opinions Keeping a sharp eye on vandalism A word to the wise: Partiers, better watch trouble and then call the police. They must your step in State College neighborhoods, not think their job is to capture the vandal, You might think it’s a riot to “borrow” a take him down to the station and book ’em. fraternity’s stereo or take target practice at Interfraternity Council Community Rela someone’s window, but other people do not tions Chairman Eric Graves said partici share your amusement namely the vie- pation in the program is overwhelming, tims of the pranks. Thirty-six of the 52 fraternities have signed To protect their houses and their neigh- up to participate in the crime watch so far. bors’ homes against vandalism, fraternity Crime Watch’s purpose is to protect every members and pledges have formed a Crime fraternity in the neighborhood from vandal- Watch program. ism and disorderly conduct. Because crime Besides having the police on the lookout is a community problem, all fraternities for trouble, University fraternity members with houses should sign up to participate in and pledges will patrol the streets of State the program. College every weekend as part of the first- j us t knowing Crime Watch exists may ever nationwide fraternity crime watch. prove to be very effective in deterring The State College police should not have cr i me . If people know someone is watching, to spend their Friday nights sitting in their they may think twice before vandalizing patrol cars in fraternity neighborhoods ba- property or disturbing the peace, bysitting people who have had “one too gut for this program to work, fraternity many” and are trying to find their way members must be dedicated to the Crime home. Watch. It is a great burden off the police to have involves a weekly commitment from fraternity brothers watch their own turf and A “1 until 2a m every Friday night call the police if and when there is a prob- the weather Ms wj mfan And when fraternities work with the po lice, it will also help ease relations between £ ™ d ' e “ dr f£ and mtke sure those the two groups Crime Watch is the perfect f out on ™^ t 7avi?g 1 opportunity for fraternities to e , se , s e . selves as contributing members of the com- 6 munity rather than isolated, self-reliant and Fraternity Crime Watch has the potential temporary residents. to be a great success to deter crime. But it But fraternity members must also keep in will take the dedication and cooperation of mind their role in crime watch. They are both the police and fraternity members to not vigilantes. Their purpose is to watch for make it work. daily Collegian Thursday, Oct. 30,1986 ©1986 Collegian Inc. Anita C. Huslin Editor William G. Landis Jr. Business Manager The Daily Collegian's editorial opin ion is determined by its Board of Opinion, with the editor holding final responsibility. Opinions ex pressed on the editorial pages are not necessarily those of The Daily Collegian, Collegian Inc. or The Pennsylvania State University. Collegian Inc., publishers of The Daily Qollegian and related publica tions, is a separate corporate insti tution from Penn State. Board of Editors Managing Editor Jeanette Krebs Opinion Editor Jill Graham Assistant Opinion Editor Alan J. Craver Editorial Writers Pete Baratta Damon Chappie, Donna Saber News Editors Bob King, Doug Popovich Copy/Wire Editors Sonya Baum, Rich Douma, Donna Higgins, Sheldon Jones, Terry Mutchler, Megan O'Matz Town Editor Phil Galewitz Assistant Town Editor Thompson Holland Campus Editor Celeste McCauley Assistant Campus Editor - Nancy Funk Sports Editor Mark Ashenfelter Assistant Sports Editors Rob Biertempfel, Matt Herb Magazine Editor Chris Raymond Assistant Magazine Editor Mark Brennan Relationships: To have true friends requires honesty, openness and a minimal amount of game-playing Oct. 30, 1982 Just another mischief night. My friend Stacey dragged me along to this halloween party in a not so nice part of town. She was hot for this guy who was going to be there and, being an adventuresome (crazy? stu pid?) soul, I let myself get talked into going. Not a bad party, actually. I met this guy named Chris interesting, kind of lost looking, nice body. We went back to Sta cey's house and talked (yes, talked) all night. There are too many lonely people walking around. Some are part of a group, but that doesn’t matter there’s a difference be tween knowing a lot of people and having others fenow you. According to Erik Erikson’s stages of the lifespan, most of us in early adulthood (18- 24) are in the Intimacy vs. Isolation Stage (assuming we’ve gotten past toilet train ing). Do we choose to form meaningful relationships (not necessarily sexual) or do we choose to keep who we are inside, hidden from everyone friends, lovers, etc. I would have liked to take a not-so-ran dom survey on this question, but emotional topics like this make many people uptight. Besides, those in the latter group probably wouldn’t answer me anyway, that’s why Arts Editor Pat Grandjean Assistant Arts Editor Jill Kosko Science Editor Kathi Dodson Graphics Editor Tony Clccarelll Photo Editor Cristy Rickard Assistant Photo Editor Dan Oleski Board of Managers Assistant Business Manager Amy R. Norris Accounting Manager Lori A. Spossey Assistant Accounting Manager K. C. McClure Otlice Manager Laura Karp Assistant Otlice Manager Curt Sayers Sales Manager David M. Profozich Assistant Sales Manager Glenn B. Rougier National Sales Manager Kathleen J.Heilman Layout Coordinator Nancy George Marketing Coordinator Kristy M. Burgess Complaints: News’and editorial com plaints should be presented to the editor. Business and advertising complaints should be presented to the business manager. If a complaint is not satisfacto rily resolved, grievances may be filed with the Accuracy and Fair Play Commit tee of Collegian Inc. Information on filing grievances is available from Gerry Lynn Hamilton, executive secretary, Collegian Inc. About the Collegian: The Daily Collegian and The Weekly Collegian are published by Collegian Inc., an Independent, non profit corporation with a board of direc tors composed of students, faculty and professionals. Students of The Pennsyl vania State University write and edit both papers and solicit advertising material for them. The Daily Collegian is published Mon day, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday dur ing the summer, and Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday during the semester. It is distributed on the University Park campus. The Weekly Collegian is mailed to Commonwealth campus students, parents of students, alumni and other subscribers who want to keep abreast of University news. they’re in that group. So, given the situa tion, I will assume that both types are represented here today. What is a true friend? (Sorry, I know this is elementary stuff but I think many people, in this age of appearances, need to be reminded.) Someone you can emotionally dump on when you think your life is falling apart and doesn’t tell you to get lost or get drunk, but listens. Someone you can be your obnoxious true self around without worry ing that they’ll never speak to you again. (I could go on but I’m sure you get the idea.) To form close friendships is a basic psy chological need. Yet, some of us, although we would like close friends', merely know a lot of people. What’s the problem? A common complaint is that there is nobody around worth being close friends reader opinion Public service This letter is in response to the “Scalping Scam” editorial which ap peared in The Daily Collegian. Referring to intelligent business minded entrepreneurs as “capitalists money-mongers” • and “vultures” demonstrates the editorial staff’s ig norance to the important economic functions that these businessmen per form for their communities. Instead of calling for stricter en forcement of victimless crime laws, let’s look at the services these law abiding citizens perform. Just as most businesses carry in ventory so goods will be available to buyers, so does the scalper. His in ventory is tickets and represents a large cash investment. It is only fair that he be compensated for this in vestment since this money could be earning interest in a bank. The scalper is never guaranteed a profit on his tickets. Like other busi nesses, the scalper takes risk when he buys merchandise for resale. Would you risk- hundreds of dollars if you could not make a profit? If Penn State has a bad season or if the weather us bad, the scalper stands to lose significant amounts of money. Nobody forces “desperate Nittany Lions fans” to buy tickets from a scalper. These people know well in advance that tickets could be selling for several times their original price on game day and when they venture with, just a bunch of jerks. There is some validity in this point, but blaming others will not help you; it’s possible you may not give others the impression that you are capable of being a friend. To have true friends requires one to be a true friend. To be a true friend requires honesty, self-disclosure and, most impor tantly, a minimal amount of game-playing. The games we play with others are a result of the images we have in our minds of how we should act and who we should be. If these images represent who we really are, there are no games. (Only you know when you’re playing.) We all play to some extent, but like everything else it’s harmful in extremes. You have to know when to stop. Why do we need to play games? One reason is that we don’t want to reveal our true selves which may not be liked or. accepted. A better one is that we don’t want to get hurt. If people attack who we are not (our “image”), it is not a personal attack, right? Personal attacks are the most pain ful hurts. A good defense is the best offense. That’s what walls are for. It’s a natural step from the superficiality of some friendships to the superficiality of some relationships. A relationship should be a friendship (as in real friend). Unfortu- up to Beaver Stadium with their “money-lined pockets,” they are hap py to find tickets at any price. The scalper is simply buying a product and reselling it at a higher price in hopes of making a profit to compensate for monetary risk and time invested in selling the tickets. He helps make the ticket market more efficient by purchasing unwant ed tickets and selling them to custom ers who want and are willing to pay for them. His customers get to see the game at a price they feel is fair or they wouldn’t have bought them. With these facts in mind, maybe the Collegian should advocate the repeal of all scalping laws so these business men would get the respect they de serve and never have to break the law. Douglas Litchfield senior-business logistics Endorsements? The political campaign of Bill Wa chob has been dealt a serious blow: it has been endorsed by the Undergrad uate. Student Government. You con sider this endorsement as a plus for Wachob, but consider some things. The turnout for the USG elections last Spring was as low as 20 percent. Few, if any, students can tell you who represents them in the USG Senate. Worse yet, few could even care. Don’t think this is the students’ fault either. For the past few years, divestment has been a hot issue. The leadership of the USG has taken it X HA.VE SEESi -THE EMEKAV< . . . upon themselves to push the Univer sity for divestment. This is backed by a very feeble attempt at a survey that was proven flawed. I am not saying anything about divestment, but I do disagree with USG taking a firm stand on it. This Fall it was announced that White House of Chief of Staff Donald Regan was to speak here. Before most of us were back in the swing of things, the USG announced it was joining the University Student Exec utive Council in protesting the visit. People new to the campus did not know anything about USG (not that they were missing anything), and the other students knew that USG and USEC would do whatever they wanted anyway. So based on these limited exam ples, Wachob, just because you have the endorsement of the USG, don’t think you have the student support! Now all we have to do is wait for The Daily Collegian to add its “sup port” to someone’s campaign. The Daily Collegian welcomes let- issues still confront the University, ters from students, faculty, staff and Authors must present letters to the area residents concerning issues and editor (no more than IVj pages, topics of interest to the Collegian's double-spaced) or forums (up to readership. With the semester past three typed pages, double-spaced) to the half-way point, many important the Collegian in 126 Carnegie Building nately, it seems as though a minority of relationships fall into this category. Let’s imagine that you treat .your boy friend or girlfriend no differently than a close friend. (Throw in sex if you’d like, but that shouldn’t make any difference for our purpose here.) How might things change between you? Posscssiveness. Do you get jealous if your close friends have other friends who they like to go out with? How about if your boy/girlfriend goes out with someone of the other sex? In the latter case, our insecurities often cause a red flag to wave in front of our eyes and we do something stupid. You don’t try to control your friends, but a relationship is different, right? Why? My opinion on possessiveness is that ff two people have a strong relationship, no other person can come between them. If seeing other people causes a break-up, as it sometimes does, one of the parties involved was unsatisfied with the relationship and probably wanted out anyway. Either that, or those damn insecurities make us act stupid again. Honesty. Something like 75 percent of all people in relationships have had at least one outside sexual experience while in the relationship. I doubt many of them decide to Thursday, Oct. 30, 1986 Darin Cox junior-mathematics What do you think? The Daily Collegian Environment U.S. Rep. Bill Clinger claims to, have a good record on enviormental issues. Yet, when the most important votes were cast, Clinger voted for the polluters; ■ ‘ • * His cumulative rating of 42 percent with the League of Conservation Vot ers demonstrates his lack of concern for enviormental issues. Clinger has consistently voted to weaken the Superfund, which was created by Congress to clean up toxic waste sites. He voted to eliminate the industry tax the main source of revenue for Superfund. He also voted against allowing vie-, tims of industrial waste to sue for damages in federal court. Clinger surley knows that the best way to stop pollution is to make it economically unsound to pollute. I hope the voters of the 23rd District won’t be fooled this time. I know Bill Wachob can do a better job. His record in the Pennsylvania legis* lature was very pro-enviormental. .{j Hick O’Neil Franklin, Pa., resident tell their boyfriend or girlfriend. Why not? Would it mean the end of the relationship? (I know the answer to this one is often “yes.”) Think about it, if your feelings toward him or her haven’t changed, what harm is it doing? The greatest harm is in the lying which will de-stabilize any relationship. We generally don’t try to possess our friends and are honest with them; what would it be like if we really did apply this to relationships? What have we got to lose by being true to ourselves and our own feel ings? 0ct.30, 1986 I’ve been close friends with Chris for exactly four years. He's still interesting, lost-looking and has a nice body. No one else lets me ramble on all night about things going on in my mind on his long-distance phone bill. 1 wonder what he’ll say when I tell him that he inspired this column. He may never speak to me again. That’s what friends are for, I guess. Abby Felgus is a senior majoring in psychology and pre-medicine and a column ist for The Daily Collegian. Her column appears every other Thursday. ■ ■ opinions Blind support: It's impossible to understand how some people can believe in government-backed torture . .. , , , ... ___ A “those f-ing commie spies” who the United one feeling the pain that you inflicted ... people I’ve quoted in this column? Have you It is with narrow-souled people as with *- States is no f kming fo r democracy or any it’s not a sound I’d like to hear. Take a ever wondered what it would be like to rip narrow-neefeed bottles: the less they have in other reason moment to hear it in your mind. through the flesh of another human being them, the more noise they mohe m pouring . U • I’ve met those guys many times before. And still, there are people among us who simply because he lives in another part of it out. Alexander Pope. though in different personages. They come profess the desire to be the agents of such the world and has a different set of ideolo nv I,6 h°^Mv’ ‘vSjP Ln ““SESdZS MS wSjtSi'SSSSS 6 Can y.u honestly any the. it yon were nothing about absolutely everything. 'At HIT subjects But common among them is the "Man, I’d love to be over there right now, given a choice to be or not to be m a when it comes to ignorance, Im a certifia- kgjglpir * den j al j _ and the j gnor ance to that fightin’ with them Israelis they know how situation so apparently desired, you could ble genius. In fact, I know how to say I which we all share- the ability to feel At to fight! When they catch someone they perform the kind of savage acts that so don’t know” in 11 different languages I take which we all share. y don . t B like , he’s dead meat. They ain’t afraid many of us talk of so freely? Or is it simply my life very seriously and I’m always least 1 minx so. ~; falk 9 trying to expand my knowledge of how ; ; 1 wish I had the ability to understand how of blood. talk shut much I don’t know. already have military personnel in Central so many people men and women alike * * * you mean w hat you say, if you honestly There are advantages to being aware of America doing those exact same things - can espouse a beliefin Rig ht now, I don’t feel as ignorant as I did believe you are capable of killing another one’s own ignorance. For instance, it tends our government told us so. nhilUvTt wnniH Lkp me extremelv anarv at the beginning of this column. I feel human being under the guise of preserving to keep me on my toes. I don’t think I’d be While in Alaska this summer I did not ahility, i it o “ ld ..™ ak ® f ™ t e h human y bd ® y something and though I’m not sure what it pea ce, start with me because I’m too igno comfortable with the security that would have steady access to current events so I ~ A„ H like scraDS 0 f me ft is, I think it may be anger. Whatever it is, it ran t and incapable to live in a world devoid £he",f JuStne' = Sfw ZJ In .. lensi has been building inewe me ,0. n leng Unte e.ntpnssi.n, en.pa.hy and Inve. a„dSvifb“S»“uSbere?„?r„ bumaTbe™ 0 " ‘"nS».'“nTiK''iJTa JIS Oee day ynur nil'! Ice men who according to them, must have all And though I couldn’t identify it, I think it people, but because Ido I have a hard time those violent sentimenis 10 leei anyming ££ mine the answers. 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