Harrisburg telegraph. (Harrisburg, Pa.) 1879-1948, February 09, 1917, Page 9, Image 9
WOMEWS I WHY CAN'T YOU TO SPEND HOUSEHOLD MONEY? By Uea'trlee Fairfax "I can't decide," says Janet, "I haven't |< the least Idea whether I ought to spend I < niy money going over to see my sister I: for a week-end, or whether I ought to i take the same money and buy her a presest, or whether it will be better to | ksave the money. There are reasons for doing each. X simply can't decide." j Which means that Jane will not take j any of the courses she has outlined, but will instead buy herself a new waist. and some handkercheifs with the j money. Do you knew what "I can't decide" i really means? It means that you are I to sit down quietly and do a little men- j tal and moral bookkeeping. It is al- j ways possible to figure out what you | think is the best thing to do in a given situation. If your decision turns out J to be wrong, at least you have the ' moral force to make a choice, and you [ have to be a good enough sport to abide j by it unless you are a clever enough j manager to rearrange the situation and ! Its conditions. . When two or three courses are open j 1 to you and you are tempted to say "I j i can't decide," why not sit down with a ; paper and pencil and figure the thing ; f out like a problem in mathematics? 1 Life 1s mostly human mathematics, af ter all—a matter of equations and the finding out the shortest distance be tween two points. And when it comes to your personal equation, no one but ; yourself can solve it. The sooner you | realize that the better. Shifting the burden of responsibility ts an evasion that does not work. You 1 say, "I can't decide," but what you j mean is, "I hate the bother of making ] tip my mind. It is so hard to determine j what I ought to do and as long as there J Fashions of To-Day - By May Manton TF the reader is considering a I trip to any one of the Southern resorts she will y/vjfe ]'k e to make this dress of silk LgVf* jersey or of pongee or of ma it I terial of such sort. It is a A Very farming model, adapted ot ' l to s P orts to general tW \ morning wear. If a colder luj: fsf; ifjf { \ climate is to be considered, it ml ill A I ft would be pretty to make the (i f /®-c : j///i \\ skirt of broadcloth or of serge 111 •■*"* i' it/f \li \ t * ie b' ouse of crepe de chine 7uU Nj \ in a matching color. Crepe de ivjgß chine is one of the pronounced ! Jwff | p u\\ favorites of the incoming fash l/J ' VOJ \\ ' ons and it; will 1)6 utilized in f y-n numberless ways. Here, how vf/ It . \ fll \ ever, the dress is made of natural v # I i \ jH;r colored pongee with bands of J II I I / narrow braid. If you want a 111 I i I W\/ rca ' sports effect you could use 81 I I | W a brighter color, you could make , 111 \\ t ' ie s k' rt w hite and the blouse IPI I\\ ce " se or B°'d color or blue. I I l\ | \ For the medium size the I II I\ \ blouse will require, 3 yards of % "*> I n ■lft \ material 36 inches wide, 2®^ II i \ yards 44 and the skirt, 4}^ E I yards of either width. FS blouse pattern No. 9324 L I I ILJ - S cut ' n s ' zes f rom 34 to 44 Ij inches bust measure and the jTC I skirt No. 9319 in sizes from 26 I I l\ \ Hi 1 to 36 inches waist measure. I\j \ \ II I 1 Thay will be mailed to any L/aL 932*\\ HI I address by the Fashion De- partment of this paper, on re ceipt of fifteen cents for each. G. R. KINNEY & GO'S. Big Department for children's and misses' shoes offers extra values and money saving specials. Our lines are still unbroken in styles and sizes due to the extraordinary large orders given before the last advances in shoes. These shoes are now being sold at the old prices which means 50c to SI.OO less than present market value. Misses' and Children's Goodyear welted shoes broad toes, flexible soles, smooth innersoles, give comfort and wear, in vici gun metal and patent at $1 ..>9 for 8% to 11, and #1.98 for 1 to 2. Present values up to $3.00. Gun Metal Shoes full broad toes, heavy soles, good looking and durable 51.49 for size 8% to 11; $1.69 for to 2. Present values up to $2.00. Misses' Cloth Top Shoes, dull kid vamps, great values for the money 9BC' for sizes Sy 2 to 2. Present values up to $1.50. Little Boys' Shoes Special lot guaranteed solid Q q leather, sizes up to 13, for Little Boys' Heavy Tan Elkskin Shoes just the thing for school wear, button or blucher, sizes up to 1 Q Q 1354 for tPl.yO Big Boys' Shoes Goodyear welted soles, button or lace, i sizes Ito 5y 2 , real $3.00 <♦ <■ r\Q value for j) A oi/O Infants' Shoes in black, tan or champagne, q black or colored tops, sizes up to 8 for *7 O C 54 GREAT STORES— THAT'S WHY G. R. KINNEY & CO. 19 & 21 N. 4th St FRIDAY EVENING, Is a choice of courses I'd like some one I else to tell which to take, so that if P [come out wrong I won't feel I have only ! myself to blame." Suppose your decision does turn out | to have been the less wise one? If you] know you made an honest effort to face I the situation and figure out how you j ought t,o meet it. at least you have the comforting knowledge that you tried. Indecision is laziness, or , mental weakness, or both. Who wants to take unto herself the title of possessing those characteristics? When a difficult situation arises and there is a choice of one or two courses, if you really want to force yourself to a decision, try this : Sit down with i pencil and paper ruled into as many j columns as there are choices, and in ! each column make a subdivision for j reasons pro and con. Actually reduce j the situation to mathematics. Add up j the reasons for doing a tiling and the i reasons against doing it. When you j have subtracted one from the other, you will get the actual value of action or inaction. And when you discover that, as the saying goes. "There's no per centage in a thing," you'll have very little difficulty In deciding against do ing it. So, when you have gotten the re sults of subtracting all your reasons against action in one case from -your reasons for action, just compare yotir result and take the one that is nu merically best and greatest. LiOglc and mathematics and a con quest of mental Inertia will do away with the stupid old formula, "I can't decide." Sadly I confess that inde cision is a feminine rather than a mas culine fault. Men are sometimes in clined to a fault in the opposition di rection—too great cocksureness and a certain stubbornness in deciding. An open mind, a willingness to think | and a logical ability to estimate values j makes decision a comparatively easy [ thing. TEACH CHILDREN TO BE THRIFTY Parents Make Mistake in Cul tivating Extravagance In stead of Economy By Dorothy Dix Are you raising your boy to be a spender? Are you teaching your girl to be a waster? Are you bringing up your children to throw money away, and to think the only use of a dollar is to blow it in as qulcky as possible? Are you Inculcating In your child ren no idea of economy, and no habit of thrift? If you are you are blighting your children s lives. You are handicapping their future. \ou are raising up a man who will be poor, and hard run, and in debt to the end of his days. He will be one of those men who with plenty of ability and energy, never arrive anywhere, and who at last get discouraged and quali fy as members of the Down and Out Club. ou are raising up a daughter who will keep lim husband's nose to the grindstone as long as he lives, and who will bar his way to success by her mountain of bills. Fond and Foollnh Parent* Often Stint ThemNelve* to Spoil Their Children The greatest fault In the American character is extravagance, and instead of trying to eradicate it in their child ren, the average father and mother cul tivate it. Go into any household that you will, and you will be shocked at the way the children /are taught to waste money. AH day long there is a never ending appeal from Johnnie and Mary and Susie for dimes for the movies, nickels for ice cream and soda water and pennies for this or that. This is the case even among people who have to toil hard for every dollar they have, and who live always on the ragged edge of hard times. They are bound that their children shall be indul ged. Father will do without the warm coat that he needs and mother will wear leaky shoes that Johnnie and Mamie may have some ridiculously expensive toy upon which they have set their hearts. We want our chiildren to be happy. We don't want them to be burdened when they are litte by having to think how far a dollar may be made to go, as we do. They'll have to worry about money soon enough," say these "parents in self excuse for their folly. A Child Trained to Extrnvngnnee In Foredoomed to Poverty All His Life To which one may reply if you be gin teaching children thrift in their cradles they will not have to stretch their dollars so far, nor will they need to worry about money when they come to their parents' age. Nothing is more certain than this, that if we take care of our money when we are young, our money will take care of us when we are old. Any boy that grows up with the be lief that money was only made to spend and whose money burns in his pocket until it burns a hole through it. is fore doomed to poverty. No matter how much he makes it all goes for noth ing. He can never take advantage of the opportunities that come his way, be cause opportunity has to be backed by a bank account. If he gets sick or loses his job, he becomes a burden on other people, and in his old age he is dependent on the charity of others. He has got nothing to show for his life's work just because he has never learned to save when he was young. The wickedest woman on earth is no more a curse to her husband than is a good woman who is wasteful and ex travagant. No man can make any headway against a wife with a spend"- ing mania. She makes of her husband a slave who is so'd into bondage to milliners and dressmakers, and grocers an( j butchers. Many a great career, many a great man's life is sacrificed to a woman's having the bargain counter habit. All of these catastrophles could be | prevented by parents teaching their children habits of thrift ivhen they are little. If every child was taught to save (instead of to spend; if it was taught that a collection of nickels Is far more interesting than a collection of marb les or dolls, that one of the most ex citing things in the world is to watch a bank account grow, we should do away with riine-tentlis of our failures and loafers and half of our divorces. Xor Is this as difficult a thing as it seems. Foolish spending Is simply a bad habit. It's merely the gratification of a passing fancy. Most of the things that children waste money on they don't want the second after they have them, as is proven by the clutter of toys that every child possesses that he never plavs with —useless toys that often total up into hundreds of dollars. If the child were taught to at least put half of all the money given him in the bank, and show how this money grows, and how it represents some big thing that he wants, while the money that lie has spent has gone forever, he would soon become as in terested in saving as he is in wasting. A Saving* Hunk Account Appi-iil* to a Child a* Few Other Thing* Do kvery child should havo a savings bank account started in his own name. He should be permitted to go person ally to the bank with his little de posits, and he will soon come to feel that it's a far more interesting ex perience than a visit to the candy shop, and that the serfse of pride In having a real bank book to show the other boys is a more exhilarating feeling than exhibiting a new bat or ball. I have seen the bank account ex periment tried on numerous small boys and girls, and I have never seen a child yet that didn't respond enthusiastically to it, nor one who didn't get so inter ested in it that he or she didn't soon begin to let mother and father and uncles and aunts know that a check was the most acceptable of all pres ents on birthdays and holidays. You can ,get a child interested in saving for a definite purpose. -a. bicycle, a motorboat, a trip— anything POSLAM PROVES PACIFYING BALM 10 ITCHI SO 1 Try Poslam for any bad case of Ec- Popularly when nothing else ' intolerable 6 * ° ltch,nK is almost ! 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Charge accounts can be arranged. / ||l |, Extraordinary Values In Dining Room Furniture | 9-Piece Queen Anne Dining Suite Special $l6O j lOf Antique Brown Mahogany—consisting of 60-inch Buffet, large China Closet with mul- B honed glass panels, 48-inch Extension Table and 6 leather slip seat Chairs. An exquisite suite § and an exceptional bargain. See it. 9-PIECE "ADAM" DINING SUITE—of Antique Brown Ala- 9-PIECE "QUEEN' ANXE" DIVING SUITF nf = hogany consisting of 54-inch Buffet. 18-incli Extension Table. ™-,. i ... ... . 7. ... . 1 ° r large China Closet and <> leather slip seats, specially priced alnnt consisting of 54-ineh Buffet, 48-inch Extension Table, g at $125. large China Closet and U leather slip seat Chairs; specially Srs priced at 8200. ' 9-PIECE "CROMWEIJUAN" OAK DINING SUITE, eon- = stating of 00-inch Buffet, 48-incll Extension Table, large China 9-PIECE CHINESE CHIPPENDALE DINING SUITE of Closet and tapestry or leather slip scat and cane hack Chairs Mahogany, consisting of ttO-incli Buffet. lar~e China Closet = ZZS&&& X OS.: SUcklc.v m. k e, K*™*. T . 1 S tl.l, suite „„ r no „, """ rrtcod Brass .Telephone Stands — j <- * K lA/ifl d Stand and Stool of- == ft 1 ! V High grade Brass Beds placed under stand _ _ jg : q " C ''' $6.25 SSn I S2O Brass Beds—2-inch posts—s heavy filler rods * ffl ra M Kg satin finish—special at .. #115.98 Telephone stand and OT |H ' jinfffl Inff 1 $25 Brass Beds—2-inch posts and with heavy tiller st ° ol of Kolid niall °s- |ui ffl jAj|| Ml ] j lU |j j p| rods satin finish special at SIO.OO any: s P ecially priced at lUUJUJBW l^^pu S3O Brass Beds 2-inch continuous posts—7 filler rods tfj 1 ifl CO J 1 FPr —special at $22.50 ipIUiDU H [ Tg Bright, new Spring Stocks ol Rugs and Draperies are arriving daily. The patterns are by far the most beautiful we have ever shown. <|| J North Market Square 1 i; I'l i illl lii iI! 11 iiiiiillli llilliii j 11 I' that is a big desire, and in so doing you • have taught him one of the great les sons of life, to sacrifice the impulse of the moment for a greater pleasure later on. or do without the little things that he may have the big thing. i Teach your children thrift when ! I they are little. It makes them good j citizens, good husbands, good wives. It assures them of Independence audi 1 prosperity. ■ Don't be afraid of making them care too much for money. The people who care most for money are those who haven't got it, and who feel the need of it at every turn. Don't raise your children to be i spenders. Referee Dies While Taking Train For Home Elmer K. Saylor, referee in com- | pensation for the district comprising | Dauphin, and adjoining j counties, died suddenly in a Pennsyl vania Railroad train which he had just boarded to go to his Lancaster home yesterday afternoon. Mr. Saylor had been unwell for a few days and in- ! sisted on coming here to hold hearings i in scheduled cases, holding that they , were matters of importance which had to be cleared up. Me had just sat 1 down when he suffered an attack of < heart disease and died immediately < after. His remains were sent home, t accompanied by attaches of the Com- I pensation Bureau. i Mr. Saylor was named as one of the first referees and had made an excel- i ' lent record in disposing of cases. Mr. i Saylor was born in Washington bor- ' ough, Lancaster county, on January 7, ! 1862. lie was a son of Mrs. Annie E. I (Keen) Saylor and the late David . Saylor. He resided in Washington i borough for twenty-three years, being engaged during that time in farming and the study of telegraphy. He then moved to Lancaster, where he was J made buyer of dry goods in the Watt I f & Shand department store, which po-'t sition lie held for about six years, giving it. up to accept a similar one In 1 1 Erie. Pa., but he was in Erie only for;! a short time. During the adminis-> t tration of Mayor John P. McCaskev I Mr. Saylor was appointed assistant city controller of Lancaster and held his office until the expiration of Mayor < McCaakey's term, when he was ap- j | pointed deputy State factory, inspector, i r ' serving under tlio late Can tain John <\ Deluney and later under <.'ommissloner Jackson. When Frank 15. McClain. now lieu tenant-Governor of Pennsylvania; was elected mayor of Lancaster Mr. Saylor was appointed superintendent of the water works and served in that capacity throughout Mayor Mc clain's administration and during a part of the term of 11. I-. Trout, pres ent mayor of Lancaster, who is McClain's successor. Besides his widow, who was Miss Margaret Erisman, of MillersvUle, 1-ancaster county, before marriage, he is survived by his mother and these brothers and sisters: E. 1,. Saylor, Fal liston, Bucks county; W. H. Saylor, Ephratn, Lancaster county; Margaret, wife of M. H. Mill, of Philadelphia, and Carrie, wife of Samuel It. Myers, of Bareville, Lancaster county. C. of C. Hears of Dishonest Solicitors Every Day Another warning has been sent out by the Harrisburg Chamber of Com merce against fake salesmen and dis honest solicitors for special advertis ing propositions, church nnd charity causes. All members are urged to communicate with the Chamber so that all propositions can be investi gated. Cases of dishonest operations are reported daily, it is claimed.. Special notices have been sent out by the Chamber urging members to attend the meeting of the Harrisburg Chapter of the American Bed Cross Society to be held in Eahnestock Hall to-morrow evening. The Harrisburg Auto Show, which will open on Satur day. also is commended. SHIItLEY MASON'S JOKE This Joke was written by Shirley Mason of McClure Pictures, one of the stars cf Seven Deadly Sins. Sho takes all the blame. Mother (reading from her paper) Tt Is "the most colossal, astounding, audacious, powerful, stupefying, mas terful. mammoth" Father What's that more stuff about the war? !*f Mother—lndeed not. It's the des cription of the two reel picture that's going to be at the' Nickelodeon to morrow* FEBRUARY 9, 1917. Dr. Walsh of New York to Lecture on Shakespeare MBr y DR. JAMES J. WALSH Dr. James J. Walsh, of New Yorlt City, will lecture on "Shakespeare Then and Now" on Tuesday evening, February 13 at 8 o'clock; in the Tech nical High School Auditorium. The lecture will be conducted under the auspices of the Knights of Columbus lodge. Dr. Walsh has lectured in all parts of the United States and has been recalled to the majority of the cities where he has talked. Those who have heard htm many times know that he will handle the subject from an individual standpoint. In his lecture Dr. Walsh brings out the fact that it was a mighty, lucky ' j J thing for Shakespeare that ho viral born 350 years ago and work for tliu people or that time rather than ours. The Londoners of Elizabeth's tim* fairly crowded to Shakespeare's plays. It is impossible to Ret good audience* for Shakespeare's plays now. Musical comedies, trivial shows of many kinds are crowded and sometimes run foe: a eouple of years but Shakespeare'# plays, and a great many have never seen any, it is quite impossible to get a hearing for them in our large citiei for more than a few nights. Husband Has Dying Habit, but It Doesn't Fool Wife Chicago, HI., M r j,, \ iolet Daniels Furna, a former member of the Chicago Grand Opera Company, anil wife of Dr. John T. Kurno, u physician, blames cabaret* and women for their separation. J "He has hounded me so that at last I ve M<*d a bill for divorce." she said- The strange.part of. this.is.that I be-2 lieve he still loves ine. He has a habit of 'dying of ptomaine poison' when he wants to see me. He sends me tele grams saying he's at the point of death. Ho fooled me once. But never again." • ' r \ jy fMW IBWtHI f §252253 / paclcad •( the nfinerr Going fo bake a Choc olate Cake? There's I A Franklin Sagar for entry use i 9