* — The Dallas Post Dallas, PA Wednesday, September 18, 1991 15 Fall Bridal Showcase. - REGISTRY: Choosing -the gifts you know .you'll love By Sharon Williams | Copley News Service Go ahead, don’t be shy. If you're ‘planning a walk down the aisle in ‘the foreseeable future, you and .your betrothed are allowed, en- ‘couraged, even urged to make out the wish list of your dreams. The official name for this list of ‘lists is the bridal registry — some- “thing that no couple should over- ‘look amid the many plans and .preparations surrounding a wed- ding. After all, this is the only time in your life when it is accept- .able for you to ask for everything your heart desires. " Chances are good — even great hat you'll end up receiving h of what you've requested, ‘since the bridal gift registry greatly simplifies the timeless tradition of gift-giving. . The typical registry service is ‘provided free of charge, and what ends up on the list is in the hands .of the bride and groom them- selves. Most begin by meeting with a gift consultant employed by their favorite department store or gift emporium, then go on to sur- vey all the options available. Once some big decisions about the objects, shapes, sizes, colors and patterns are made, the couple compiles a list of the items they want and quantities they need. The store’s job is to keep your se- lection record on hand — either manually or via computer. Zhen guests come to the store, ti® can request a copy of your registry list — then go shopping. The store keeps a running tally of what has been purchased — and what's still up for grabs. EVER-CHANGING MOODS . The traditional registry has taken some interesting twists and turns over the past few years. For instance, time once was when re- gisN@ring was a chore left to the bride and her mother and virtual- y ignored by the groom. But in the 1990s, wedding ex- say grooms are much more involved in selecting what goes into their first dwelling. Today, it’s not at all unusual for a man Smart gift registries include elegant items couples can use every day. who has lived on his own to be just as opinionated as the bride, espe- cially since he likely has some heavy-duty entertaining experi- ence under his belt — and is proud i girtea wedding consultant can help such couples choose the gifts that satisfy individual tastes and mesh perfectly with what they al- ready own. RULES OF REGISTRY For a registry to be effective, couples must do more than just breeze in and out of a given store sometime before the wedding dav. and then expect everything to magically fall into place. » Couples should register three to six months before the wedging, advises Bride’s magazine. Any earlier, and some seasonal pat- terns and promotional items may be out of season and stock by your wedding day. Wait until later, and you’ll shortchange the enthusiastic guests who want to shop early. » Keep a running gift list, and compare notes with your registrar after every shower so that your list agrees with hers. Once you begin to receive gifts, touch base with your registrar every few weeks or so to ensure that you and she have the same items marked off. » Make a note of each item you receive, who sent it and any thoughts that come to mind when you unwrap it. This will make writing thank-you notes easier; once gifts start piling up, cards are easily misplaced, and it be- 7 | Brides-to-be... =) | Register 7, gift preferences at we : : la Kelly Reiser ] Elegant gifts now the only local retailer of lrwin-sizE $92690°° |rrOM | -. |QUEEN-SIZE $209900 {FROM 'c 2 \ | China, crystal and Sere | flatware 10r Jif Reveiw our line of custom wedding invitations an fine selection of attendents gifts. N ART DE LA TABLE Kelly Reiser Gifts \ rea / {| United Penn Plaza SNE : @ Kingston . * 288-5445 {T HOURS: MS 10-5 comes tough to remember who gave what. » Save mailing labels from the packages you receive. If you de- cide to return the gift, the label may be your only proof of pur- chase. REGISTRY HOT SPOTS Traditionally, engaged couples head off to the china, crystal and household areas of department stores to register for dinnerware, flatware, crystal and other want- ed wares. Such is still the case today, but the possibilities don’t end there. One rule of thumb: Avoid over- ‘ap in registry locations. Register ‘or each item in one store only; otherwise, the job of keeping track of gifts that have and haven't been purchased will fall into your lap. One way to simplify matters is by registering at a large depart- raent store chain; in most cases the registries at each branch are linked by computer in order to keep the gift tally updated. How do you get the word out about where you are registered? It’s best, say wedding experts, to let your mother and bridesmaids discreetly spread the word, al- though it is acceptable for a show-: er hostess to include registry cards in shower invitations. It would be a major wedding faux pas, however, to include such cards in the wedding invitations. THE GREATEST GIFTS So what is it that the two of you really want? Sometimes the an- You are cordially invited To come and browse and view our newest collection of Bridal and Bridesmaids gowns by New York Prom gowns and Tuxedo rentals. ‘3 : NS 1 } SLEEPER SPECTACULAR TAKE AN ADDITIONAL 10% OFF Our already low, low prices ‘fon any sleeper. Truckload of Jamison Sleepers — All Jizes. All § Styles, All Fabrics. pr ER gy In Stock for Immediate Delivery! SPECIAL SONGS] Every Purchaser Will Receive A FREE BRASS MAGAZINE RACK WEEKDAYS: NOON-4 P.M. YES, WE ARE OPEN satuRbA: 10AN.iFm. TO THE PUBLIC! CLOSED SUNDAYS! 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