18 OF INTEREST T Prudence and Prudery By DOROTHY DIX A problem that confronts every girl t some time or other Is where to draw the Une between prudery and prudence In her dealings with men. Bhe doesn't want to be a prunes and prisms sort of a girl, one of the kind who Is always on the lookout for a ■bock, and who takes hold of a man's arm as If she would prefer to use the tongs In touching It. She wants to be !fre, and frank, and fearless, and yet 1W maldenliness shrinks from any familiarity from one of the opposite •ex, and so the question of how to maintain a thus-far-and-no-further at titude toward men becomes a very difficult one for a young and inexperl ■nced girl. The difficulty is further enhanced •ly the fact that every normal girl de jalres to be admired and to receive at ttratlons from men, and she sees that tho popular girls—the girls who have •boots of beaux and are overrun with llnvltatlons for theaters and parties >nd every amusement—are the free and-easy girls who permit little liber ties and in whose presence a man docs 'aot need to put much restraint upon •either his tongue or his manners. An older woman could tell such a ifflrl that she was taking a short view of the subject, and that while the fast woman will always get the most serv ile*, admiration and attention from imn, she is seldom the woman that they marry- They like to be with her •when they want an hour's amusement, ifor she is Jolly and amusing and easy (to talk to, and they have to make no Effort to change their mental attitude 1n her presence, but when a man thinks of a woman as a companion for a lifetime and not a day, he wants something better, purer, more wom anly, and one for whom he has more 1-espect. Men are cruelly Inconsistent In their 'dealings with women. They amuse themselves with one type of woman, nd then they marry another. A man Will teach a girl to drink cocktails and than refuso to marry her because she does it. He will spend weeks per suading her to kiss him, and then be I i Mother "Yes, son, you can have all the rfl Bham you can eat. 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He may laugh at her a bit for a little Puritan if she won't go to restaurants with him without a chaperon, and if the very suggestion of an oft-colored story dyes her innocent cheek with scarlot, but in his heart ho respects her for it. She is the kind of girl that he would like his sister to be and that he hunts up for himself when he marries. If you will notice you will see that the gay, brilliant, good fellow, much admired belle of a season, who was a connoisseur In mixed drinks and dou ble entendre stories and an expert at cards seldom marries as well as the s£y little girl whose only attraction was the white halo of her innocence, and ignorance, and purity. Another very practical argument for maidenly reserve may be found in the fact that man's leading passion is the passion for the chase, and that the harder the thing is to get the more he wants it and the more determined hi is to have it. No man cares to kiss the lips that are within his reach. It is the ones that are denied him for which ho hungers and thirst? and which he spends his life trying to win. No girl could have a more potent charm for men than to diffuse about herself an intangible atmosphere of aloofness—of being guarded by a maidenly delicacy that would take alarm at the slightest approach to fa miliarity. Every man worthy of the name, honors the girl who honors herself, and If there are any others who are driven away from her because she will not permit liberties from them, she should bless Heaven tliat a danger has been removed from her path. This does not mean that she should be a prude. She can be friendly without being familiar, and she should never forget that while every girl should be a peach, the ripest peach and the most desired hangs highest on the tree. PRINCESSE SLIP OF FINE BATISTE Soft Colored Silks or Lawns Are Equally Desirable as White For Girls By MAY~M ANTON 9161 QA'ith Basting Line and Added Seam Allowance) Girl's Princesse Slip, 8 to 14 years. This is a slip that can be made of lin gerie material to be a simple under garment or of silk to be worn beneath the party frock. 11 is shapely and attractive and at the same time exceedingly simple. On the figure, it is made of batiste with trimming of embroidery. In one of the small views is a suggestion for scalloping the lftck and armhole edges. That treatment always is dainty ana the older girls should be able to do the work them selves it' is so absolutely simple. For wear beneath the party frock, the slip could be trimmed in any way that may suit the fancy and taffeta, India silk and materials of such sort are the best liked for the purpose. For the 12 year size will be needed, yards of material 36 or 44 inches wider with 2 Vi yards of insertion and 3H yards of edging, i x A yards of embroidery 5 inches wide, for the frill. The pattern No. 9161 is cut in sizes for girls from Bto 14 years of age. It will be mailed to any address by the Fashion Department of this paper, on receipt of ten cents. Miss Fairfax Answers Queries GIVE HIM A HEARING By BEATRICE FAIRFAX Dear Miss Fairfax: Am eighteen, and working as a cloak model. I have been going about with a young man six years my senior for two years. A year and a half ago he ceased calling because his parents were told I was a model. His sisters are not allowed to even mention my name, although they think the world of me. I have heard from friend!-, of his that he would like to speak to me again. Do you think that he repents his quick actions? He knows that I have numerous admirers, and that of all of them combined I love him best. Do you think that Is why he Is willing to apologize to me? How can I win back his love, and make him understand that, while we were engaged, ho should have stood up for me. (We were engaged to be married.) Mother tells me that I ought to try to forget him. ADELAIDE. 1 Of course, It would have been only loyal and manly for your fiance to up hold you to his parents. But you were both so young when the situation rose that it is not surprising that he failed to act with the mature Judgment of a man. Why not give him a chance to retrieve himself? His parents were not fair In their condemnation of you —but give them a chance, too. If he and they fail you now, Just put them out of your life and start over. OBEY YOUR MOTHER Dear Miss Fairfax: I have been go ing about with a young man not quite two years my senior for the past three months. As 1 am a few months past sixteen, and have an older sister, my mother objects to my doing so. 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