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S. ,GOVEItNAIENT. .. - • . -. . . President—as 'lcon A'S AN. • ' . Viro President-.loin - C. ISP.EcKENRIDGE,- , ' , Secretary of State—Ge.u. LEWIS CASH. SerrettllTOf I Otillor—.l AOOO THOMPSON. . • ' • &Wet:try of TMlSitry—lio , N ELI. COWS. - , • Soviet :try •of IVar—tlouN 11. f tOin. ~ ' Secretary 6f Navy,-.-IsAAc ToucEr. - ~ Post Master General—A. V. Boon N.• ' . ' Attortoty (loneral—JrniNl II S. 11LACE. - , - Chief fuhtlee of I lio . 11 tilted Stater—lt. 13. TANEY. = ~ (i(Ternor—WiLt.TA mP. . l'ArkER. • '• ' .. . Sorr.dary of Sl.iti.LWitdi.tm :tf.lrcisTra. , 'Surveyor Ltrneiril---.lousi Rom:. . '".• Auditor (lime:III—JACO!) FRY. JR. Treasurer--41ENttr S. - Mrsin lir; JudtteP. all° Supremo Court—E. LEWIS, '.7 1 . M. Aux --trtuumi,-W.-11.1.oulitu (.I.IV-11r,iumwARD:, 1 ),7—.A. I'ORT.ER _. ,:-COIiNTY----OFFiCERS.—. . L, .4:,_- - dge J'realdent Ju--Ilou..l.i)uus 11. li ['alm. A - F50C1:1 t 0 ---Jutl:eo—llon.-11c1, —CuFkliu,—Sauluel. , Woodburn. • • • Distrlet Aftorney—Wm. J. Shearer. • - ' Prothonotary—Phill pQuigley. . .. . , Recorder &c.—Daniel S. Croft. .. • , • Register—S. N. Eustuingel . .• . . .., High S.herlif— _Jacob Bowtnau: Deputy J. Hemming er. . . • County Treasurer—Moses Bricker,. Coroner—Mitchell McClellan. County Commissioners—William M. Henderson, An drew Kerr. • I. , arnuel Mega*. Clerk to Commissioners, Thointta Wilson, '. Directors of the rodr—George Brindle, John C. Brown, Samuel Tritt. ~Superintendent of Pour Must —Jokepla Lobach.. • BOROIJOR OFFICERS Chief B urgas —. Robert. Irvine Jr. 71.7 r eo . rA or t ol I eA e d . e s l i . d n Town Cbru John Cut shall. Jamesllllllo, sr., Franklin liar.hter, Pmnnel liar. tin, Peter Mouyer, Samuel IVetzel,-J. D. Halbert, Jacob puey. • Clerk to C.llllCll.—Wm.ll. - Wetzel. . • . - _ , , Constables—John ipliar, High Constable; Hobert McCalque), Word Conbtable. Just ices of the peace—tgorge Ego, David Smith, Mi chael Holcomb, Stephen Keepers. CIIURC lIES, First Presbyterian ated+, Northwest Engle of Pen. tre Square. 'ten Conway I'. Wing Poston—Services ever , Sunday Morning otlltt'eloelt, A. NI., and 7 teeter): . . Second Presbyte - riiin Church, corner of Sonth 1 snorer and Pomfret Aleuts. 11ev. Mr Calls, Pastor. Services comnietice at 11 o'clock, A. 31.0 ind 7 ii clerk P. 31. • St. Joha'a Church, (Prot. Episcopal) northeast angle of Centre Square. liar. Jacob It. 3101,4 •RectOr. • Services ctt., 11 o'clock A. 31., and 3,o'cloolt,' English Lutheran Church, Bedibrd between Main and Loather streets.' Rev. Jacob Fry, Pastor. Servlees at 11 o'clock A. 31., and 7 o'clbck I'. 51. German Reformed Church, Loather, between Ham river and Pitt streets. Rev. A.' 11. lituuu•r. Pastor.— Services at. 11 o'clock A. Al, and (I?,i'o'cloek I'. 31: Methodist E. Church, (first charge) corner et slain and Pitt Streets. Rev. 11. B. Chambers, Paster. Services at 11 "o'clock A. 31. m.d qitielock P. 31. 31ethodlst E. Church .(socond charge.) Rev. Thomas Daugherty, Pastor. Services in College Chapel, at 11 o'clock A. 31. and 4 o'clock, I'. 31. Roman Catholic Church, Pomfret near Eat street. 'Rev. James Barrett. Pastor. Services on the, 2nd Sun- day of each month. German. Lutheran Church col tt.r of Pomfret and Bedford streets. Rev. 1. P. Naschold, Pastor. Service at 103,,,' A. 31. .frelVlien changes in the above are neces:•ary the - proper persons are requested to notify us. . - DICKINSON COLLEGE ltoi. Charles C 0111116,11.11., President 'and Professor of Moral erionee. Iter.'l:arman 31. Johnson, IL It., Professor of PLiloso• Idly and English Literature. Jamas \V. Marshall, A. 111., - Professor of 'Ancient Lau ! gliagos. Roe. ICm. L. Boswell, A. 31, l'rofossor of hathemstica. William A. M., Professor Of Natural Science and Curator of the Mu,seunn Alexander -Schein, A. -M.,-'Professor- of Hebrew- And Modern Lauguagew, - Samuel P. Hillman, A. M . ., Principal of the Grammar School. B. F, Purcell, A. 8., Asalitant in the Grammar School. BOARD OF SCHOOL..DIRECTORS Andrew Blair, President, H. Saatine, P. lltligloYi E. Commun. C. I'. liumerich,J. Hamilton, Secretary,Jason W. Eby, Treasurer, John Sphar, Memel:lgen Meet on the Ist Monday or each Month at 8 O'clock A. M. at Ed ucation Hall. CORPORATIONS. Is , CARLISLE Daresrr Daux.—Presldent, Richard Parkir, Cashier, Wm. M. Beetenn Clerks, J. P. haslet, C. Mlle. seindin,C,' W. Deed; Directors, Itieberil Parker. Theums Parton, )loses thicker ' Abraham Resler, Jacob Leßoy, It. C. Woodward, Wm , IL Mullin, Samuel Wherry and • John Zug. . CUMBERLAND VALLEE RAIL ROAD COMPANY.—PSSSWODS, Frederick Watts: Secretary and Treasurer, Edward 61. Diddle; Superintendent, U.N. Lull. • passenger trains twice a day. Eastward leaving Carlisle at 10.15 o'cl,ock • A. M. and 4.00 o'clock P. M. Tap troths every day . Westward, learldg Carlisle at 0.50 o'clock A, M., and 2.60 I'. M. OSSIISLZ GAS - AND ,WATERCUREARE.—CresIdinS, Fred aritk,..Watts Eldarolary, Lediuel Todd; Treasurer, Wm. 31..0•Iteni„Directors,.F. Watts, Itlchard Parker. Lemd el T . :4:14. - 1 14n. r ileetem, Henry Saxton, .1. W. Eby, 'John D. igsa,4l.,,C. Woodward, and R. 11, Diddle - CESIDEALASID VAIIRT Dasr..—Prsideut, john S. Ster rett; Cashier, 11.'4. Sturgeon; Teller, Jos. C. Hoffer.-z -' Directors, John S. Sterrett; Wm. K er, hielchoir' Ikeda; • man; ItichardWoods, Jahn C. Dunlap, Debt. C. Sterrett, 11. A: Sturgeon, and Captain John Dunlap. ' =I SOCIETIES • , Ournberlar:: Star Ledge No, 197, A. Y. M. ineetd fit Marlon Mall on the 2nd arid 4th Tuesdays or every Month,' • . St. Johns Lodge 'No 260 A. Y. M. Moots Od Shari: day•olesch roontlf,'xit. Marlon Nall. Carlisle Lodgo No 91..1. 0.. 0r.0....F. • Meets , Monday ve ening, acTro — utrinilloll4:7 • : FIRE, CO3IP.ANItB • „ • The Piton Fire Company, wan organized In 118 g. Preeidett r E. Cornman; Vice President:: 'William IL Porter; Secretary, A. U. Ening; Tommy , -,'Peter *M yer.' Company tavola the Oral SatUrdak In March, June, September, and 4 Pegelllber.,•-••• r* - The Cutilbiirland Vice Company trasimetltuted Pobrm my 18,1809. President 'cliottiT DlECartney; Secretary, Philip Quigley; Treasuiei,•l[. S. hitter: .The'company meete on the third Saturday of•January,'April,..luly, and October. The oohd Will Giese Comparly wpalimtituted Inidarch, 1855. President, U. A. Niurgeon; Vice Preshlent,James B. McCartney; Secrefery,'Stimuel 11. Gould; Treaaurer,, Joseph P.. Halbert, ... The :company uniats , that 'mound. Saturday of Janw4, Hi, duly, and October: • • • - --4- 47 - 7 -- • • -,RATEIak O.I' , ,POSTAGE:' .". . . _ restage Coi"al.l letiersoronoluileduPee iniight of uii= 3 centg, pr!), prid, . except to California or Oregon, ,vbieb4l,lo4eina prepaid. • • n'' Postage on;tbe 6e. ' l , r. it b,tio be State 134eutliperleer.":. Teeny pa ' oftba , Unltergtatea 24 oeuta, .Noataga on all tranallint:paper4 tindsitLonnetielttVrefght,:.l. cent pro-I*d *tn , tiro coo. unpatilit'AdairUagalthtrJ o .o. l ,Ptba!Pd4lnlYt . a Wit , • . „ ~. • pledged fidelity to her'! Iler bloonzing cheek faded, dint brigift?and sparkling eye groirs ' dim by sorrel. Ay I she mourns too:late. an unhappy marringe,:nuTeh'ilidis hke a flower tornfrom its • parent stem.. By tr misguided ~rig judgment, we may be' ruined fur life. 'Mar and wearily, I have •tint,foti - nd it. GraspiW—Tiefle-should7not-only7.be-a-matternf-profoundl_t. study and care, !men matter. of sleep: religiOus With quick, eager . fingers,lhe bubbles that the world cells "joy," they have' perished in imy inquiry.. There is a Providence - who will guide grasp - bowing low at Beauty's aline— I 'and direct us ; in all the importnnt affairs of have seen it fade and grow dull nud destitute life, if . vve willtfitit give up to the guidance of .. -of charin—Zknenling at the ahar of Friendship, , Ifie Spiiit, mud yield obedience to nil MB 1111719 . .. which alone is man's_stife'rellance in this life I have seen firettldie out and felt my heart ; of deception.. Love is no trifling, thing .1 it is 'grow (mid and desolate—last of all-gathering one of the strongest feelings of man's noblest the ewers of Love and twining skilfully. nature and being. lt is wciptler, and it into garlands of wonderful beauty wreath conies, whenever it ,dues come, as a golden ing them about my heart, linve - seen flower af- I I" Aurora, with morning dew; upon her looks ter flouter—leaf after leaf—Wither,—die find resplendent with' promises of a sunlit da falf away—until not onmvestige is left. Vain! Nniffi'Vritir! : 't To-the-rnaked-all---Things-Lneart-i broth earth this boon ?. ; ca . rvle j „-Proteus, at times, assuming all shapes, bid, has only 'one object. It comes liken fierce ty- remember—" The're'in, in man, a Iligher than t rans or . a meek lamb." It is playful, aid yet love of, Happiness. Ire can do without 'full—of earnest—will. It is- the substanee of • piness there-of—find blesditEess.' r Forever blessed be you, Carlyle, for this one life's romance. It is the poetry bf life's dra 'sentence. I love you for it., ma; it is 'life Without it; life would • be dull indeed.- It stirs up many an embitter . -- There is a Blessedness In earnest working • ;and in patiapt raiting. -It is not Happiness— ed strife, nod; oleo quiet the raging heart. . It would not be recognized , as such.—it is rather, Ih"filletfull many n cup of woe, and it heti of a . deep well springsweetened many bitter oups of agony. It . i,eace—.therein is no ----throws-its-liglit-over-thelearth-like's Christian halo,-nod bangs out the pall of night.. It ie .the soprano of nature, and its treMblimg symphonies -wake the echo of unknown pleks bres in the throbbing heart. It chants in the fgitive LallS, and plays the requiem over the' maideted'lntiely and quiet ;eating place.. Oh, Loved thou art wild and terrible. Thoanrai lest in calm and in storm.'-Thou -art ilveri where—in-the lordly palace and in the lowly cotange . .. Thou art amid the din of battle and . weeping over the loved and lost of earth.— Thou causunake us angels of light'or fioude of bell ' m r i g ~i:ii ~a - i~ . For the Urnslo Herald HAPPINESS. CAn'et tel(me wl;nt, it. is t — eanrehing, In rnniding selfishness - no mean" seeking- :for prow oridatterypr even well-doing at ILo ear pease of otherts—bitt a steadfast wishing to do God snrvico and to help his creatures. • There ie a Blessedness in suffering as well as in (Way Ills will. 'Blessed to bow beneath the•rod—Blessed t f o kiss His ellasteni4 Hand —Blessed to know." lie doth not afflict wil lingly"—Blessed to feels" Be loreth;whom lie -chasteneth."' • Then I will cense this shin search—content ed to he among theme whom von Ile linth pelleCt` Ittet.sed." Are they not the mourn boaigi;thig rind thireting: after unother,_lLgher4,ife _weak enrth, - mac tide repining!: Therein no time exy-- " Life is reel—Life is earnest ' And the-grave is not its Dust thou ort—to dust returnee!, • — Was - not - trritten - of tha soot: " Let us then beul) and doing, With II heart for any fate Still achievlng—still*.pursuing, Learn to labor and to wait." WILD FLOWED • For ihe Cornsle Herald • SOCIAL LIFE.-- , NO. 3. • ON FALLING IN LOVE Mn. EDlT ' oll.—From the title of my subject, I rim satisfied that I shall have the attention of all young persons, and especially those of "arrest sixteen." And by the way, there might be an interest aWakked in the minds of some of the old maids and bachelors They still hope to find some one on whom to bestow their heart's purest love. Now what is meant by "fulling in love?" A Mr. Smith attends a splendid party given by.otie of Iris friends, and t at tlytt party be sees Miss Brown in her best and latest style of habit, with ri , " eirenniter , enOe'as beautiful as the Moon.' -Her beauti ful black curls hnog . gracietully upon her snow white neck: her.hazel "yes beam with delicht, and laugh out in joy. !Her complexion is clear and delicate: her nufe ie well formed, and she moves like a fairy queen. PoCr fellow r how his heart boats. Olt ! what an impression sIM has made upon him. Ile thinks her too lovely and pure for earth. Her bewitching smiles charm him, and his poor. heart flutters before her like the innocent bird in the spell of the obarmer. He yields to the power of tire chewier, for •he is . a Wounded bird. That mighty. young man, who walked out in his dignity and strength, is token captive without a struggle,—ie may not think so, buthe has' heard, the voice of the siren, and the spell cannot be broken; for he bee fallen desperate ly in hivs,tind he is pot able to tell why. Now this is being ruled by appearlincei, nod 1 110 not hesitate in saying that, one-half of the un :liappy marriages are. brought about in 'this way, without thought and consideration. . Mr. S. solicits the band of Miss B. in mar-. range, and be does not,ktiow why. Be is not prepu`red to afford her a comfortdble bortin; in fact, he is scarcely able to keep himself. Ile has no object in life, and why he wishes to, undertake new rpsponsibililiee, he cannot tell. Ile hits "fallen in love," or, tit least, he thinks he has, tail he concludes that-lie must he mis erable all his life without her, What lion sense I Mr. B.' has never analyzed - her char acter: he has xitiver "Studied end examined tier disposition. In fact, lie knows nothing of the elements that compose her mein! being. Every man should.study'to know himself, and each one 'should form his beau ideal of a woman, 'anti if hw'studies human nature, he will have' a perfect image of her f. rmed In his mind— her sine, her taint, the color. of her oyes . and hair; and even her inovements. ie thenvau scrutinize the very eleinenillnl her disposition; and her very social 'nature' and being. We think that no one who has considered himself, , and his relations in this life, need run into difficulty by falling in. love.", 'lie should hitve the power of contrelling his own feelings, and he should remember that all are not per fect and angelic, who ere attired in feminine habilithents. When heoctmes to a proper age, 'and circumstances justify ` it, he is prepared to . select' the object of hi 4 love with judgment and 4 e.; he should be prefiriredtolove'ty p e:raoral orth; and hot a display'Of finery atlnliow„, Nan ntsplays much mire Ondattention in the selection'er n honk, and paraphernalia of . bustneee life. Tills lei entirely oorrect, be causedvadds to his happinthut 3ut does he display as much judgment 'and dare In the se % Jection-ef a coinpanioti nein tife''es(ite — ortitoOry imidtiess 'ttunsiobtions'of'neliee ;in: isper, Nu! Some have ne"judginetii in the.. natter ' 'TheY - arttliet l fectly reeiiiese, l es if It were a mitter , afAio' itnpsrtn'u'ce Full tiairra cup hoe thu s thojightleesli tie'en hiiied wiili lint cr d i" it rneee, an ro ne o. s veryrege. fair one of retirtit'llerhof t hi4ett Uso gymenini Alter •et ith ft tight boort nod , leve,•noni.6llB UntiapPi`tid ,ilotiu(ely.2graite I' ;.thit.t and 4ijdcii 'Wolf of iotemPorimoo apoi Atilt ono 'wbo liad. AV%* 4- 06t1,. , ,:. -- w: i7'. $,-...0,20-81T.,..-1nM.94/1$ Ms lent I.lre's - wingsu'roNy hue; . Loci Lov lye were caught Rhino: They brlghten=but they wither too." Carliele, Feb 16tb; 1858 11.--V-Erit-088-EItIULD Mn. Eurron:—Tour correspondent Observ er in his first article on "Social Life," calls dancing a very graceful,' dignified, courteous, refiteid and thoughtful. exercise, and very • kindly invites the •• rawpant'oid fogies of the church" to "mind their men , Wellies's ( ' and let all those who love dancing quietly enjoy. their preferences. - In hishis'seeuud article bb etatee that he does not wish io be,understood as recommending dancing—that he has many. objections to it—not one of which however, ho • takes the trouble to statii. 'Now t let nie ask why- this ineonsistepey 1 Why give prefer,: enco to an exerciwk which is liable to, objec tion and then not elate his objections? We mill upon your correspondent for an ex pinunuon.• X. X. X. Carlisle, Feb. 19,'1858. • For the Cm-lisle Herald. OBSERVATIONS ON crusipav *taw,' - Mn. EDITOIt.:-111 the ISlst..two numbers of the Ilerald, we have noticed communications !entitled tt Social Life," from the pert . of some anon) Mous correspaident, calling himself Ob server. Without wishing to become involved 4 . 1 one-of those useless newspaper controver sies, the usual tesults,of which are personal abuse and n totacdesertion of rho point nt is sue, we desire to .. ffer,9, few plain and we think very obvious objections to the grounds assumed by the writer. . ' . lie seems to talio the posit ion. of a reformer. Now, Ave wish to ask him in what ttrue refor mation consists. Is it the tearing down indis criminately of all the eustnms of sobiely? We think not. The reformers. of the religious world thought not, when'they.rMained all that wos good' of,therdocteines .of the R9mish welt, and onlyl i typtested against the tad. This is th e business of a reformer. lie, must' study. the.ctistoms, of the society in which. he lives so thoroughly that ho may not only know. what those dustoms are, but also their nature li and tendency. 'Them_ turgulit carefully dis- ' corn between- the good nd the batl;giving hie influence in favor of th one, and against the other. • He should also be prepared to supply • some,thing"firthe plianf those .customs which , he would remove. - ,New, taking this as the duty of the reforth er—and we think it, plain that this•pigiAjohpia correct--Observer bus missed hiS mark almo,f entirely. 'Either he hiss-not studied the ele ments of Bechtl life eutlicientlrto know what they.are, or be has drawn unwarran)ed con : - elusions. He makes .the sweeping assertion that every thing in wrong in American Society. tiking this for granted, it must be admitted that. he is right in Lis tirade against the whole myntiln. Alter an extended, eulegiuin upon danoing, ; as a modC of employing the time usually de: voted to eoeini intercourse, he proceeds to vent hie wratii-uPon some of, IhO simpler spotts of 'yoang people. lie cberacterizes,them as dis- ' gusting;, sickening,' Ste., andlikeris Oafs who engage in, them to kittens at ptsiy. Now, - Mr. Editor, it Will be admitted. that these games ere nut very serious or dignified, but we chile' I for thdni at least this merit, that they are in nocent. Air, , Observer must potion us l if we are wrong , but, rosily, there seems to be some Smothered feeling: under this ititpetuona on, ' Alaaght_ppon_AbiLsPotts_ of innocentLyoutlf Sometimes these readies afford an lipportU nity fdr some fair damsel to show her prefer , ,enoelor otie of the whiskered Mid' boated Bei,' - • 'by choosing him as her partner in TOY. - .Our!opiniOn:ir • that in "'chip' in add'. ,clap - out," or one' of - .its kindred' sparts, Observer ban met trititr - disappoqrtment - and '- that a : meta fortunate swain . was-phonon biO lady lavejo - oqoupy the coveted ,seat bY; " I her'side., Jr we Are right in conjecture, we shall have topardon'hiut in titiaimPtession • .o! bin inelings, : This,infin . natural. ;, be lies our •' .'sinoeritsynipatbi r i,,, . 'But of what to`tbn . 7 gortt,ina,tlontroyar.', of esrebllelt : we ems nri.lantittitionn,•unlisi Lf BIM, 99 'oplttiling,Bl B B to take Ott !Aiwa what Itt ; v; fa -) what; of,Otseiviestro ariiolai,. on*dpiry.obul -., ode suggestion of O - ietiOdy . for the evils 0r... Which he oomOlilas, Anti what, CARLISLE,- PA.,- WEDNESDAY, MARCH 3, 18 5 8. gestionY That, before .going companY, weahall- prpvide ourselves With - Ideas to be employ.ed. in •conversation.• 'end nine forms of expression by which to' convey them. o eur, list eners. We -deem the objection: to . U 415.0410 to be totr . ebvious to require pointing out._Let_eetneLyouth, at:abalone` Of acquiring the name ota brilliant .conversationtilist, try the experiment, and be will find out by the chill he. throwii upon the enjoyment of. the 'company; or more .probablystby the ill sup- . prettied titter : at-his folly, wbat o rjdicolous failure he has made In Ins %AMA to gain an' I undeserved reputation for learning.. , But wo are not disposed to' admit . that Our social system is so corrupt as.lbe writer would have us believe. The eustordc Of .eoC;tetY em body, i'n . some degree, - tfie eirlpri'Wof our fathers; to do away with litela entirely-would tGe Cfoi e•;. - bt- to Aoin-nllwe , atight - re - -gaj • (rent this' experience. Before -these usages are abolished, let them be 'Clown -to be -per nicious. This Observer has failed to do; and until - it is accompliehed, --- bm cannot - expect much attention to be given to his suggestions. Q. Q. CUBIST/VW BAY ON'A ICE-BERG I passed my'Christmas day, some years ago, on boaid of fine East India - ship i , .'3outhern Cross," one thousand tons .register... • I was Chming home trent Melia) with a two years leave of nbsetice and'a . highly blue-billioint 7 fever. • On that Christmas day we, were just south of the 'equator, irlth. the thermometer standing . 91) degrees in the shed... We dined with windows and doors opened. wide, and a fore-and aft 'sail au6iiende4 - 641;' the - attbra :skylight; punka fashion, ;making feeble at tempts to cool us with air blown:off the coast of Africa: flaying, on that special occasion, considered it-neoessary to appear all at the - cnddyztableltrfolVdressilt tanylurimegified what relief we eicperieuaq; dtnner•over and the ladies bowed out, in unbuttoting our waist .coate, resigoing . our tight drum coats to the backs of the seat s t ,and ourselves.•to the enjoy-; , went of the gentle evening•breeze of the ocean " Lose OvoznrEn._LLl - . cum • Iliving recounted oui - feiiiembilnces eany past Chris:trim-days distirigalehed eats worth relating, we had relapsed into cheroots, brandy-pawnee, and meditation; the latter ex .pression, when at seri, means thinking of nOth ing, and - taking your time about doing it. I , Who has got the helm'?" asked the cap tain of-the steward, who chanced to enter the ouddy; . (Pn`tiver discovered why he persisted_ in mailing two syllables of 'that word.) .rt Ben Spinyun, sir," answered the steward. (The creaking iriim the - motion of the whee hero became very regular and careful ) - ••• Olt," said the captain; " well, start one of the tan aft to take the helum, and send Ben in for a Om of grog." The steward seemed inclined to stand on .I's-dignity, anti object to the intrusion of Ben into hie domain. However seeirfg that every one round the'table looked most after dinner good natured, he obeyed the captain's order. .This fellow," said the skipper,'alluding to Ben, is one of the best speelmene I have on board 'of the _genuine salt-water . breed. A capital sailor, Ito has been everywhere in the world and seen everything in or near, any port where a vessel can put in, yet if we were to rep anchor bi-morrow among the Tee-total Islands, if there are any, Ben would manage to get drunk within half-a-dozen hours after being on shore, and to get done out of all his money before returning to the ship. Ho has been in all kinds of scrapes and • itNentures, and I'dlay you a wager can spin you any a mount of yarns about queer-spent Christmas days at sea. I wish gentlemen, that'it lay in my power to eerve.out roast beef and plumb: pudding to all these poor fellows, for when we think of tho hardships of a sea-taring life—" This was 'one of the captain's grievances. I believe the old villain (who had a share in the Ship) systematically ,served out the- weakest grog and the . woodiest of beef that he could prpcure, yet as sure as he 'got the ot'.other gloss;" be began ed tn(k nautical pbilantliro• phy in the above strainr-Luckily, the entrance of the old seamen out. short his prosingc . A well-built, strong fellow was Ben Spin-' yun, - with a fine, open,. impudent face, and a pair of - eyes that seemed to have caught their color from the sea, and twinkled ever the rim oft he glass of rum that the dootor hooded to him at the bottom of the table, with a bright. tees that many a fair damsel would- have en vied. Not thattitis glass,',,ef rum was 'tossed off without due observances -and' ceremonies,. for Ben waeoneef . natute'e polite 'men, and his hearty " He're's viishing L a merry Christ mas and a good i'yageir hada genuine ring about it piensant to heir. • '> 'lonia' weather fo e Christmas-day, Ben," said 1, as be iietdowtt 'the empty glass with 'Malone° carb'thnt it should rest perfectly up right on the table: , • • .' Well, to be mini, sir," said Ben, stroking his short hair frontward pith hie bard brown hand, .I'have Irnotin it a deal colder,espeol ally-up about Canedee."', ivhy,..what on'airth brought you in Can ada at 'christmuil".ished,ihe deotor,.o pleas ant and airy clever. kankee, vilio was, What be called, joint 'tread(' the world before be ginning to go throughtt; . . . Ben, vretent 'neatly there; tieithee;tellould ha' heed pre- Mous glad to 'babe been (hum, or anywhere' ales an Hint • "'Where were you thew?" I asked. . " z.. • . • , , • 'n Deed,. eir:soid sixnpleS, twit ter .of iiior*anpai'Opeitile.l .. .Yp ! a'?/„49 !co.: berg"" ••• • • '‘• "On on Iceberg," we !mimed, ngd: helping 'Ben to'anOther glees Cq wiod itim,up. we., got, from him the tollowing - iliCry, hU • ye'endenir ored to ;render se p,7)ni 1 .7 :bin - in: bis''4s%;‘ , 6',,woydel . ,::llle. , bosio4l4,.'of °nine:Of n9991;610, Ne Wit's imany, litere wins 'floUle riots a going on up tbC country as kept hook the tim• her:k we wip.wsitidg for from comiegACwn St. Piiiirdnoe"; in tsOilveeir flint; , nes, nf..tlinisioinddit.'' t th , yoult:presennei.iininio .(to the-490110r'irtur Wie-irsisidg ls lips,) ..We didn'tget down 'the ,Anit ti ll • _imccions late la th e . We CelllnVilers - el :.7.‘ 0. 4 . ..... IMill lata,of ice off Anticost, and the captain being a mighty timorous men,• we'd an asifat time of itaccross the,Banks. Well; sir,tve got he,. calmed juet south of Cape , Race, Newfound land, in about 92 degrees N. -latitude, on the night afore, Christmas day ; a beautiful night . .it. Was for toPee the roaring boreagolia (aurora borealis) and the icebergsin tirtniteonShine - a -- ' looking, for allttie world, like whugey (huge) palace of white chaney. I was looking at one on 'em about' half a milt or morn to the not , rara of. us, when the doctor came forward . with a spy-glass to'ttike:n look at the same. Be -teas at; uncommon nice young gent, as had come out with us in the sprfng v!yage tek: log emigrants. He'd been staying , up the. country for the summer and fall, and was a goin borne with us, es he' ,I agreed .when we. first sailed, Dien, said be to me, after loeUilag ,atime-tBrough-the-glassi-4enlt-thata-bear_P.'" that iceberg'?" • He handed me the glass, and sure enough, there vital - one ,o 1 the" biggest bears I ever see, just on a sort of quarter deck •by-bisself at the bottom like, of a big. moun tain of ice as went up from it as straight as the mizien-mast, the sortof iceberg they calls a butnmock. •We could see him quite plain in . the i nioord 'OA, and precious dismal he looked. Well, air , •continued Ben, "I was taken all aback by whathe says to me." • . "What the'bt:ar said, exclaimed I." " No, sir, what the "doctdi said: was•-., : always app3 some lark, he was ; but I'm,, bloomed i,f he diclut say to me, Bea, I must have a shot at that -chap; and down he 'goes to the cabin to ask the ea'piain's leave. Our skipper had 'been a trying to keep the cold out, forit'we's awful cold; till I,'epeot 'he'd been • .ieady to give into most anything. ver, presently up he come on deci'd-holding on by the companion; for'lla caildn't - hold up of hisself, and orders us to do whatever the doctor wanted. • . • • - " Tionell„lhatwas op.. ! : lpotor:q .. name knowei how to manage as soon mplict heard this here orderOmimme forked to meet me 'at-- 'once, and carved me out I; couple of stiffish glasses of..grog., - and the like to all my watch, and then he. whispered me to put •sonte plan kets thequarter-beat, and have all. ready . to be off.fov a idiot at: the bear. There was ,o-good-in-objacting,for-bo wo^ • fv.ociendc_ obstinate young gent, he - wee—and, besides which, he broiight out a couple of tiottles of rum to put into the bont with his rifle and thing so it was not long afore we'd got off from the ship, be eud me, nod another chap, Bill Britton as waa—Toor Bill, he 'didn't think as how he'd never come back again:. - Welt,•eir, we, pulled toward the Iceberg band over band, 'for it wasr-dreadful odd, the ail' a coming oil it'regular fresh, and we took a good many pulls at the bottle too, to keep us warm. /We could see -the bear a sucking hie paws, and bear-him snuffing and growling as ii he smelt eummnt wrong. Poor' he found it was wrong, and ti„o mistake, for the doctor was a dead shot: Just as he got hie - rifle up to his shoulder, as gentle as' could be, whether the bear sew the moon shining on. the barrel or what; I can't say, but down be came with a run along the flat of ice as he was on, as if be knowed it were all up, and meant to swim for it. The doctor Was too- quick for himosud we-just saw him drop-on hishautioli es and turn over, as we turned our heads when he fired. Be sure, sir, we lei go he s artily to get to him, the doctor loading again the while. Ile looked overjnto the water just as we got close to the iceberg, and pulled up a lot of weed as is on the edge of the Gulf-stream. We was therzabout a dozen yards from the ice. He didn't say nothing, but I didn't like his look as be put hie band in the water after we'd gone a hit further, and drew it out all in a hurry, with a tort of shudder. We could see the water tkchanging from the blue color of the Gulf•etreem to the regular sea-green, as we pulled thrbugh it. We teas Ate( at the edge of the stream. Thera was a deal of drift ice, hits like, just 'utween us and the flat of ice where thii — datil • belif aria lylog, and it was careful work pulling among it.. llowsurnever, we took a drop apiece, and worked on through tint last. The doctoi:, - a fastening the full giog-bottle to bid belt,;.to alvirinbear a dose, as he said.. Pfil • . "Wban we got oil the iceberg we found that it wasn't above a foot out of the water—the. flat, I mean, where the bear wal—eo we made quick work and ran the painter round a big nub of ice to hold the boat, and all three of us climbed up on the ie.). It/was roughish, wink getting over it, though it hooked so smooth at a dietance ; not it bit illiPpy% more like hard snow than lee. The flat as we woe on w,as as big, about, as the whole'deek, fore and of of the Cron!. We wasn't long getting to th , and tried to heave him 'along to the boat, but he was a eight too heavy for that' eo'we sat to work' nt skinning him with our knives. , The doctor, all the while, looking . upon the 'hummock of ice, as went right' up like the aide of a ehip, over. .I:Mr heads. .it's often . - come' ticroes my mind that he looked too cool then,.considering how . up he'd' been to start. ' "We'd Well nigh finished our bear, when: all at once we felt the ice a beginning terock and shake. This got, after a minute or two, to a regular pitoing, like a little cock-boat in a übannel iireese . . Along with this we heard a sort of tooting, and a hollow, splitting kind of sound, as ',earned io,to all round us, and un der us, and All agent, .and which made us stop like as . if we'd :been shot I looked at m y mate, who looked acpporly asw.siok,ced, and jolt finished bald upto_proteot Win like.- Just thenldoctor l eans ni he es otere. and 'Ben.' says , ,•• he, .bolt down to the trat,no hard, to you can, and Wall Ong on the akin,. I:warn't long a , geibg io'i'vrilere rite kned.bad, been,.4nd sure e in.:high it 'o'ere olefin gone, painter and 1111. ~ Not oer, Or anything to, be • ills, Age of filethusaleto,; I; shan't forgot that moinent.,- Iless•regslar all.; ef,s heap', like Whitt ..the (lector , mita. .twArnhi' lien and the skins.. Ths ih i e like'S'-big Cradle, .Irj*,*; ! i g ultr, heat' wlsol.9!Png to it; pil4all round_tdr.thredgp - tif „wWw,Wits all threes holdingtegither to keep Militates up s bit atiebdnt of theireiking of the boss; iwbew all atonal ltdieosine quiet wgain • cend•iiii Orin sa the mirth.. Depend upon oltod'lWnaiinothei then; just :to keep poi MEI - _ . pluck ; and the- doctor never. saying 4 vrord,. unstraps the rum and hands round the bottle . After a.longish !pull we .began to talk again, and then' we managed; 'atween ourselves, to discover the precious pickle we was in, for a sort - of fog had come down while we lwas a skinning the bear;:o4w.e couldn't see a cou ple-orfathomemoithere;-and-bilidiepeet-raiii,- as big as bullets, woe a drifting hard 'in our faces; for all the world as if it was somebody a spitting. .. - "After a long talk and hollering ourselves hoarse.-te . try and mime 'em hear aboard; we determined to wrap ourselves up in the boar skin, and wait for daylight, ft was pretty well big enough to hold all three, and the doc tor had got a blanket besides. " ' "It w‘sn't n very Jolly sort of thing, ne youmay guees; but, somehow, - we - °quid say no • to the dons down in the mouth at what ho called his ',cursed folly! in coming•at- all. Arter we'd takeit d ilia or two - at the bottle; We felt bet. ter,'and-then he told us what-it was-as made . the cracking and roaring in the ice, and how we come to lose the boat. All very oateral it seemed too,•only I've forget how it wits." , 4 Go on with yotir story, Deli," said our dootor;* "I'll• tell how all that, happened when, you have done.", . " Id Ben after taking off dnother lase . e....t 1:1(4' ilcLeS if it had been water, " we stii3javitilleitalvaovitig a peg for .a mortnl Icing while, Only giving L a. holler `noirand then to the ship, , justnot to. throw uiray . a chance. I should reckon it mint:have been• prettyjar intOphristmao day afore wo turned out of the bear% skin, for the sun was beginning . to get tow and. SQ TAO our, spirits, / :can tell you.— There wasn't no signs of its getting clearer. I found 'myself a becoininic preciOus sleepy, and I knowed that .worket a Safe feel ; io we tarn: ad out, all three,•l6' have a walk, and try if we could hit on any way_ of •sorambling up to wasif to-be done,-nohow; it-was-one wall of ice . go- ing straight up; and, afore .the, fog come; you bad.to turn your. head back with your face quite flat, to see the top of it; and It waebroad again as the Thamesat Grinnidge.. • " It ettuck.me then.se it riis quitiNtraight. .. • .. ' deck .w was on seemed to have got .a - slant sinee.we first - came on it,• much• to the:dotter, and off he started like mad to the side *here ma AO hit was joined oh to the .body.like of "the ice I thought he was going to pitch himself in, foi he went down on his knees,-and was a-looking into the vrater.for ever so long.:-Presently he came back, quite cool and deterinined looking; and then I saw as be. was. like coming down towards us, instead of dealing Meng a flat. • Anything the matter?' said I. Well,' says he.. taking a stiff pull at the grog, and waiting till we'd done• the same too, " well,. there it something the matter ; we'd best• square our selves as beet we can, for we're turning seer P. , Sure enough it was true. The ice being top-heavy from tbe. melting of it down tinder -the water, was tumbling- over—sideways like —that is, sideways a§ we was standing, with our backs to the.ice.behlud us, and- a looking out to sea from the flat we -was on: It went on getting Mere hill every minute, till at last we was obliged to . lie dowb right..oo. the top edge where it was it rising further and thi ther out of the water, on the top of the weed lying heap there:. It was the awfuleet position as ever I who is. 'I dream nbout o it sometimes now when'l'm ashore,'-though it good many . was iigood years ago. There was just a little chopping sea all round; and the ice rising out of it underneath us, as .we . looked over the ,edge 'where w.e was a lying .on.--?cao as clear as glass. The whole, iceberg seemed r to be a groaning With pale, there was suolla: splitting and cracking,.wrhich seemed to come from its very middle. „There was the dead! on my left hand a holding on, and with hia rifle riglit'buder him, and the bear skin cover ing the pair of int.' Bill bad got the blanket; and was on' the fer side of the doctor; 'sure, we yettprecioue quietitfwarn't no-time for talk. -I heard the doctor a saying sothe thing to hisself, quite Belemn anklow, and it seemed to cle,me good somehow, a liete4rig to him.. Well, we got very slimly raised about a fathom above tho water,.when, all at ence v vre began to go up,at a tremendous rate;- we gas ehot up another couple of-fathom in lie time, and then came the most. fearsoniest (wheat as; aver I heard. I clenched mrteeth and held • on, arms and legs, as 'bard as J. could.. couldn't have looked to save my lifo; but I heard a eomething like a •gun go off close to 'me, and a eoreeoh as would have frightened the dead, and a w noiiie, like irs if all the sky hild fallen into the sea. I don't know anything ai" I can think of as it was more like. Then there.come a ttort'of swimminess in my head, as I felt we was going down again fast, and expected to.feel myself: go right under water. All at. once we stopped,.and I .felt We. was be ing driven on through the water at a spanking pace, for the spray came right up over us. It freshened me a bit; amid Ijust looked out afore me, when, ere enough, we was '.a driving on through the water as if the ice had goice.mad. I couldn't bear to look round for the others as was lying 'atgeen me . and where the body of the ice berg had been wherrl last iookedrd I was pretty near done, that's thelact, and only saw one thing alear, and that Was as I _must_ hold on tight anyhow I beit could. " IC might.have been a matter of five On-, utes afore the ice we waspn stopped the un.., commoa.rate it was goiaerit ; and It was full _onctkerlyi:tpkgtag lifpre I cealli . pltick to Wok up.: I never' *saw ,e 6 much id one_look,ia myliteolad.thoughekt:first Fwact gone toad or was dreaming. We were right on the top of a lump•of ice, about ,as as this chip ._: There Wasul.,nothing to be seen of the, hummock. of ice as we'd loitounder when wewas 4,4ktosijpg.the hear.. Ilicew• how it , was e, orme.,:phturning oven the Bet of ice we um; on.had eplit'ofT, from the maitt body; -0114,.had.dropped„ amd floated with the thickest eatid (which. wee luokily,:the ,one 'on)' .uPpertnecit..i.-kc",pliee z the •ioeberg r a, turning nye4ad,drlven the-uateraturelt,' end . ,eint. ne oekiti'rrici'lv,rfe.o"«3l3s' I wee And time 1 0 1 , 6 5 1 : 1 R4til ,felt ea couldn't nee no more ,fur a bp; '4Meqp,t, that.lnetlced'she.fog lmd cleared away; un it lo o ked like evening w coming doe*, • P in , ' • 'on the side, and I looked up and seen the dors. tor-a looking me in the facie as I turned my' head. Kean see thelook as was on his face ', now. His, eyeswere 'wide 'open and ,staring . the. top of hie facee - (for hle asp had fell off) was all white excepting two blue spots "on‘:his • heeits„b'ut_hbt_Ohin_vrattas_blaelt,ite • was trying to say something to me with his month open. wide as if he was hollering.; Af- • . ter - a bit. I -- heard - mint of whisper, - which 'made my' blood run cold. There's Bill?' woe wkrit he mild, and'' Whire's . the rifle 1' It • flashed over me • all at once, the *sound I'd heard, and the tioreeoh a I;ollering and • - brought. on. the entwimminess • again: I felt ~ him-a moving up, and ought' hold of hint just • as he was toppling over into the water. 'l've shot him,' says be a trying to get loose, and sure coo ogh bed, tbrawn-hietielf_in , ff- • --- got my lege agin him, as it were,stolteep him on the ice.' There was the mark of the pow der front the pan of the rifle he'd btien'a lying ~ on, all-over his breasrand--making-the-iisiok, mark on his chub. Ithad gone off as we 'was jerked fromthe Iceberg, and must have shot • poor Bill. " I've a most donetigentlemen," continued ~ Ben, after irshoit pause. " The 'citemedt. of • - saving him roused me a bit, and I looked out, for it was clear enough by this time, and there . was the snip a mile.aetern of us, all beintimed and•with•a boat alongside. I managed teals* a hail after trying, good many tithes. At '. last they vee'd ue and fetched us Off, pretty • . near dead beat.: They era coed. about- r ever so • long, loOkinglor. poor Bill, but foetid nttth ing of hird." • . , . Ben was evidently affected; andwe_wereall silent - for some-time. i poured -him. out a • tumbler of port- with a trembling hand,: add asking him how the dooter fared after': • !' Well, sir," Said Ben, "he was .dreadfully out up, and had a kind'of fever on him, and- • tallred - and7raxed - like:•mad: — llegOrtetter ' afore werorrived home, anCriaa onlyMelan .chdly•like. he'ard'llim toll as he. found that he'd come into a heap of money. :Anyhow, I kndw as lie.behaved very handsome to two-lit... Ge uns IV bad left-behind him with 'ne'er a mother. He talked ft . good deal to me-during - the v'yage, and I- fOund about a week after .iifiredaettletl-twentrpound • - a year on my poor old •mother, which- is-the _ • only breathe in Gila world as has to care for, , and for which Ihope as God will bless ' said Ben, with'.a fine honest tear -in his 'eye,. ' and, taking up his cap with'a " Thank you kindly, gentlemen,- for a listening to my 'yeti," he left the cabin. Mr! Nabits' ptilartintut. Tue linpus.—Nothipg contributes more to` the elegance and refinement of a lady's ap pearance than a beautiful hand. A well form ed hand, white and soft, with tapering, rosy- •• tinted fingers, and polished nails, is a rare • gi't; but where natpre.has denied symmetry of foim and outline, it is easy, by proper care and attention, to obtain a delicacy of color and a grace of movement which will place it sufficiently near the standard of beauty .to render it attractive. Cleves; should be worn at every opportunity,' and ,these ought invert- "" ably to be of kid er seft - leather. Silk - gloves - or mittens, altnough.a - pretty contrivance, are fur from fulfilipg the. desired object. Night gloves are considered hest, from the unctuous . substances with which • they are prepared to make the hands white and eon, but they. are attended with inoonsenienoe, besides being very unwholesome; moderately warm bran poultice laid on the hands about once during a week is a very excellent application. It Must bo remembered that the color of the skin . of the bandit, in common with that of thewhole body, is dependant, in a great measure, on the general state- of the heiltb. The hands shonld be washed in tropid water, as cold hardens.. them, and 'predisposes to roughnes and ehtipty----- while seater" beyond a certain heat makes them shrivelled and wrinkled. In drying teem, they-ought to be well robbed 'with • a moderately ,coarse towel, 'as friction always ^ promotes a ;loft and-polished surface. Steins , from ink or other 'cadges should be Immediate- • ly remelted with salt and lemon-juice—a hot. tle -of this • mixture should stand ready for -- use on every toilet. The soaps:to he preferred are such es are freest from all alkaline • ' purities. The palm of the hand 'end thtgAtips of the s fingers should be of a pale pink color. The growth and preservation of ,She Mae de. ' pend, in a great degree,,,,ppon the treatment -they receive, they ought to be frequently out in a circular form, neither too 'fiat nor . too. :poitited, The root, which is aometimeit called* - 'the half-moon; from its crescent-shape, should le 'always visible. It is whiter than the rest of the nail, and is connected with the vessel, which supply the nail with' nutriment for its grolith and preservation. When the nails el. disposed to break, some Simple pomade ehourle."i' be frequeritly applied. alid tilt freely Partaken .• of in the daily dice. 'An occasional applies'. • tion of... The Coral Powder!' halberts - an ex- . • queite polish and rosy hue to the nails,' 'end glees them a fresh and refined aPpearatme.r.. • • Homo Journal. • FEELINGS,•WDEN•A LADY FRIEND GETS MAE* ~ \ lIIED.—We never have seen otpressed the lea. eatitn of left behind-direness, *doh fe •Oi.; • perieneed by biohelors at belles' being oats." , iied off by others,iill the publication., the oth;; _ er day, of a lattslof .tie ottlebra . ted .-. Thentea , • itte.,lAn . _vtridrtg..o one of hiejair ao! uuLhttl,.. • ..._. tanotie*ho had beoeatif a tiride, ' he eve.: ~: ~. . i .. When see: my jfentaie friends `- drop o,• .- - by matrimony, I aro , emisible of ,something,; that &Toole me like ti loss. lyt spite; 0fa11..., , 1.,.„ the anlearenees tif:Joyc I cannot,helpnalitint: ~ the ooteinlinlenteef tiegret:eitk ttat,,of .00rti , ,.., . .• gratulation. ' 4 ti eppears as If. I _lllO :outs ~. Ilvetl or loot a tilead.'' , It seems to me as, if ; • ~• the original was no more, and that whielt,elte , •••.:, iA changed to fOrsake,the pirate . and f0rgete,...7..v . „ the :seine of fot • toor„eottioty!! 2NOtiet , ..ciact ;1! ,;'= corn , niperior to thour! . atielrerii, corn rfor ;- • 0 present for fin: n nowt, ,I . of)d,rropo c)f, Afr,,tfiis in.; Ci,' itudel if ki,l'into frinzifishup : of ifiorart..,l4ll ilvliott every lade* mirid 0,4,i. 4 0040tito,paiiiiidi,': , ..; & kivent those greater:Oblats*iti ! iiii44/:.:!.:.- ~.ig out, the less; or . thati.ool‘. spare a. thought. .. ". l'p, fanner friendskikifter she has gives hos 1 and hod head tolha man that loves ties." 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