FASHIONS FOR THE FALL. The Mjles in Millinery and Gowns That Hate Approval Shopping in Paris l)re-slnc Yrctty School Girls French and Unglisli Xotlonn. There is a great tendency to use fancy feathers in trimming the toques, turbans and capotes worn this fall, which is S5kIA probably the natural outgrowth of the at tempt in the spring to trim with wings, says a Ifcw York fashion writer. The novelty in millinery tf&s&'.e i-2". &s! 7iC-35KS sjsa Ukak j. silks up to the pres- &W$ (f ent is Ehadcd velvet slfi"rf "i'SlSs; jinr! ratin antiaue. and catin antique. mw Among the notice able combinations are mousse green and lavender, and DcniiScason Bonnet pink with dove gray. Boscttes about the diameter of a two-shilling piece are mounted on pins for the hair. These rosettes are made of narrower ribbon than the bows, whereas the diamond in the midst of the double circle of loops is oftc larger. The capote shown at the beginning of this article is composed of three bandeaux cov ered with black velvet, joined to one an other only at the sides. The foremost one Is draped with dark red velvet, and orna mented with two long jet wings; a red vel vet bow is placed at the middle, caught down with a jet butterfly: a similar smaller bow is n the band at the back, to which the narrow black -velvet ribbon strings arc at tacked, and a half-wreath of pink roses is mounted on the niiiMle band. The illustra tion ii from Harper's Bazar. The Truest Parisian Novelty. The vcrv smartest thing in the way of millir.erv'that Paris has to offer, writes Marie joureau to the Boston Globe, is a fhcater.toque in low turban shape, to be frank, nothing more than a mere crown covered w ith white velvet, embroidered in gold, a great tw i--t of rope of bricht scarle-. velvet sunounds it, ending in a knot at one side near the back, out of which stands up a high loop of scarlet vcl et thrust through with a golden dagger. I think I should be supremelv happy if I could see this exquis ite thing on some girl with very fair hair. Veils are worn long, extending below the chin in fold: They match fhc.colorof the hat or bonnet, and are of every kind of .gauze and tulle, with all sorts of objects scattered over their surface, from stars and crescents to horrible little velvet spiders. A lancv for wearing the veil is to tie it in a Tiuge bow knot at the back and let the short ends s-tand out airily. "White point lace veils are considered very elegant, but they hide the features too much. A frock that seems vcrv popular in Paris just now is a greenish blue crepe dc chine robe, with a Greek border embroidered in silver. It is very simple, but exceedingly rich and daintv. 'The low-cut corsage is crossed in front and brought down to one side: the sleeves are lull and to the elbow; the skirt is fourreau and trimmed with the silver border. The gloves to be worn with this gown should be of the same greenish blue, and the slippers of siher. A woman of anv tvpo of beauty could wear this gown with goo"d effect, although it w ould best be come a bright-skinned, dark-haired woman A Young lady's Crepon Gown. Pink cropon relieved by bands of wide moss green c vet ribbon is the material of the pretty gown shown here. The skirt is s iniplv hemmed at the bottom; the top of it is deeply shirred at the sides and back, and completed by a fitted velvet belt. Tiie bodice, the else of which is slipped into the skirt, is mounted ery full on a plain lining. It is girdled with velvet ribbon, twice across the front and once on the back; the puffed sleeves are banded tw ice with velvet, and velvet is used for the collar and wristbands The costume for a girl shown herewith Is becoming lor the ages trom 8 to 12. The home dressmakers will have no trouble In selecting a material that will work up nicely in the design shown. A French costume i also shown inthisdepartment It is made of white ba rege, with red spots. The jacket is of red material, with collar, cuffs, waistband and cravat of white surah. It is very attractive for Indian summer wear. The reception toi let illustrated is of black brocaded peau de soie in a lame fish scale pattern, with jet for trimming, The pointed bodice has a ehield shaped front, edeed with narrow jet Crepon Gown ralloon and ornamented with droD trim- ruing; it is cut down at the throat and filled in with folds of net, with a flaring Stuart collar at the bick. A jet-trimmed panel is in the right side of the trained skirt, and there is trimming across the foot of the front A diagram pattern of this skirt is given by Uaqier's Bazaar. Correctins the Styles. Ladies will be doubtless interested in the Information that at Cwes the Princess of ales sets the excel lent example of wear ing skirts that never touch thesrround.nnd boots of business-like qualities, the soles being thick enough to repel the damp, and yet not so thick as to render them heavy. The Princess wears the neatest possible scree suits, the skirts A French Costume, quite plain, and the bodices made upon a tightly fitting founda tion of silk, worn with a belt of the same material as the blouse, which is generally composed of surah. The Princess' coats are as neat and smart as every other gar ment she dons and adorns. Sometimes she wears a white serge, lined with scdet silk and trimmed with white braid, the form being that of a feminized peajacket. The present fashion of short trains for evening dress or toilets of ceremony is ex tremely graceful, says the .New York World. Instead of the long train cut separately from the skirt, added on to it from the waist and hanging down and trailing on the ground like a carpet, we have now a train rprcading out at the back, but forming part of the skirt itself, gradually enlarged at the foot in the shape of a bell, Otcourse, a dress of tulle or gauze cannot be made in jyf" this way, but a handsome silk dress is ex tremely elegant arranged, in this style. Such a dress makes a lady look taller and slighter. At the Bon Marche, There is scarcely anything the feminine heart desires that cannot be bought at the Bon Marche in Paris. A clever writer thus describes a visit there: It is all so bewilder ing, the'splendor and the crush, and I look about for that precious redeemer, the fldbr walker. Dear me! such an exquisite thing to look upon as he is, with his pretty hair and mustache and his killing Parisian ways. I have to look at him a long time before I make up mv mind to address him and ask him "will he direct me to the gantery?" "Oui, madamc," and it is done with a deal of splendid ceremony; he thanks me for asking him and bows to the floor when he leaves me. Bless me! what should we do with him in Pittsburg. But the fashionable gloves they are pearl white, not pure white, they are passe lor street wear, but a deep bluish pearl with rough edges and black embroidery down the back and large gilt buttons. Some nrefcrwhite stitch ing instead of the black, and I do not know that it is not Erettier, too, but othare the very height of fashion. Then come the quiet styles for Uiose who desire them in tans and reds and grays, stitched with scar let about the edges with wide em broidery down the back th'e color of the glove. The Russia leather gloves are to be worn again with (.rpnt fnvnr. and Reception Toilette. are the finest of winter gloves. Evening gloves are worn much shorter to show the elbow, and they are chosen to match the gown or some part of it Pink is very pop ular, and pale green and mauve to go with the fashionable frocks of those colors. They have very long fingers and are very loose about the wrist and arm and meant to wrinkle. Some of the most expensive grades are perfumed delicately, and are as fine as tissue paner. They are all very cheap and very tempt ing, and one always buys a great many more than one really means to; but then it is so delightful o buy things at the Bon Marche. and one may do it so peacefully, too. You buy a pair' of gloves (or, rather, two to three dozen pairs), and, presto! a smiling Frenchman is at your side, telling vou softly to "come this way." You fol low your leader mutely and wonderingly till you come to a desk, where you pay your francs and centimes to the book keeper, who sets it down in a huge book and gives you your change, if there is any for you, and in the meanwhile somebody or other does up your parcel and thanks you, and all'is over without a bit of noise. ' Dressing for School. The opening of school brings renewed cares to the mother of growing girls and boys, and sue needs must renovate, if not make new clothes for early falL There may be some to re model; for such I would recommend taking the dress apart and washing (if necessary) in tepid water and borax, says Virginia in the Home Maker. A tpblespoonful to a pail of water has been infallible in my experience lor re moving grease and general soil. But and the but is a big one don't let wools dry too long. It you wash one piece at a time, and that gently (as you should do), by the time the last is'done the first will A. Girls Costume. be ready to iron; that is, if you wash, rinse and hang up eacn piece as you go aiong. Even if all parts of a dress are not soiled, it is better to wash all, because any color will fade a little in water. It is best to wash even new pieces, which gives the whole a like tone. Good material, care fully washed, will come out like new and may be enriched by some fresh goods if not sufficient to make a dress entire. Skirts will continue plain and full. For girls over five feet tall the width is about three and a half yards. A narrow ruffle set below the edge is neat or a, bias facing, bias bands from an inch to four1 wide, or rows of sutache, or hercules braid are good to shorten the length of the skirt, which Ehould reach to the ankles, a length which may be maintained until young" ladyhood is "reached. "Waist trimmings are various and pretty. Bre telles are cood for slender girls, while the surplice is better for stout ones. The blouse and jacket, open and sleevelessj will be again popular, as it gives opportunity for different colored blouses with the one skirt Then, too, while weather is variable, the jacket may he removed on warm days, and resumed when going out The silk blouse is, of course, dainty and stylish, but it does not seem wise to dress a girl in silk for school. That should be left for later days. Iteantles for the Bride. Prospective brides will be interestedin the pattern trosseau dresses, among which mav be mentioned an elegant dinner one of brocaded white satin, savs the fashion writer of ike Eivning World of Xew York. The train is long, and round the front of the skirt hangs a very deep handsome gold fringe. The bodice laces at the back, and is a low square, much ornamented by heavy gold embroidery, of which also the long Bleeves are composed; these appear from a dranerv of white crepe de Chine. Along girdle finLhed off with gold fringe adds an artistic touch to the tout ensemble. Then there is a reception gown of grayish blue woollen crepe do Chine. The bodice has two long coat ta. 1r, whilst the vest is of white habit cloth with gold embroidery; and the sleeves have bell-shaped cuffs. A pretty tea gown is of striped satin and crepe de Chine over white silk, a graceful train falling from the collar. The angel sleeves have epaulets of Indian embroidery, which also forms the panels from which a full front of crepe de Chine is seen. A long opera cloak is made of cream Algerienne, a golden tint being lent to the same by the rich orange surah wkh which it is lined. A becoming gold Marie Stuart collar renders it a stylish garnunt The cloak is bordered with cream feather trimming. THE BEAUTY DF THE SEA Aa It Appeals to Bose Hawthorne Lathrop at New London, Conn. THE HISTORICAL ASSOCIATIONS. Picturesgue BriTes and Enchanting Tieirs of the Blue Surface. THE ANNUAL UNIVERSITY BOAT EACE rCOBIlESPONDEXCE OP THE DISPATCH. New London-, Sept 10. New London harbor is generously handsome and gener ously safe. Groton and New London lie on either side of it; and on either side of it stand guard two warlike acclivities, or rather gentle forts, of which one is Groton's with its memory of courage; the other New London's Fort Trumbull, with its still beat ing pulses, fairy bugle call and the flag. It is exhilarating to live in a historic region: it is delicious to forget the exact facts (there are bloodshed and agony about exact historic facts) recorded in the town chronicle and to know that they can take care of themselves and will thrive for all time, while we jog about in the atmosphere of brave deeds for our little hour. In New London and Groton Benedict Arnold burned the houses of his friends and, commanding the British, overcame by deputy a garrison of his countrymen where now the Groton Jon Griswold, its teeth and claws drawn, sinks close to earth like a worn-out lion. MONUMENT TO ARNOLD'S VICTIMS. "We point to the monument (beside Fort Griswold) which marks the martyrdomof Arnold's victims, and tersely tell how its towering shaft measures his folly as it measures their pathetic renown. His dep uty, supposed to have been a Major Broin field or Bloomfield, seemed to have become maddened by the unholy and deceptive spirit which possessed Arnold himself; for when Colonel Ledyard of the fort surren dered his sword," Bromfield seized it and plunged it up to the hilt in the officer's bosom. Over the foot or two of ground where so much unmilitary cruelty was perpetrated by the Englishman upon the American, is a slab of stone with the inscription stating the bald truth. Somehow, as the words are read, one almost believes that a ghost trem bles past, leading a train of still more shad owy forms. A wholesale massacre of the beseiged ensued, and a few of the fright fully wounded men were thrown into a wagon and rolled down a steep and rocky hill, until stopped by a tree which inter vened upon the road. The shock of this collision sent forth a shriek' from the suf ferers that was heard across the broad river in New London, in spite of the din there of sacking and burning. WHEKE XATHANIEL HALE TAUGHT. And in New London one of the stauncb est men who ever threw off life here for verity in heaven Nathan Hale taught school. The little old house he taught in, raised on stone and winking its wide-hung roof at you with old-fashioned good-nature, exists at a stone's throw from the busiest point of the informal city: it is the quaint visible evidence of a story as sublime as it is simple, as heartrending in its ungar nished conciseness as many; other tales of American courage, which it would have puzzled Homer to sing in bejeweled lines, for want of the gods: those allies who s6 ornamented ancient verse. But if it is exhilarating to live in New London-becauseofits early importance.it is doubrv so for its cool summer breezes (Von Humbola pronounced us iieauuiui ness superlative); its radient, though roguishly frowning weather, and its pageant of shipping. Shooting back and forth upon the azure harbor go the yachts; some lovely with their sails and angelic motion; others' under the ban of steam, and, however smart and slim, doomed to an ugly materiality of common-sense. Farther off" are the half de fined ships beautifnlj beautiful, and seem ingly unconcerned with the interests of the world; but sailing slowly away into the future, the future beyond the line, for which they are bound. ITS BUGI.ES AND ITS GUNS. The naval station is farther up the river, which is fittingly called the Thames, And there is a touch of unique value in the spot which dispenses to its inhabitants the morn ing and evening bugle notes of its fort, its sunrise and sunset gun, and the great boom of the salute of cannon at dusky 9 o' the clock evenings. Moreover, we always have the 9 o'clock' ringing of the First Church bells, because New London remembers its honored age and its age-long customs, as Salem does also. But of the earliest days there is but one wooden house of consequence standing, spared by Arnold's fire; it is the home of the Hcmpsteads, of which family Stephen Hempstead was a member, he who shared arduously in the defense of Fort Griswold, and afterward wrote an accountof the en gagement The house yet keeps itself visi ble (tall and liigh-shouldered) invisibly among the gaudy paint of some modern town dwellings which elbow up to it Its wood is gray and silver; its unshnding ave nue of EDarsa trees silver and broken: its path bordered by hoary sheila which have known storms as well as itself. Hush! did some one shiver by its doorstep or was it only an aspen tree mournfully bending in the wind? Such questions spring 'to the lips before a dwelling which' is so vision like and so unforgctting. ATTRACTIONS OF THE SEA. There are moods in which the great blue and white of the dangerons waters give us the zest we want, as we sniff the salty frig rance of them, and again there are moods in which we ere worshipers of mother earth, turning inland to the hills; such as Mon adnoc, changing colora artistically and gracefully moving through shadows, and up heaving curve and precipice with Herculean ease. To me the mountain, nevertheless,is peace and the valley inaction as compared with the bluster and glow of the seaside. Herejiuman beings" can awake to such a pitch of energy that they are expected to sail even when they are seasick and to swim even if they cannot; here the sunlight and the ocean are in league to dazzle finite eyes, into submission, and the roar of the waves on days of autumnal storm says to us tran sient creatures, who find the winds ringing with the sound, that we are strangely small. Of two admirations the sea has com pelled my chief homage, and I gratefully live beside it Poetic as are the heights, the sea is more poetic. The captain of a sloop is more poetic than a farmer; the gull than the robin; the shell than the rapidly bloomed flower; the lighthouse than the railroad tower of signals. And, bybe way, New London Light house rises white as a Dominican nun be fore the wild nature of the sea, looking toward dangergrandlyjrcady while the world is swamped in cayety; ready while the sky is fair for the peril which rules her human span. WHITE BEACH IN THE SUN. Off shore, poetic, runs upon the vision from nowhere the pearl-sailed catboat, un intellectually susceptible to any suggestion of the wind; incapable of angry flurries as it bends earnestly to any quarter; pretty always, suddenly gone.- However, there is a time when White Beach (as yet patron ized chiefly by New Londoners alone) is deserted, or at any rate is only visited by the enthusiastic, and the boy or two who bathe all day long. Scorching under the piazza of one "of the many bathhouses, one's eyes shut automatically to a line and one's nose becomes disjointed by the glare. It is the sea's hour, when its light is'too fine, its ships too bright, its home of skv and cloud too resplendent for the mortal capacity of man. If one ventures to intrude, the jocund sun laughs in one's face; and, lo, one is confounded. But by 2:30 the light mod erates, and gets more behind the wooded inland of nicturesque Alewife's cave, and itself looks off to the ocean, giving a chance to us to drop brown glasses and novels, and PITTSBURG DISPATCH, to emerge from roofings, and to do nothing but gaze and swim. Leave the town in. a carriage for the beach, driving past some opulent residences (one being Mr. Palmer's proud white man sion, once visited by Washington), Pner avenues of elms, and through the inevitably plain barter region; and when once beyond the-arch of the railroad the sea puffs wel come us, and there befalls a sight of blue repousse water and sparkling sails, and a gray distance at the harbor mouth. ALONG BEAUTIFUL DRIVES. On the right side of the harbor the hilly border, called the Pequot road, which is usually the favorite route, makes a frame to the marine picture, and partly shades the way withdts elms and maples and summer boarding houses and dwellings. To the left of the road a few willows and other tracery divide the water scene into sections. Still further to the left, on the Groton side of the Btream, extends a drive reaching to the farthest point of the shore. Perhaps the "Atlanta" or the "Gushing" are enthroned nearly in mid-stream. Perhaps the white winged New York Yacht Club is dropping in, and with a toy peal from its successive guns, "flocks all by. itself ' in spite of Dup- There is the Ocean road, on the ridge of 1 the hill, from which is seen a broad and noble view, belittling the shipping. Then there is the new wide Boulevard, which glances comprehensively at the river, and being nearer to it than is the upperavenue, gives one a better outlook, yet misses the perfect wonder of the view of the Sound and Fisher's Island, and dim Long Island, to be gained at the terminus of the Ocean road VBut there is a charm about the drive close besides the water, first described, which changes but does not lessen at differ ent contracted points. A FOURTH OF JULY'ILLUMINATION. Upon the Fourth of July the loyal fren zies of the day are often crowned by an illumination of the yachts which have an chored beside New London. I once saw the delightful scene under the cloud-adorned effulgence of the moon. Many colors and forms of fireworks begrimed the alter nate darkness and whiteness spread oyer the river mouth. In the void of shadow under the hill opposite, a skeleton fleet was sta tioned upon the purple water, which was cobwebbed with silver and color. And the yachtsmen aboard the radiant skeletons sent up into the,deep well of the sky sprays of momentary splendor. From many distances ashore an answering array of curving color responded, and a band somewhere was heard everywhere. As for the exhilarations of New London, there is certainly yet another. The inter collegiate rowing contest is to be endured and honored. The shops burgeoa into sig nificant tints; and a red orablie dress is always supposed to be intentional, after the arrival of the first boating men. The town heart beats for a week for the races; and when the day of the University struggle between Harvard and Yale comes the town eagerly hastens in its best clothes to endan ger its life upon the unprofessional observa tion train, which jangles and bumps along; or upon the river craft which flops one sidedly and in full scream after the contest ants. THE UNIVERSITT BOAT RACE. And, in the meantime, the boys glide to the finish half invisible as monotonously mechanical as good training can make them, and outrageously overtrained. Yet a Uni versity race is precisely as thrilling and ad mirable as are all things strenuous, brief, desperate and triumphant. After the vic tory the city street of exchange nearly ex plodes. The noise of rejoicing sometimes ceases not until the next day. The collegian word of awesome import finds himself a free agent possessed of popular sympathy, and he does all he knows now to deserve to be feared. Occasionally" the lucky collese. ' whose men win the race, has its band and its dervisn nance tnrougn nignways ana oy ways. It always had its battle-cry, arid conflagration of sticks and barrel staves; and often its destruction of chairs and crockery, just as in medieval times the wine goblet of a King was dashed to the ground that no plebian lip should touch it after him. All of a sudden the red lights and other sulphuric blazes and the common crackers die away; and we have lived through it all but the college boys are gone. The luscious sunny day, the gleams of river, the wooded hills, close a chapter in their story with yells and bombs that are a trifle hideous, but when the students have departed we express our fondness for them; we look at the photographed groups of them in the shop windows; we regret that we must forget them. PLEASURES OF THE RESORT. The "summer people" who come hither have a life almost entirely their own; but I am sure there is the best feeling between the residents and the visitors, and there is some exchange of civilities. For not yet has the fashionable world dealt with our town as it has with Newport, where there is a crowding out o.f the nest in "the season" almost cruel. Edwin Booth once made White Beach his favorite resort Another exquisite and strong artist has lately lived for weeks beside it the poetess, Edith M. Thomas. The army and navy officers stationed here for a year of or so at a time with their fam ilies bring variety into our daily life By their gay energy and pleasant sociability. Th'e old whaling trade that made one of its broadest marks here has been succeeded by other industries, which in some cases fetch at least a 50 per cent profit. There are silk mills, ship building yards, adjacent granite quar ries and a manufactory or two besides, which succeed in making no disturbance at all. Richardson's genius is exemplified in the new library building it is a jewel of pretty devices and clever designs, in the great brick railroad station, Norman arched, and in anewschoolhouse, the William Memorial And the country scenery is magnificent. Rose" Hawthorne Lathrop. DEPEW'S EAILKOAD NOTIONS. A Traveler Take Exception to H(j Claims for American Superiority. Detroit Free Press. I had a meal on Mr. Depew's road the other day which cost me a dollar. I gave a quarter to the colored waiter who brought me the dollar's worth, and he looked' at it as if he had never seen such a small coin before and wondered what it was used for. He little suspected that I usually have my midday meal for a quarter in Detroit Now, Mr. Dcpew, let me tell you what hap pened to me a few weeks ago on one ol the despised Government lines in Europe. I took the morning train from Basel to May ence. The conductor after taking up my ticket, gave me a slip of paper on which, was printed in four languages the following information: I was to tell the conductor whether, at a certain point, I wanted din ner, and if so, how many of them. The dinner, the paper went on to say, consisted of three kinds of meat, roost chicken, three kinds of vegetables, bread, butter, cheese, pudding and a half bottle of either white or red wine. The cost of this would be slightly over 50 cents, and all this in a country where provisions are very much dearer than they are in America. There were two of us, and we ordered two dinners. The'conductor pasted the figure "two" on the window of the compartment When we came to the place where the din ners were to be had, waiters came rushing along the platform with the dinners on woodens trays, which the paper aforemen tioned said would serve as an excellent table for two people by merely sitting opposite, each other and placing the boaid upon their knees. Exceedingly clean table linen ac companied the spread. The tronble with American railways is that they seem to look on a traveler as merely a victim to be fleeced. Giving the Snap Away. -YTuhlngtoaPbit. A New York paper deolares that no Washington correspondent would be able to hold his' place if he were to turn his pen loose and describe all he sees and hears. This is sheer nonsense. The great trouble with the average Washington correspon dent is that he describes about 60 per cent, more than anybody else sees or hears. SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 13, MEN NEED TR4INING. The Supply of Good Husbands Is Short, Says Bessie Bramble. BOYS SHOULD BE TAUGHT BETTER. Their Ambition for Statesmanship, Art or Science Is Secondary. TURNING THE TABLES ON" GEITICS tWBITTIS FOE THE DISPATCH. There never was a time in 'the world's history when women were more persistently lectured and harangued than at present It is assumed that they have been going wrong ever since the world began, and what they would come to, if let alone, the heavens above only know. If they show a desire for an education they are presumed to be running right off the track prescribed, be cause, as they are incessantly told, it is their special business to become wives and keep house, and that it is of vastly more importance that they should be able to cook and do housework, and devote themselves wholly to the service of their husbands. "There is practically but one vocation for women," says one of these critics.- They are born to be wives, and the duty of a wife is to care for the home of the husband, who cares for her." This being true it follows that men were born to be husbands, so, as thousands of men on testimony of the same writer.do not marry, because they cannot get wives up to the dimensions of their pattern, it is plain to see that men as well as women are as far away from fulfilling the purpose for which they were born as are some of the sisters. turning the tables. Men are born to be husbands, therefore they should be trained for that vocation in such manner as will make them good ones. It should be drummed and dinned into their ears from boyhood's sunny hours to man hood's higher day, that sooner or later they must settle down into husbands, and that they may well fulfill this destiny, all else must be made secondary. Education in book knowledge is all very well, and not to be despised, but to be well grounded in the chief end of man being a husband and making a wife comfortable and happy, is better than being a senior wrangler, a big general, a profound statesman, a great financier, a golden-tongued orator, or a gor geous millionaire. Of what account is a highly accomplished man, or one who can talK in 14 languages, who can impose upon the world by his magnitude of mind, or fill the sounding trump of fame with a deathless name, if he makes his home and wife unhappy by his lack of training as a husband? Socrates, the "father of philosophy," has been set down as the most perfect example of a wise and virtuous man; but he was evi dently not well trained for a husband, since he spent his time mainly in talking. In stead of working at his trade and being a good provider, he gadded around the public gardens and frequented the corners of the streets talking to any and everybody that would listen to him or submit to his cross questions. no -wonder HIS "WIFE scolded. Instead of making things pleasant for his wife, and devoting nimself to her comfort, he became one of the most ardent admirers and most devoted friends .of the famous Aspasia, whqse house he frequented for philosophical diseussions. He carednothing for anything beyond the necessities of life. By the measure of these days he would, by the practical people, be considered more of a loafer than an industrious citizens, and more shiftless, perhaps, than sensible. He did not pretend to be a teacher, but devoted himself simply to talking, or, as says some one, ''to prattle without end." His phi losophy shows him to havebee'n possessed of great intellectual powers, and his historians laud and magnify him as ".he most excel lent and happy of mankind." It is the general belief that his wife was a terrible scold and made his home unhappy, but it must be seen that if so sae had ample provocation. Philosophizing is all very well, but it does not keep the pot boil ing or the cupboard filled, as Xanthippe had full reason, it would appear, for knowing. Then what woman, save an impossible an gelic ideal, conld accept with meakness and patience a husband who, while possessing largely the "gift of the gab," had no talent for getting on in the world. Like .many another intellectual man,he was not trained to be a good husband. It is more than likely, too, that the Grecian matrons of that elder day did not enjoy having their husbands running aroundnfter the beautiful Aspasia and other brilliant and intellectual women, while they were shut up to the do mestic companionship of the pots and pans inthe Athenian kitchens. Moreover, the report of the biographer, Zenophon, shows that the story of his marriage being a fail ure is exaggerated, since the testimony of Socrates himself is cited to prove Xanthip pe's possession of the highest domestic vir tues, and also that he entertained for her sincere regardand respect CICERO'S MATRIMONIAL AFFAIRS. Terentia, the wife of Cicero, was a woman of talent and intelligence. She had not been trained to be meek and submis sive and confine her mind and powers to her house alone, but had her own ambitions, and, as Cicero himself relates, "she took a greater part with him in politios than she permitted him to have in domestic affairs." With her he secured a large fortune. Upon this he lived comfortably for many years at his handsome country seats, and enjoyed the society of philosophers and men of letters. Finally he went into politics and poetry. That he had not been trained to be a good husband true and faithful to his marriage vows to love, honor and cherish nis wife until death should them part his alter life shows, since when, after SO years of her companionship, he divorced Terentia and married his young ward by whom he secured another great for tune. He based this despicable action upon the score of his wife's temper, extravagance and neglect But since he had endured these without complaint for 30 years or more, it tan hardly be thought that he Bad great reason for such an extreme measure. All of his charges were denied by Terentia, and that Cicero himself was to blame is shown by his marriage shortly after to se cure the large fortune of a young wife. "He repudiated his wife with whom he had grown old" a blot upon his character which his most arden'. admirers have never been able to whitewash. , THE CASE OF DICKENS. But it is not necessary to go' back to the ancients for example:. Charles Dickens in these modern days is shown to be almost another Cicero. His friends apologize for him upon the ground of the irritability, of the literary temperament, of the sensitive ness of Dickens, and his intolerance of the dullness and indolence that grow, as Ed mund Yates puts it, upon the middle-aged mothers of large families, but the truth of the matter seems to have been that he had not been trained to be a good husband, and to a knowledge and understanding of his responsibility-in maintaining the happiest conditions of domestic life. Dickens had his faults, as have all men and women, but common sense and regard for the mother of his children should have prevented the pub lic exhibition of their domestic infelicities, which stamped Dickens himself, with all his matchless genius, as vain, selfish and intolerant. When the wives of famous men are left to grow accustomed to neglect, when they discover that the flatteries and adulation of the world have more charm than the fire side, when they are made to feel that vanity and arrogance are taking the place of the old love and attention, it is -not wonderful they beoome indifferent and care less. A man who values his wife's good opinion and love has got to show himself worthy of them. Pope writes of "the good like Socrates," .but it is likely thatXan- 189L' thippe had small opinion of the use of the godliness of a man whose philosophy, how ever profound, provided no adequate in come for the support of the family and left her to the loneliness of a neglected wife, while he paid court to Aspasia or Theodite. JOHN -WESLEY WAS TO BLAME. The wife of John Wesley has been held up to the reproach and contempt of all good people for her temper and her tantrums. What is said of her by all his biographers may be trne. . That she made his' home un happy and his life miserable is perhaps a fact But the trouble -was probably owing to his not having been trained to be a good husband. No wjfe, even of the most saintly or angelic character, could have endured his "goings" on with patience or submission. The gospel of free grace which he preached with so (reat eloquence and effect, which carried joy and gladness into so many hearts oppressed with sadness, was doubt less dulled to his wife by his lack of atten tion and his failure as a husbancL. " Any woman who reads his biography can under stand the shortcomings on his part that gave edgeto her temper and acid to her tongue. A wife should be a keeper at home ana be a loving and obedient subject to her lord and master as he preached, but, with human nature as it is, nobody can suppose that Mrs. Wesley was happy when her "John" was traveling around the country with Grace Murray, even if she was only a sister in the Lord, and bent only upon missionary work. He had not been trained to be a good husband, or he would have put him self in her place, and have thought how he would have liked it to be left alone, while she went upon journeys to preach in com pany with handsomer and more agreeable men than himself. CARLYLE'S OWN TESTIMONY. Carlyle had not been trained to be a good husband. His own mother, knowing his temper and selfishness, said ''he would aye be a hard man to live with," and how true this was he frankly sets forth in bis "Rem iniscences," when all too late for aught save repentance and regret How far he with all his powers of mind feU, short of being a good husband is fully shown, not by com- Elaints and charges upon her part, but by is own testimony. He shirked all re sponsibility for domestic happiness. It was nothing to him that she toiled like a galley slave for his comfort, to shield him from all annoyance, to cover him from all distress. He thought nothing of what she went through to make his life smooth, to pre serve him from bores, to allow nothing to distract his mind or disturb his temper. It was not in him to consider whether she had any Bunshine in her life or not. He was of the opinion of the critic that her vocation was to humor his whims, to suit herself to his dyspeptic temper, to stand between him and .every thing that was unpleasant He had no duty in the matter of their marriage, in his opin ion, save to furnisn the bread and butter, which was made bitter indeed by his neglect and indifference. But, while she fulfilled to the utmost what the critic esteems the duty of a wife, while she smothered her ambitions in the carking cares of the kitchen, while she wore out health and strength in the storm and stress of house keeping according to the code, while she bowed down to "the irritability of the lit erary temperame'nt." it has been made evi dent by her letters that she was possessed of intellectual powers that if exercised would have earned more dollars than did the ponderous writings of her husband. Her talents would have been used much more fitly if she had deputized her powers in the kitchen to abler hands. TWO SIDES OP IT. i Good husbands are as badjy neerled as good wives. Mothers are held respcnsible lor the training of the latter, but both fathers and mothers from the riches of their experience should as they value the wel fare of their children train their sons to be good husbands. A vast deal is told, and spoken, and published as to the duty of wives. Kudrin says: "There is not a war in the world no, nor an injustice but you women are answerable for it; not in that you have provoked, but in that you have not hindered. Men by their nature are prone to fight; they will fight for any cause or none. There is no suffering, no injustice, no misery in the earth, but the guilt of it lies with you. Men can bear the sight of it, but you should not be able to bear it" There it is! There's the original Adam for youl The world lieth in misery, the earth is going to destruction. Marriage is a failure they say. Happiness is a delusion. And aU because the woman will not act up to what she ws born for. All because she is not trained to be a wife, not educated only to keep house, not willing to sink her self absolutely into a femme covxtrti". Good husbands make happy wives. Happy wives make happy homes. Happy homes give all of the solid bliss there is in life. Good husbands are greatly in demand, but the supply is short How to make it longer is at present a question more mo mentous than how to make domestic martyrs for the advautage of selfish men heretofore held as gospel teaching. In the first place, women should refuse to become martyrs, and in the second men should be trained to become good husbands. Many men have that nobility of feeling which concedes to their wives the same freedom they claim for themselves, but there is still ample room for a further advance in enlightenment and civilization in. this matter. Men need to know that coercion kills love and destroys domestic happiness. They need to know that to enjoy the best of life they must deal out more generous slices of the golden rule. Bessie Bramble. BLOWING OUT A tJAITDLB.' Soma Novel Tricks That Anyone Can Perform In the Home Circle. St. Louis rost-Dlspatch. There are many ways of blowing out a candle and there are ways a candle can be placed so that it can not be easily ex tinguished with a pnff. The 'most startling though, perhaps, the most dangerous way of putting out the flame is by a quick, strong inhalation of the breath a short distance from the candle. It will appear as if the flame had been literally swallowed. To learn the 'trick it is first necessary to learn the proper distance from the face to hold the candle, but this can be done after one or two trials. Another pretty trick with a lighted can dle can be done to show the peculiar way air currents will travel. Place the candle oil a table and in front of it and a few inches away put an ordinary bottle. Blow , directly at the bottle. It will seem as if you blew right- through the bot tle. A variation can be made by using two Dottles instead of one. Place the bottles side by side, about a quarter or .half an inch apart BJght behind the space between the two bottles place the lighted candle. If the distances are properly adjusted they can be so arranged that it is impossible to blow ou't the candle by blowing through the spaces between the bottles. There is an other trick which is likewise as interesting. Take a round disk of cardboaid, or one of the common tin side shades and hold it be 'tween your mouth and the candle. Then blow right at the card and you will find tBat the flame of the candle will bend to ward you and the cardboard instead of in the direction yoirare blowing. The Birthday Bines Detroit Free Press. A fad of the hour with gift bestowers is the birthday ring, to which the long cher ished "friendship" has given place. "The demand forhe birthday ring," said a lead ing jeweler, "is almost as great as that for the souvenir spoon, and the tendency to no tice the significance attached to the various stones is even extended to engagement and wedding presents. The prelty superstition about a gem being sacred to some particular month prevails In the leleotioni. Wk BELLES OF THE SEA i After Their Oatin? Are Enjoying the Delights of Shopping. COMING "WEDDING OP A BEATJTT. loung- ladies' Schools Are Now Teaching the Art of Marketing. THE ORNAMENTATION OP THE HAIK rWBITTEU FOB THE DISPATCH. J There is something majestic in the way in which New Yorkers sweep back to their homes in the autumn. For the past week people have been rushing into the city at the rate of 10,000 persons per day! If one could be suspended sufficiently high above Manhattan Island to gain a view of the rail roads centering here for 100 miles out on every line, what an interesting spectacle to watch these processions of steam wagons slipping along to a common rendezvous! And the influx of this army has been accom plished with so little friction that, except for the brief crowding at the city's gates the ferries and the railway stations the domiciled citizens have not noticed this stupendous home-coming. The streets of New York, however, begin to show this mass of arrivals and the shop keepers have discovered that a goodly pro portion of their feminine customers are with them again. And how eagerly lovely woman begins the round of buying once more! Fall shopping is one of her dear de lights. She has been for some time de prived of the pleasurable occupation, and she has come home destitute "not a decent gown left," she avers, though she looks very decent indeed as she tripsrom one counter to another. She is the picture of health from her outing, her. eye is gratified with the gay autumn fabrics spread before her and her artistic sense alert and stimu lated with the pleasurable difficulty which a choice of their profusion offers. There Is a subdued excitement in her mien. She steps rapidly and joyously as if she were full of cneerful commissions, and she is evi dently very glad to be at home again. Miss Sallie Hargons, the well-known beauty of New York and Newport, who Tuesday next will at the latter place be come Mrs. Duncan Elliott, has enjoyed a long and brilliant belleship. She is about 27, and, since her debut eight years ago, has had the fashionable male world at her feet. It is said she has refused more titles than any girl in New York society, "preferring, most sensibly, an American husband. Her beauty is so purely Andalnsian that she is frequently accredited with Spanish ancestry, and the fact that her father accumulated his fortune in the Mexican banking business has helped this notion, but actually she is French on her father's side and Irish on her mother's. While not one of the tremendous heiresses of the day, .she has about a mill ion of money in her own right, and, as her coming husband is rich, though not startlingly so, the pair will have enough, certainly," to keep the wolf well away from the door. Miss Hargous dresses in exquisite taste and has a liking for Spanish effects, white and gold and black and white, with droop ing plumes and billowy laces. The wedding ought to be a picture, as Mr. Elliott is a tall, fine looking fellow whose manly grace should well complement the rare beauty of his bride. "" o Fans, any of the flexible woven gTasa ones, procurable at an art store, make.pretty hanging flower holders twisted into a cornu conja and fitted with tin pockets. Toilet sets in white and gold with mono gram in gold letters on the side of the pitcher, and at the bottom of the bowl as well, in some cases are popular, but not altogether pretty. Monogramming, if one may be permitted the word, all one's belongings is not considered good form. Table and house linen and the family plate may show the combined initials, but it is neither effective nor in good taste to repeat them indefinitely throughout the furnish ings. A much more beautiful and artistic toilet set has a mermaid in the bottom of the bowl, with sea grasses spind ling up the sides of the pitcher, and for the smaller pieces groups of tiny shells in moss. If one is skilled in china painting most beautiful results may be obtained by pur chasing a plain white set and reproducing upon it some of the suitable aquatic designs published by the various art journals. Benevolent matrons are beginning to think and work for December fairs for their pet charities. A gleaning from some of the summer fetes offers profitable suggestions. For a variation of a church sociable a Jap anese tea is an attractive scheme. The idea is not a novelty, but its carrying out has been so much abused that a successful and correct Japanese tea may be set down as something new. A young woman described one of these affairs last spring with more trnth than poetry: "I have been to a Jap anese tea," she wrote; "it was a very Amer ican supper with nasty little paper napkins to wipe our mouths with." But they do not all fit such a description. If the "tea" is to be in a private house the parlor may be hung with large Japanese umbrellas from which tiny lanterns hang ing, add much to the effect. Then beg and borrow all the lacquer work cabinets and tables, Japanese screens, panels and hanging banners feasible, and dispose them about the apartment Coax the loan of a flowering almond tree from a friendly flor ist and in tall Kioto vases put bunches of the artificial flowers that -any Japanese store can supply. Put the assistants in Japanese costume, serve tea in bine and white china, and cakes and fruit piled on lacquer trays. Tne Japanese paper nap kins will have to do service, but by sending to some large center pretty designs in these canbehad, For a limited private enter tainment beautiful cloths and napkins can be made by the loosely woven momie cloth, fringed and embroidered in red and blue tracery. A table for the sale of pound packages of tea, Japanese nuts and sweet meats, fans, ivories and various bric-a-brac ENDORSEMENTS: "I have examined Dr. Price's Delicious Flavoring Extract and find them to be of rare excellence." PETER COLLIER, Chief Chemist Washington, D.C. Department of Agriculture. "We haye much pleasure in bearing our testimony to the flavor, aroma, and fine quality of Dr. Price's Delicious Flavor ing Extracts. We find them to be of exceptional purity, and free from any deleterious substances." T.HOMAS HEYS, Professor of Chemistry, Toronto School of Medicine. PETER J. RICE, Analytical and Consulting Chemist Toronto, Canada. Ontario School of Pharmacy. "I 'find by analysis, Dr. Price's Delicious Flavoring Ex tracts, Vanilla, Lemon, Orange, Almond, Rose, eta, to bo made from true fruits, of perfect purity, and excellence of flavor." J. M. LONG, Professor of Chemistry, Chicago Medical College and College of Phirauufk 13 affected by the almond-eyed Orientals adds! to the effect and receipts, and may be read ily stocked on commission from any Jap anese store. The latest addition to the curriculum of the young ladies' school is that included in the list of things taught in one of the New York seminaries, viz: marketing. Once a week the boarding pupils are to choose and purchase a dinner under proper tutelage, which shall comprise in variety that needed in any well regulated establishment Inci dental to the round among the butchers', grocers' and fish stalls will be furnished practical information and object lessons in the art or science of house marketing. And perhaps the graduate of this institution will not order ''roast veal" sent home, nor go to the baker's for "sweet breads," as young housekeepers have been known to do. It is a good beginning. For hair ornaments steel, gilt and silver are especially suited to dark hair. The woman with fair hair should wear amber and clear tortoise shell; she may for even ing use jeweled ornaments and some of tho fancy Parisian novelties on occasion. A cluster of green sweet water grapes, which is a new mount, looks well in light, fluffy hair, but would show most distress ingly against dark or black locks. French womenregard their hair ornaments with great attention, taking as much care to suit ably complete the coiffure toilet as that of the corsage. Except against a beautiful neck there is no part of a woman's costuma where gems may be so well displayed as in the hair. The question of flowers at funerals has for some time been properly settled. Family friends provide them with occasionally an offering from some intimate, closely as sociated with'the beloved dead. Set pie,ces are not now regarded with favor and are rarely used except in the case of a united testimonial, as from a club or society. A box of loose flowers is considered in tha best taste to send to the house of mourning and custom no longer decrees that the blos soms shall be only white ones. A wreath of brilliant scarlet flowers was laid upon the casket of a young society girl, whose sad death recently, by drowning, threw a wide circle into mourning, and roses of every hue are frequent accompaniments to the funeral palL For elderly persons a classic wreath of glossy laurel, or two or three of the long sago palm leaves tied together with wide purple, is a correct funeral offer ing. Wedding ceremonies as well as the "sin ister pageant of death" have fatten on much of color. Bridal white applies only to the bride herself, tne decorations of the rooms or church and the gowning of the bride's at tendants showing a riot of color. At a recent society wedding in Saratoga the maid-of-honor and the bridesmaids all wore frocks of white chiffon trimmed with rib bons of red velvet, and Gainsborough white hats with long red feathers. Dainty red shoes went peeping in and tint, not like white, but red mice, and buncfltn of white roses with a single red one. m each were carried. Miss Forbes-Leilte's much talked of London wedding was a yellow one with, however, a white wedding bell that was a novelty and delight to the English guest who had never seen one. o English women have returned to square shoes, but the Piccadilly pointed toe is still preferred by fashionable women this side the water. White stocking8,Balbriggan and silk,have been worn this season with white shoes and white and light muslin or cambric gowns. Does this mean a return to white stockings with black shoes? It is to be hoped it does not Broad strings, and it is said, very long ones, reaching perhaps to the very nem of the skirt, are a feature of imported autumn bonnets. French women use tan undressed kid gloves in deep mourning for traveling and shopping wear. Margaret H. Welch. Bonny Jeems. FMUdelpbla Press. I. Come, Gentle Jeems, and sit by me; I'll tell you many things, Of Knights so hold and castles old. And mighty fairy Icings. it Of ladles fair, who live in air, And Imps who dwell in caves; And mermaids rare who comb their hair Beneath the briny waves. Oh, In my store, I have far more Of wonders than you'd think. I AU jewels bright, deep hid from slrtt, rv. But deep they're stored, that treasure hoard, Where nono I know may peep; But yon may look within that nook, Though only when yoa sleep, y. Bo np to bed, you sleepy head, My bonny, bonny Jeems, And I will make the fairies take .My darling there In dreams.. A Practical Lad. Bob Burdette In Philadelphia Press. "Why should we not cry oyer rpillel milk?" asked the teacher. "Because," replied the favorite scholar, "we can recover about half of it by going to the nearest hydrant" m J