- j t i A t;- WHEN THEY CEASE TO LEAD, AVE CEASE TO FOLLOW ii i WE c WHERE DEMOCRATIC PRINCIPLES POINT THMWA1 i ii 4 i BY JOHN G. GIVEN. Tearless aiid Faithful Labor fearless, labor faithful ' Labor while the clay shall last, For the shadows of the evening: Soon the sky will overcast? Ere shall end the Jay of labor, Ere shall rest thy manhood's sun; Strive with everypower within thee, That the appointed task be done. Life is not the trackless shadow, Nor the wave upon the beach, Though our days are brief, yet lasting Is the stamp we give, to eacli. "Life is real, life is earnest," Full of labor, full of thought; Every hour and every moment 1$ with living vigor fraught. Fearless wage life's earnest conflict. Faithful to thy highest tiust, If thou'It have a memory cherished, And a path bright as the just. Labor fearless, labor faithful. Labor until set of sun, And the welcome shall await thee, Promised plaudit of "Well done!" MI S C E L L A H E U O S From the L.ady'8 National Magazine. MY WIFE'S PARTY. BY HARRY SUNDERLAND. A better woman than Mrs. Sunderland does not exist anywhere, though I do say it myself, I consider her one of the 'salt of the earth,' and I think I ought to know. Still Mrs. Sunderland has her faults -no, I will not call them by so hard a name still Mrs. Sunderland has her weaknesses, and one of these is to think well of every body. On this head I believe no one can accuse me of weakness. I am not aware, that as a general thing, I think any better of people than I ought to think. No I am not blind to anybody's faults, though I can see and appreciate excellencies as 11 IT... j-f well as any one. uui 10 my tsiury. I After we had risen a little in the worla, '.Tid could ancru not onty to live in our own house, but to enjoy our share of the excellencies and luxuries of this life, we found ourselves surrounded by a good many who before, were not over liberal in their attentions. Mrs Sunderland be lieved their friendship sincere; but I re served to myself the right to doubt the genuineness of some of the professions that were made. I didn't like the 'my dear Mrs. Sunderland' nor the particular solicitude which expressed by not a few in anything that concerned my wife's wel- lare; and when she talked about iUrs. Jones being such a kind, good soul, and Miss Peters being so disinterested in everything, I shrugged my shoulders and reserved the privilege of a doubt in regard to all being gold that glittered. Not having been raised in fashionable life, we had no taste for display, and, al though we had our v share of company, whether we cared about it or not, we had never ventured so far to sea as to give a pat ty, although we had accepted -gcvcral invitations to assemblages ifhiiT kind. Hut some of Mrs. &TndeTandV good friends and acqualntifricrs insisted upon it, . last wunieVferu?vmust give an enter .la'HtLnd , tRcy used such cogent argu 'meft&lnSlic) good soul! was won over. I remained for a long time incorrigible; but as nothing " could put it out of Mrs. Sunderland's head that it was due her po sition and relations to give a party, I with much reluctance withdrew my opposition and forthwith the note of preparation was sounded. ' : ; ' 'Who shall Ave invite?' was the first question. " Our circle, of acquaintance had been considerably enlarged within erHrcc years, and when we went over -the list it was found to be. rather large. " 'You will have, to cut it dowji cousider zhly ,' said I. . To do so without giving offence will be difficult,' replied my wife. "'"' 'Better . cut all off. then, . was on my tongue, but I repressed the words, feeling that it would be unkind to throw cold wa ter upon the affair at this1 stage of its pro gress. '" " : 1 7 j, - , 'You havn't got Fanny and Ellen on your list,' I remarked after a good number of erasures had been made. They were two of my .nieces;, good girls , but poor. Both were' dress-maker's apprentices, -They Averc learning a trade in order to re lieve their father, an industrious, but not a very thnfty man, from the burthen of their support.1 1 hked them very much for theirgood sense, agreeable mnnnersand strong flfiecttonfor their parents: ' 'Shall Aye'J invite I them?' inquired my wife. . "' ' ' ! Certainly!1 I replied. , 'Why not?' 'Will they be able to make a good ap pearance? ; Youv know "that a number of fashionable people. will bo here.' ' !; : 'If you doubt it, we will send them each a handsome dress pattern with the invi- tatian. 'Perhaps we had better do so,' was Mrs- Sunderland's approving remark, and the thing was done as I had suggested. The pruning down of the invitation list was no easy matter, and it was not without many fears of giving offence i mY wife at last fixed upon th precise number of persons wt --were to honor us with their company. The exact character of the entertain ment was next to be considered, and an estimate cost made. Several ladies, au fait in such matters were consulted; and their opinions compared, digested and adopted or rejected as they agreed with, or differed from what we thought right. 'It will cost at least a hundred dollars,' said Mrs. Sunderland after we had come to some understanding as to what wre wrould have. The sum seemed large in her mind. 'If we get off with two hundred we may be thankful,' I replied. 'Oh no. It can't go above a hundred dollars.' 'We shall see.' 'If I thought it would sost so much,, I would ' 'There is no retreat now Mrs. Sunder land. We have taken the step initiative, and have nothing to do but go through with the matter as best we can. My word for it we shall not be very eager to give another party.' This threw a damper on my wdfe's feel ings that I was sorry to perceive, for now that the partymust be given, I wanted to see it done in as good a spirit as possible. From that time therefore, I was careful not to say anything likely to awaken a doubt as to the satisfactory result of the coming entertainment. The evening came in due time, and we had all things ready. 1 must own that I felt a little excited, for the giving of a fash ionable party was something new in the history of my life, and I did not feel alto gether at home in the matter. Unaccus tomed to the entertainment of company, especially where ceremony and the obser vance of a certain etiquette were involved, I was conscious of an awkward feeling, and would have given double the cost of the party for the privilege of an escape from the trials and mortitications it prom ised to involve. In order to give additional beauty and attractiveness to our parlors, we had pur chased sundry articles of ornamental furni ture, which, cost over a hundred dollars, and which were of no manner of use ex cept to look at. It was so late before the elite of our company began to arrive, that we were in some doubt whether they were going to come at all. But toward nine o'clock they came along, and by ten we were in full tide of successful experiment. My nie ces, Fanny and Ellen, were among the first to appear, and they looked pretty and interesting.,;-, -Jt) AsiSjoau; 4l.fistjcnbarrajieutcort-. "sequent oil the,-' appearance -,.of! ' the -extra fashionables had worn off, and I felt at home once more in my own house, I be gan to look around me with an observant eye. . About the first thing that attracted my attention was the sober aspect of a certain lady, whose husband by a few for tunate adventures, had , acquired some money and lifted her into 'good society,' as it is called. She was talking to another lady, and I saw that their eyes were di rected towards my nieces of whom I felt a little proud; they looked and behaved so well. .. .' . 'What's all this about?' said I to myself. And I kept my eyes upon the ladies as in tently as they did upon Ellen and Fanny Presently I saw one of them toss her head with an air of dignified contempt, and ri sing upniade her way across the rooirTto where her husband stood. She spoke to him in evident excitement, and directed his attention to my nieces. The sight of them did not seem to produce any unplea sant effect upon him; for he merely shrug ged his shoulders, smiled, and answered in a few words that I could see were in different. But his wife was in earnest; and placing her arm within his drew him towards the dowr. lie remonstrated, but she -was not in a humor to listen to any thing, and with surprise I saw them re tire from the parlors. My first impulse was to follow them, but the truth flashing across my mind, 1 felt indignant at such conduct,, and resolved to let them do as they pleased. In a little - while the offen ded lady bone ted and cloaked and boned, came sweeping past the parlor doors, with ner husband in Jier trainttracting the at tention of a third part of the company.. A moment and she had passed into the street. 'Who is that? What is the matter?' went, whispering about the rooms.. ." f It is Mrs. L .' " Mrs. Ii :ls she sick?' -'Why has she gone?' s But no one seemed at first ' to know. EBEiYSDUilG, THURSDAY, Soon however the lady to wfibm she had communicated the fact that had insul ted our company by inviting' 'mantua-ma-ker girls,' whispered to another the secret, and away it went buzin through the rooms finding its way as veil to the' ears of Fanny and Ellen as to those of the rest of the company. About one-half of the ladies present did. not exactly "seem- know 'whether' mey " ought to follow the example of Mrs. L. or not; and there was a portentous movement, when almost the waving of a finger would have caused our party to break up in disorder. The moment my nieces understood the feeling that had prompted the lady to withdraw indignantly, they arose and were retiring from the room, when I in tercepted them and detained them with as lituVceremony'as possible. They begged ) hard to be permitted to retire, but 1 said no for my 'blood was up,' as the saying is. Ellen and Fanny are worth as many Mrs. L's.' said I to myself, 'as you can find fiom here to Jerico.' The disaffected ones noticed, I suppose my decision in the matter, and thought it prudent not to break with Mr. and "Mrs. Sunderland, who could afford to be inde pendent. Money is a great thing! Humph! There was a time in our history but no matter. We are people of character and standing now! We had rather a dull time after the withdrawal of Mrs. L. For a while the spirits of the company rallied, under the effects of wine and a good supper, but they soon flagged again, and a sober cast of thought settled upon almost every coun tenances. Mv poor wife found it imnoss- ible to retain a cheerful exterior: and my ' nieces looked as if almost any other place in the world would have been a paradise in comparison. At least an hour earlier than we had an ticipated, our rooms were deserted, and we left alone with our thoughts, which upon the whole wTere not very agreeable. Mrs. Sunderland the moment the last guest had retired, went back into the brilliantly lighted parlors, and setting down upon a sofa burst into tears. She had promised herself much pleasure, Dut alas! how bit terly had she been disappointed! I was excited and indignant enough to say al most anylhing, and a dozen times as I paced the room backwards and forwards, did I check myself from uttering words that would only have made poor Mrs. Sunderland feel ten times worse the she did. 'The nexi time we give a party ' 'We won't!' said 1, taking the words out of my wife's mouth. She was recov ering from her state of mortification and beginning to feel indignant. 'You've said it exactly,' responded Mrs. Sunderland. 'I call this throwing away a couple of hundred dollars in a very bad cause.' So it strikes me. When fifty or sixty people eat an elegant supper and drink costly wine at my expense again, thev jwijl elKi-e;the,nif elye jbett9F.l.han -spmei ot our hivh bred ladies did to-niht. As for Mrs. L. Fanny and Ellen arc worth a hundred of her. It's my opinion if she knew evervthinfr she would curtail her dignity a little. If I'm not mistaken her husband will go to the wall before a twelve month passes.' . ',.'' On the next day we settled all accounts with confectioner, wine merchant, china dealers and waiters. The bills were over a hundred and fifty dollars, exclusive of a hundred dollars paid, as before Jntiinated, for parlor ornaments to grace the occasion. " 'So much paid for worldly Wisdom;' said I; after all was over. 'I "don't think we need to give another party.' Mrs. Sunderland sighed and shook her head. Poor soul! ller kind and gener ous nature was hurt. She had looked upon a new phrase of charaetcT.andthe discovery had wounded her deeply, "7"" A few months after this unfortunate party, from which so little pleasure and so much pain had sprung, I said to my wns uii c-ouiing nomeone day It's as I expected. Pride mi Pride must have a falL' : 'Why do you say that? What happened? inquired Mrs. Sunderland has L has failed as. I predicted, and his lady wife who turned up her aristo cratic nose at our excellent nieces is likely to see the day when she will stand far be low, them in society.',. I spoke in an exultant voice. But my wife instantly reproved my levity. She cherished no animosities, and" had Ion" since forgiven the offence. & So much for Mv Wife's Party! LFA; jolly husband not " a thousand miles from Bangor, who had been on a 'bit of a spree,' was saluted by hi3 better half on his return, with 'Oh, you hard hearted wretch!' The husband meekly replied that he didn't think his heart could be. very hard, for he'd been soakingit, for the last forty -eight hoius!. - ? 1819. DEFENCE OF THE PRIVATEER. THE BOLDEST FIGHT ON RECORD. The annals of modern warfare do not furnish the recital of a more gallant action than that fought at Fay al, Western Islands, in 114, between a British gun brig and thejboats ojf .British sauadron on the one side, and on the other the little private armed American brig General Armstrong, of seven guns and ninety men, command ed bv Capt. Samuel C. Keid, out of the port of New York. The terrible engagement of Paul Jones with a British cruiser, is scarcely a parallel to it, ind few naval battles, even by large fleets, exhibit so great a slaughter. A British resident of Fayal, who was witness to the action, in a letter to the celebrated Cobbett, under date of October 15, 181 1, thus describes the bold defence and noble conduct of the daring American privateers man: "The American private brig Gen. Arm strong, of seven guns and ninety men, en tered here on the 26th ult., about noon, 16 days from that place, for the purpose of obtaining water. The captain, seeing nothing on the horizon, was induced to anchor. Before the lapse of many hours, his majesty's brig Carnation came in and anchored near her. About six his majesty's ship Plantagcn et, of 74 guns, and the Rota frigate came in and anchored also. The captain of the privateer and his friends consulted the first authorities here about her security. They all considered her perfectly secure, and that his majesty's officers were too well acquainted with the respect due a neutral port to molest her. But to the great sur prise of every one, about nine iu the even ing, four boats were despatched, armed and manned, from his majesty's ships, for the purpose of cutting her out. It being about the full of the moon, "the night per fectly clear and calm, we could see every movement made. The boat approached with rapidity towards her, when it appears, the captain of the privateer hailed them and told them to keep of several times. They notwithstanding pushed on, and were in the act of boarding before any de fence was made from the privateer. A w arm contest ensued on both sides. The boats were finally . dispersed with great loss. . The American now calculating on a ' very superior force being sent; cut his ca bles and rowed the privateer close in a- long side of the fort, within half cables length, where he moored her, head and stern, with four lines. The governor now sent a remonstrance to Capt. Lloyd, of the Plantagenet, against such proceedings, and trusted that the pri vateer would not be further molested; she being in the dominions of Portugal, and under the guns of the castle, was entitled to Portuguese protection. Captain Lloyd's answer was, that he was determined to destroy the vessel, at' expense of all layal, and should any protection uer given her by the tort, he would not leave 'a house standing in the village. All the ihh&bit,nts were gathered about the" walls, expectirig-tt renewal of the attack. At about midnight fourteen laun ches were discovered to be c5miriiin ro tatiou for the purpose. : . ... When they got within clear gunshot, a' trcmenduous and effectual discharge was made from the privateer, which threw the boats into confusion. They now returned the fire; but the privateer kept up so con tinual a discharge, it was almost impossi ble for the boats to make any progress They finally succeeded, after immense loss, in getting along side of her, and at tempted to board at every quarter, cheered by the officers with a shout of 'No quar ters!' which we could distinctly hear, as well as their shrieks and cries. The ter- niinatiori was near about a total massacre. 'i'kp6 f the boats were sunk, and but one poor solitary officer escaped death, in a boat thatcXntained fifty souls; he was wounded. Tlie Americans fought with great firmness; .someV of lIie uoats werc left without a single mato ro w tnem m" ers with three or four; tnJ11081 mat all' one returned with was abouVen? several boats floated on shore full of bodies. With great reluctance I stated12111 lne" were manned with picked men, :Uld com" manded by the first, second, itl'0' an(i fourth lieutenants of the Plantageet; second, third, and fourth do. of fie frigate; and the first officers of the brisi together widi ajgreat number of midsbipoAi1' ur whole, force exceeded four hundred men; but three officers escaped. tvv? f whom are wounded. , This bloody andrrtu nate contest lasted about forty minui- After the boats gave, out, nothing mo"relj was attempted till daylight next morning ! when die Carnation hauled alongside and j engaged her. The privateer still contin- j ucd to make a most gallant defence. These veterans reminded me of Law rente's dying word of the Chesapeake, 'Don't1 JUNE give up the ship!' The Carnation lost one of her topmasts, and her yards were shot away; she was much cut up in the rigging, and received several shots in her hull. This obliged her to haul off to re pair, and to cease her firing. The Americans now finding their prin cipal gun (Long Tom) and several other dismounted, deemed it folly, to think of saving her against so superior a force; they therefore cut away her masts to the deck, blew a whole threw her bottom, took out their small arms, clothing, &c, and went on shore, I discovered only shot holes in the hull of the privateer, though much cut up in the riging. Two boat' crews were afterwards des patched from our vessels, which went on board, took out some provisions, and set her on fire. For three days after wo were employed in burying the dead that y-abed on shore in the surf. The number ofjiritish killed exceeds 120, and 50 wounded. The ene my, (the Americans) to the surprise of mankind, lost only two killed and seven Avounded. We may well say 4God de liver us from our enemies,' if this is the way the Americans light. After burning the privateer, Capt. Lloyd made a demand of the governor to deliver up the Americans as prisoners which was refused. He threatened to send 500 men on shore, and take them by force. The Americans immediately retired with their arms to an old Gothic Convent, knocked away the adjoining drawbridge, and determined to defend themselves to the last. The captain, however, thought better than to send his men. He then de manded two men, which he said deserted from his vessel when in America. The governor sent for his men, but found none of the description given. Many houses received much injury, on shore, from the guns of the Carnation. A woman sitting in the fourth story of her house had her thigh shot off; and a boy had his arm broken. The American Con sul here has made a demand on the Portu guese government for a hundred thousand dollars, for the privateer; which our Con sul, Mr. Parkin, thinks, in justice, will be paid, and that they will claim on England. Mr. Parkin, Mr. Edward Bayley, and oth er English Gentlemen, disapprove of the outrage and depredation committed by our vessels on this occasion. The vessel (a ship-of-war) that was despatched to Eng land with the wounded, was not permitted to take a single letter from any person. Bein a witness to tins transaction, I have given you a correct statement as it occur red." Women of the Oldca Times. w An eloquent writer in the Ladies Jl'cs tern Magazine, hits of the false sentiment of modern "society in relation to the gen- tier sex, and, things, says: among many other j;ood . "The same qualities that blessed the rude mountain homes of the olden time, when women made their simple toilet by the mirroring waters, must make them blessed now. The qualites that could make a home anywhere, even in the hov el that stars shone through at night the heart that infused a soul into the 'for bet ter and for worse' of the ceremonial the rare, jewels of virtue and contentment that adorn . her every day like a bride the willing jSacritice of a thousand present pleasures to the common good the bright intelligence that can interest, if it cannot guide the gentleness that can soothe, if it cannot shaae the, sympathy that sup ports while it seems' itself . to cling. She who possesses these, must possess loveli ness and grace that will survive the bur nished trees, the rounded form, and the cloudless eyes of youth. Let hie accom plishments of the boarding-school and parlor have place, but not the ilace. The fashionable 'crush', of the assembly, the blaze of the soiree, the splendor of the levee, have much to do with the coloring of life litde with its warp or woof. That may fade, this, will wear on. In a fabric so rich and rare as life's in select ing an array that we must live in, love in, perchance suffer in, and that will assured ly be drawn around us, when at last we lie down, to pleasant dreams,' how oppo site the question, 'are the colors fast Thus was it that the minds and hearts of the wives and mothers of other days were moulded hearts that dillated to the fullest pulsation of our better nature minds that left their noble impress upon those who should do and suffer m the field fight of life. Old-fashioned mothers have nearly airpassedavvay with the r bhrecheekramt homespun woolen of a simpler but purer Mime. Here and there one remains truly Implished' in heart and life for die phere'T oine Old-fashioned mothers! rV ir?iC V them! who followed us with UOd Dies. ... ,:vrrt heart and n , V , , - .r. nd p our .grief; in our lives who knew ore atro.m prenc hinjr ihm VOL. 5. NJ. 35. poetry; spoke no dialect In that of love; never preached or wandere; made melo dy with their hearts,' alone;nd sent forth no books but living volumesftat honored their authors and blessed thevorld." An Excuse for Smokij. In the reign of James the I of tobacco hating notoriety, the boys of school ac quire the habit of smoking, aj indulged it night and day, using the mo. ingenious expcdicnt?Ho coneeal the viccfrom their m ister; till one luckless evening when the imps were huddled together roud the fire of their dormitory, involving ech other in vapor of their own creation, lj in burst the master in awful dignity beforeihem. How now,' quoth, the domhe to the first lad; How dare you besmoktobac- CO 7 Sir,' said the boy, 'I'm subject S head aches, and a pipe takes off the pai, 'And you? and you? and you J' iquircd the pedagogue, questioning every oy in his turn. One had a 'raging tooth;' another.chol ic; the third, a cough; in short, the all had something. 'Now sirrah,' bellowed the door to the last boy, 'what disorder do you saokc for?' Alas', all the excuses were exhauded; but the interrogated urchin, putting davH his pipe, after a farewell whiff, and lok ing up to his master's face, said, ii a whining hypocritical tone, 67r, snukr for corner The Verdant Groomsman On no occasion, sa; s the Springfield lit publican, do the people seem more pron: to commit blunders than at a wedding. The following actually occurred in a neigh boring town. In the midst of a crowd of witnesses, the clergyman had just completed that in teresting ceremony which binds in the silver bonds of wedlock, two willing hearts, and stretched forth his hand to implore the blessing of heaven on the union. At this point the groomsman, seeing ihr open hands reached out, supposed that it was the signal for him to surrender the wredding fee, which was burning in his pocket. Accordingly, just as the clergy man closed his eyes in prayer, he felt the pressure of two sweaty half dollars upon his open palms. The good ma n hesitated a moment, appalled at the ludicrousness of his situation, but at last, cooly deposi ted the money in his pocket, and proceed ed'with his devotions. William Ktt. Pitt was tall and thin, w ith a gloomy, sneering expression. His language was cold, his intonation motonotous, his ges tures passionless; yet the lucidness and fluency of his ideas, and his logical reason ing illumined hy sudden flashes of elo quence, made his abilities something ex traordinary. I saw Pitt pretty often, as he walked across St. James Park, from his house, on his way to die kiug. George III. on his side, had perhaps just arrived from Windsor, after drinking beer from pewter pots with the farmers of the neigh borhood; he crossed the ugly court yard of his ugly palace iu a dark carriage, follow ed by a few horse guards. This was die master of the kings of Europe, as five or six merchants are masters of India. Pitt, in a black coat, and brass hiltcd sword, with -his hat under his arm, went up stairs, two or three steps at a time; on his way he only saw a few idle emigres, and glancing disdainfully at us, passed on with a pale face and a head, thrown back. 'This great financier maintained no order in his own house; he had no regular hours for his meals or his sleep. Plunged in debt, he had paid nothing, and could not make up his mind to add up a bill. A valet managed las household affairs. Ill- dressed, without pleasure, without passion, -eager for power" alone, he despised hon ors, and would he nothing but William ; Pitt. Lord Liverpool took me to dine at his country house in the month of June, -1823; and on his way thither pointed out to me the small house where died in pov erty the son of Lord Chatham, the states man who brought all Europe into his pay, and distributed with his own hands all the millions of the earth. -Memoirs of Cha teaubriand. HFWho is that fellow bowing right and left, and introducing Mr. Clay to the crowd,' asked a gendeman of a friend at one of the levees of the giant of the West, held in the St. Charles, New Orleans. 'I do not know his name, was the re sponse, 'out ne is uviuunuy iir. via a right bower. Cincinnati Dispatch. GPThe moat beautiful sight m nature, Dobbs says, was a woman he met yester day. 'Grace was in her steps, Heaven in her eyes, and in her arms a baby, A rasebush with a bud clinging to i was nothing to the heavenly loveliness. V 7 i t.. r - . v. f" 1 f 1