Family stress is inevitable but not insurmountable. According to a recent edition of “Reader’s Digest,” by following these five tips families can face today’s high pressure world without craning apart at the seams: 1. Healthy families talk openly about money. Money is the leading family stress. When couples disagree over how money is to be spent, the hidden issue is power who has the right to decide and why. That’s the reason some couples avoid discussing money they don’t want to address the DAUPHIN “Construction of the Dauphin County Agriculture and Natural Resources Center will start in late August or early September of 1987,” according to Richard Hann, chairman of the Fund Raising Committee for the pG & G High Pressure HI I (Agricultural High I | Pressure Washing) | I Disinfecting/Whife Washing | I If you would like to reduce the i | cost of cleaning and disinfecting f ( your farm, give us a call, we I | have a way. z I Specialize in keeping the poultry - I industry clean and disease free. I | Barry Garber j i 1821 Maytown, Pa. I I Elizabethtown, PA 17022 I 717-367-3649 I ta YMd tea teUai «»-*—»-* *x. ««-«-« ■-*-- TVfDnQ IMPS. TM MOV. 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Couples who talk openly about loans, investing, credit cards and children’s allowances realize that collaborating on decisions and occasionally arguing is better than allowing money pressures to explode later. 2. Healthy families make time for everyone in the family. Healthy families view time as a con trollable resource and set priorities and budget time for family activities. Families that get into the habit of play often find Dauphin Co. Seeks Donations For center. The meeting and office complex will be conveniently located to meet tbe needs of people interested in agriculture and natural resource conservation throughout Dauphin County. The 6.5 acre site. BffiYED REBUS-8344 1986 CUSTOMER YIELD CHECKS -0.5 18.8 18.5 148.9 19 4 74 153.0 +7 2 18.7 145.8 18 0 45 150.0 +1 3 19.3 +0 0 +s2ls 148 7 19.3 -07 175 +2O +sB43 19.5 36 159 1 +2 0 19 3 +Ol +s3 98 1571 19 4 23 137 6 +0 8 18 4 +0 1 +sl72 136 8 18 5 Gant Seed Company Box 300 Coon Rapids, lowa 50058 FRANK A. 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Ladgiwg tote $Mk -0.3 8344 vs. 101 165.0 +0.2 20 5 P 3377 164.8 20.3 -$2.50 -0.5 +54.84 8344 vs. 64 157.8 +66 19.1 P 3378 151.2 18.7 8344 vs. 20 153.1 +74 18.7 +0.3 3.9 P 3358 145.7 19.0 1.7 *8344 vs. 39 149.2 DP656 151.3 8344 vs. 102 166.9 +5.0 22.4 P 3475 161.9 20.3 -1 1 +50.85 8344 vs. 5 137 5 +4l 18.3 +1.4 00 +OO 0.0 +O.O P 3320 133.4 19.7 0.0 0.0 8344 vs. 41 178.0 +16.4 21.2 P 3352 161.6 19 5 -1.0 +53.84 8344 vs. DPIIOO -0.7 +sB 37 8344 vs 11 153.6 P 3183 158 5 8344 vs 10 1515 P 3184 152 1 *8344 vs 36 147 7 +0 7 21 7 +0 0 6 7 +0 0 2 7 +4 3 57759 147 0 21 7 6 7 7 0 -01 +s9 54 8344 vs 36 1477 +O5 21 7 CA967 147 2 21 5 -03 +sBB4 that, rather than losing their adolescents to questionable outside activities, their kids bring friends home. Happiest are the children who know that their parents are accessible to them at any time, however, not just during play periods. 3. Healthy families maintain parental authority and flexibility. Effective couples listen to their children’s wishes, com plaints and feelings, and make decisions on what they believe is best for their child and they don’t abdicate when society or located at the intersection of routes 325 and 225, north of the Borough of Dauphin, is being donated by a local conservationist. The Center will be available to be used by farm and natural resource organizations, and for 1986 STRIP TESTS -2.1 22.0 +O.O 6.5 +0.6 3.2 +3.7 22.0 7 1 6.9 17 160 5 +10.9 20.2 1496 19.8 -4 9 17 7 +3 7 0 6 +3 6 0 0 +0 0 21.4 4.2 0 0 -06 175 +36 22 +O4 02 21 1 2 6 0 0 children object. Street-effective parents state expectations and explain rules clearly and reasonably. But parents must be able to bend without threatening their rules. And as tbeir children mature, the kids should be allowed a voice in rules and consequences. 4. Healthy families com municate feelings not just words. Whenever a stress threatens, talk about it. Whether it is a question of a child misbehaving or a disagreement between husband and wife. The Talk can work wonders. 5. Healthy families diwy op Ag Center Auction workshops, seminars, and training programs related to agriculture and conservation programs. Of fices to be located at the Center include the Dauphin County Conservation District, Cooperative Extension Service, and USDA Soil Conservation Service and the Agricultural Stabilization and Conservation Service. According to Merv Adams, a major fund raising effort for the center is the Third Annual Ag Center Consignment Auction. The auction will be held Saturday, April 4, 9 a.m., at the Gratz Fairgrounds, Gratz. All of the items being auctioned will be donated or consigned. Anyone interested in donating or consigning farm equipment, tools, fREAD LANCASTER FARMING FOR COMPLETE AND UP-TO-DATE MARKET REPORTS 4b d 4.1 +3.7 3 0 +1.7 7.8 4 7 -0.2 -0.4 3.4 +O.l 1.8 +Ol 3.5 1.9 -2.2 0.2 +O.O 0.2 -2.1 4.8 +ll 3.3 5.9 2.4 -2.4 02 00 -1.7 5.6 32 -0.4 49 +1 8 36 +O2 67 38 -02 67 +37 27 +79 10 4 10 6 Lancaster Farming, SaMay, March 21, IW7-E7 hsaaeheld rrspoaa iMHtfci. Lack of shared responsibility In the home was named as the second-highest stress by married women, especially when both parents work. A home should be a cooperative effort, not just the mother’s responsibility. And when Dad helps, the kids tend to help more agreeably and become more resourceful. For a free reprint of “Five Ways to Fight Family Stress,” send a self-addressed, stamped envelope to: Reprint Manager, Dept. D-2, Reader’s Digest, Box 25, Pleasantville, N.Y. 10670. household goods or other items should contact Merv Adams (692- 3076), Jim Lesher (36M419) or the Dauphin County Conservation District (556-1000). An assortment of flower bulbs and hanging baskets for spring planting will be available for direct purchase at the auction. Haim explained that the fund raising effort is ongoing and will continue once the center is con structed. This will be necessary to help repay the debt that will be incurred. Any person or business interested in donating to the Goiter should contact the Dauphin County Conservation District, 1206 South 28th Street, Harrisburg, PA 17111- 1095, telephone - 550-1090. -0.9 -0.2 -0 2 tesearcl S’ p» S’ s * 3 •I i u z M 3
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