HhHKEHhHHHHHBHhHBBHH 'WSsSfwSaSWWiSfE'lESSKl"- yyynwK.yqgwiBFWPWW ?MS'TTa,"y-,-i''st t- J - "S'Eacm;s sg,-.gOT 20 - . '., -Br P'??- KS . " ' w-jv ? k, s"" -- , - , i &&WB ' 9 ;,; - - .jsk.: - ,- . L- IOVING HUSBA5DS GONE ASTRAY. Some of the 4wfnl Cruelties Perpetrated Upon the Gentler Sex Throneb Mon's High Opinion of I1U Own Judgment Hlnta for Pretty Simmrr Costnmes, rSTEITTEX FOB TBS DISPATCH.! OW few men there are that can suitably select wearing apparel for women, and yet there are men who seem to en joy buying more than Riving the wife money with which to make her dress pur chases. I think I 1 1 this frequently comes from the mistaken idea on the man's part, that he can and will buy more economically than his wife. There has been so much jesting in regard to the ? " "extravagance of women that men have come to religiously believe in it Once in a while a man will be heard to say: "Well, I must admit my wife can drive a better bargain H than I can," but the man who makes that i admission is the exception that proves the rule. However, I think ;s wife would hardly appreciate the compliment fie no doubt in tended, for no woman of refinement ever tries to "drive a bargain" by so much as: "And that is the very least you can take for it?" Neither does she "fib" to getaway from an importunate clerk; nor buy what she does not want; she simply examines the roods, inquires the price, buys if it is what the needs, aud is, in her opinion, worth the money; bat if it fall short in these regards so amount of blandishments will induce her to make the purchase; she simply smiles upon the clerk for his trouble, aud with a "thank you, this is not jnst what I want; I will look farther before deciding," passes on to another department or out of the store, leaving the clerk as unruffled as if he had made the sale, and wondering why every person cannot know what they want and be courteous when trying to find it. I HOWJLlLiXBUTS. When a man enters a store it is with a . mind made up to buy, and to bur on short or der, and the first thing shown him that comes any wars near answering to his demand, especially if the clerk assures bim "it's all the rage; can't keep enough in stock to sup ply the demand;" pays two prices for the ar ticle, then hurries home to tell his wile it took him iust ten min utes to make the purchase and then he wi 11 want to Wager the price of bis investment that she would Lave spent the entire morning in the store be fore sbe conld bare settled defi nitely upon any one thing. The fact that she groaned in men tal agony when she sees the color one she knows will be ruinous to her complex ion; one she has alwars avoided os she would a pestilence and that she shows bim a purchase she has made that is better suited to her; of better quality and cost less money, does not prevent him from doing the tame thing over again when the pur chasing mania next takes pos session of him; for it is not woman alone who, convinced against her will, is of the same opinion still, as the rhrmer would have us believe. And what did he bur? Ten chances to one if the purchase was a dress and in tended to be an elegant one, the material was plush, velvet or silk, and the color peacock-bine or flaming redl He has a penchant lor high colors, and as to quality, it never enters his head that a cloth dress can be considered elegant, or that they are as ex pensive as silk. TAKE THIS, TOE IS STANCE. A few days since several ladies were in a millinery store examining and discussing the season's supply ol oddities in beadwear, when our intention vias called to a man raptly gazing at the display in the show window. While we were agreeing that bis thoughts at the moment would be worth wore to us than the proverbial penny and theorizing as to his probable choice, if we were to make one, ho surprised us by stepping inside, aud not the least confused by the three pairs of eyes, black, indigo and butter-milk blue wnieh were leveled upon him, an nounced with no more embarrassment than it' be were buy ing a tile for his own good looking head, tbat be wanted to bny a bonnet for his .wife. Wben the lisa 1 es w o in a n en- 'quired if he saw anything be liked, be answered with a mind made up that there was one in the window thatpleased bis lancy; that be had seen a girl on the street with one something like it and it was quite the i prettiest he had I seen. ih xuw luis man was tine lookinc, fault I lesslyd ess d.appir enuy between tne ages of 40 and SO; evidently a man of means and indisput ably refined in man ner, therefore imag ine our horror when instead ol the love of a grav bonnet with pink flowers he desig notedas'ashis "Inner," tin immense wide spreading red crape bat, with gilt and jet trimmings. I don't think any of us breathed while the saleswoman was taking that thing irom its rightful place among the show hats; but one of our number, having Jhe courage of her convictions, thought to 1 $ tCKjflK3Rft4f Mmm autJfi If ;P fill ' 'Ji riTTTTltS MSBBm wKmm m wmssjm m vm&osxr Mfllll Mm ItoSa m ml IX tlMr Wmm nj&z& tV itf" nE0& mmiMtjp K I i, . . I Sfeai "i " A.urv. aaLjdueVjL" aiti'-Mf Ti f-vt prevent such a millinery tragedy by timidly suggesting the hat might not suit the shape of his wi'e's face nor her complexion; that different faces required different shapes and different colors, and it he would give usjin idea of his wife's style we might assist him in selecting. HAD HIS OWN WAY. Whereupon he described his "lawful pardner" as very small, with, a face a little thinner than this one, point ing to the thinnest, but with thanks to us, we were kind, etc. be would buy this one.. And he did, and paid a price his wife would never have been asked to pay. He added that he never liked his wi e's bonnets; tEey were too grave, al ways black or brown or gray, aud shaped like that one pointing to the material poem in pink and gray, the thing of our idolntry. Then ne knew the worst, and every woman's heart among us went out in sympathy for the poor, little thin-faced wile, mother of his children, who doubtless would go be hind the gift to the giver and for loTe of the man, respect for his taste, ridiculous though she knew it was, and caring more to be pleasing in his tight than in the eyes of all the world besides, would don the red ca ricature and wear it with what grace she could, though she lelt that she was outdo ing any freak ou exhibition. But after all has been said wasn't it sweet of him and flattering to her? Wasn't it proof that she was still young to him; no older than the day they were married; prob ably about the age of the girl with the other red hat whom any of us would have wagered was not over 20, full-faced and fresh-colored. By the way, according to Madam Modjeska, if the red hat had been the right shape for the thin face, and the owner, of a suitable age, it might have been as becom ing a color as she could have worn. This actress is credited with the statement that red worn below the face deadens the com plexion; worn above, heightens it. There fore if one is wan-faced a ' red hat or a clus ter of scarlet tips will, cheat Dame Nature and shame the rouge box. WHAT HE DOES KNOW. But bless bis heart! the average man knows when the ensemble pleases him, though he cannot tell you wherein lies the charm; and if you want whole yards of furs, just indnce him to describe a toilet which ,he has told you was a "stunner." If it is not red, blue, black or white, the chances are against his knowing the color; and if the material is not of silk, then he is not certain just what it is; but he knows all abont the way it was made. It was frilled and ruffled and plain all at the same time; it was "bitched up" on one side and hung down kind of like this (here he demonstrates) on the otber. The waist was the prettiest part. It was "awlully" trimmed; it had pleats and some pieces in ront that lapped over each other, aud a buckle and some of that what-you-call-it trimming named after tbe tower, "don't yon know." Ob, yes, ribbons and plenty of them but no buttons yes, he was sure of that no buttons; any way, none that he saw. And yet, if there is one subject upon which the average man thinks he is well in formed it is the subject of woman's dress the average man, I said. Another woman says: "What Horace Greeley thought he knew about farming, and what General Grant believed he understood about finan ciering, are insignificant wben com- Eared to what every man is positive e knows abont woman's attire!" GBAY THE POPULAR COLOB. Apropos to gray and suggested by the gray bonnet this color, while always in taste, was never so universally worn as at the present, and tbat by old or young, nor combined with such a variety of colors. The mania for matching from top to toe can he indulged in saiely and with cratiiying effect without the least suggestiveness ol monotony. The illustrations to-day are of two pretty models for light-weight summer fabrics. One is a steel-gray India silk made up with velvet a shade darker and decorated with steel bead ornaments; a close fitting bonnet with twist of gray crepe about the face, sur mounted by a steel ornament. Another is of rose-gray nu n't- veiling worn over guimpe ot surah silk, same shade, ornamented with fancy stitching, herring boue or briar design. A band ot the surah relieves the plainness ot the top skirt; a ribbon finishes the waist, and terns the butterfly bows on the shoulders. The hat matches the costume perfectly in tone gray straw, faced with tulle, trimmed with rib bon and tips, all in the same rose gray. In granting license to her grown up children to wear the guimpe the mother of fashions haa been particularly considerate. This comfortable style has hereto ore been the prerogative of very young people, oulv. It is a style forwhich to be deutly thank ful in view of tbe hot mouths to come, when it can be made of lace, the all-over embroidery and any ot the numerous sheer, summer labrics or of light-weight silk as in case of the nun's veiling costume, than which no more, charming arrangement both in regard to beauty and comlort could be planned. Meg. BEDECKED HITH POSIES. Jnne Millinery la Gnrniabrd Wllb Flower So Perfect That They Almost FeiTonie Ibe All Hati for Matrons and Ollaaes and Baby Boy The Picnic Straw. tWBITTES FOB THB DISPATCH.! -j-TJNE, the. month weddings and flow ers, witnesses an entire change in stylish head gear and a great multi plicity of gorgeous conceits are exposed to the gaze of the bean monde. Apro pos of tbe coming "outing season" the modistes are pre paring the dainty, ethereal and fragile creations known as tennis, picnic, seaside or neglige chapeaux. For tennis, the jaunty joli sailleur is pre ferred, and these are simply trimmed in a band and bow of wide fish edged ribbon, silk mull and quills or a scarf ol surah or creoe dc chine. These should never have ties and are to be worn only to and from and during this most fascinating game. The Dicnic hats are light in weight, light in color and light in texture. The gav and pretty miss, with hr so t, clinging woolen dress, fresh complexion, loosely coiled hair, and broad, flapping brimmed hat, presents a picture of native loveliness. These hats are or chip, hair braids, Milans. lace braids, husks, moll Or French crepe, and are trimmed in crepes, mnll, ribbons and flowers. At the seaside resorts will soon be gin the influx of summer visitors, and their promenade hats will receive much admira tion, and the selection as to their appro priateness will be the first consideration. As feathers and damD tea sir do not take kind- ly to each other they are entirely out of the -. j question, and we look elsewhere for our stylish garnitures THE BOSE IS QUEEN. Large bats, straight or bent in fantastio forms will rule the modt. The rose is easily the queen of flowers, and clusters of these far-lamed beauties - are bunched and sprayed upon the brim or careless ly falling off at the back. Let who will proclaim the merits of the lily, the laurel, the tulip, or the peony, when the rose-apnears we drop allegiance and defer to her claims. Boses are so various in color, so' sweet in their fragrance, so wonderful in their beauty, and so charmingly adaptive are their habits, blooming as radiantly by the cottage dbor as in the palace garden, that all the world is glad when tbe roses open. The lovely Baltimore belle, which grows in palest blush clusters of such abundance, tbe crimson Jacqueminot, tbe snowy Mabel Morrison, the blush moss rose, and the old fashioned, ineffably iragrant double damask are so closely copied from nature as to flatter her by the delicacy of their structure, and, seemingly, to distil upon tbe hat all of the attars of tbe East A famous New York tielle recently wore a hat bedecked in roses plucked from her hothouse beds, aud ber appearance in public created a furore of While Leghorn Flat. admiration. Among the new colors lately produced is a red which is almost a purple, but which is much brighter and richer than the dahlia shades of last winter, and is named after Louis XIV, ana its combina tion with a warm, vivid yellow is rather startling at first sight. HATS FOB THE CHILDEEN. There is no very marked change in chil dren's hats this season. The sme pictur esque broad brims, shading golden curls or dark, waving locks, bend as if burdened under their weight of wreathed flowers or feathers and loops ot ribbon, and the same sailor hats are worn by boys. Fine straws in dark and artistic colors, such as green, brown, heliotrope, old rose, lichen-green, gray and pale cream, are selected for girls of all ages, in low crowned shapes with ex tremely broad brims, and the garniture is usually a wreath ot flowers, such as lilies of the vallev, buttercups, dandelions, daisies in alf colors, apple blossoms, or mixed flowers, such as poppies, daisies, buttercups and field grasses. t Wreaths of ostrich feathers, in matching, contrasting, or mixed colors are used in stead ol flowers on many hats worn by young girls, from 3 to 5; girls from 6 to 11 wear flower wreathes; and for older girls, bunches of ribbon loops fastened on with long fancy beaded bat pins are otten tbe A Prelly Fancy. preferred garniture. The little narrow brimmed sailor, with a tarpaulin crown, has obtained a firm hold upon the affections of the young misses of tbe school girl age. Wide-brimmed sailors, in white, colored or fancv mixed straw, trimmed simply with ribbons, are worn by bovs and cirls br play hats, and blue or black Tam O'Shanters are worn by bovs for traveling, boating, etc, as they are not likely to be ruined by occa sional lapses overboard. A TM-COIiOBED FA2TCT. The combination of three colors or three shades of one color is a striking fancy in London and Is greatly admired by fashion able American women. Green, gray and black, tan, green and black, red, yellow and pale blue, pink and two shades oi green, white, gray and black, heliotrope, yellow and purple, and red, gold and black are twisted in ropes around the crown and trimmed in three bows of the same shades at the back. Bed, gold and black wa one of the favorite combinations for the costumes of Mary Tudor, the mother ot the unfortu nate Mary Stuart, Queen of the Scots, and is much worn by the Spanish women of to day. Charming garden hats for little girls are of pink, blue, heliotrope or white lawn shirred on reeds in a round crown, flat brim shape and trimmed with lace-edged rnch- A Garden Hat. ings and rosettes of the same. Modifications ol these pretty hats are made for baby boys, and have wide lawn strings to tie in a bow under the chin. The little woolen caps are worn by girlc for tricvling. A noteworthy summer hat, which was de signed by an artist and must have been sug gested by a poet, looks as if it had been woven in an old fashioned flower garden ot twigs thickly set with thorns. Over the open lattice work is a long spray of lilacs, white and purple, tied here and there with soft lilao ribbon. Hovering over tbe flow ers is a small gray bird. Tbe whole effect is wonderfully spring-like and dainty, and is especially appropriate for a lovely young girl. A large yellow rustio straw picnic hat, which is interesting as a freak, is bent into an eccentric shape, and is stylishly trimmed at the back with yellow poppies and a bow of satin striped gauze ribbon. Ora SeajET, Parisian Man Milliner. Sirs. Kondnl'o Proposed Book. As soon as Mrs. Kendal has said "How d'y do"" to her friends in London, she pro poses getting out a book all about the late visit over here. It is to be called "The Kendals in America; or, What I Had Better Lelt Unsaid." Queen Vlrtorin'a While Fentbrr. Queen Victoria is not the sort of woman to scream at the sight of a mouse, and yet she always shows the white feather in pub lie. It is a dear, early, little ostrich thins I, a.DDliet', by the court milliner. 3 "U i ECONOMY IN COOKING. French Epicures Find American Dishes Poor and Extravagant. A LESSON FKOM ME. DELMONICO. Ho Pood So Expensive as That to Which Little Thought is Given. KECIPS AND HOUSEHOLD HELPS. rWElTIXjr FOB THB DISPATCH. 1 The French, as a people, are universally allowed to stand highest among those of our civilization in the knowledge and practice of economics; and while tbey have the rep utation of being tbe most fastidious, the most critical and refined in the choice use of delicate and tempting dishes, ther at the same time have the reputation of being the most frugal and the most provident. It is not so inconsistent as it might seem, for these apparently antagonistic characteristics are only apparently antagonistic. The Frenchman, who having made a tour of the States has reduced his experience to writing, or submitted to an interview, can not desist from giving his observations on the cookery as be has found it in our public houses. These observations, often given in good faith, are seldom flattering, and are always critical. Two things he chiefly no ticesfirst, the lack of perfect' cooking,-and next, the needless extravagance in its preparation or serving. In France, we are told, good and savory food is prepared from articles we would not think of using here. For example, the combs, gills and lower legs of fowls are used to give body and to impart flavor to many soups and hashes, much to their im provement. It is an open secret that many a French peasant's wife would make bounti ful and substantial meals from the daily waste in the kitchen of the majority of American workmen who live on monthly wages. TWO tVATS TO BE ECOHOMIOAL. Care and good judgment are to be exer cised, not only in tbe selection of proper articles to be used in cooking, but also in the utilizing of everything that is brought into tbe honse for tbat purpose. What is economically bought may be extravagantly used. Tbe advantage of such economy, in its minnte details, is well known by the most experienced masters of the art of cook ing, who are not, by any means, necessi tated to practice it. A number of intelligent ladies of New York who were desirous of supplying the poor in a particnlar part of the city with cheap meals, once interviewed Mr. Del monico, the widely renowned caterer, in re gard to the project. He instructed them bow to make a soup at the cost of $1 that would be sufficient for 35 people. The ex periment was tried successfully, and not only was a meal of soup and pudding given at the price of 5 cents for each one served, but this charge proved to be high enough to cover the expense of serving it. Every woman whose income or allowance is lim ited must of necessity know that it is her duty to make the most of tbe means at her disposal. She will learn, if her heart is in her work, that skillful and dainty cooking is the most economical, and that no food is so expensive as that to which little time or thought is given for its preparation. SPINACH. Wash tborongbly in several waters, until en tirely free from sand, and tben let It He ball an hour in cold water before cooking. Put on in hot water and boll 15 or 20 minutes, or until it sinks. Drain in a colander, season with salt and pepper. Turn into a bot frying pan, in wblcb some bain or bacon drippings have been melted. Serve with a garnish ot hard-boiled eggs sliced. ANOTHER MEIHOD. Wash as above directed and drain well. Put into a bot frying nan one tablespoonful of fresh lard or bacon drippings, and lay in the spinach, turning frequently. After five minutes add one-half plntof stock, and serve. By cooking in this manner tbe color of the spinach is preserved. CHEESE TOAST. Cut from a stale loaf of bread six slices about one-half inch thick. Beat one egg into a enpf nl of sweet milk, and add one-balf pound of good cheese and one tablespoonful ot batter. Put tills mixture in a clean saucepan; set in a pan of boiling water and stir until quite smooth. Place the toast on a bot platter and cover wttn tbe dressing, to union should be added a pinch ot cayenne. For a change this dish can be placed in the oven until a rich brown. It serves for luncheon or for a dinner course. MACEDOINE OF FEUIT. One can pineapple thinly sliced; one can des sicated cocoa: eight good juicy oranges peeled and thinly sliced; one teacupf ul ot powdered sugar. Place in layers with sugar between. Keep ven cold until ready to serve. One-half the quantity for a small family. HARD SAUCE FOB PUDDINGS. One-half teacup butter beaten with one tea cud powdered sucar. Add to this mixture the white of one egg beaten to a stiff froth. Flavor with fruit juice, lemon or vanilla, CHICKEN SANDWICHES. Take thin slices of crustless bread and cut into any desired shape. Mince cold chicken qnite fine, season with salt, white pepper and a dash of cajenne. Rub in a small quantity of butter. Serve nitb tomato salad. CHICKEN' WITH TABTAKE SAUCE. Select a good, tender chicken. Cut down the back and wipo well with a damn cloth. Dredge with salt and pepper and cover with moistened buiter. Dredge thickly with cracker meal or fine bread crumbs and bake inside down. Cook one-half hour. Serve with Tartare sauce. TABTABE SATJCE. The yolks of two raw eggs; one-half cup of oil; three tablespoonsful vinegar; nno table spoonful of mustard; one teapoontul of su gar; one-fourth teasiioimlul of pepper; one tea spnonful of salt; the juiai of one onion; one tamespoomui oi cnoppea capers; one taDIO spoonful of chopped pickles. Make like majonnaise. Add the chopped articles last ICED TEA. If de'ired for luncheon pnt the tea to steep in cold water soon after breakfast, allowing one teaspoonful tor each person and one tor the pot. Tea prepared in this manner has no trace of bitterness. . . Have a pitcher with broken ice, and put a lump in each tumbler. Berve without cream. A TEW USEFUL HINTS. To stone raisins easily.pour boiling water over them and drain immediately. Open the raisins and remove the seeds. This process is a quick and easy one. To remove the muddy taste of fresh water fish place them in cold water, well salted, for several hours before cooking. Lemon jnlce gives flavor, hardens and whitens tbe flakes. When it is necessary to cnt bot bread nso a thin, sharp knife dipped in boiling water. Wipe it dry, and cut the bread at once. This will pre vent tbe slices becoming heavy. Rich cake if cat with a hot knife will not crumble. Hold onions under' water when preparing them, and save your eyes. It is an old adage in the poultry business tbat the black-legged chicken is the best for roast, aud the yellow or white-legged is best to boil. Tbe feet and legs of fresh poultry are moist and limber, and those are best which have small bones, abort legs and white flesh. In a young cblcken the breast bone,at tbe point toward tbe latter end of the body, will be found soft and pliable. In selecting a turkey choose a hen, witb black, smooth legs. Young ducks and geese can be judged by the windpipe; if soft they are young; also by the feet; if red and stiff they are old. To remove the strong flavor of poultry wash tbe fowl in strong soda water; rinse in cold water aud wipe dry. A LXO of mutton looks much better if boiled in a coarse mnslln cloth or white netting. Boil 15 minutes to the pound. A smaia piece of bread tied In a clean bit of t ftj . -Mk ffkf, -. " r kMKBSLkSjSsSaBBmSSSilA. a - . Jg&z&tSc&eK k,si, ' J t v . -. -M&tk&Sifcii&ii .ii-acj:io , y. - a, jflat, 4 - JHb muslin aud put into pots of vegetables, while cooking, will prevent odors. ElAICB SEBEWA. CABMENCITA'S FIBST DAKCE. 33033 It Wis for Brlcnnds Who Captored Her nud Her Skill Bot Her Free. ' My first dancing for money was before a band of brigands, and I had no idea what salary was to be, either, writes Carmencita to Kate Field's Washington. When I was 15 1 was living with my annt and uncle, who had a produce farm not very far from Madrid, and equally near to the palace of theEscurial. The stretch of country be tween the capital and the wonderful palace of Phillip IL was at that time infasted witn banditti. I was in the habit of loading a donkey with fresh eggs and vegetables for the priests who have charge ot the church which is above the vaults wnere the dead Kings and Queens of Spain are lying. On one particular morning I was proceed ing slowlv with my donkey, when I was suddenly surrounded by fierce-looking men, and in a" few minutes was hurried down a rockv path into some dark woods. Present ly I was pushed into a cavern, where a tall and dignified looking man, the chief of the robb-rs, had been lying asleep. He was awakened by our entrance, and smiled kindly at my poor little trembling self, asking me ray name. "Carmen," I replied through my chattering teeth. "Well, Carmencita, don't be frightened, and perhaps I will let you go home soon. I may tell you that it was the first time I was everaddressed as "Carmencita" "little. Carmen" just as I now call myself. So I can truly say that I was christened by a brigand. Well, I sat down and watched the rob bers making omelets of my fresh eggs and crunching my crisp onions; and how I wished every mouthful would choke them I Alter awhile the chief glanced toward where I was crouching in a corner, and, calling me to him, made me drink a large cup of wine, at the same time demanding to know where I had the money for the massed. I was soon relieved of the treasure hidden in my bodice. I implored him not to take it, and told him how sure would be tbe ven veance of the holy saints if he robbed them of their dues. Like most Spaniards, the ban dit was truly religious. Then somebody be gan playing' a mandolin. Whether it was the wine I had drank or something else, I began tapping the ground with my feet aud nodding in time with the air. "Ah, you dance I" cried the chief. "Now, come, little one see if you caaaot earn back vour mass money." Silently I followed tbe band to a smooth piece oi grassy ground just beyond the cav ern. Bound this the robbers sqnatted, tailor fashion, except two ol them, who stood on one side strumming their instruments. I danced as I never had betore, and I contin ued for nearly an .hour, until I had to stop Irom exhaustion. But, when I bad finished, the robber chief lifted me in his arms and kissed me, while he handed me back the purse containing the mass money. Then he told one of his men to bring out my donkey, and next lie took off his hat and went around among his band saying: "Now let us pay Carmencita for the good breakfast she brought us." 'I heard the clink of money falling in his hat, and in a iew minutes he came to me and poured in my hands a sum far larger than I should have received irom the priests lor my farm produce. He then escorted me to the gates of the Escnrial, and beiore he left he gave me a small, curiously-bent piece of iron. "This," said he, "will save you from all molestations in this portion of Spain if you ever have the fortune to meet any more gen tlemen oi my profession." c CABE OP THE KATR. Advice Given by Helen Bertram, Ooo of tbe Prettiest Women on ibe Since. Miss Helen Bertram, prima donna, who joins the Howe Opera Company this week, is one of the most beautiful young women on the stage. Her beautiful wealth of brown hair is a source of the keenest de light to its possessor. She fairly revels in it, loving to thread the shining masses through her white fingers when it is un bound, watching the progress of arranging it with liveliest satisfaction and giviug little surreptitious peeps at it as she catches her reflection in mirror and pier glasses while moving about. Speaking about the care of the hair Miss Bertra gives some valuable pointers in the Baltirore American. "Tbe fine-toothed couibioes mure harm than good to the hair, it leaves the scalp irritated, injures hair celland prepares tbe way for Iresh supplies otgnndiuff. Wire brushes are also very olectionable, they tear the hair, however carefully used. A good bristle brush is hist; neither too stiff nor too sott; it should be used night and morning from 5 to IS min utes, brushing every portion ot the hair with downward strokes irom roots to ends, being care ul not to wound any part ol the scalp by too severe application of tbe bris tles. Ii tti lir has grown thin or is fall ing out del ve circulation is indicated, and to rcu this rub the scalp briskly and thorough ith the fingers. A mixture of West India bay rum and pure water, in equal quantities, rubbed well into the roots, promotes hair growth and is excellent lor cleansing purposes. It should be used spar ingly, not oitener than twice a week. Clip ping tne enas or tne nair once a month is also recommended. This clears away tbe 'dead wood,' so to speak those 'split ends' which are so ugly. Avoid as you would a pestilence the many 'hair tonics,' etc, which flood the market "Whenever a woman speaks of having her hair cut at 'hpw moon,' it invariably ai lords an infinite degree of room lorjest on the part of her friends, who deem to misname it 'superstition.' The reason I have for cutting hair at tbe new mooutide is this: There are two tubes to each separate hair; one tube contains the coloring matter by which the hair is colored, while tbe otber tube supplies the bair with oil. "At tne new moon the color and the oil recede to the inner skin of the scalp, which, when tbe hair is cut, does not go to waste; while ii the haii is cut at the lull moon, the oil and the color reaches the top of the hair, and when it is cut at this period the oil and the color drop to the floor, thus leaving the hair in a dry and unhealthy condition. One or two trials will convince anyone of the value of this plan." PHfEBE C0TJZINS C0MPLAHTS. now Cbonp Clerba sit In Judgment on Her Account nnd Pnrp Them. Miss Phmbe Couzins has delivered herself as follows to the press: A United States Marshal .is often compelled to advance money from his own private purse to pay the expenses of the District Court, and sometimes be loses by it. His accounts are examined by a corps of clerks in the First Controller's office at Washington1, and these clerks are given almost absolute power in suspending accounts. They sit in judgment on the Marshal's work, and the Controller simply signs the papers when they are sent up to him. Dur ing my term in the Marshal's office a young clerk suspended an item of mileage. The Marshal is allowed 6c. a mile for bringing a prisoner. I had a man, who was needed immediately, brought from Cape Girardeau to St. Louis 171 miles. The smart young clerk nosed over a government map, saw that there was a river route, aud he cut-the mileage down to 118 miles. That's tbe "way these clerks show their zeal and enterprise aud ingenuity in order to hold their positions. But we can't bring prisoners by the slow river routes in this day and time. Another time I was ordered to bring in two men from Clayton Imme diately The train wasn't runnintr, and I paid $16 Out of my pocket for carriage hire. This account was suspended by a young clerk, who thought, perhaps, that the cars ought to have been running for my especial benefit. BniifO yonr photos to be copied to Elec trlo PtVtrait Company, 10 and 12 Sixth st.; crayoni, water colors, etc; best work; lowest jbrlce. . - su r NURSING 'THE SICK: A Carefnlly Trepared Letter From One Kipe In Experience. GOOD HEWS IN THE SICK ROOM. Qualifications Necessary to Minister to the Patients' Wants. P0IS0UIHG THE0DGU CARELESSNESS. rWBICTEX roa toe DisriTcn.1 N presenting to the readers of this paper a few thoughts on household nurting, it is no more than jnst to say that we speak with the ex perience to which gray hairs bear record and with the anthoritv nnd H.ii. sicrn that have come from a personal contact with over 22,000 registered medical and sur gical patients, in hospital and private prac tice. The importance of carelul nursing can hardly be overestimated. Manv times to this, more than to medicine, is' recovery from sickness due, and in very manv cases, unless the skilled labor of the physician is supplemented by this necessary auxiliary, his labor is lost and his patient dies. If you are to care for the sick you should enter upon your duties with cheerfulness and earnestness. The work is of the kind that wears and worries if you let it wear and worry; so at the outsetlet it be under stood between you and your inner self that you will not worry, and that if you wear, it will be to wear well. I-OyALTY TO THE PHTSICLfljr. You have three classes of people to please beside yourself the patient, the patient's friends and the physician; if you satisfy the first you generally will the others, bnt whatever you do, be loyal to the physician and satis y him in every reasonable possi bility. Bemember that your work and his are entirely distinct and separate and yours is subordinate to his. Do uu., iefc yoursen consciously or uncon sciously usurp his place, and remember that many times without him you candoabso lutelv nothinz. Bemember also that unless you do your work well, all bis efforts and skill may avail nothing. If, in attempting to carry out his instructions you have made a mistake, do not fear or lail to promptly tell him of it that he may help you to recti fy any harm that might otherwise ensue. .The work of a nurse is in one household yV . er "rctweek.or next month. She is permitted many liberties by virtue of her abilities and usefulness, and has oppor tunities for observation and knowledge con cerning borne affairs and household secrets not possessed by any other person. A nurse that talks in one house about matters that belong exclusively to another will soon be distrusted aud dismissed. An assistant of any kind, physician, nurse or helper, whose habits of thought and expression are not above retailing news and family secrets, should step down and out of the business or profession at once, CONTBOIi Oy THE VOICE. As you are wanted more for what you can do than siy, your voice should be well under control, clear, distinct, and also gentle. A patient should never be obliged to make the extra effort required to ask you to repeat what you bare sain; adapt your voice to the condition oi tbe patient and of his noisy or silent surroundings. Be in view 0' the patient, he always want to see you when he speaks with yon. So do not nut him to the trouble of moving to be able to accomplish this. Do not surprise him by abruptness; some slight motion or indistinct sound should prelude a sentence, whose suddenness might otherwise distress him. To call a patient by name is the surest way to attract his attention; especially when this is rendered difficult by sleep, stupor, or approaching death. Avoid fatiguing the patient by making him listen to stories tbat require sustained attention, or to information tbat might distress or annoy. Sick persons, like all well ones, like to hear good news, and if they are able to be told anything, let it be something that has resulted happily to somebody. Did you never notice that people uncon sciously learn to love those who bring them good news? Pave the way, therefore, for favor and esteem in the heart ot your pa tient by making your messages conduce to a cheerlul Irame of mind. Do not talk to your patient while be is standing or walk ing; if he is verv weak the extra effort of attention and listening will be paimul to him. INVALIDS ABE tnfBEASOlTABLE. Invalids are ofteu the most unreasonable of people. Tbey have their petty whims, their diseased fancies, their willful discon tents and often their perpetuulSSiscomlorts. No nurse will undertake to argue these away. Tbey are symptoms olten entirely beyond the patient's control. Always con siderately investigate their complaints, a jd, if possible, satisly them though it may seem utterly useless. Bear in mind that o ten their sensibilities are, when sick, wonder fully acute, and what mayfeem the veriest trifle to a well person is no trifle to them. You should be a light sleeper, waking readily on call aud never guilty of snoring. Farther on we shall tell you how to correct this wretched misfortune in a patient, and your own judgment can correct it in your own case ii necessary. There are many oc casions wben a nurse can economize time for sleep ii she will school herself to waking at the first movement of the patient, or to waking at the expiration of a stated time. Fewtbings are more certain than the pos sibility ot waking after the expiration of a stated time, as the result ol training in that attempt. A nurse should be well, and to be most successful she should have no deformity; sick persons enjoy seeing well ones; they have enough in their own bodies to bother them without seeing ailments in those who attend them, or listening to any stories or their aches or grievances; and ii you have your sick day, avoid letting it bo known to the patient, by look or word, without good cause. KINDNESS AND CONFIDENCE. A good nurse will be full ol kindness. And nothing is more contagions than kind ness, unless it be confidence, and kindness is essential to that. The kind nnrse will control by gentleness combined with de Us. p Dreis and Address. cision. She will be most decisive even wben no one suspects tbat she is so at all. "It is the triumph of supremacy," says that angel of the Crimea, Florence Nightingale, and we shall quote ber more than once, "to become unconsciously supreme. Nowhere is this decision more blessed than in a sick room. The decisive nurse is never peremp tory, never loud. Sbe is distinct, it is trne; there is nothing more aggravating to a sick person than ji whisper, but she is not loud. Though quiet she never walks on tiptoe.she never makes gestures; all is open and above board. Sbe knows no diplomacy or finesse. Her touch is steady and encouraging. You never catch ber watching. She never slams the door, of course, but she never shuts it slowly, and she never talks behind it. She pokes the fire skillfully, with firm, judi cious penetration. She caresses one kind of patient with genuine sympathy; she talks to another as if sbe were well." Nursing not only iucludes obedience of the physician's orders'as to medicine, but im plies personal thought of and attention to everything that will augmeut the patient's comfort, the warmth, quiet, ventilation and cleanliness of the sick room, and the ob servance and noting of symptoms and the prevention of contagion. The nurse must be intelligent and thought ful. She must love the work, not from any romantic idea that she is an angel of mercy, or from the mistaken notion that it is a life of flowery ease. She may prove herself as welcome as an angei and find a flowerv path way at times, but there will be times when her work is arduous, her responsibilities heavy, and her iabors duties. OBEDIENCE A FIBST EEQUISITE. There will be times when your judgment may not coincide with the physician's or-drs- Bemember that it is your province to obey, and, when his orders are conditional, use your best intelligence. "A good nurse is very careful to do not always what seems to her best, but what it seems to her the doc tor will best approve." Even though von may not see his reason, or if you know it and disagree with It, never permit yourself to shake your patient's confidence in him by any look or word oi criticism. The nurse is the connecting link between the patient and physician; both trust her, and she should be eminently worthy of that trust. Let the doctor find you faitblnl to his directions, whatever your like or dislike of him may be, and never conceal Irom him anything that yon think bears upon his treatment ot tbe case. Be plain, frank and truthful. Your dress should be clean, neat and of a kind that bears washing. It should not touch the floor, and should be of strong material, with but little trimming. Aprons, cuffs and collars should be in perfect order, ciean ana irequentiv changed. The apron which you wear while serving the patient's food should never be the same tbat you wore while doing other and less cleanly work. Whether a nnrse will wear thecap of the hospital is a matter for her to decide. Physicians generally preler to have them do so, and as generally do they express the opinion that jewelry is out oi place in a sick room. Your underclothing should be changed frequently; in many hospitals nurses are re quired to change everything twice a week, and the same is true often in the household. High heeled boots have no place in the sick(room and the same is true of any heavy, squeaky, or clumsy covering of the feet. Slippers made strong and easy give good satisfaction to the nursed, and the patient and many an easy, light boot pive3 no an noying noise. In extreme cases I have sug gested bottoming the stockings with buck skin soles, or sheepskin, and in mild cli mates this arrangement has come into use not only in nursing, but while one is en gaged in other household duties. PERSONAL CLEANLINESS. The hair should be firmly held in place and plainly dressed, and the head and hair should be washed once a week or oftener. Your personal cleanliness is an absolute essential. The sensibilities of the sick are more easily crossed than those of the well, and they notice unpleasant things which they would overlook i! they were well. The breath should be kept sweet, the teeth brushed, the body bathed oiten, and the hands should be what is possible in almost every case beautnul. They may not be so by neglect, but a little of the right kind of care every day and Io, their ugliness is gone and they are instruments ot gentleness and beauty and uselulnes-1 Keep tbe finger I nails well pared, not torn off. and thev should be brushed every day at the base, and also at the end. This caution in for the benefit of others as well as for yourself, for many a patient has been poisoned by septic and other matters carried by uncleanly attendants. Every crack, pin-prick, hang-nail, blister or scratch is a possible receptacle for septic and other poisons. Within ashort time I have known four instances where physicians have been severely and one fatally poisoned by receiv ing septic matter through slight scratches on the finger. If yonr bands or fingers have any abrasions on the skin they should be well protected by proper dressings, court pjaoter or by finger-stalls. Have your own towel, and use it and use no other. The band, too, should be trained to accuracy, steadiness, evenness of motion. A thousand times you will wish for a steady hand and if a thousand times von have it you will be the gainer every time. Accus tom yourself to acquire this by dropping, by count, fluids from a Bottle and in other ways that your judgment may suggest. J.B. S. TWO CONSPICUOUS WOMEN. A Picture of Mr. Ayer nnd Mrs. BlgeloTT at Vichy Four Yenr ,Uo. Seeing the annonncementin all the Amer ican papers of the engagement of Mrs. J. C. Ayer, of sarsaparilla fame, to Prince Dolgo rouki, cousin of the morganatic widow of the late Czar of Bussia, takes me back to four years ago when I met Mrs. Ayer at the famous springs of Vichy, the fashionable health resort of Prance, says a writer in the St. Louis Globe.Democrat. She was aeeom. panied by Mrs. John Bigelow, wi.e of the Hon. John Bigelow, who was for so many years American Minister to France. The two ladies were conspicuous figures in the crowd of fashionable visitors rom every land which thronged that famous health re sort. Mrs. Bigelow was, that summer, the guest o Mrs. Ayer, and wis as much no ticed for her eccentricities iu dress as Mrs. Ayer was for her splendid toilets. The latter, who has a pleasing but scarcely a handsome countenance, is a woman proba bly about SO years of age, but yet so wedded to the gay world that she devotes much of her time to personal adornment. Her ward robe included, at that day, a great variety of wigs of every shade, so tbat one day she appeared as a blonde, the next as a brunette, and later as a Titian beauty, witb rich auburn hair, which seemed to be her favorite color. Her favorite necklace was a string of fine pearls, almost as large as wren's eggs, clasped with a diamond aiguillette of great value. Money was no object to the fair widow. Mrs. Bigelow, who was a welcome visitor at tbe houses of the oldest nobilitv in France and England, was, on the contrary, a verita ble dowdy, notable for tbe entire absence of taste in her attire. On one occasion sbe wore to the little English church iu Vichy a gorgeous-hued barege, cut surplice, with a piece of ribbed cotton tape tied around her neck, while her hose were of pale pink, and her shoes of light yellow leather. CAN'T LOSE A BOO. Story of a Pointer Who Fonnd HI master Tfaonsli cbo Sea Intervened. Mr. Edward Cook, after having lived some time with his brother George at Tugsten, in Northumberland, went to America, and took with him a pointer dog, which he lost soon afterward, while shooting in tbe woods near Baltimore. Some time after Mr. George Cook, who continued to re side at Tugsten, was alarmed at hearing a dog iu the nigbL He admitted it into the house, and found that it was the sune his brother had taken with him to America. The dog lived with them until his maater rntnrn.il hnnirv vhn th mntnallv teCOg- nized eaoh other. Mr. Cook was never able to trace by what vessel the dog bad lelt or in what part of England it had been landed. GOWNS THAT ffASE. . Shirjey Dare Tells of Pretty FaoTici for Summer Fancies. THE DEESSES IN BEAU BEUMHEL A Plea for Kate Greeniway'a and Other Styles of Times Agone. HOW GIELS WILL WBAE TflEIE HUB rWBITTET rOH THI PISPi.ICH.3 Women are beginning to find it is not really refined to wear gowns In warm weather which do not allow frequent cleans ing. For the daintiest rosebud of a girl is hnm&n flesh and blood and throws off some pounds a day ot perspiration, or it is the worse for her health and looks if she does not. Most of this is absorbed by the clothes, and the country and city dust which settles in them renders daily change indispensable. It is hard to see how it is possible to be really nice without it. English houses are making up a great variety of -cotton and linen gowns, washing silks and veilings, delaines and wool crepes, not to mention serviceable outing cloths that will stand washing two or three times without loss of color. It is nonsense to insist that the expensive cottons must be treated by the French cleaners to keep the color. Tbey may be washed by any careful laundress, who un derstands to have soft water, with a very little borax dissolved in it, and will wash one piece through without stopping till it is ready to dry. Then it should have a slight dressing with wheat or potato starch, hav ing some isinglass in it, and be ironed with more care than one in a hnndred is willing to give. The point is to avoid any more contact with water than is necessary to cleanse the dress, and only starch to hold the fibres and colors without stiffening. COTTONS AND LINENS. Among the prettiest new cottons are the striped and figured dimities, which English makers call aamask cotton, in sott dull bine, lilac, or pink cord and cluster stripes on the white firmly twilled gronnd which gives its name. These are 35 cents a yard, are pretty and substantial enough to lait for seasons, and will bear ordinary washing. The silk finished linens with small silvery brocade figuring in gray and blues bid fair to be more appreciated than they have been. Large plaids and bold stripes figure on the counters, but a woman of taste passes them by, and contrives to look the very touch of the mode with the polka dots, pin dots, Marie Antoinette flower sprigs, and the pretty new floral stripes; for instance, pale blue witb garland of small yellow roses on a white stripe, or pink stripe with haw thorn in white, things which make up charmingly in those garden party dresses which avenne modistes charge 5J0 for. They are as much trouhle to fit, it is said, as silk gowns, take as many stitches, ana lace and ribbons count just as much. Wbich are so many arguments for woman's understanding the full art and mystery or dressmaking tor themselves. There is not two days' work with a sewing machine in any cotton goods lor an expert, and very few women can make or save money to bet ter account than in making their own cheap gowns as tbey ought to be. DRESSES IN BEAU BRUJIMEL. The artistic set in London are taking to frocks with puffed short sleeves and long silk gloves above the elbow, which used to be pinned to the sleeve to protect the white arms Irom sunburn, andlrilled skirts which. how slippers with ribbons crossed over tha instep. Mrs. Bernard Beere, who rrears tha best designed dress of anv woman on tha English stage, appears in the long grnceiul overdress and gown of the Edgeworth novels, which every woman of tiste desires to copr on sight. The new style has been brought out very prettily in the dresses for lne new Pm-T' ?.e.au ""'H?1' ,w.nlcn, r Aect Sr.eat credit on the ladies of the pay, the new plav, "Beau Brummel, which re- The designs sent over expressly for the piece by Mr.i Seymour Lucas, the .English artist, proving too expensive if made by a cos tumer, tbe ladies of Mr. Mansfield's com pany got up most of the costumes them selves from tne pictures with very fair suc cess. In the first act Mrs. Brutone as The Duchess wears a-broc-ide of deep red, with pattern of gold net between the stemless roses which cover tbe surface. The waist, with folds opeu to the belt, is filled with rnechljn dotted net and frills of handsome lace, w-ith rosette of the brocade at the point in the back, long gloves of pale tan harmonizing with the old gold in the silk, scart of crape and lace and a wonderful crimson silk drawn bonnet, with plumes which must delight tbe heart of any mil liner, for no amateur hands could achieve such an enterprise. AN IDEAL PAEISIENNE. Miss Beverly Sitgreaves was charming in her dreis for the cotillion scene. One of the nest bred women on the stage, slender and graceful as a grass blade, her swaying figure in a pale willow green satin, with just lace enough to so ten it at the neck and sleeves, made one think of a sylph, an Un dine, one of D mdet's ideal Parisiennes, im possible of awkwardness or incorrectness. It is a pity women in the audience do not take note oi such examples of artistic morality in dressing to see what may be done with the simplest of pale green satin frocks, with surplice waist, a frill at tha hem and a net tucker, worn with ladylike grace and a slight, supple figure. The siahtofher elfin witcberie, her curves and courtesyings is enough to make women forswear flesh and indolence lorever. Tbe tailor gown demands the best mate riala for effect, and the Medici lasbions are ruin ous it well carried out, or theatrical in the worst sense if done at less expense. But tha Kite Greenaway styles, as we call them, have been tried on our little folk long enough to realize how charming they are lor older wearers, and tbey are likely to come in for a good while. The tight gowns, which look like corset and bodice made in one piece, look very wooaen and piteous as seen on the avenue beside the full French waists and the coquettish old English gowns 'in flowered challies and gay silks which venture out of doors on fine days. WILL BE OAT, INDEED. The park will look like a garden and tbe streets like flower borders when the new style takes possession.. But I never heard that women were any worse wives and friends when tbey walked out in gay mus lins and flowery delaines than wben they wear black till they smell of dye or go de mure in mode colors. One thing girls will be grateful for, tha smooth hair'will be worn tbls summer; smooth hair in large coils or twists at the back, with a slight eatbenng ol wave or curl to so ten the lace appears in the newest mode3 abroad. The bang has had itst time; the saints be praised, that its ugliness is OTer. Those who can bear it wear the hair brushed off the forehead and high in the back for coolness, with slight wavemarks to show the gloss of the hair at the sides. Spanish curls or "beau catchers" are worn by mature coquettes, and the bandeau of velvet, or tbe ribbon tied in the hair suits the styles of Edgeworth simplicity. Shiblet Dabs. THE LILTS PIETY. Some Inconsistency In tbe Recent Keporta From Across the Brine. Boston Hersld.1 The latest important intelligence from Loudon is that Mrs. Langtry has beeorao distinctly religious. We might credit the rumor if the thoughtless cablegram had not likewise mentioned a wild and lurid supper party whereat Mn. Langtry and her friends'. y appeared in anything but a pious light. vjf Tnese little slips will occur sometimes)) but they are to be particularly regretted when any new theatrical advertising is oa the carpet. rf sJtLsHBIHnsiiiiiiBssTssVVBsHsHsBss " i"-WrWsBEPllsiSsisffllsssliB