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"The husband seem'd ever to gaze on his wife, And sweetly she smil'd on the joy of her life ; At the breast was an infant; and, shouting with glee, A blue-eyed boy dane'd on the fatherly knee. 1 envied them not, but I could not forget, That there my own husband and children had sat; And, struggling with sorrow, I mentally said, My babes are all scattered, my husband is dead ! The mother was kind, and she strove to allay The sorrow that3 wasting my spirit's away ; And I could but look up through the lovely sky, And pray that her eyelids might ever be. dry. , Ah! sunshine may. brighten the Valley and stream, And beautiful nature exult in the beam; But darkly the willows and cypresses shade, The solitude sad where my husband is laid. palemon; From the Lady's Book for March FoIIowiuff the Fashions Br t. s. author. 4 What is this V asked Henry Grove of his sister Mary, lifting, as he spoke, a print from lie centre-table. 1 A fashion plate,' was the quiet reply. A fashion plate ? What in the name of wonder are you doing with a fashion plate ?' ' To see what the fashions are.' And what then V 4 To follow them, of course.' Mary, is it possible you iire so weak t I thought better of my. sixier.' 'Explain yourself, Mr. Censor,' Mary repli ed, with an arch look, and a manner perfectly ielf-posessed. 'There is nothing I despise so much as a heartless woman of fashion.' ' Such an individual is, certainly, not much to be admired, Henry. But there is a vast dif ference, you must recollect, between a lady who regards the prevailing mode of dress, and a heartless woman, be she attired in lite latest ntyle, or in the costume of the limes of good queen Bess. A fashionably dressed woman need not, of necessity, be heartless.' ' 0 no, of course not ; nor did I mean to say bo. But it is very certain, to my mind, that any one who follows the fashions, cannot be very sound in the upper story. And where there is not much head, it seems to me there is never a superabundance of heart.' . r..:... i i You needn't try to beat me off by ridicule, Miry. I am In earnest. What about !' 4 In condemning this blind slavery lo fashion.' ' You follow the fashions.' No, Mary, I do not.' f Your looks very much belie you then.' 'Mary!' ' Nonsense I Don't look so grave. What I sy is true. You follow the fashions as much n I do ' 1 am sure I nerer examined a plate of fash ions in my life. 4 If you have not,vyour tailor has for you, in any a time.' '1 don't believe a word of it. I don't have my clothes cut in the height of the fashion. They are made plain and comfortable. There is nothing about them that is put on merely Irrause it is fahionable. ' I beg your pardon, sir.' It is a fact.' Why do you have your lappels made to roH three buttpa-boleA instead of "two. ThVre' father's old coat, madeI don't know when, that roils but two.' Because, I suppose, it's now the fash ' Ah, exactly! Didn't I get you there, nice ly V 4 No, but Mary, that's the tailor's business, not mine.' Of course you must trust to him to make your clothes according to the fashion, while I choose to see if the fashions are just such as suit nty stature, shape, and complexion, that I maadopt them fully, or deviate from them, in .iSplWfrid rational manner. So there is this difference between us ; you follow the fashions blindly, and I wiih judgment and discrimina tion !' Indeed, Mary, you are too bad.' 4 Do I speak any thing but the truth V I should be very sotry, indeed, if your de ductions were true in regard to my following the fashions so blindly, if indeed at all.' But don't you follow them?' I never think about them.' If you don't some how or ojher, you man age to be always about even with the prevailing modes. 1 don't see any difference between your dress and that of other young men.' 1 don't care a fig for the fashions, Mary!' re plied Henry, speaking with some warmth. ' So you say.' And so I mean.' Then why do you wear fashionable clothes V 1 don't wear fashionable clothes that is I You have figured silk or cut velvet buttons on your coat, I believe. Let me see ? Yes. Now lasting buttons are more durable, and 1 remember very well when you wore them. But they are out of fashion ! And here is your collar turned down over your black silk stock, (where, by the by, have all the white cravats gone, that were a few years ago so fashiona ble ?) as smooth as a puritan's ! Don't you remember how much trouble you used to have nmoiimixi in pi vmir collar to stand up iust SO7 Ah, brother, you are an incorrigible follower of the fashions V 4 But, Mary, it is a great deal less trouble to turn the collar over the stock.' 4 1 know i: is, now that it is fashionable to do so.' It is, though, in fact.' Really V Yes, really.' But when it was fashionable to have the collar standing, you were very willing to lake the trouble.' You would not have me affect singularity, sister V 4 Me ? No. indeed ! I would have you con tinue to follow the fashions as you are now do- ..a t .t tng. I would have you dress UKe otner peo ple. And there is one other thing that 1 would like to see in you.' What is that I would like to see you willing to allow me the same privilege.' ' You have managed your case so ingenious ly, Mary,' her brother now said, ' as to have beaten me in argument though-! am very sure that I aai right, and you in error in regard to the general principles. I hold it to be morally wrong to follow the fashions. They are "un reasonable and arbitrary in their requirements; and it is a species of miserable folly, to he led about by them. I have conversed a good deal with old aunt Abigail on the subject, and she perfectly agrees with me. Her opinions, you will not", of course, treat with indifference V No, not my aunt's. But for all that, I do not think that either she or uncle Absalom is perfectly orthodox on all matters.' I think that thev can both prove to you be- m yond a doubt that it is a most egregious folly . t t -. r....u to tie ever cnanguig wuu uic laauiuns. And I think that I can prove to them that thev are not at all uninfluenced by the fickle goddess.' ' Do so, and I will give up the point. Do so, and I will avow myself an advocate of fash ion. 4 As vou are now in act. But I accept your challenge, even though the odds of age and numbers are against me. 1 am very mucn mistaken, indeed, if 1 cannot maintain my side f the argument, at least to my own satiaiac- tiou. 4 You may do that, probably j but certainly not to ours.' ' We wilj see,' was the laughing reply. It was a few evenings after, that Henry Grove and his sister 'called in to see uncle Absalom and aunt Abigail, who were old-school religionists, and rather ultra puritanical in their habits and notions. Mary could not but feel, as she came into their presence, that it would be rowing -against wind and tide to maintain her points with them confirmed as they were in their own view of things, and with the re spect due to age to give weight to their opin ion. Nevertheless, she determined resolutely to maintain her own side of the question, and to use all the weapons, offensive and defensive, thai rmn to her hand. She was.a light-hear ted girl, with a high flow of spirits, awl a quick iad ducrirniftalinf wind. Al) iheae were in her favor. The' contest, was not long delayed, for Henry, feeling that he had powerful auxili aries on his sidej was eager to see his own po sitions triumph, as he was sure that they must. The welcome words thatgreuted theirenirance had not long been said, before he asked, turn ing to his aunt, What do you think I found on Mary's lable the other day, aunt Abigail ?' '1 don't knrfw, Henry.' What was it ?' You w'll he surprised to hear a fashion plate. And that is not all. By her own con fession, she was-sttidyingTt'tri order-to conform to the prevailing style of dress.- Had'nt you a belter opinion of her!' I certainly had,' was aunt Abigail's half smiling, half grave reply. ' Why, what harm is ihere in following the fashions, aunt V Mary asked. 4 A great deal, my dear. It is following after the vanities of this life. The apostle tells us not to be conformed to this world.' I know he does; but what has that to do with the fashions'? -He doesn't say that you shall not wear fashionable garments ; at least, I never saw the passage.' 4 But that is clearly what he means, Mary.' 4 1 doubt it. Let us hear what he farther says ; perhaps that will guide us to a truer meaning v ' He says, 4 But be ye transformed by the renewing of your minds.' That elucidates and gives force to what goes before.' 4 So I think, clearly upsetting your position. The apostle evidently has reference to a deep er work' than mere external nonconformity in regard to the cui of the coat, or the fashion of the dress. Be ye not conformed to this world in its Selfish principles and maxims be ye not as the world, lovers of self more than lovers of God but be ye. transformed by ihe renewing of your minds. That is the way I understand him.' 4 Then you understand him wrong, Mary,' uncle Absalom spoke up. 4 If ho had meant lhat he would have said it in plain terms.' 4 And so he has, it seems to me. But 1 am not disposed to excuse my adherence lo fash ion upon any passage that allows of two inter pretations. I argue for it upon rational grounds.' 4 Fashion and rationality ! The idea is ab surd, Mary !' uncle Absalom aid with wamih. They are antipodes.' Not by any means, uncle, and I think 1 can make it plain to you.' Uncle Absalom shook his head, and aunt Abigail fidgeted in her chair. 4 You remember the celebrated John Wesley the founder of that once unfashionable peo ple, the Meihodists?' Mary asked. 4 0, yes.' 4 What would you think if I proved to you that he was an advocate for fashion upon rati onal principles V 4 You can't do it.' I can. On one occasion, it is related of him, lhat he called upon a tailor lomake him a coat. 4 How will you have it made V asked the tailor. 4 0, make it like other people's,' was the reply. 4 Will yon have the sleeves in the new fashion V 41 don't know, what is it V 4 They have been made very tight, you know, for some time,' the tatlorfsaid, 4 but the newest fashion is loose sleeves.' 4Loose sleeves, ah I Well, they will be a great deal more comforta ble than ihese. JMake mine looso Wiiat do you think of that, uncle 1 Do you see no ra tionality there V 4 Yes, but Mary,' aunt Abigail replied, fash ion and comfort hardly ever go togeiher.' There you are mistaken, aunt. All fashiona ble dress-makers aim at producing garments comfortable to the wearers ; and those fashions which are most comfortable, are most leadiiy adopted by the largest numbers.' 4 You certainly do not pretend to say, Mary,' Henry interposed, 'that all changes in fashion are improvements in comfort?' 4 0, no, centainly not. Many, nay; most of the changes are unimportant in that respect. 4 And are the inventions and whims of fash ionmakers,' added aunt Abigail wiih warmth. 4 No doubt of it,' Mary readily admitted. 4 And are you such a weak, foolish girl, as to adopt eagerly every trifling variation in fashion?' aunt Abigail continued; No, not earguily, aunt.' 4 But at all?' 4 1 adopt a great many, certainly for.no other reaspn than because they aro fashionable.' 4 For shame, Mary, to make such an admis sion ! I really thought butler of you.' 4 But don't you follow the fashions, aunt V 4 Why, Mary !' exclaimed both uncle Absa lom and her brother, at once. 4 Me follow the fashions, Mary !' broke in aunt Abigail, as soon as she could recover her "breath, for the question struck her almosi speechless. 4 Me follow the fashions ! Why, what can the girl mean?' 4 1 asked the question,' Mary aaid. 'And if you can't answer it, I cam 4 And how will you answer it, pray V - 4 In the afiirmative of course!' 4 rou are trifling, now, Mary, uncle Absa lo::i said, gravely- , , 4 Indeed 1 am noi, uncle. I can prove to her satisfaction and yours, too, lhat auui Abigail is almost as much a follower of the fashions as 1 am.' 4 For shame, child ! 4 1 can though, undo; so prepare yourself to he convinced. Did you never see adnt wear a different shaped cap from the one she now has on v ' 0 yes, I suppose so. 1 don't take much notice of such things. But 1 believe she has changed the pattern of her cap a good many times.' And what if I havejpray?' aunt Abigail asked, hdgeimg uneasily. ' ' O, noihing, only that in doing so, you were following some new fashion.' replied Mary. It is no such thing !aunt Abigail said. I can prove it.' You canV Yes Tcan, and I will. Dbii't you refnerri ber when ihe high crowns were worn V 4 Of course I do.' 1 And you wore ihem, of course.' 4 Well, suppose I did ?' 4 And then came the close, low-crowned cap. I remember the very time you adopted that fash ion, and thought it so much more becoming than the great tower of lace bn the back part of ihe head.' 4 And so it was.' 4 But why didn't you think so before ?' Mary asked, looking archly iuto the face of Hef aunt: Why because-because 4 0, 1 can tell you, so you necdn'usedrch' all over the world for a reason. It was because the high crowns were fashionable. Come out plain and aboveboard, and say so.' 4 Indeed, and 1 won't say any such thing.' ' Then what was ihe reason V ,'Eveiy body wore illcm, and their unsight ly appearance had not been mado apparent by contrast.' Exactly ! They were fashionable. But when a new fashion laughed ihem out of coun tenance, you cast them aside, as I do an old fashion for a new one. Then came the quilled borders all around. Do you remember that change? And how in a little while after, the plain piece of lace over yoUr forehead disap peared? Why was that, aunt Abigail? Was .ihere no regard for fashion ihere ? And now, at this very lime, your cap is one that exhibits' ihe latest and ne weal-style for young ladies' caps. I could go on and prove to your satis faction, or at least lo my own, lhat you have followed the fashion almost as steadily as I have. But 1 have sufficiently made out my case. Don't you think so, Henry ?' Thus appealed to, her brother, who had been surprised at the turn the conversation had ta ken, not expecting to see Mary carry the war home so directly as she had done, hardly-know how to reply. He, however; gave a reluc tant Yes.' 4 Bui ihere is some senae in your aunt's adop tion of fashion,' uncle Absalom said. 4 Though not much; it would.secm, in yours, if you estimate fashion by use,' retorted Mary. What does ihe girl mean?' aunt Abigail asked in surprise.' 4 Of what use, uncle, aro those twb buttons on the back of your coat?' 4 1 am sure I don't know.' 4 Then why do you wear them if you don't know their use, unless it be that you wish to be in ihe fashion ? Then there are two more at the bottom of the skin, half hid, half seen, as if they were ashamed to be found so much out of their place. Then, can you enlighten me as to the use of these two pieced 6f cloth here, called, I believe, flaps?' To give strength to' that part of ihe coat 1 presume.' And yet it is only a year or two since it was the fashion fb have no flaps at all. I do not remember ever to have seen a coat lorn there, do you It is no use, uncle you might as well be out of the world as out of the fashion And old people feel this as well as the yoting. They have their fashions, and we have ours, and they are as much ihe votaries of their pe culiar modes as we are of ours. The only dif ference is, that, as our state of mind changes more rapidly, there is a corresponding and more rapid change in our fashions. You change as well as we do but slower.' , How could you talk lo uncle Absalom, and aunt Abigail as you did?' Henry Grove said to his sister, as they walked slowly librae to gether. Didn't I make out my point 1 Didn't I prove that they too were votaries of ihe fickle god dess?' I think you did, in a measure.1 4 And in a good big measure too. So give up your point,, as you promisedj alid confess yourself an advocate of fashion.' 4 I don't see clearly how I can do that, not withstanding all that. has passed lo-iiigjitj for I do not rationally perceive tfie use of all these changes in dress.' 4 1 am not cerlain lhat t can enlighten you fully on ihe subject; but think that I may, per-J hap in a degree, if you will allow uiy, bw their proper weight in xollt mliid.' 4 1 will try o do so; but shall nut promise id be convinced No matter. Convinced or rtrit convinced; you will still be carried along by tlie Ctlrreiit: As to ihe primary cause of the change in fash ion.tt strikes me tlia't it is otle lit liie visible eft fects'of that process Of cha;hje ever going oii hi ihe human .mind. The fashion of dreas that prevails may not he ihe true exponent of the internal and invisible sfaies; hk'caile ihey mut necessarily bo riiudified in various way by. the interests amd false tastes of such individua'fis profnulgaic' tfiem; " Still; tKis ddfes fftH affeenfia primary cause ' Granting yottr position to be thie, Mdr.y wliich I am lot folly prepared to adniit u'f de ny why should we blindly follow ihest) fasJln ions?' 4 We need riot blindly. For rriy part, I. &u shre that I do not blindly follow ihem.' 4 You do, when you adorjt a fcahioii withdut thinking it becoming,' 4 That 1 never do:' , 4 But, surely, j'ou d'6 hot p'retentl lo say ilfat . all fashions are becoming V 4 Ail that prevail to' any extent, appear sb, during the time of their prevalence, Iiiilfess ihey involve an improper exposure iif the personof are injurious to health.' I hat is singular.' , 4 But is it hot true V Perhaps it is: But how do you atccbunt for it?' On the principle thai there are both exter nal and internal cdtises at work, riiodifying the ihe mind's perceptions df the appropriate and the beautiful.' 4 Mostly external I should think, such as a desire to be in the fashion, etc' 4 That feeling has its influence no. doubt; and operates very strongly.' But is U a right feeling V ' It is right or wrong, according to iKe ehil in view. If fashion be followed frorri no high er view than a selfish love of being admired) then the feeling is wrong.' 4 Can we follow fashion wiih any other end?' Answer ihe question yourself. You follow the fashions.' I think but little about them, Mar.' 4 And yet you dress very much like other, people who do;' That riiay be . stf. Tie, reason is. I do not, wish to be singular. 4 Why V 4 For this fcasbn. A man who aftedis any singularity of dress or manners, loses his iruo. influence in society. People begin to think that there must be within, a mind not truly balanced, and therefore do not suffer his opinion-., no matter how sound, to have iheir irue weight1 4 A very strung and just argument, why we should adopt prevailing usages and fashions, if not immoral or injurious to health. They are the badges by ivhicb wfc are known as one of ihe social mass ifrb'und us diplomas which give to our opinions their legitimate value. I coujd present this subject in many other points of view. But it would be of lit'le avail, if you are.determined noto be convinced.' ' I am not so determined, Mary. What you have already said, greatly modifies my view of the subject; I shall, at least, not ridicule your adherence to fashion, if I do noi give much thought lo it myself.' I will present one more view. 'A right at tention tb dress looks lo the development of thai which is appropriate and beautiful (o the ! eye. J his is a universal benefit, for nn one can lobk upon a truly beamnul object in nature or art, without having hU mind correspondingly elevated and impressed with beautiful images, and thea8 do no; pass away like spectrum, but remain ever after more or less distinct, bearing with them an elevating influence upon the whole character. Changes in fashion, so far as they present new and beautiful forms, new arrangements and hew and appropriate combinations of colors, are the dictates of a irue taste, and so far do they tend to benefit so ciety.' But fashion is not always so directed by true taste.' 4 A just remark. And likewise a reason why all who have a right appreciation of ihe truly beautiful, should give some attention to the prevailing fashions in dress, and endeavoMo' correct errors, and develope the true anoMha. beautiful here as in other branches of art.' The Careless Couple. JENNY is poor, and 1 am poor, .1. Yet we will wed so say no more; And should the bairnsyou mention cerae, . As few that marry but have some, " " No doubt but Heav'n will stand ourfrieo4 . And dread as well as children send. So fares the hen, in farmer's yard, To live alone she finds it hard; - - I've known her weary ev'ry claw In search of corn amongst the straw; But when in quest of nicer food, She clucks amongst her chirping brood; With joy I've seen that'self same hen t That scraich'd for one, could scratch fory:j.?4l These aie tlie thoughts wlm:hraakemewilHug?' To take my girl without a shilling; IT And for the self same casse, d'yesfjeV , July's resolv'to wzxml n Is I" 3 I , 31 I .A pa 43 i i mrt i in rw