r A ng,y nreße-8 Ignore Misunderstandings By Beatrice Fairfax IS. J. R. writes me: "I was keeping company with a young lady until two months ago, when we parted over some foolish ideas. Last week I met and offered to escort her to a wedding. She did not hesitate to ac cept. On our -way home I caught a suggestion that she would like to re sume |>ur friend ship. Now what Is worrying: me is that sne was the whole cause of our sepa ration, and I think that it is up to her to ask me to make up. But I am wondering if it is my place to make up, as I am the man. I love her very much and want to do what is right." Of S. J. R. and all who hesitate In a like situation I ask a question to which there can be only one answer. "How can true love and false pride And room to dwell together in the same heart?" What Matters It? What does it matter who is right and who is wrong in a misunder standing? The very fact that one is right gives a certain difmity to being also the one to seek the reconcilia tion. The impulse that leads S. J. R. to invite the girl he loved to go with him to the wedding of which he speaks was the generous and manly on«. No explanation was asked or given. His affections prdmpted him wisely. Instinct said: "Here is the girl I love. I will take her with me and try to give her a pleasant even ing." That was the impulse of a large soul. Follow it up. Say to the girl: "I love you. Wa have hurt each other. Shall we forget it and start over?" SPIRAL TRIMMINGS HUM 8260 Two-Piece Skirt, 22 to 30 waist. PERFORATED FOR SPIRAL TRIMMING. WITH HIGH OR NATURAL WAIST LINE. Here is a skirt that can be made avail- j able for morning, afternoon or evening I occasions. In the picture it ia made of 1 taffeta and the flounce is of chiffon so ! that the skirt is suited to dances and ! occasions of the kind. In place of the I silk and chiffon, if serge and gathered ' ruffles of taffeta were used, it would I become appropriate for the street cos- ; tume with coat to match. If the spiral j trimming were omitted and plain skirt ! only used, it would become adapted to j the morning hours and to every day occa- I sions. It can be finished at either the j high or the natural waist line. For the medium size will be needed for the skirt 2% yards of material 27 inches wide, 2% yards 36 or 44, with t}4 yards 27, I yard 36, % yard 44 for the gathered ruffle, 3 yards 27, 2 yards 36, or iJi yards 44 for the plaited ruffle. The width at the lower edge is I yard 28 inches. Bowman's sell May Manton Patterns. The Pleasure of Eating— Yes—but far more important is the effect of food on body and brain. Grape-Nuts is not only a delightfully appetizing food, but is remarkably rich in nutritive values. from whole wheat and barley, Grape-Nuts retains all the nutrition of these grains, including the mineral salts phosphate of potash, etc.—so necessary for growth and repair of the delicate brain and nerve tissues, but which are so often lacking in ordinary food. Ready to eat from the package, with cream or milk and a sprinkle of sugar. A ration of Grape-Nuts along with other food helps wonderfully to provide a well-balanced dietary. "There's a Reason" —sold by Grocers everywhere. THURSDAY EVENING, BARRISBURG TELEGRAPH TUNE 4, 1914 Don't demand .xplanations after a quarrel. Misunderstandings may arise —try to ignore them. Recognize that two human beings look at one situa tion from totally different angles. And so what hurts or angers you may have been meant to give you joy. Whatever the quarrel, it is always the larger, finer, more generous soul that dares be the first to seek recon ciliation. This soul knows a Joy a more petty nature must always miss. Doa't lie Meek I do not advocate being so meek in the face of mistreatment or deceit or neglect as to invite abuse from a nature that is ready to take advan tage of simple honesty. In the aver age lovers' quarrel this is not the sit uaUon. Most lovers' quarrels are matters of hurt pride, inflamed vanity, temper, or a. desire to tease that grew into a real wound. What do you value, your love or your self esteem? Do you love your self with selfish pride or your sweet heart with generous kindness? The privilege of being the first to seek a reconciliation is a beautiful one. Go and generously offer to for get the past and see how generously you will be met. Two lovers once drifted apart. They met to explain and accuse each other of selfishness and temper. Then they wrote to explain, and because so in volved that explanations were more bitter than the original quarrel. And at last after months of silence that hurt both, the one who loved most (the man in this case), went to his sweetheart and said: "I love you. Forgive me for hurting you. Can you love me again?" "I loved you all the time, dear. I was wrong. Forgive me," said the girl, and fell sobbing in his arms. And his generosity has made her so sweet and loving that now their quar rels are made up before they start! Ne\%r hesitate to be the one to offer to "make up." You will be met half way, and win new and added love by your generosity. Diplomas Presented to Marysville Graduates Special to The Telegraph Marysville, Pa„ June 4. —On Tues day evening the tweny-flfth annual commencement exercises of the Marysville High School were held in the United Evangelical Church. Pro fessor H. F. Dillworth addressed the graduates on "Getting Out of the Ruts," and presented the diplomas to the class, in the absence of County- Superintendent D. A. Kline, who is a member of the State examining board in session at West Chester Normal this week. A feature of the program was the class song, composed by Professor Ira S. Rrinser and sung by the class. The. banquet in honor of the graduates will be held in the Masonic Hall on Friday evening. CHILDREN DRINK LYE Special to The Telegraph White Oak, Pa., June 4.—The twin children of John Ressel are in a seri ous condition from drinking a large quantity of lye. The mother prepared a solution to do some washing the floors, and the children getting hold of it drank a large quantity, terribly burning their throats and mouths. Milk was given in large doses until the family physician arrived, which was more than an hour later, and this is what saved them. Bianton Ramsey, of Craleyville, aged 3 years, while visiting' his grandparents at Bridge ville, got hold of a box of banner lye and ate some of the contents. Here the condition is critical, as he was found several hours after the accident occurred. SECRET SOCIETIES' MEMORIAL Special to The Telegraph Mlllersburg, Pa., June 4. Perse verance Lodge, No. 13 3, Independent Order of Odd Fellows: Mlllersburg Castle, No. 332, Knights of the Golden ! Eagle, and Syrian Commandery, No. 133, Ancient and Independent Order | Knights of Malta, will observe their j annual memorial day on Saturday | evening. June fi. At 6 p. m. the sev eral orders will meet in Market street and, headed by the Citizens' Band, will | march to Oak Hill Cemetery, where j they will decorate the graves of de | ceased brothers and companions. SERMON TO JUNIOR MECHANICS Rlain, Pa., June 4. —The Rev. J. C. Reighard, pastor of Zion Lutheran f'hurch, will preach the annual ser mon on Sunday evening to the Junior Order United American Mechanics, Rlain Council, No. 583. The members will meet at their lodge room at 7 o'clock p. m. to march to the church in a body. SEES nAV SEnas sSSSi KllmtfMßßWn LAi only' 25c ——————— 1—H*T—— ets; 20c value. lA. Friday only FXIR FRIDAY ONLY FOR FRIDAY ONLY FOR FRIDAY ONLY FOR FRIDAY ONLY | FOR FRIDAY ONLY Women s Blouses Trimmed HATS, JUNIOR WASH DRESSES Royal Worcester Cor- cq I Girls' Spring Coats Values to $1.25 For Values to $3.50 For For Gir f [ B 13 » 15 and 17 set, $1 Value Fsr .. . OiJC Values to $4.50 For /** nil Years: Regular $1 to ifl/t ° ne ,ot of women's Royai wor- I qc a hHp /kit *n n r 4*ll, <-ester Corset: odds und ends.; SI.OO I vWW £*OL SZ Dresses ror .... * /v v»i ue . Friday ca~ I „, „ only Oi/C I Pluni and red Norfolk coats; sizes 100 Women's new Spring Blouses: Made of Best Grade Gins-liams I <> to 14; neat black and white check all the newest .stylos: matte of Voile ~,0 1. „ ntn , v (kvr „ and Percales—in a good assort- ■"""I eoats; 2 to 0; eoats made of and li&ee low necks and drop I ' l '* ment of colors. FOR FRIDAY ONI A' I all-wool materials and extra big shoulders; all sizes: values l.tLu. /II • ll . . . I bargains, to $1.25. Friday only 69c WhltC (/Dip Women's Siik GLOVES, JA i " .. , __ F()R FRIDAY ONLY tl ftn y , p I FOR FRIDAY ONLY for Friday ONLY Hat», Values to $1 F« MEN'S HOSE, 10c r $ ° e , ••. Women', Gown., r« Untrimmed Hats. !Ae v.iueFor .... 3C Tl^„ -S v.i.,.t0 $1.25, for.. 3»C \r | . „ ' IVIA A(l/» 200 palrs of - Men's black and length: double linger tips: in black I One lot of Women's Muslin Values to 51.50 For * TJL colors; seamless hose; 10c ff and white; all sizes. For /IQ_ I (ionm; slightly soiled; Cq„ ___„ value. Friday only, a pair *•»*- Friday only, a pair "fC | values to $1.25. Friday only.. OiJC FOR FRIDAY ONLY a __ __ Suit, Coat and Dress Sale, $ /4.75 sls to $25 Suits—sß to sl2 Coats / 1 and $9 to sl2 Silk Dresses, '^"TT The Suits The Coats IThe Silk; Dresses A collection of 45 Women's and Misses' Suits, which Just 59 pretty Women's and Misses' Coats which I 55 Charming Silk Dresses of flowered foulards, taf so a season from sls to $25. All very desirable sold from $8 to sl2. Materials of black moire, satin I feta, silk poplins, Jap silk and silk messaline, all this materials, colors and styles. We suggest that you be lined, serges, crepes and mixtures, in dressy styles and season's styles, including the fashionable Russian on hand early as all of these suits should be sold be- the favorite swagger Balmacaan. You will surely a " d tie " d mod K e I ls - D< f rable shades ?" d P*" l * fore closintr time r , . , , l of blacks and navy blues. A surprise awaits you, as # g me - war »t one of the pretty coats, so be here early. many of these dresses sold for nearly double. Friday Only, Choice For $4.75 Friday Only, Choice For $4.75 | Friday Only, Choice For $4.75 FOR FRIDAY ONLY ——■——————■—■>« - Special Friday Bargainl 100 Women's Percale House SALE OF cwt,™ ,„ t | < colors? SI.OO. Friday'only... 59C «|J || oUI 1 U SIDQ I All 1 U vjirls White Dresses a* i pc « */ w WOMEN'S KIMONOS # At LeSS I Han 72 Value to SI.OO For JllSt in TilllG For Children's Day Remember These Prices Are JBBa 33c Note These Verv Saving Prices FOR mDAY 0m . . jsr a'si. MiM.SWTe y having rices M I ,r5 .. t0 .. 5, : 00 :...33c GIRLS'DRESSES GIRLS'DRESSES S"".* 0 . ....$2.50 1| 1 FOR FRIDAY ONLY Value to $1.50 For Value to $2.50 For 25 Men's and Young Men's H I i MEN'S SUSPENDERS qc; r $1.45 I I Suits, values d» O *7 C J & 11 ii 20c Value For Girls' Dresses—Nicely made and V • Girls' Dresses, made of sheer trimmed In Lace or embroidery; 75 Men's and Young 10 doz. Boys' Rompers, ■f f\ white lawns: nicely trimmed In lace made of white sheer lawns und or- . I I |f» or embroidery; all sizes; « QP gaudies; all sizes 6to 14. (-1 AC Mens Suits, B ° yS ' Khaki L'AEJJIiO, IT'/ A C Men's Suits, 7C Pants, value 17 FOR FRIDAY ONLY j| Values to $4, For .. . •m'*J I values to sl2,