found in the fact that man's leading passion is the passion for the chase, and that the harder the thing is to get the more he wants it and the more determined hi is to have it. No man cares to kiss the lips that are within his reach. It is the ones that are denied him for which ho hungers and thirst? and which he spends his life trying to win. No girl could have a more potent charm for men than to diffuse about herself an intangible atmosphere of aloofness—of being guarded by a maidenly delicacy that would take alarm at the slightest approach to fa miliarity. Every man worthy of the name, honors the girl who honors herself, and If there are any others who are driven away from her because she will not permit liberties from them, she should bless Heaven tliat a danger has been removed from her path. This does not mean that she should be a prude. She can be friendly without being familiar, and she should never forget that while every girl should be a peach, the ripest peach and the most desired hangs highest on the tree. PRINCESSE SLIP OF FINE BATISTE Soft Colored Silks or Lawns Are Equally Desirable as White For Girls By MAY~M ANTON 9161 QA'ith Basting Line and Added Seam Allowance) Girl's Princesse Slip, 8 to 14 years. This is a slip that can be made of lin gerie material to be a simple under garment or of silk to be worn beneath the party frock. 11 is shapely and attractive and at the same time exceedingly simple. On the figure, it is made of batiste with trimming of embroidery. In one of the small views is a suggestion for scalloping the lftck and armhole edges. That treatment always is dainty ana the older girls should be able to do the work them selves it' is so absolutely simple. For wear beneath the party frock, the slip could be trimmed in any way that may suit the fancy and taffeta, India silk and materials of such sort are the best liked for the purpose. For the 12 year size will be needed, yards of material 36 or 44 inches wider with 2 Vi yards of insertion and 3H yards of edging, i x A yards of embroidery 5 inches wide, for the frill. The pattern No. 9161 is cut in sizes for girls from Bto 14 years of age. It will be mailed to any address by the Fashion Department of this paper, on receipt of ten cents. Miss Fairfax Answers Queries GIVE HIM A HEARING By BEATRICE FAIRFAX Dear Miss Fairfax: Am eighteen, and working as a cloak model. I have been going about with a young man six years my senior for two years. A year and a half ago he ceased calling because his parents were told I was a model. His sisters are not allowed to even mention my name, although they think the world of me. I have heard from friend!-, of his that he would like to speak to me again. Do you think that he repents his quick actions? He knows that I have numerous admirers, and that of all of them combined I love him best. Do you think that Is why he Is willing to apologize to me? How can I win back his love, and make him understand that, while we were engaged, ho should have stood up for me. (We were engaged to be married.) Mother tells me that I ought to try to forget him. ADELAIDE. 1 Of course, It would have been only loyal and manly for your fiance to up hold you to his parents. But you were both so young when the situation rose that it is not surprising that he failed to act with the mature Judgment of a man. Why not give him a chance to retrieve himself? His parents were not fair In their condemnation of you —but give them a chance, too. If he and they fail you now, Just put them out of your life and start over. OBEY YOUR MOTHER Dear Miss Fairfax: I have been go ing about with a young man not quite two years my senior for the past three months. As 1 am a few months past sixteen, and have an older sister, my mother objects to my doing so. I love him dearly, and when I don't see him "1 FEEL YOUNGER BY TEN YEARS," SAYS MRS. WEBER She Was All Run Down an<l In Ter ribly Weakened Condition But Now Feels Well and Happy Again Mrs. Josephine Weber, a popular Harrlsburg matron, who lives at 42 North Twelfth street, Harrlsburg, de clares that she owes a debt of grati tude to Tanlac that is greater than she Can ever repay. She says: "I suffered for a long jtime from chronic Indigestion. It made no difference how plain and sim ple the food that I ate, I would always suffer terribly afterward. "Gas would form on my stomach j and make me feel horribly bloated; I was feverish, restless, irritable and would frequently break out into a pro fuse sweat. I was all run down, my whole system seemed limp and I didn't feel like working or doing anything. "Of course I tried many remedies, but none of them seemed to reach the seat of my trouble, and I had about decided that I would have to suffer for the rest of my days when I read about Tanlac In one of our papers. "It appealed to me and I started taking this wonderful remedy, and as anyone can see It has done me a world of good. I feel ten years younger. My health Is now splendid, my appetite has come back to me and I can eat anything I wish without paying for it afterward with hours of torment. "I certainly am grateful to Tanlac, for nothing has ever done me so much good and I owe It my health and happiness." Tanlac, the famous master medicine of which Mrs. Weber speaks and which is so highly endorsed by thousands oi other grateful people. Is now being specially introduced in Harrlsburg at Gorgns' Drug Store, 16 North Third street, where the Tanlac man is de scribing the merits of this wonderful reconstructive tonic to dally Increas ing crowds. Tanlac is also for sale at the Gorgas Drug Store In the P. R. R. 1 Station.—Adv. | Good, Stylish, Reliable """I I Ladies' Coats and Suits | H Suits in wool serges, poplins, gabardines, wool velours, <tlQ I- SjvJC g broadcloths, tweeds, whipcords and wool Jerseys ipIO CO H g Coats! In Bolivia cloth, wool velours, wool plush, tweeds, * itCC g broadcloth, zibehne and cheviot, from I• ID £0 |lo3 || || Specials in Serge and Silk Dresses "JEJ | HAVE YOUR BILL CHARGED IF YOU WISH | | Gately 8k Fitzgerald Supply Co. | H ( HOME | 29-31-33 & 35 S. Second St. 1 S ♦♦ FURNISHERS J THE DIFFERENT KIND OF A CREDIT STORE CLOTHIERS I || jfmmttmmmmmsmimnttmmmmmimmmtmmmtmmtmmmmfcmmmajjH I miss him very much. Although she objects, I meet him secretly. Somehow she has discovered that I still go with him, and asks me to Rive him up. A. D. S. Your mother is quite right. You are far too young to be very much in any boy's society. A love affair is absurd at your age. Don't meet this boy secretly, but do aa your mother so sensibly asks, and give up a prema ture love affair which, honestly, will do you absolutely no good. AN APOIiOGY IS DUE Dear Miss Fairfax: I have been go ing out with a young man for six months. I love him dearly, and I know my love is returned. A week ago we had an argument and I said something wrong about him, meant as a joke, but his feelings were hurt. Wo are not speaking at the present timo. What can I do? H. M. Yours joke was in very bad taste. Go to the young man and confess that you realize it. I am sure he will be gtnerous enough to accept the apology and explanation which you really owe him. Technical Books Are Added to City's Library The Harrisburg Public Library re ceived yesterday a complete set of the proceedings of th e National Association of Cement Users from 1908 to 1912 with a promise of similar publications of Interest to those engaged in or contemplating cement construction. This opportune gift, which will enable the library to till many requests for information on concrete, was accom panied by a number of unbound journals of the American Concrete In stitute, and came from Charles B. Herring, manager of the Ottawa Silica Company, Ottawa, 111. In the last few months there were many inquiries for special information on concrete con struction. Other technical sets presented to the library since January 1 were from Henry McCormick, Jr., who gave a complete set to date of Translations of American Institute of Mining Engi neers, 35 vols, in all, and from Ed ward Bailey, the Yearbooks and Pro ceedings of the American Iron and Steel Institute, a complete set to date. These volumes are all made refer ence vqlumes and shelved together so that they are convenient of access on our reference shelves. They are a good nucleus for u technical library. Fifty-Year Romance Over, Old Man Ended His Life IJOS Angeles, Sept. 22. A half century is a mighty long time for a youthful love affair to endure, city ambulance attendances agreed, re sponding to a call that "an old man had suicided." Beside the body of William H. White, 68, was the wedding gown and tiny satin shoes ot an 1865 bride; also a miniature of a beautiful 16- year-old girl. The man's wife died shortly after their golden wedding celebration, and a brief note explained that he could not remuln away from ,hia sweetheart any looser. YOUTH IS THIS FAMILY'S SLOGAN Mother at Fifteen Makes a Great Grandmother at 49 Here's Family Record; Youth Is Their Slogan Here Is a family reqord that Is hard to beat: Baby Jessie Viola Jeffrey, age four days. Mrs. Veno L. Jeffrey, baby's mother, age fifteen years. Mrs. Jessse May, mother of Mrs. Jeffrey and baby's grandmother, age twenty-nine years. Mrs. Leona Smith, mother of Mrs. May, and baby's great grand mother, age forty-nine years. Venice, Cal., Sept. 22. With the birth of Viola Jeffrey, Mrs. Leona Smith, not yet fifty years of age, be came a greatgrandmother. The baby's mother is Veno L. Jeffrey, wife of Russell W. Affrey, and Is only fifteen years old. Mrs. Jeffrey Is the daugh ter of Mrs. Jesse May, who Is a grand mother at twenty-nine years. She, in turn, is the daughter of Mrs. Smith, who is at present looking after the of her greatgranddaughter. Mrs. JelTrey was only thirteen when she became a wife. Her husband is twenty-one. Her mother was only thirteen also when she wed. Mrs. Smith was married when she was fif teen years old. "I cannot realize that I am the mother of the sweetest little girl In the State of California," says Mrs. Jeffrey. "The truth is, I have never been able to reullze that I am a wife. It's Just like playing house with me, and I have such a good husband. Russell, that's my husband, and I Just grew up together. The only thing that brought me to anything near realization was when I was to leave mamma. We came to Venice, arid since coming here it has become more This Will Remove Hair or Fuzzy Growths (Toilet Tips) A safe, certain method for ridding the skin of ugly, hairy growths Is as follows: Mix a paste with some pow dered delatone and water, apply to hairy surface about 2 minutes, then rub off, wash the skin and the haira are gone. This is entirely harmless and seldom requires repeating, but to avoid disappointment it is advisable ,to aee that you set genuine delatone. evident to me then ever before that I am a real wife, and now I'm a mother. "Oh, no. It was no runaway mar riage. Mamma was with us when we were married in Los Angeles, and she thinks lots of Kusseli. Grandma just loves my little baby, but sometimes I think she does not like the Idea of being a greatgrandmother. You know, when you speak of a greatgrand mother you picture a nice old lady with a clean white cap on sitting in a rocking chair knitting. Well, grand ma Is nothing at all uke that. She is Just as full of fun and Just as active as I was. Why, mamma, grandma and I romp Just Ilk* a bunch of kid dies, and I guess that is all we are. Now we will have little Jessie to join in our play, and it will be just grand." That is Mrs. Jeffrey's way of look ing at motherhood. Dr. Raymond Sands, who is caring for the little mother and her daugh ter, says that the baby is perfect in every particular and tipped the scales at eight pounds when born. Mrs. Jeffrey is happy and doing well. (f To Overcome Eczema 1| % 1) Never mind how often you have tried and failed, you can stop burning, itch ing eczema quickly by applying a little zemo furnished by any druggist for 25c. Extra large bottle, SI.OO. Heal ing begins the moment zemo is ap plied. In a short time usually every trace of pimples, black heads, rash, eczema, tetter and similar skin dis ease will be removed. For clearing the skin and making it vigorously healthy, zemo 13 an ex ceptional remedy. 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There is nothing better for babies' croup, colds on the lungs or pains in the chest. A little Wonderoil melted on a spoon and given Internally or applied to the throat and chest on brown paper as a plaster, gives immediate relief. It never burns or blisters or falls to loosen up a cold. It has saved thous ands of children from a bad night with cold or croup. This greatest of healing balms is en tirely antiseptic and contains only the purest ingredients. Made from a phy sicion's prescription It is free from dangerous caustic chemicals. On ac count of the widespread demand. Wonderoil is now put up in 25 and .">O - size boxes. The 60-cent size will be found most economical. It is sold locally by Geo. A. Qorgas and other leading dealers everywhere. If you are one of the few who have never used Wonderoil send to-day to M. E. Raymond, Inc., Bullston Spa., N. Y„ for a generous free sample. EDUCATIONAL, School of Commerce Troup Building 15 So. Market Sq. 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