women sinteßes «> Who Shall Do the Courting? By BEATRICE FAIRFAX No. I—The Girl Who Makes Demands ■ Ever since the world began mem have been going out on the warpath or to the chase and bringing home the fruits of their strength. Ever since the world be gan women have been sitting at home doing the weaving and the making and the sewing and pin ning and making themselves desir able so that men might want to lay the gifts of the nase ana uie spoils of war at their (eet. Has our country changed any of that? Decidedly yes in practice of living, decidedly no in practice of loving. We women go to the offices and the factories and the stores and work side by side with men. We go to the polls and vote with men in some states and countries and shall do so in more and more. Men the Hunters But because human nature has de veloped and human being express themselves in new ways does not mean that human nature has changed. Human nature has grown along natu ral lines. Women have freedom in work and freedom in play. But men are still the hunters and conquerors, and they do not fancy seeing a woman <-ome out in the open as a husband seeked and mark down the victim she chooses to hunt. Every day I receive dozens of let ters from girls who want to know if they shall "insist" on their men friends calling a certain number of times a week. Every day some girl tells me she wrote three times to ■John" and he did not answer, and then asks me what she shall do. Probably she should never have writ ten the first letter. Here is a sad little example that is quite typical of one of the greatest mistakes girls make: ' L. M. L. writes: "I am nineteen years of age and am keeping com pany with a boy two years my senior. We have been together on Wednesday evenings since December and I think if he me as he says he should come Saturdays and Sundays too. He objects. Should I insist? 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Patent Applied Fo-. 220. :,JJ. 324 and 326 Wood bine strict, and is conducted by Charles E. Weibley and Simon N. Cluck KSTIII VTEB I'HEKRVI'LLY C,i\ i;.\ Harrisburg Awning and Tent Works 320-26 Woodbine Street, Harrisburg, Pa. ™one *ll Trv Telegraph Want Ads. Try Telegraph Want Ads, - - •• ; -V' * "v •-'/ ■ •'. t ~, - • ' . •-• • r » v • • " " " ' ' ' SATURDAY EVENING, HARRJSBURG TELEGRAPH JUNE 13, 1914 in like cases —don't insist! Don't dream of insisting on anything a man does not choose freely and of his own will to do! No man likes to be forced to give the attention and consideration that he revels in offering—to the right woman—as a free gift. If you are not the right woman you will only disgust or amuse or anger the nian you are chasing when it is his mascu line perrogative and privilege to do his own hunting. The girl who is forward cheapens herself in man's eyes for two reasons: He feels that she has not the proper self-respect, and he thinks that she has not the natural charm that will cause men to seek her freely. He does not enjoy being sought by a girl so falling in attractiveness that other men have not sought her. But the main reason why women fail when they try to force the issue is that all men have a natural stub borness that makes them enjoy a struggle for what they get instead of having it handed to them. A man actually enjoys a certain amount of conflict in attaining his heart's desire. He likes lingering along the pleasant path of courtship. So when a girl struts out into the open and demands either in a businesslike way as her right, or in a sentimental and clinging way as her supreme wish that she have more of his society than he has seen fit to give her, she antogonizes all his natural instincts. The Proper Way If instead of insisting that her friend call three evenings a week when he has shown a desire to come but once, L. M. L. were to suggest sweetly and pleasantly that perhaps next Wednesday evening she would be engaged and another evening later in the week would do just as well, she would be far more likely to take on value in the man's eyes. Then per haps he would be the one to insist on spending more evenings together. The minute a girl insists on any- - thing as her right it ceases becoming a free gift. The minute a girl talks of "rights" and insists on them a man feels chains. And chains gall men. They like the feeling of freedom, they like to be generous bestowers of gifts and not captives chained to chariot wheels. Never demand a man's society. Make yourself so sweet and desirable that he will demand yours. Difficult, you say? Perhaps. But in my next article I will give you a few suggestions as to how to make your self desirable. 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