FOR THK FAIR MUX. Taka Bark the Ulna. Take buck Ihc ring thy linger wore, It ne'or shall circle mine; 'l'ako t>sck tlie ring; 1 trust no mow A heart so laltc ns thine. 'l'he love which closed in blisslul sleep, To dream ol heaven and thee, A wokos to know, hut not to woep, How vain thy vows can be. No grid shall wring tny trusting broasl. No pain my heart shall know j In hopeiul peace my soul shall rest; No tear for thee shall (low. I'he heart that wins a morning love, To evening loves incline; As stars engage us trom abovo When meteors round us shine. New hopes to cheer, thy way is clear, 1 'Tis lit with flick'ring joy; Keturn to her, to thee so dear. Nor her sweet peace destroy. 1 uke back the ring thy linger wore, It ne'er shall sully mine; I loved thee once; I plight no tnore At thy uuhnllowod shrine. —Hugh F. Mc Dermott. Fashion Notes. Jet trimmings continue the rage. (k>ld dollar bracelets are theJatcst. Beads have obtained the acme of lavor. White is the favorite coler for even ing dresses. Small Japanese fans with long handles are very fashionable. Jet an cashmere beaded trimmings are much worn around the neck. Pearl beads abound on white lace and embroidered silk bands for dress garni ture. Young ladies wear their corsage bou quets on one side of the neck, near the shoulder. White jet and white Spanish lace ap pear to he favorite decorations of white dress bonnets. There never was a season when so great a variety was seen in tlie style of dressing the hair. I-ong round trains show rows of fine plaiting, and square trains employ side garniture and full trimming at the backr New silk handkerchiefs for the neck are in pale shades of blue and rose, and edged with plaiting of Breton, Lanque-' doc or Valenciennes laces. The novelties destined to the greatest! popularity in spring goods is the printed j India cashmeres in small multicolored i pine patterns over a light ground. The most fanciful piece of jewelry j now worn is the bracelet, and many go j o far as to wear it instead of the linen ' off or other lingeries at the wrist. Fichus for mourning consist of white , till centers edged on both sides with i rery tine hlaitings of crepe lisse and se cured in front by a black ribbon bow. A revival lias taken place in the fashion of wearing a bodice that differs ; front the skirt, both in material and in j color— the spencer, in fact, of forty ! years ago. In Paris brides have paid their visits j this month in dresses of white Hindoo 1 cashmere, trimmed with ivory white piurii. with the mantle and bonnet of plu?h to match. Skirts are decidedly shorter this sea son. whether for the matron who wears striped velvet, brocade and satin, or for youthful dancers in gauze, silk muslin \ .snd India muslin. It is becoming a fashion for ladies each to adopt a separate flower for her own, and to wear.it on all occasions; I natuial blooms especially whenever I they arc obtainable. Full fraises of lace are worn high and j close around the throat. Tlie Tace is j put in treble box plaits, and therd is a long bow of muslin and lace added to \ this to fall low on the corsage. Snoods, simple ribbons passed through the hair and knotted at the side witli pendent ends, are revived. They are in the richest Oriental colors and finished at the ends witli gold fringe or tassels. At the charity ball, in New York, there were culrasse basques of rich bro cade worn over trimmed silk, satin or lace (rimmed skirts, the brocade being I usually repeated more or less in tlie | trimming. A very pretty and inexpensive wrap which bids fair to be popular for spring wear and for traveling through thesum ater, is a circular of dark gray ladies' cloth, with hood iined with black silk nnd finished by a heavy tassel. The dove in various Rhodes of gold is ■ a favorite design in jewelry. Properly mounted and bearing a diamond branch it forms an ornament for the hair, or with a single diamond suspended from its bill, becomes a beautiful ear-drop. All trains are made a comfortable walking length in front and at the sides. I'lie long narrow trains, whet.ier square or round shape, are lengthened abruptly back ot the front sidegorrs, while in the flowing trains the lengthening is more gradual. The newest corsage for evening dress has the short basque shape at the hips, is laced at the back, and terminates there as well as at the front in long and acute points. The neck is heart shaped or round and very sliort puffed sleeves replace shoulder straps. Some new linen collars are given* a very full effect hy having the upper edge rolled down and three rows of point l.angufdoc )' M:C mounted on it to turn over and downward. When the linen is "tiffened and well rolled the whole has the effect of a ruff supported by wire. I-onjr black kid gloves with a bracelet of small yellow rose-buds at the top is one of the caprices of semi-dress toi lettes. For a debutante to wear with a white and blue toilette, white undressed kid gloves had a band of tiny blue for get-me-nots forming a bracelet at the top of each, just below the elbow. * lanne'i, serge and cashmere in light Rrp n,ft de up witli dark velvet lor ondf-smaids at English weddings. Old English, almost fancy, dresses are adopted sometimes. At a recent wed ding white satin, with Watteau plaits, tight sleeves with puffs, and Olivia c ?P s of white lace ana green satin were i M*f n ' ftm ' 'wked most quaiftt on the children who acted as bridesmaids. The Duly nl Huaban.ta. I'he first duty of husbands is to sym pathize witli their wives in all their cares nnd labors. Men are npt to for i get in the perplexities and annoyances . "Usincs's, that home cares are also annoying, and try the nathmce and strength of their wives. They come home expecting sympathy and atten tion, but are too apt to have none to invo. A single kindly word or look, that tells his thought of her and her troubles, would lift the weight of care from her heart. Secondly, husbands should make confidants of their wives, consulting them on their plans and pros pects, and especially on their troubles and embarrassments. A woman's In tuition is often better than all his wis dom and shrewdness; nnd all her ready sympathy and interest is a powerful aid to his efforts for their mutual welfare. Thirdly, men should show their love for their wives in constant attention, in their manner of treating them and in the thousand and one trifling offices of affection which may be hardly notice able, but which mukc all the difference between a life of sad and undefined longing, and cheery, happy existence. Above all, men should beware ot treat ing their wives with rudeness and in civility, as if they were the only per sons not entitled to their consideration and respect. They should think of their sensitive feelings, ind their need of sympathy, and never let the fire of love go out, or cetuse to show that the flame Is burning with unabatedf ervor. PrefrrrliiK Niilclrie to Marrlaßr. Colonel Forney's Progress tells ola widow in China who committed suicide rather than marry again, and in this public manner paid the last debt of na ture: "People in China arc not only allowed to commit suicide, but thev even advertise their determination before hand, stating wlien and where they in tend to effect their purposes. At least, the Fooehow Herald tells of a young widow who had promised to hang her self at a certain spot on the 16th of Jast month, rather than yield tot lie ' wishes of her inhuman parents,' and marry again. The sacrifice was actually con sumatcd in broad daylight- The girl hanged herself in the presence of all as sembled crowd of friends and admirers. The tragic ecrenony was preceded by a reception of visitors on the platform erected for the occasion, after which the poor young creature mounted the chair, placed the rope around her slim neck, and bidding a final adieu to this unsym pathetic world, launched herself into eternity." The reason assigned for the suicide docs not seem adequate for the sacrifice, and the Chinese journal may imitate some of its American contempo raries and indulge in the sensational.— Modern Aryo. How a Canine Milk Thief wa Canglit. It is customary for the occupants of one of the houses on Valencia street to deposit a milk pitcher on the front door step, there to await the arrival of the milkman. As this custodian of tin cans drove up to the house in question yesterday morning lie did not observe a cur of the mongrel breed which dogged his wagon wheels. He slopped, and so did the dog. He walked up to the door step, and so did the dog. He filled the waiting pitcher with milk and took his departure, but the dog didn't. The canine had determined to take the milk instead. After surveying the surround ings with n wary eye. and ascertaining that there were nobody near to molest or make him afraid, he commenced his nt furious operations. He bent his nose lovingly in the pitcher, and for a mo ment, while he quaffed delicious draughts of the rich liquid, his head was visible to the Call reporter, who observed the movements from behind a lamp-poet across the way. Deeper and dfepcr dived the dog's head into the pitcher, and shallower and shallower grew the milk within. At last the vessel became empty, the dog's snout touched the bottom and he would leave the pitcher and go. hut the pitcher obstinately refused to be left and clung to the thieving dog closer than a brother. The canine became hysterical and begnn to.turn somer saults, but all in vain; tlie pitcher would not l>e shaken. The dog fell down the steps and got hurt, hut the pitcher wasn't inured whatever. Picking himself an, the quadruped ran be knew not whither. Completely blinded by the pitcher, he was unab'i to guide bis footsteps, nnd, in consequence, the course which he pursued was a very erratic one. A hitching-post in the vicinity was awkward enough to get in tlie dog's way, and the collision which ensued was very unpleasant for tlie dog. The pitcher, however, still remained unbroken, and the agonizing howls of the terrified canine became so shrill and continuous that tlie whole neighborhood was alarmed, and heads were projected out of doors and windows by the hun dred. Among the spectators was tlie dog's master, who, perceiving the piti ful plight of his pet, hastened to his relief. The efforts of the owner of tlie dog to pull the pitcher from its vantage ground were fruitless. The dog came every time, but the pitcher didn"t. At lat lie was compelled to break the stub born piece of crockery with a stone. The dog once more regained hi* accus tomed composure, the atmosphere again became quiet and calm, the windows were shut one by one, and Valencia street, between Thirteenth and Four teenth. was quiet again —San I'ran ciseo Call. Mr. and Mrs. Ouray. Tlie Washington fbxl thus describes the famous Ute chief Ouray nnd his wife Chipepn, or Mrs. Ouray: She is a large, squatty woman, about forty-live years old, with broad, fiat features, a large round head and lonjr black hair parted in the center and thrown care lessly at either side, almost coneealinjr her fcntuYes. Her form was enveloped in the folds of a large black and gray woolen shawl, concealing her attire, the only part of which visible was a pair of handsomely worked buckskin leggings. Arctic rubbers covered her feet, which were cased in buckskin moccasins. Ouray, who is fifty years old, is in ap pcnrance very much like Ids squaw, ex cept that his hair was plaited and rested on his shoulders. He had adark blanket thrown around him, concealing a white calico shirt with red figures, and a black cloth vest, and wore overshoes and dec orated blue flannel leggings, llis head was covered witli a large broad-brim light slouch hat. He carried a bundle of wrappings strapped together, and took his plnce beside Chlpcns at the head of the ten other Utes. The latter, with one exception, were wrapped in blankets, but their costumes -ould be sen as half civilised. All wore calico or vari-colored flannel shirts, in which were worked iwads, quills nnd other or naments. Some wero shod in army hrogans, nnd with one or twocxceptions had on slouch hats. Shells, buttons nnd other bright ornaments were studded in '.heir hair. .... . 0 t-IftrciiHoim, • It is a littlo singular that sonic person desiring to become rich without labor does not take out a patent on a revolv ing grindstone. It would not be neces sary for him to engage in the manufac ture and sale of them. He could quietly remain at home and send Ids agents about the country to scare farmers into the payment of damages for infring ruent on his > patent. Examiners in the patent oflice are not supposed to have seen a grindstone, and, as the records of the department contain no mention of one, they would be quite likely to regard it as a novel invention, and so report it to the commissioner, who would issue a patent on it. The patentee would then have a wide and rich field from which to reap a bounti ful harvest. By threatening to bring a suit for damnges in the United States court, nearly every person who uses a grindstone would settle and congratu late himself that he had escaped so easily. A course like the above has been pursued by numerous persons with reference to implements and processes that have been in rse longer tlinn the common grindstone. In some instances they have made arrangements with ; " snide " lawyers, who attended to their claims in different counties and re ' eeived a commission on all sums they | collected by means of sending out wi.rn i ing notices. ) A few years ago a person came to this , city and endeavored to dispose of a patent process for drying blood. One !of the claims in the patent was for "dried blood as a new article of com merce." He represented that the blood that could be obtained and dried in the city would be worth several millions of dollars annually, and that by having a monopoly on the manufactured article an individual or corporation could ob tain a fortune in a single season. As he offered his patent with " all the rights and privileges thereunto belonging for the modest sum of $ 1,(100,000, several persons of means thought it a great bargain, and made arrangements to secure it. One man, however, of in quiring turn of mind, investigated the matter and found that dried blood was a common article of commerce in this country long before the owner of this patent right was born, and that it had been bought and sold in other countries at least a thousand years before the dis- j covcry of America. A sliding gate has been used by West er® farmers almost from the time settle ments were first made on the prairies. ' This circumstance, however, did not prevent a person from procuring a patent on it a few years ago, and from that time to the present men have been traveling about the country making de mands on every farmer on whoso place one of these gates were found. In most cases tjiey have succeeded in collecting ! a sum byway of damages, and in sell ing a farm right to make ntid use their | gates. In a few neighborhoods, how ever, farmers combined to resist the ex actions of these agents, when they de parted in quest of victims who wen more easily frightened. The patentee of tiiis device may have been sincere in declaring that he was the inventor of it. but the circumstance that it was not only described but illustrated in an agricultural paper liefofe he applied for a patent shows that lie was not the origi nal inventor, and his patent is therefore worthless. The Latest account of attempting to collect damages from farmers who are declared guilty of employing an old process that has recently been patented comes from Ohio. In many parts of the Htate fHriurrs have been In the habit of bleaching apples and peaches dried in the sun by exposing them a few min utes to the fumes of burning sulphur. The method employed is the same as that used for bleaching old straw bon nets and bals. Many farmers who were discovered bleaching their dried Iruil were served with notices that they would be made parties to a suit in the United States court it they did not pay a considerable sum byway of damages for infringing on a patent. One large dealer who operated as a fruit drier was called on to pay the sum of 990,000, but the claim was so large that he took the matter under advisement. It is now understood that combined action will be taken to resist the demands of the owner of this patent. It is certain that the process of bleaching by means of the tumes of burning sulphur was very ex tensively employed in the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, and an operation claiming so great antiquity cannot reasonably be c'aimed as a novelty. It is possibly that none of (he examiners of the patent office ever read tlie book in which the above account is recorded, and it would appear that they rarely read any work devoted to ancient or modern discoveries in the industrial arts. —Chicago Tinux. A Conscientious Man. An affecting snd novel incident was presented in connection witli the rcfent annual meeting of the Pacific bnnk stockholders. Kx-Gov. P. 11. Burnett, for so many years president of the bank, arose in the course of the meeting ana announced that, on acs-ount ot his fail ing health, he would not be a candidate /or re-election. He further stated that indisposition had so interfered with the regular discharge of his duties as presi l dent of the bank that he had been un able to give more than half his time to Ids regular routine work during bonk ing hours. He considered, therefore, that only half his regular yearly salary was due him, and asked that one-haif the salary be paid him, the balance to ls> placed as the directors and other officers of the hank might see fit. Mr. | Burnett's wishes were over-ruled hy his fellow officers, who held that his ser vices given were well worth the full salary. A check was therefore drown for the full amount and left on the president's desk. When he opened the envelope he rose nnd went to the teller and drew the full amount. He then walked over to the cashier's desk and placed one-hnlfof the sum lie fore that officer, requesting that it lie placed to the credit of the " profit and loss ac count." On leaving the hank he shook hands with each ol the employees, but was too affected to say good-bye.—San fYancitco Ckronie'e. A Remarkable Itj. The property Ivy hss of adapting itself to circumstances Is moat strik ingly illustrated by an incident related by Miss Strickland. The body of Catharine Parr, buried at Sudley, was disinterred, through curiosity, on sev eral occasions. The last time the coflin was opened It was discovered that a wreath of Ivy had entwined iteell around the temples of the royal corpse.. A berry had fallen there at the time of the previous exhumation, taken root, and then silently, troin day to day. woven Itself Into this green sepulchral coronal.— Chmrbtri' Journal. HALF A MILK A MINUTE. A l(a|>llias. and after cornt lime one company of horses grazed up to within two hundred yards. There were a num ber of mules and American mares in the crowd, which had been enticed away from civilization and are now apparently as wild as their native associates. AVhile thus watching. General Harper saw these horse* satisfying their thirst- In oneplaceon Payton creek (adry stream), he saw them pawing with their hoofs in the sand, and afterward found the holes were thus dug for water. In many spots srater can be found six or eight inch's below the surface. A band of buffalo came in to Hsrper's sheep camp, about ten miies from the river, and apnhy of hunters went out and killed twenly or more. j PAH*, WARDEN AND HOUHEIIOLD Itadtu. Hi'T. PlE.—One teacup boiled rice, oncegi [, one mp rice milk, one-half cup stjKiir, or more if desired; flavor with viiniila < .r nutmeg, and mix before put ting in ; bake with one crust. Sii AMI i> I'l DOINO. —Two eups of sour mi Ik, one and one-half cups of In dian meal, two cups of wheat flour, one teaapoonful of soda, a little salt, and half a cup of chopped raisins. Steam two hours. SI OAR CAKES.—One-half pound of butter, one-half pound of sugar. one pound of flour, three eggs, milk enough to form a dough. Heat the butter and sugar together; whisk the eggs light, ar.fl add them; then stir in the milk and flour alternately, so as to form a dough. Roll it out, cut it into cakes, and bake in a'moderate oven. HAM CAKES,—A capital way of dis posing of the remains of a ham, and making an excellent dish for breakfast, is: Take one and a half po. nils of ham. fat and lean together; put it into a mor tar and pound it, or pass it through a sausage machine; soak a large slice of bread in half a pint of milk, and beat it and the ham well together; add an egg beaten up. Put the whole into a mold, and bake a rich brown. APPLE SNOW.—Roast eight tart apples and pulp them through a sieve; take a half pound of the pulp, and, when wild, mix with it a half pound of finely sifted loaf sugar, and the thin rind of a small lemon; beat the whites of three eggs, whisk all the ingredients together to a tine froth and pile on a glass dish. A little sponge cake, soaked in fruit syrup, and lain on the bottom of the dish, is an improvement. SCOTCH COLI-OPS.—Cut the remains of some cold roast veal into about the thickness of cutlets, rather larger than a silver dollar, flour the meat well, and fry a light brown color in butter; dredge again with flour, and add half a pint of water, pouring it in by degrees; set it on the tire, and, when it hoi is, arid an onion and a blade of pounded mace, and let it simmer very gently for three quar ters of an hour; flavor the gravy with a tablespoonftil of mushroom ketchup or Worcester sauce, (live one boil, and serve. t'wrm SolM. A cow will yield a greater weight in butter than she can store up in fat. An animal might give the product of two pounds of butter in a nay, while one half that quantity could be laid on in fat. For roses in pots and almost any house plants a good liquid fertilizer may he prepared by dissolving soot in warm water. Hone ground fine makes an excellent tertilizer for all plants. A correspondent writes: Isst season I kept the striped bugs from my cuiuni- Viers by saturating ashes with kerosene and applying a handful in a hill. Turnips are healthful for horses. They should be out in slices, or, what is better, pulped finely and mixed with a little meal and s&it. Rutabagas are bet t