Do you spend the first 20 minutes of each day deciding what you are going to wear? Has anyone ever said, ‘‘Do you fell 0.K.?”’, when you feel fine? Are you projecting the image you want to project or are your asso- ciates seeing something other than what you had in mind? Maybe you have heard of the recent books on a ‘new’ color theory, but do you know what it means to you? To learn how to take dressing for success on and off the joba step further come join us for a free lecture. “The Image You Project”, will be presented by Sharon Friedman. Ms. Friedman is an active associate of First Class Image Consultants, Inc. She will share her expertise by briefly discussing the following topics: 1. The theory of color and how to make it work for you. 2. Building a “capsule wardrobe.” 3. The effective use of accessories - how to tie it all together. 4. How to use what you have - dress it up or down without invest- ing a fortune. 5. Dress for business-dress for success. The only investment from you is a few hours of your time that may help you ‘conserve’ a few minutes every morning. To reserve a seat for you in this free lecture please call the Office of Continuing Education at College Misericordia, 675-2181, ext. 331. Plans are progressing for the Back Mountain Antique Car Show and Flea Market as announced by chairman Spence Holmgrem of Noxen. The show will be held on Sunday, Aug. 19 at the Edward Edwards Stadium of the Lake- Lehman Senior High School in Lehman, which is approximately 12 miles northwest of Wilkes-Barre. It is located just off Route 118 near the local campus of the Penn State University. Gates will open at 7 a.m. and all cars to be judged must be in place on the showgrounds by noon, with judging to begin at 12:30 p.m. Cars may be entered in the many classes by the general public by pre-registration or gate registra- tion the morning of the show. Oldest antiques up through almost-current models of cars will be shown. Co-chairman, Larry Sorber of Harveys Lake invites all interested persons to participate in the flea FTE en enon or an on MALTBY DRUG STORE 326 Hughes St.. Swoyersville, Pa. 287-7724 Hall’s Cough Drops 3 pkgs. 99° FREE PICK UP AND DELIVERY LOWEST PRICES GUARANTEED JOE RANIELI, R. PH. 287-7724 market and or car corral which will be in a special section of the sta- dium and accommodate those cars which are being offered for sale. Dallas Post/Ed Campbell Family picnic Dozens of Shriners and their families enjoyed a ‘‘day out’ last week as the annual rem Temple Family Picnic was held at the country club in Dallas. Shown here are some scenes from the picnic. In the top left photo, as they prepare to feed some hungry ‘‘picnickers’’ are, from left, Dorothy Reake, Elmer Laskowski, and Bernard Laskowski of the Irem Temple Stewards. Elmer and Bernard are brothers. The top right photo depicts 21-mknth-old Carmen Attanasio of Court- dale as he ‘‘goes for a ride.”’ David Neely of the [rem Temple Arab Patrol pre- pares to keep people cool by serving sno-cones in the bottom right photo while Matthew Green, age 7, catches a breeze on the swings. Using his head Self-concept is the way we think about ourselves and the feelings we have about ourselves. These thoughts and feelings can be posi- tive or they can be negative. The person who has positive thoughts and feelings is said to have a healthy-self-concept. As adults, we can control and influence our feelings about our- selves. We can accept or reject others’ opinions. We can monitor the events in our lives that cause us to feel one way or the other about ourselves. A young child's self-concept, though, is determined mostly by the ‘“‘messages’’ he receives from others, particularly his mother and father, according to Growing Child, the monthly child development newsletter. These messages can be deliberate or unconscious, verbal or non-verbal. Sometimes the message the child receives is not what the parents really intend. For example, a parent may insist on doing every- thing for the child, even the most simple things the child could do for himself. The parent thinks he or she is sending the message: “I’m doing all these things for you because I love you.” But really, the unconscious, non- verbal message the child may be getting is: ‘Always rely on Mom and Dad to do everything for you because you're dumb and helpless.’ To understand a child’s self-con- cept you have to try to see the world from his perspective. Even very young children are very occupied with developing competence - that is, learning to do things themselves. It is this continued striving for competence that pushes children to try new challenges and lead them from one stage of development to the next. Parents can watch for the things a child can do for himself and encourage him to do them, even if he cannot do them perfectly. The more he learns to do for himself, the more positive his self-concept will be. One of the most important factors in the development of self-concept is the parent’s attitudes towards the child’s successes and failures. If the most important factors in the devel- opment of self-concept is the Theft (Continued from page 1) nothing happens. “I was being harassed by some people who worked for another resort in the area,” said DeReemer. “One night I caught a girl red- handed stealing all the letters off a sign I had. I chased her right to her home, and reported it to the police. Nothing happened though, because of who she was. This is definitely a parent’s attitudes towards the child’s successes and failures. If the most important people in his life view him as “dumb” or ‘‘helpless,”’ it will be almost impossible for him to develop positive feelings of self- worth. Mockery and sarcasm are like the hot sun that causes a flower to wither. But praise is like the nurturing food that helps the self- concept develop and blossom. The Growing Child newsletter fol- lows a child’s development month- by-month, trom birth to six years old. For more information and a free sample newsletter, write to Growing Child, P.O. Box 620N, Lafayette, Indiana 47902. Include child’s birthday when writing. problem here.” Although both Ward and DeReemer claim to not know the identity of the rumored ‘“‘man with the shotgun”, Ward, who is pres- ently the president of the Harveys Lake Rod and Gun Club, admitted that he wouldn't tell if he did know. “We wouldn’t want to say anyway, right?” he said. “I mean he’s trying to catch the burglars.” ’ Board— (Continued from page 1) between the PSSPA, cafeteria work- § ers’ union, and ARA as they (board 5 members) have no standing to \ intervene in what is an ARA policy F matter. Ms. Adams, however, disa- ] greed, saying that the board does have significant influence with which to meet with both groups and to try to work out an equitable solution. Atty. Jones suwsequently agreed to meet with both ARA and PSSPA, but only if a letter is formally presented to all parties. Jones said he cannot guarantee expediency aig the part of the ARA, but assured th&» group the board would do what it could to try to resolve the issues before the beginning of the new school year. School is scheduled to open Aug. 27. In other business of the evening, Ellen Nagy, who spoke on behalf of Ronald Moran, chairman of the C.A.C.A., asked the board to recon- sider some alternatives to the drop- ping of the Driver’s Education and DEAL Program, in-school suspen- sion program. Nagy was assured that these alternatives are currently being considered, though no finalized plans were available at the meeting, Ms. Nagy also voiced concern about the previously cited policy that one year after the current junior-senior high school principal program was instituted, it would be looked into as to its overall efficacy to the school system. The board agreed that that kind of research is necessary. Marguerite Frye noted her con- cern for proper nutrition for the students and cited the junk foods that are offered in the school cafet- eria. Board member Barbra Mead concurred with the complaint and added that only those students who have purchased a complete lunch should be able to purchase chips, corn curls, etc. Board member Ernest Ashbridge acknowledged there is little way to control those students who take bagged lunches to school. Mrs. Mead then made a motion to keep the price of school lunches the same as last year. The motion was seconded by board member Dr. William Camp. Also approved was the district’s Free and Reduced Lunch Program. Gerald Wycallis, acting superin- tendent, reported the Dallas Kiwanis Club will cooperate with | whatever decision is made concern- ing damages to the soccer field incurred by the recent carnival sponsored by Kiwanis. The carnival was held on the soccer field at the junior high school. It was reported that ruts were made in the field and an estimate of $400 has been received to realign the ground and reseed the area where the rutting occurred. There are, however, | sr Rta Ss Se A RR inquiries being made at present as to the possibility of an insurance >) claim. Approval of the following new employees was made by the board: g Mrs. Louise Capozzi, secretary; & Douglas Edwards, custodian; Michael O’Malia, junior high school football coach; and Gerald Roll- man, assistant football coach. Other | approved personnel include Mrs. Georgia Jenkins, long-term substi- tute; Dawn Marshall, senior high school science teacher; Roy Stam- baugh, custodian #4; and Mrs. Phyl- lis Culver, junior high school house- keeper. A motion by Don Jones to hire professional and non-professional employees at the rate of $4.35 per hour was questioned by Ashbridge, who suggested the employees be paid at least $4.50 per hour. Fund (Continued from page 1) “We don’t believe in charging anyone,” Besecker said. ‘‘No matter if they have pledged to us or not. We are so proud of our commu- 9 nity and they have taken such good care of us, that we’ve never had to bill anyone.” The company’s primary way of raising money is through its annual fund drive. According to Besecker, this involves a lot of devotion and licking of envelopes. “We send out letters in May to every family in our area. That’s when we ask them to donate what they can to the company. In late July, we send follow-up letters to those families who haven't responded. Hopefully, they will respond to the second plea.” Besides raising money and, of course, responding to emergency calls, the company also keeps itself fit with training sessions. A meeting is held every Wednesday evening for the volunteers. Training sessions and work bees are scheduled for each meeting. One has to wonder why someone would want to get himself or herself involved in such a demanding volun- teer job. “It’s in my blood,” said Besecker. “My father was the fire chief in w Dallas for 12 to 14 years, and I got involved as soon as I turned 18. (The age one has to be to join the company). I guess you could say I’ve got roots in the company.” Officers for the company are as follows: President, Bob Richardson; vice-president, Tim Carroll; secre- tary, Lynn Sheehan; treasurer, Paul Labar; fire chief, Bob | Besecker; assistant fire chief, Tom Doughton; ambulance chief, Jack Wega; assistant ambulance chief, Frank Michael Jr. If you have received one of the fire and ambulance company’s follow-up letters for a donation, perhaps you should give it serious thought and help them out. You can depend on them. Can they depend on you?