NJURIES MUST
BE FORGOTTEN
Vomen Make Mistake in Re
membering Wrongs They
Have Forgiven
By Ilea trice Fairfax
"The woman who forgives and
oesn't forget is trying to pre-empt
eaven and raise hell," heads a very
ynical —and very wise old quota
ion.
Most women make the stupid
hinder of definitely, deliberately
ml actively remembering the things
have hurt them, when to for
<t, instead would bring them so
luch of happiness. They seem al
lost to foster recollection of what
urts —like the child who keeps put
ng the tip of his tongue against an
ching tooth as ff he wanted to see
' it still achej as badly as ever ev
ty time he did that.
Fred and Janet have an engage
ment. Fred breaks it for business
easons. Janet 1s hurt, but she
bccuses him because she feels that
fie must yield to the claim of busi-
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FRIDAY EVENING, HARRISBURG TELEGRXPH DECEMBER 14, 1917.
ness. The next time Fred makes
an engagement with Janet, she lets
herself doubt him —she wonders if
he is going to keep this appoint
ment or if it, too, will be broken
at the last minute. Then one eve
ning, Fred breaks an appointment
and Janet, going to the theater,
sees Fred entering the same play
house with an attractive woman.
Misery, fury, ugly Jealousy!
Now, one of two things may turn
out to the case. Pdrhaps this la
the wife of the Important man with
whom Fred had his business ap
pointment, and that man may, at
the end of the conference, have re
quested his young friend to escort
Mrs. X to the theater, since he him
self has a very bad cold and cannot
use the tickets for which he has al
ready paid. Janet, hearing that
story, acaepts it, excuses Fred for
putting his business interests
ahead of her sand indulges in
doubt. She never can quite forget
that Fred has hurt her once and
likely will do it again.
The explanation which Janet fair
ly forces from Fred may, however,
be something like this: The good
looking young woman was a cousin
of his —a very dear friend whom he
has not seen for years and with
whom he really longed to have a
quiet- old-time evening. He would
have told Janet the truth—but he
knew it would hurt to be left out,
that she wouldn't understand his
desire to be with Cousin Mary. Of
course, it was wrong of him, and he
might have trusted to her generos-
ity; but won't she forgive him this
once?
Again Janet forgives, because she
cares too much for Fred to quarrel
with him, and remembers because
she cares so much for her own
pride, so morbidly enjoys torturing
herself that she cannot quite shove
into the background the thing
which hurts, her, that she caDnot
consign the whole affair to oblivion
and think-no more of it.
That's one side of '.'forgiving and
forgetting." Now for the other.
There is an old quotation which
reads: "The offender never par
dons." And I think that is par
ticularly applicable to the situation
where a man has been a bit unfair
to a woman, a bit careless r'.bout
doing the fine and generous things
and then has confessed his faults,
made up his mind never again so
to offend and prepared therefore
to wipe the slate clean of the un
pleasant memory and to go on to
ward doing better.
He feels rather proud of himself
—he has confessed a blunder, but
that doesn't mean that he is going
to be generous about being re
minded of his blunder and having
it perpetually wept about as a
grievance! It is annoying to be re
minded of mistakes. He feels that
he has offered redress for the wrong
when he confessed his own bad
judgment or unfairness or unklnd
ness. Now the thing is settled from
his point of view. There Is going to
be a fresh start with a clean slate—
no nagging, no reminding of what is
over and done with. Surely in say
ing he was sorry and hadn't realized
how It was going to hurt and in
promising not to do it again he has
taken care of the whole situation.
It's over—finished —a Tlosed book.
Alas for the woman who does not
accept such a situation as her hus
band thinks she should! Alas for
the girl who tortures herself and
annoys her sweetheart with refer
ences to a closed chapter. Pretty
soon lie lomea to be the injured
party. She lashes and punishes her
self, pricks and annoys him and all
because she has not enough poise,
self-control and common sense to
recognize the Importance of letting
bygones be bygones.
Balancing Accounts
. Men have a way of balancing ac
counts —getting things over with
and then recognizing the fact that
they are bver. Women, on the con
trary, want to revive dead emotions
and galvanize them into life again—
to go over Outworn situations, to
repeat and review, to revert to what
is over and to live In the past In
stead of in the present. It doesn't
pay. It won't work, and it can al
most be guaranteed to bore and
aggravate and sicken and repel the
masculine half of any partnership.
Let well enough alone and permit
the past that Is gone to stay in the
realms of the finished. There are
new experiences, new emotions, now
situations waiting to be dealt with.
Remember, "the woman who for
gives and doesn't forget is trying to
pre-empt heaven and raiso hell!"
Y.M.C.A.IS HAVEN
FOR U.S.BOYS JUST
FROM TRENCHES
Hotel de Pavilion Reserved
, For Men on Leave in
Paris
Paris, >:_ j. (Associated Press j
Correspondence). The American
Army and Navy Young Men's Chris
tian Association is trying to make
the American coldier and sailor feel
"at home" when he comes to Paris
on leave. Two hotels, one for officers
and the other for enlisted men, have
just been opened here and provided
with all the comforts of home and
of a well-regulated club. Both hotels
are convenient to the railroad sta
tions at which the men will arrive
from ports of landing and the front.
Other hotels will be opened as may
be required. Few men will come to
Paris on leave at present, but provi
sion has been made for the time
when the American armies take their
places on the fighting front and the
men are given short furloughs from
trench duty.
The Hotel du Pavilion is reserved
for 400 enlisted men. American am
bulance men. soldiers, sailors and
marines stationed in Paris are being
housed there provisionally. They will
give up their quarters when men be
gin coming to Paris on leave in large
numbers.
A correspondent of The Associated
Press recently found the large loung
ing room nearly filled with men In
khaki, navy blue and the new pea
green uniforms of the Marines. A
boyish-looking ambulance driver a
the piano accompanied a quartet of
two soldiers, a sailor and a Marine
singing American "ragtime" airs.
"Give us another," shouted a sailor,
and the crowd approved lustily and
Joined in the chorus.
"You Promised Mother a Letter.
Write It Now"; "Why Not Send a
Few Lines Home?" and other admo
nitions of like character on conspicu
ous signs were being obeyed by a
number of boys around a large table
in an adjoining room.
"Say, how do you spell "Champs
Ely sees'?" (he pronounced it 'Champs
Eliza') aaked one soldier of the com
panion at his elbow. "Don't ask me,"
replied the other. "I've only been
here two days. Why don't you go up
and look at the map?" With the ex
ception of interruptions such as
these the room was usually quiet. A
few boys were taking a late meal In
one corner of the diningroom.
"How do you boys like it here?"
asked a Young Men's Christian As
sociation official.
"Fine; home was never like this,"
replied one of the group. Meals are
served at virtually cost prices. En
listed men can get well-furnished,
steam-heated rooms for sixty cents
a night.
Association secretaries meet all
trains from the front and ports of
landing and Bhow the men around
Paris and Versailles in sight-seeing
busses. Theater parties are arranged
nightly and church parties leave the
hotel for both Protestant and Cath
olic services each Sunday morning.
Accommodations for one hundred
Army and Navy officers are provided
at the Hotel Richmond. At this hotel
mealß are served by a committee of
volunteer American women workers
headed by Mrs. Theodore Roosevelt
Jr.. and the men liked it so much
that they fell automatically into the
habif of tipping the waitresses. Word
was tactfully passed around that this
was superfluous, and the Richmond
has become the only "tipless" hotel
In Paris.
A shopping bureau established here
undertakes all sorts of purchases for
officers from handkerchiefs to rain
coats and gifts for wives, sweet
hearts, relatives and friends at home.
Two handsome lounging rooms fur
nished with heavy clyrt> furniture on
the ground floor and an interior gar
den where tea is served each after
noon by Amerlan women are popular.
Brisbane Boosts "Ads"
as Great War Factor
Philadelphia, Dec. 14. Arthur
Brisbane, noted editorial writer and
owner of the Washington Times, as
serted in an address at the Poor
Richard Club that advertising has
already played a big part in carrying
on the itfar, particularly in educat
ing citizens to the need of subscrib
ing to the war loan and reaching the
consciousness of everyone In the
land.
"When Mr. McAdoo wanted to
raise money for the Liberty Loan, he
didn't call upon the lawyers or the
politicians of the country," said the
speaker. "He summoned the adver
tising men to his aid, and they
showed him how he could gain the
sincerity and goodwill of the peo
ple," said the speaker. ,
"I feel like an humble missionary
monk from the dark island of yel
low journalism com© to teach the
elect what they already know. How
ever, observation has taught me that
there are five cardinal points to be
remembered in advertising. The ad
vertisement must be seen. It must
be read. It must be understood.
It must be believed. And, being be
lieved, you must leave such a repu
tation that the man seeing, reading,
understanding and believing will
have a desire to possess what you
have to offer him.
"Advertising will hava a stupend
ous part to play when the war Is
over," prophesied Mr. Brisbane. "It
will then be America's golden oppor
tunity to prove the confidence she
has in herself as a nation of com
mercial progress, as well as one of
democracy and peace."
Fired at Diner Who
Complained of Service
Chester, Pa., Dec. 14.—When An
drew Benson complained of the slow
service in a restaurant conducted by
George Norrls, Norriß shot at Benson
twice, the police say. Benson ran
outside, dodging the bullets, and
threw a brick through the window
of the restaurant, barely missing a
diner at one of the tables.
Both Norrls and Benson were
locked up, and will bo given a hear
ing before Police Magistrate Holt
Norrls was arrested a short time ago,
charged with beating up a customer
in his place of business.
Senate Committee Again
Delays La Follette Inquiry
Washington, Dec. 14. Another
hitch developed to further postpone
the Senate Elections Committee's
inquiry into Senator La Follette's
St. Paul speech.
The committee discussed whether
further investigation would be made
by Its subcommittee or the full com
mittee, which will meet next week
to decide the question of procedure,
and deferred for the present the
proposed examination of former Sec.
retary Bryan. „
Use McNeil's Cold Tablets.—Adv. (
ROADS TRANSPORT
1,500,000 Soldiers
Washington. Fairfax Harrison,
chairman of the Railroad War
Board, has Issued a statement rela
tive to the recent transportation of
soldiers, in which he says that troop
movement figures to date indicate
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A Continuation of Ou j&
Altogether the greatest lamp sale ever held in this city. Bear in mind that
H it is not a sale of a few lamps—but hundreds of them —Lamps of every style
and description and for every household purpose —floor Lamps—table Lamps
H —desk and boudoir Lamps—reading Lamps.
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b 1 wonderful selection of MaplC( Qak I J f , ■
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that the railroads of this country
have safely transported approximated
ly 1,500,000 soldfers to training
camps and embarkation points since
August 1. Five hundred thousand
of these men have made journeys
necessitating overnight travel and
have been moved in tourist or stand
ard sleepers furnished by the Pull
man Company.
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