Harrisburg telegraph. (Harrisburg, Pa.) 1879-1948, April 16, 1914, Page 8, Image 8

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Men and Women Love By Instinct
By Dorothy Dix.
A correspondent
asks those ques
tions:
••Why should a man
or a woman go over
all the reasons why
, he or she should not
love soino one, and
eJI tho equally forc
ible reasons why
[ some other one who
would be best and
wisest for him or
her to marry, while
he or she knows
. that he or she loves
and wants the unde
sirable party? In
short, why should
men and women In
love he like one who
Ilips u rotn to decide
a question, and
I when it comes down
heads abides by the
lail decision any how? Is this subtle
thing wo call intuition, or the sixth
i< nse. a better guide In love than our
roarsc und by uo means Infallible, rea
son?"
\ general blanket reply to these
ii'teries is that men and women love
by instinct, and not by rule. There
Is a mysterious attraction of the in
dividual. just as there Is an attraction
between tho ses.es, that nobody can ex
plain.
The wisest and most learned scien
tists cannot tell us why a man picks
home one particular woman out of all
Ilia <ether women to be his mate, nor
why a woman gets up and follows some
nne man to the ends of the world.
Nov do the man and woman know.
Ihemselveß. The wife and husband a
mar and woman have chosen may be
Inferior In every way to hundreds of
I'ther men and women with whom
I hey were associated daily. The world
may wonder at their selection, but to
the man and the woman there was
pnly one other man and woman In the
World.
The Tragedy of J.ove
It is part of the tragedy of love
D^es y° ur bab y
■■ $ as much
HPwvlh os Ae should?
IgVT, »«■ JH AKE his little legs and arms
as plump as they should
be? Is his little body rovmd
A and chubby? Are his cheeks
(&ZT S J rosy and his eyes sparkling
HA ffV I— Whin your baby la six montha
old ha ahould weigh twice as roach
as be did when born. At the and of
his first year he should weigh three times his weight at birth.
If your baby doea not weigh as ranch m he shonld, there is probably
something wrong with his food. A baby that is getting proper nourishment,
the right amount of sleep, exercise and fresh air, will be ruddy with health.
The beet food for baby is mother's milk. But if you can't nurse your
baby, use the one safe substitute and watch your baby grow strong.
Nestles Food
is the nea rest thing there is to mother's tall he should bo, what chest, arm
milk. The basis of NestliS's is pure and leg measurements he should
cow's milk from sanitary dairies. The have, how large his head should be,
indigestible curd meant for the etc. Measure your baby by this chart
calfs four stomachs —is made soft and see how he compares with the
and fleecy as in mother's milk, and modern standards of baby health,
the special baby needs, not in cow's Send the coupon today,
milk, are added. To prepare, just ——7———^—
add cold water and boil one minute. NESTUE'S FOOD COMPANY,
Send the coupon for a free box of WooJwortb Bids.. New York
Nestl^'s—enough for twelve feedings Pleaaeeend m«. PRES. your boo* and
—and our book on the Care of Babies trial package.,
—both free. The "Better Babies" Namt
Chitt will also be sent you. It tells AMreu
what your baby should weigh, hrrw
•J ufr 1 I Esaii m' ■, ~.iaC
DO YOUR OWN SHOPPING~|
"Onyx" Clf Hosiery I
Gives the BLST VALUE for Your Money |
Every Kind from Cotton to Silk, For Men, Women sad Children j.
Any Color and Style From 25c to $5.00 per pair
y Look for the Trade Mark! Sold by All Good Dialera. i
jjl Wholesale Lord & Taylor NEW YORK S
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Now Is the Time to Clean
With the Spring time conies cleaning time for
your draperies, curtains, chair covers, etc. You
know they are hard for you to clean. Save your-
a lot of work and worry by sending them to us.
We call for and deliver promptly. Both phones.
EGGERT, 1245 Market Street
Cleaning and Dyeing
Cea! Is Cheapest and Best Now
To buy coal now is to buy it at the cheapest price for which it can
1 " obtained during th*- year. And then you gain In quality, too for the
coal sent from the mliirs at this time of the year may he thorouehlv
screened befor- delivery. a difficult matter in cold weather when (Yost
will cause the dirt to rlinp to the coal. So to buv Montgomery coal
now is to buy the best quality of the best coal at the lowest nn.-e,
I'lace your order. ywwea.
J. B. MONTGOMERY
Both Phones Third and Chestnut Streets
SI,OOO REWARD
FOR THE
Discovery and
Russell Uh
llr illaappcurad from Wllkm-Hfi rv „• \ itrll 4, l»l 1 Thero i.
lirouf that hi. body I. Id «be - J,aVw" ita£ hto dl.«peir!
"nee a Ixwly hn* been con In tli<- r.irr 1,11 < n „ orcealoaa »V| " ' u
I 1.1, mikwllnrrr, ~r phono HS2 \\, HarrUburK.
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THURSDAY EVENING,
I that the head and the heart do not
always approve of the same person,
and that the one who fires our fancy
seldom comes up to our Ideal.
Thus a man. liefore he Is hard hit
by Cupid's dart, will toll you that the
woman lie marries must be Intelligent,
Industrious. thrifty, domestic. not
(riven to fashion or folly, and he will
hold ui) his hands In hftrror over the
very Idea of a man choosing for a
life s mate a giddy little thing who is
as pretty and as useless as a painted
butterfly.
Nevertheless, here comes along tho
little butterfly and tho next thing we
know the sensible man Is breaking his
neck chasing after her.
Or it may be u woman who is poor,
ana who hates poverty with all the
ferocious bitterness that a pretty
woman fools. All her life the girl has
loathed her squalid surroundings and
the sordid makeshifts that she has
had to contrive. All her life she has
longed for luxurious surroundings, for
pretty clothes and Jewels and all that
would make a proper frame for her
beauty. The sight of her narents'
struggle and her little sisters' and
brothers' necessities has wrung her
heart, and she has grown up with tho
fixed resolve to marry money if tho
opportunity over comes her way.
Finally It does. A rich man, who is
good and kind and generous and
not only to plve her all that she wants
but to be a model husband besides,
asks her to marry him. She should
by all the laws of reason bless all of
her gods for her luck and fall upon
his neck with devotion: but. alas! her
errant heart has gone Its own way and
bestowed itself upon some youth 'with
out a penny to bless himself with,
and who Is wild and wayward and
nothing that lier sober judgment com
mends. To marry him will nlunge her
deeper Into the slough of poverty than
ever, and vet he is the one that her
very soul cries out for.
\ M yatery
Nobody ran explain these things and
nobody can suggest a remedy, for when
the head and the heart espouse dif
ferent sides in matrimony there Is hap
piness in following tho lead of neither.
The marriage of reason where a man
marries a woman because she Is suit
; able, or a woman marries a man be-
I cause lie can give her a fine establish
ment. is n cold-blooded affair that has
I no more thrills In it than a Jelly-fish,
i and that palls 011 one's appetite like a
dinner of health foods. A women may
i have all the virtues under the sun, but
unless there Is something In her that
quickens a man's blood and makes his
throat get a little tight when he thinks
about her she will become the wearl
: ness of death to him. A man may be
a very paragon of perfection, but un
less every time she looks at him a
woman sees him through a rosy mist
I ol romance the bondage of her wife
j hood to him becomes iron fetters on
her that olauk In her ears as she
| moves.
1 Nor is there any way to change this,
ir men and women wyre not in love
with each other before marriage they
; do not fall in love with each other af
ter marriage, for matrlmonv is not a
promoter of romantic sentiments. It is
J«e fell destroyer of Illusions, when
: both husband and wife Inevitably see
I each other In their worst lights.
An Inevitable Conflict
There are bound to be conflicts of
opinion, clashes of temperament, days
I of taut nerves and Irritability, all the
sorry parade of little weaknesses, and
I vanities, and selfishness that disfigure
j poor humanity, and nothing else on
earth but that Inexplicable and lnde-
J scribable something that we call love,
■ and that makes one person's faults
dearer to us than anybody else's vir
tues, ono person beautiful to us, no
matter how disfigured, that can make
the touch of fever-parehed lips
sweeter to us than all the kisses of
flower-scented rosebud mouths, can
offset all the disenchantment of matri
mony.
Yet, on the other hand, if one fol
; lows the heart and disregards the
head, there Is only too often a hitter
awakening after the first rapture of
i love has spent Itself, for unfortunately
life is a very practical affair and ro
mance and sentiment are not legal ten
der with the butcher and baker and
; candlestick maker.
And. as Mr. .lames would sav,
"There you are!" Happy the few
: whose judgments approve their own
I choice!
I CON VICTS ABE BI IIDIXO
SCHOOL/ I <OK THEMSELVES
Special to' The Tegraph
I Columbus, Ohio, April 10. For
many years the Rev. Francis L. Kelly,
<>. P.. Catholic chaplain at the Ohio
penitentiary, has argued that the pris
oners should have the benefit of ele
mental Instruction and school train
ing. Now a two-story building of
stone and brick is being completed
for that purpose. Upon the ground
floor are ten schoolrooms, while the
upper floor is to be the Catholic
chapel, as well as the private office of
father Kelly, who has given nearly
twenty years of his life to work within
the prison walls. It has been under
construction for the past seven
months. The work has been done
entirely by the convicts.
I THE CHARM OF DICKENS
[ Where other writers have thousands
|of admirers. Dickens has millions. He
Is equally beloved by all classes, be
cause his stories go straight to the
heart.
He possessed to a remarkable degreo
the power to delineate character. His
people are regarded more as human
beings than mere characters in books.
And his tales! You open a book
and immediately a flood of delightful
entertainment bursts upon you. You
are unconscious of th<; effort of read
ing; you forget the printed page. So
wonderful Is the charm of Dickens
that you seem to experience the things
portrayed.
Where else will you find such lum
bering, comfortable old stage coaches
filled with such good company?
Where else can you enter such dear,
old-fashioned inns, pull your chair be
fore- a rousing lire and pass the even
ing with such jolly companions?
In what other books will you find
such vivid contrasts? Here tho most
joyous of humor, there somber tra
gedy. Then passages of infinite ten
derness, followed by scorching denun
ciations of laws and customs that op
press the poor, the downtrodden, tlic
weak.
The debtor's prison, the almshouse,
the thieves' den, the foundling asylum,
quaint corners of old London, rural
old Kngland, Paris seething in the grip
of the French revolution; you see
them all.
Finishing one of his books is like
parting with old and deor friends; you
cannot remain away long, because
Dickens is one of the few authors you
enn read over and over again, each
time finding new Interest and charm.
TUXLEH AT LANCASTER
Ira B. Bixlcr, grand chief of Knights
ol the Golden Eagle of Pennsylvania,
went last night to Lancaster, where he
will confer with the general commit
tee from Lancaster castles in regard
to arrangements for grand lodge ses
sions in May. Grand Chief Bixler,
Tuesday night, was the guest of Pride
of Cambria Castle at Johnstown.
It Kills 'Em Dead by Contact
or Drives 'Em Out—by Odor
"In Tim* of Peace Prepare lor War."
p^™™I)(SECTIIjJ
if Non-Explo«lv«
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Amy Reliable Dealer
bcOM "tuccttM." :
Ln from Cellar to Garret I
TOII CANT BRUSH OR'
WASH OUT DANDRUFF
The Simplest and Quickest Way Is to
Dissolve It
The only sure way to get rid of
dandruff is to dissolve It, then you
destroy it entirely. To do this, get
about four ounces of ordinary liquid
arvon; apply it at night when re
tiring; use enough to moisten the
scalp and rub it In ently with the
finger tips.
Do this to-nig'.it and by morning
most if not all of your dandruff will
be gone, and three or four more ap
plications will completely dissolve and
entirely destroy, every single sign and
trace of It, no mater how much dan
druff you may have.
You will find, too, that all Itching
and digging of the scalp will stop at
once, and your hair will be fluffy, lus
trous. glossy, silky and soft, and look
and feci a hundred times better.
If you want to preserve your hair,
do by all means get rid of dandruff,
for nothing destroys the hair more
quickly, it not only starves the hair
and makes It fall out. but it makes
it stringy, straggly, dull, dry, brlt- -
tie and lifeless, and everyone notices j
it. You can get liquid arvon at any !
drug store. It ia inexpensive anil 1
never fails to do the work.—Adver- ,
tiseincnt.
HAJUUSBURG TELEGRAPH
TAFFETA IS FAVORED 1
FOR BUSTLE SKIRT
Either High or Normal Waist
Line Used For This
Model
}217 One-Piece Skirt, 22 to 30 waist.
WITH BUSTLE EFFECT. HIGH OR
NATURAL WAIST LINE.
Drapery at the hack that conveys the
suggestion of a bustle is new and smart
and here is a skirt that shows it handled
with unusual success. The drapery is
arranged to form pretty folds at the
front and width over the hips and, inci
dentally, the skirt is all made in one
piece, so that it can not mean much labor.
Beneath the upper portion, there is a
smooth fitting yoke and the skirt is slashed
across the back to allow of plaits and
folds. The model is an excellent one
for the taffeta that has taken such a firm
hold upon the fashionable world and
almost all the fashionable silks and
crfpt's and it also is much liked for the
spring suiting materials, for the model is
equally smart for the indoor gown and for
the street costume. Since the finish can
be made at either the high or the natural
waist line, ail figures can be accommo
dated. Taffeta is the material illus
trated and taffeta seems to suit the mode
peculiarly well.
For the medium size, the skirt will re
quire yds. of material T],2% yds. 36,
44 or 52 in. wide. The width of the skirt
at the lower edge is I yd. and 14 in.
_ The pattern of the skirt 8217 is cut in
sizes from 22 to 30 inches waist measure.
It will be mailed to any address by the
Fashion Department of this paper, on
receipt of ten cents.
Bowman's sell May Manton Patterns.
"Then Are Matty Causes For An
Infected Breath" Say
Madame Ise'bell
"Some Come From The Stomach
And Some From The Head"
THE BREATH—Part I.
Carelessness, X believe, is the basis ok
most eases of offensive breath. This
means disregard of perfect cleanliness of
the mouth and nose and of the fundi
mental laws of physical hygiene. By
carelessness I alsy Include the neglect of
overcoming some passing cause that may
taint the breath.
Other cases of offensive breath come
from physical causes that are sometime*
deeply rooted and difficult to cure. When
recognized they may be overcome, and.
In any case, care will mitigate their un
pleasant effects.
Clean the Teeth Properly.
Anyono desirous of keeping the breath
•weet will pay strict attention to the con
dition of the mouth and nasal passages.
Brushing the teeth Is not sufficient. The
mouth, the gums, the tongue should be
wiped dally with a piece of absorbent
cotton. The throat should be gargled.
Learn to clean the teeth properly with
en up and down movement of the brush
that will get between the teeth and dis
lodge particles of food. Never go to sleep
without being sure that the teeth are
absolutely free of any food particles.
For this purpose a tooth brush Is rarely
sufficient and dental floes is necessary.
Pay particular attention to any artificial
attachments in the mouth. With some
bridge work It Is possible to pass the
dental floss between the bridge and the
gums and keep the space clean in that
way. If this is not possible, provide your
self with one of the small mouth sprays
that dentists use.
Remember that particles of food left 1b
the mouth will ferment and cause not
only an offensive breath, but rapid decay
of the teeth.
A pleasant wash for the mouth to be
used after the teeth have been brushed,
and dental (loss used and the mucus
wiped from tongue. gumß and roof of
mouth Is a few drops of ttneture of
myrrh In a half glass of cold water. If
there !B any reason to suppose that the
breath Is tainted, make this preparation
a little stronger. Gargle the throat and
rinse out the mouth with It as well
Catarrh.
Catarrh Is a frequent cause for offen
sive breath. Many cases of this trouble
some malady are cured by the systematlo
practice of deep breathing and absolute 1
cleanliness of the nasal passages. I be- 1
lieve that children should be taught to
wash out their nostrils morning and night
with soapy water, inhaling a little of It !
Into the nostrils and expelling It. Per- 1
feet cleanliness of the nasal passages Is ■
the best protection against head colds !
snd catarrh and the best guarantee that
the breath Is not tainted with any odor <
eomlng from he head.
In the following lesson I will take up :
the subject of offensive breath due to '
disturbances of the digestive trsxit
|| message
from
jjj I is now sealed with
j "SEAL OF PURITY." J
P The mint juice is kept fresh. Not the I
H tiniest atom of anything can get at it It's fl
m\ sealed so tightly that it's even waterproof. W
I J No wonder it's always so dainty and de- i V
V licious besides beneficial to teeth, breath, y
appetite and digestion. h
yi " ,T " TT BY THE BOX i
for 85 cents |l
at most dealers. ||
contains twenty 5 cent pack- AT
rhey stay fresh until used. Y
can, pure, 11
(LEY'S. Look f<M^he^sp^i%^f
RETURNED FROM SOUTH
AMERICA
Special to The Telegraph
"Waynesboro, Pa„ April 16.—Mr.
and Mrs. Frank Barnett, who have
been spending the past ten weeks
touring South America, returned to
Waynesboro yesterday evening.
Mr. Barnett says he does not see
much show for Americans In Brazil
or Argentine, as the countries are on
the verge of bankruptcy and taxes
are exceedingly high. In some places
they were required to pay a tax on
every receipted bill they received.
Prices of staple articles are very
high.
BUSINESS SHOW OPENED
Special to The Telegraph
Lebanon, Pa., April 16.—Yesterday
the Lebanon business show was
opened under most favorable auspices
with the largest number of exhibitors
and the finest display of merchandise
and industrial wares in the history of
the annual show. The affair is be
ing conducted under the auspices of
the Lebanon Board of Trade, with
Secretary Frank P. Hammar in di
rect charge.
The Favorite Breakfast
jgf Amour's "STAR" Ham
/■I I or Bacon, j uic X rich
noSS ' th C [f SL the famous
yj«
APRIL 16, 1914.
FIRE DESTROYS HOUSE
Special to The Telegraph
Lewistown, Pa., April 16.—An oil
stove accidentally overturned at the
home of Mrs. Fannie Wilson yester
day, causing a conflagration that strip
ped the house. The house, a frame
structure owned by W. S. Dellet, was :
almost totally destroyed. Mrs. Wilson
was packing her goods to move, and :
a man by the napie of Wayne Sher- 1
wood, who was to occupy the house, i
had stored some of his goods there.
A portion of the goods of both fam- I
ilies was destroyed.
MONEY FOR CONFERENCE |
Special to The Telegraph
Wilson College, Chambersburg, Pa., !
April 16.—The Y. W. C. A. of Wilson'
College gave an entertainment for
the benefit of the conference fund, j
The affair was directed by Ruth 1
Campbell, of Marlon, Virginia, as |
chairman. The association is working
hard to raise its money for the sum- j
mer conference.
Work is going forward on the lit-!
erary contests which are to be held
on April 18. 25 and 27.
SMALL BOY SCALDED
Special to The Telegraph
Marietta, Pa., April 16. —Lloyd
Ney, aged four years, son of Mr. and
Mrs. Reuben Ney, residing on tha
Engle farm, near town, is in a critical
I condition from being scalded. While
: the mother was preparing the even
j ing meal she went into an adjoining
| room, and the lad crawled upon the
J coal bucket and pulled a teakettle of
| scalding water over his body. His
.lower limbs are frightfully burned and
i there are a number of Internal burns.
FUNERAL OF J. Q. A. WOLFE
j Funeral services for John Quincy
' Adams Wolfe, the aged Civil War vet
| eran who died early Monday morning
|at his home, 101 South River street,
I from hiccoughs, took place last even
ing at 8 o'clock at the house. Tho
I services were in charge of Post No. 58.
They attended the services in a body.
' The zody was taken to Shermansdale,
Perry county, this morning by Under
taker T. M. Mauk & Son for burial.