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lltifT& FOR THE CARE OF llHE HOME BEAUTY PROBLEMS -WELL-DRESSED GIRL'S. tIA
HOW CAN FRIENDSHIP BE WON,
ASKS GIRL WHO IS LONELY
The Qualifications That Are Necessary for Popu
larity Asking a Musician to Play While
a Guest at One's House
WHAT aro tlia qualities that brine
friendship? A lonely llttlo Rlrl of
trhteen write that uho "finds It very
hard to ealn friends and would npprc
state come advice as to how to irnln a
few,"
AlthoUBh thero Is a certain amount, of
(technique required for tho malting of ac
CjUAlntancos, real friendship Is one of
those lntanirtblo things which ennnot bo
gained except through tho heart.
Personality Is a thing which cannot bo
acquired, and no matter If a woman In as
beautiful as Hebe, she Is doomed to
mediocrity if she lacks that one essen
tial. It Is said of Cleopatra that she was
not divinely beautiful, but possessed such
rare charm of manner that all who met
her fell under her hypnotic Influence.
This young girl who has written to mo
does not specify whether It Is men
friends of whom she fcols a lack or
Whether she has no friends among her
own sex; and Is unfortunate indeed to bo
Without either.
Bay what ono will, thero Is always a
time when even tho most emancipated
"bachelor maid" feels tho need of mascu
line attention, even It it Is only (to bo
very frivolous) as a dancing partner. In
a case like this ha really la indispensable.
I CAN only advlso you, llttlo "I.oncsomo
Girl," to forget your own llttlo tin
happinesses, and to bo blight and smiting
and tremendously interested in the affairs
of other people. Not that you uhouhl ba
prying. Thero Is no greater pest than
tho inqulsltlvo person who pries into
ono's affairs mercilessly.
Hut try to meet a fow girls of your
own ago and then make yourself as ln
terestlng os you can to them; if you can't
think of clever things to say yourself
laugh at thoirs, or when they are trou
bled or depressed fall In with their mood
and bo sympathetic and comforting.
Itcmembcr, It Is only tho girl with an
exceptional amount of personality who
enn constantly talk and think about
herself and "get away with It," for most
people would rather themselves be tho
center of interest.
Tho cynical man or woman, or the ono
who Is known as a confirmed grouch is
raroly sought! after.
SOME one asks whether, when a pro
fessional musician Is a guest at some
onq's house, tho hostess should ask him
to perform?
Should sho? Some musicians are
offended If they nro not asked. They take
It ns n personal affronf, while to othotB
It ii extremely irritating to bo constantly
naked to play or sing, us tho caso may bo,
while dining out.
Of course, thoro Is always tho suspicion
In tho artist's mind that ho or sho was
Invited for that special purpose, and noth
ing could bo more unfortunate,
Tho hostess, If she Is a woman of tact,
will find out boforchnnd Just how her
prospective guest fce'.n on tho subject.
THE WOMAN'S EXCHANGE
Questions submitted to fiCs ilrparlmeite tclll be miauierril. ioacii oIMe. on th oUowttia
dan. Special iiucHe Ills thoat glicn below or (mitre. Ill rominunfcatKint
Jar Hill dfTmrlrociit olmuM br ttildrtfitl VK follow!
THE VI DMAS'! I'ACIIVNfir.. Eetntno Ledger. Philadelphia. Pa.
The winner of today's prize U Mrs. 1'
Htone. o
frrduy's
f Cjnivjd, I'a.i whose letter nppenrrd In ye
li.i per.
1. It there anr good substitute for whlnped
cream
J. What on bo done to prelone tho use of
linoleum as a kltthen door roterlng?
3. Window-shade snrlnee frequently break or
become loosei run this be preteuted
TODAY'S INQUIRIES
FIE, FIE, FOR SHAME, BASEBALL AND BUSINESS '
KEEP MEN FROM MUSIC, MR. ST0K0WSKI SAYS
Is the bent war to preserve silk
1. What
stockings?
i. How run fruit stains be removed from the
hands?
3. Whnt kind of shoes should n man near with
u dims suit?
ANSWERS TO YESTERDAY'S INQUIRIES
1. To tel for adulteration stir it ulutli ot
rroand eolTee Into a sli of fold wnter. t'ure
rolTee settles to the bottcin. .leailnc. lirrdly u
trace ot eolor while ehlcorjf will rl.o to the ton.
C;W making a kind ofsrinu lloastcd grain or
rend or tin nrtlllelnl bean will color tho wiitei
more or less deeply.
S. Screw cantors to the corners of n bonrd one
foot square. A pall otvratrr set on this tiyi be
pnshed ubout In tills war wllhoul IKIIke It so
often.
S. Hard water en be oftened with washing
soda or Ire In small quantities.
Four Good Rccipca for Cake
To tht Editor ot las Woman's Paa
Dear Uedam -Ilsre are four tnke recipes
which ar easy to make and tcry cheap. Using
them, one can huve u tarlety and still not lme
expensive cakes.
!) pNE-EOU CAKE, ... ,
. 'Weup butter 1H level, teaspoons of
cup sugsr ., basing- powder
egg i (.up milk
2-3 cups flour
Cream tho butter, add gradually the sugar
and then the well beaten cgtf. II jx and sift the
flour and baking powdtr. Add alternately with
the milk to the flrst mixture. Hake thirty
minutes In a moderate oven.
(2) COCOA CAKB
egg
cup sugar
U cud ot lard
1 teaspoon salt
1. llltii shoes hate neter Iwen In good form to
wear Willi uu etcnlng snn to the theater or
opcru. iillhoiigti special high buttoned evening
shoes of broruJe lire dlspIuscJ In the shops.
J. An enlurxed toe Joint Is frequently caused
by shoes thit are too short or too hlsh u heel,
which rimes the foot to sl.p down Into the shoes,
until all tho pressure Is on the toes.
3. A wrddlni: Initiation should be nddrrsscd
to both Mr. und Mrs. rlo-und-so. etrn when the
sendrr U urquiilnted with only one of the two.
1
1 run sour milk
2 scnnl cups Hour
1 touspooi anllla
1 teaspoon aoda.
teaspoons cocoa
MIX together In order iilven and bake In a
slow oven. Krost with Iclnit mods of lonfcc-
ttonera' sucsr. cocoa and muu nuxeu 10 u
thick paste.
(31 MOI.ASSK8 CAKK
1 rIr 1 cup sour milk
tt cup sussr stunt cups Hour
t 3 cup lsrd 2 tsnspoons sod.
I cup molasses J teaspoon cinnamon
Mix together In order ln and bake In a
low over,. 1
(4) APPI.E PAUCK CAKU
Cresm together one-half cup lard ami one
no lunr. Aaa one tup raisine. mh"""
I
teaspoon each ot salt find nutmrs, one half teu
spoon of clovss ant one teaspoon each of cin
namon. Itmon and vsnllla Jllssolvo one lea-
of eodi l.i two tatlesions Of boiling
namon
water, then stir It lii'O uue cup of tart apple
sauce. Combine wnu rcuird mUturs. beat In
two and one half tup u do ir and hake In -moderate
oven. IMHH.1 i. . .
Delicious Salad
To the idllor of lto VTomoii" I'oor
Dear Msdam Here Is a delicious snd appe
aling salad of, my own concoction, made as
follows! Taks four or live i rln ealart leaves,
two good-sltid on'.uns ouo stalk of telcry and
two toiuato'si chop them alt up viry nne nu.lt
to taste and jr lu salud lenves. Willi miiyun
baUe dressing. , (MIta.) II. C. M.
Qualifications for Nursing
To tht Editor of tht Woman' Paat:
Dear Madam I want to tske up nursing. '"
you give ms anv du as to the qusllnratlon?
would like to have an Uii.MIi
tiro I make un
application. What do Von think of nursing us
f profession for a young woman wno is um
llfous hnd wish to lsrn something worth
while? I have lard tfcnt niirsts have to dp
scrubbing Is thai: so? 1'ltas answer through
your paper l:rTINA Camden, N J
A young woman w'o wishes to tnko up
nursing must bo over t ghtec n years of nge.
must have tiouiid genern.' health nnrt prnneiit
a physician's pertlflcate to prove the same ;
her licurlnir must be guid und her teeth In
good condition. Shu will not bo allowed to
graduate If she becomes ennnced or mar
ries before her term Is ended. Hlie must
have hud a fair school education The
course of training la rlg.d. During tho first
year especially the muses must accustom
themselves to perform many menial serv
ices. The profession Is a uidendlit one for
a young woman who Is sympathetic und
kindly In her nature. It pays extremely
well.
Wants Nose Shortened.
To thf Editor 0 fie Wouinit' Paat
Dear Madam Kindly tsll me wnm.ir or not
Home Life vs. Ilusincss Career
7o the Vditor of (lie Woman's Paget
Dear Madam "Vo you think the girl who has
rnnounceu marital diiss tor ine excuemeni oe a
career Is the truly happy one? ' asks the
Kvbmso I.ElfUEa.
It all depends, I say.
1 ho man who argues that the woman's place
Is homo deserves n severe reprimand. On the
other hand, the woman who claims that the
female sex can and should vie with men In all
Melds of life Is also wrong.
Then, who is right?
A compromise Is the onlylway out of It.
How should we compromise?
Wo cannot say to womaji, "Attend one-half
day to your child and the -rest to matters con
rrnlnB your loreer." for that Is an Impossi
bility both In theory nnd prnctlco. Nor can we
say to man. "Attend one-half day to our busi
ness and the rent to our home," for that Is
Just ns Imposstblo.
Again, whnt shall we do?
The answer Is. We must leave It to the In
dividual. Just ns we have men who have made
the wrong chohe In their livens-that ts, chosen
business life Insleud of professional, or vice
tersu we win nave women wno will make mis
takes In their choice. If a woman be so built.
phslcally and morally, that her tonstltutlon
wurrunts a worldly talent. Immersed In the busi
ness drudge, she will not only aspire to bs
such, but he totally Incapable ot raising cool
children and lojul cltlxens, unless the nurse be
exceptionally good. Tho reerse likewise is true.
Naturally, the woman who has mnds the wrong
choice will be us unhappy as the man who
struck his wrong rourss taa above mentioned)
In life, and for neither can the community
worry nor compensate the loss. I know that
the thoroughbred business, woman Is Just ns
happy as Ilia crr-Mocrlll Ink mother. Neither Is
enWous of the other's position.
SAMUEL 8.
On Motherhood
To tht Editor il tht Woman' Paget
Dear Madam In looking over your woman's
page I noticed an article on motherhood. I have
lieen married Ave years, hsd two children and
IomI them, nnd think I have had enough expert
vine In that line to be able to write.
Tho woninn who marries and has no children
Is a very unhappy woman; shs misses and longs
for something which she can necr hne, and
thero la nn empty, and varant spot which grad
ually grows larger and larger, until she begins
to realize that her married life Is n failure.
This, ot course, applies to the homs-luvlng
woman.
On the other hand, how much better off ts
she thnn ono who hns had and lost! This woman
has never felt the thrill of being tailed
"mother"! she hss neer felt the warm clasp
of tender little hands laid close to her. or the
anticipation of the first tooth, the flrst attempt
lo walki only then cun she reallxe the Impor
tance of married life. Happy Is she who has
neer had children rather than to have had nnd
lost theml ONCK A ilOTIIlill.
In Defense of Early Marriages
To tht Ldltor a tht Woman's Paget
Dear Madam If ou will allow a mere man
permission to enter your woman's page, I would
liae lo express an
statement signed !'
opinion on a very broad
C and entitle! "HhnnM
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slum for such a purpose and have always
Understood that nothing but a surgical
Iteration would shorten the nose.
Oily Scalp
To tht TAltor o ( Woman's Page!
Dear Madam -Aa I have gained so many help
M suggestions from the Woman's Kxi hangs I
r writing lo ask If you can aid me further,
am troubled Willi an extremely oily siulp. A
fur er two after shampooing my hair the aratp
Mesans o oily that the hatr clings together
and 13 In an unsightly condition, undenting ine
h Mcswiingiy. i win oe grsieiui
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Jln Marry voungi-- two years m
of a number of young men about the age of
twenty-one, work was considered by most of
us only as a means to pay for pleasure, In which
we Indulged to the utmost Very little thought
was given to the future most of us thinking
we would get along somehow. About this time
I met a very sensible young lady, who was
different from the girls with whom I hsd bean
accustomed to associate This young lady taught
me to take a more serious view of life, and
from that time on my work had a new meaning
to me My employer noticed this new Interest
and rewarded It with an Increase In salary, and.
upon being Informed of my Intention of being
married shortly gave ma a more responsible
position. Ills reason for this was that II re
quired a man ot settled habits to apprsitale
responsibility.
I have also known many young men who
have applied for positions and wer rejected
In favor of married men. Most employers desire
the services of married men. knowing well that
they win take their work more seriously,
I would also like to state that at the pace
the young men of today are going x man of
thirty U equivalent lq man of fifty n our
grandfathers' .time, (live a young nun a wife,
and Invariably that young man wUl give the
best that Is In him to make good T B.
Your letter was a moat Interesting; one,
Mr I), mid should prove encouraging; to
mai)y youpsr men who are conternplatlng
liurrlaice. I'erhaps other readers will ex
press their opinions,
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who lnuurjne they must marry only a rich girl,
because If they should rhancs to meet a poor
girl and fall tn iove with her.
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City's Music
Boyish Yet
Philosophical
Simple and
Modest
Master
Mature,
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By M'LISS
T HAS been said of Ioopom Stokowskl
thnt wo In Philadelphia know him so well
wo do not know him nt nil: that we aro In
tho same position nn the man Ions married.
Asked tho color of his wife's eyes he
flounders:
"They ore blue."
"No ; on second thought, they are brown."
On third thought ho decides they nre hazel,
only to run home after this diagnosis and
find them to be gray!-
Wo know him as nn Institution; as the
person who fairly "ents" work; ns the fa
mous husband of a famous ttlfe; at tho In
dividual who has done moro perhaps to
put Philadelphia on the musical map than
any other.
Dut it la Leopold Htokowdkl. tho man,
that, those who really know him find most
Interesting.
I.lko nil "big" people, he Is extremely
difficult to, get at; but onco you penetrate
the almost lmprcgnahlo lines of dofenso that
the management of the Orchestra Uias
thrown around him, you discover him, nirain
like all ''big" people, to be exceedingly
democratic, genial nnd easy to talk to.
It was my good fortune to get by the
barbed-wire resistance of tho Orchostra's
manager, tho well-intentioned pitfalls of tho
assistant manager both of whom guard
Mr. Stokowskl with moro fertor than
slaves do the favorite of a harem and
nrrlvo triumphant at the very charming
residence In Merlon where ho and Olga
Bamaroff make their home.
In his sunny little study on the second
floor, the leader of Philadelphia's Orches
tra, looking oven more boyish In h(s tlarle
business eult and no ft neglige collar, thn
ho does In the formal nttlro he weirs .
conduct, told me something right m
start of the Interview which ought rn
of supreme interest to every musical J
cllned fhladclnhlan. .
A QnUAT TIIUAT IN STOIUi
He told me that h musical treat
nendous os tho Mahler Symphony, If
grenter than It, was being contemplated.
A plaque ot dustav Mahler hangs In the
entry outside of tho beautiful Italian red
drawing-room, with Its broad open fireplace.
It occurred to me aa I went up stairs that
a man who hail put through such tremen
dous work as the KIghth Symphony with
such consummate skill nnd genius, must
perforce "back It up" with something very
gigantic Indeed, In order not to live In an
ant-cltmax, all his life. I mentioned this
to Mr Stokowskl.
"Out, we hate something In mind quite as
big," ho said slowly: "what It la I cannot
say, because I hate found It very unwise to
tell In advance what wo are going to do.
When the Strauss 'Alpen-'Symphonlo' was
given another orchestra, with what motive
you may Imuglne, antedated us by a day, I
do not want this to happen again, and so I
shall not tell whnt it Is we aro going to do."
When he speaks of what he Is going to
do you get the feeling that Inexhaustible re
serves of energy and forre aro his to call
upon, ajHl It Is Impossible to believe the
rumor that his health has been well-nigh,
wrecked by tho tremendouj effort expended
on tho Mahler Symphony,
The physical demands," ho said In that
rich, vibrant tolce a symphony In lUolf
with Its foreign accent which years In
Amerca and Oxford University have still
left perceptible, "they were not so bad, but
what takes It out of the man who directs
Is that he must give of his soul, his spirit,
to every Individual he la leading. To each
of those thousand people there had to bo a
line of sympathy going out from me. Thnt
leaves one tired when it la over."
It Is a source of depressing aninrement
to this man, whose name so speedily has bo
borne linked forever with the musical his
tory ot this city, that the percentage of the
population Interested In muala Is so small.
nUOHETS SCANT 1IU810 PUBLIC
"Just think," he pointed out! "If you
gather your statistics frpm the number pf
people who cpme to the concerts, ypu find
that less than one-fourth of ono per cent of
the whole population of Philadelphia Jg in
terested In Rood mus'c,
Think of those thousands who live all
their Uvea and never hear the great musical
workH, Think of spending a lifetime, with
out Hach, Beethoven. Brahma and the rest
of them. Think of the marvelous Inspira
tion that they miss j think of the wonderful
places a symphony takes a soul to places
these people will never see or Imagine 1"
I haye often wondered what the occasion
are that would cause) Leopold Stokowskl
to look like te iaM, In the Seffect portrait;
what would bring about that 'far-away,
dreapiy look In hi blue eye, whlrtt his
In It something of a somber brooding and
yet aomethlmr'p! a yaut content with thin
u they aro surely going to be. In what
llest moment did the artist eatoh this man
Lit a mood tbat I feel sure Hie public ha
peter n7 It muat Have bM In such a
moment aa this when t consideration (,(
the vision to be Insplssxt by grwt musta
tee) him tsry much aUuaJsMI.
But If II Is Uw orivtUew ef artiaia t
.'. 's . . .. ..a' r. .. ir -'n -
; tstiM suea novm. n w auHtwuse tn-p
a Interviews to IMprt0L sMs.
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"And thlnk.i' I said triumphantly, "the
greater part of that ono-fourth of one per
cent la women 1"
'That Is true,1' he replied. "In America
tho women hato more time nnd more In
clination for music than havo tho men. who
nre Interested In baseball nnd business.
In Europo It Is different; ono sees as many,
If not more, men at the concerts than
women."
"And when is tho great American opera
coming?"
"Who can tellt" Mr. Stokownkl answered,
nnd then epigrammatlcally, "Genius, It Is
but nn nccldent that takes placo In an In
dividual's brain. One cannot tell when
such accidents aro going to happen, but
one knows It when they do.
. AMERICA'S MUSICAL FUTUIli:
'Tho question of America's musical fu
ture la unique. It has hctcr happened be
fore that a land so big ns this and with
such possibilities was so absolutely detold
of ancient history nnd mythology. Tho
geniuses of the old countries who havo
written great works hato always gone
hack to draw from tho wonderful .folk
lore and mythology of their lands. Ameri
cans havo come from otery where. Per
haps time wilt supply you with a mythol
ogy." "And yet," I reminded him, "you gave an
American's symphony last winter Daniel
Gregory Mason's, of Itoston, a symphony
that was tcry adterscly criticized."
"Ktery musician whoso work reaches a
pertain standard," waa tho characteristic
reply, "Is entitled to havo that work played.
This Is necessary for the development ot
music. If he does not hear them, how
can ho Improve them?
'Think what It would havo meant to
Schubert If he could hate heard bis sym
phonies played. Not ono did he hear and
that Is our loss, for great and wonderful
ob those symphonies nre, I cannot help
but feel that they would havo been even
greater and more wonderful had Schubert
heard them."
Mr. Stokowskl settled himself down mora
comfortably In his chair and prepared to
Lonsldor the question of Schubert and his
work further.
"A llttlo about! yourself, please," I Inter
jected timidly.
Hut, no, It could not be, he said. Schu
bert was Interesting, big, but Stokowskl,
that was too small.
"What do you lead?" 1 fired nt htm Just
as though tre were paying a game called
"Favorite Authors."
"When?" he took un the Question good-
IHunjprcdly. "last' week, this week, or last
,y"aPtk Hld inference was that being a
iiiymnfjnijinari, he read " mo nine, 'xoa
ter(ay I rca(j a book about tho modern
WlP"- and French pointers. I am lnterest-
"V them and recently I found In tho house
f0' a 'friend out hero In Merici one of tho
flr.ieit collections of those modern paint-
A gro' renaissance in tho art world
K eruce, ii is wonaermi io watcn
quite possible from the Interest he
in artf that If Leopold Stokowskl
een a great conductor he would
ly been a painter. One suspects
hidden away In the house somewhere
nd the nlanos or Enumerable, musical
soorcs that fllf the bookcases which line the
tuletto and canvas and tubes are to
be5 found.
, . And the same liberalism and broadmlnd
edncss which characterized his attitude
toward music Is discernible in his tiew
toward art. The vortlclsts, the Imaglsti,
Matisse, Cezanne, Monet, tho now and tho
near-new, all hate their place In tho his
tory of painting, ho holds, as Debussy nnd
tho moderns and Schoenberg and the ex
treme moderns In tho musical world are
entitled to a hearing.
"We nre too near the picture," he elabo
rated his Idea of tho extremists "to Judge
accurately whnt the ultimate result will be
of their Htrlvlngs, but that they ore after a
definite Idea cannot help but be seen. For
getful of form sometimes, they nre working
for color. D.ebussy got It pure color In
small spots In his 'Slrenes.' That Is the
best exemplification."
And then because It was late and I had
trespassed long enough, I gpt up to go,
but, remembering a remark thnt a man
who stands In lino every Saturday for a
gallery seat had made, I sat down to re
peat It
"The man who really loves music, who
will stand for two hours In ordtfr to get In
to hear a symphony, he resents the soloist,
the star who draws large crowds, who
Jeopardizes his chance to get a seat to hear
good music. He has a contempt for those
people who will come only to hear Schu-mann-IIelnk
or Farrar and who stay away
when there la no soloist,"
"He Is right." Mr. Stokowskl said
definitely. "It Is thoroughly bad for an
orchestra to nngaga a soloist merely be
cause he or she Is a good drawing card, Tht
artist Is the means to nn end; (he Ideal con
dition la when he is employed because It la
necessary to have him to Interpret the work
tbat Is being1 given,"
"Did you know that those persons who
stand regularly In line ao a,s to be able to
hear you are often crowded out by thise
Who como only Infrequently when a n-Milar
artist Is to sing or play,, and tjj 1 they
wish the check system that la In use In
noston, whereby thoso who cona flrat are
served flrst, would be Installed here?'1 1
asked
The keen Interest registered by Phlladsl.
phla'a orchestra leader shows that hi heart
la with those who sit In the "high Places."
"I shall suggest those check to the mane
agement," he said, maklgjf a note of the
matter, "I know what ft la to stand, J
did It so many, many ttmn wfcm I was a
student. It was so. ed and fhe waits
were so long and It was so ruinous to tlfe
dlpoUlon tp have swpe rxie who had
bee! waiting not to lens erowd 'In front
ot you. We shall see what we can do,
abut that."
A TRULY MOPHST MAN
Leopold sKokewslcy1 Ut easy to talk to
about evsrythlne uodr tfce mn that ex-
oloaUa falposlf. Auk hew )ew old be Is sad
bu wHl rply) that It U twiy unJa,
!( it nar. tk4 -veai lih a k asstee rn dj-aitf usah
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trwesHiasSjSK.
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a long tirrte ngo, when I was a llttlo boy. I
Was a violinist," ho will show Interest In
the Influence ot the Information on Hach.
Ho Is too modest. In desperation you
consult "Hjho's Who." But the compiler of
that oIume.who fs supposed to know every
thing about, eterybody, had troubles all
hlo own when he tried to get the salient
facts of tho career of Philadelphia's Orches
tra leader. Ho discovered only thnt ho was
Lcrn In London, of Polish parentnge; that
he wns KrndUated from Oxford Unlvcrsltji;
thnt ho studied music In Paris and con
ducted a, symphony orchestra there nnd In
London; that ho was the musical director
of tho choir "at St. Bartholomew's Church.
New York, nnd conducted the Cincinnati
Oichestra until he received the "call" to
Philadelphia.
And despite all that I should say that
Mr Stokowsky Is not moro than thirty-two
years ot nge, 'although at close range he
doesn't ' look older than twenty-seven or
twenty-eight
TODAY'S FASHION
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MY MARRIED LIFE
By ADELB GARRISON
'If Our Ideas and Ideals Don't Conflict" 'r.
went to my room, j took ,,..
afternoon gown which Is nickvs '.
a slmnla affair nt .r. ",.'.
tiny old rose nre-'dM,.6 "''
and collar of old rose satin w T '
set and the savage wife h Ji!
self brave with extra hen; "K!2'i
?.... I,atln'" I told myself St.
I let down my hair and arronreidil
way Dicky likes beat. In careit. k
WTiKWnB (1V..T- 1.V AM.M. b. J "
.. . ,....,., ,n. nlla coiled Ii
the nape of my neck. '
Aa I put on the gown and fa,f.
temptation came to m. t ... ..
me to ask Dicky for more money tZ
ins no ine ibsk was. than i. ..i. L. "
had paid the bill he had rtedec tetM
that he waa extravagantly careKs. J
money matters, also that he Was T
ennuirh nv Iav.n n .. , . ."e ',
Suppose I told him I needed lbs1
i., :.i.-:---."-.L'"''1"" ""v.1
HVWUnviii -i,i;iiac9' any cxeejea
"" ecii quiei noout the cledMr'
I knewnthatnt I simply told hlrnlhe
I MADE a moat humiliating discovery a
fewsmlnutea after the shabby proprietor
of the cleaning establishment had gone.
In my -haste'to pay the bill which Dicky
had peglected for eo long I had given the
man all Iho money I had In the house.
Tomorrow the "bptcher, the baUer and the
capdlestlck maker" would calt for their
weekly bill, and I had nothing with which
to pay them. I must either ask Dicky
for money or put off the tradesmen to
morrow .
Klther of these courses was Intolerable
to me. I always hate had a horror of a
debt, be It eter so small. It la bred In
me. My little mother'a early married life,
before my father ran away, was a long
nightmare of debt nnd the duns of creditors.
One of my first memories Is of my mother'a
despair at having no money with which
to pay a pressing creditor I cannot re
member when I made my flrst resolve never
to one anybody anything.
On the other hand, long years of In
dependence had Intensified another trait
ot mine, that ot hating to ask a favor of
any one. I, had hoped that Dicky, when
we started housekeeping, would talk over
hit financial affairs with me as he would
with nny other partner, I had planned to
discuss with him what sum we could af
ford weekly for housekeeping expenses.
?'hen I had expected that he would hand me
hat sum each week without any further
discussion.
But Dicky's plarra evidently did not run
along the lines which appealed to me. The
day, we came Into our little home he had
taken my purse from my hand, stuffed some
bills Inside nnd said cafelesaly, 'That's for
thd housekeeping. Tell me when you neod
more." Thousands of women before me.
I suppose, hate gone through tho experience
I did. that ot trying to stretch that money
to tho farthest possible extent so as to
put off tho day when I should have to
ask for more.
AN KMUAimASSlNO MOMENT
"Say,, Missis Graham, the laundry man
here has thf shirts and collars. He say
a dollar ahd thirty-five cents." Katie stood
in tho doorway, to my eyea a -ery Nemesis.
I counted out the change In my purse.
One dollar and Ave cents was tho total. I
handed her the dollar.
'That Is all the change I have here,
Katie." I tried to make my voice non
chalant. "Tell him to add the rest to next
week's bill."
Katie came bnck In a moment, her eyea
snapping with indignation.
"What you think, Missis Graham? That
ttrlter, he one fool. He say he new driver,
don't know you, he can't leave laundry no
money. He, say ho take it back with him.
I say, 'You' big stiff, I give you money,'
I hate some in my pocketbook. So I pay
him, get laundry. You tell Mr. Graham
call up laundry, have htm come no more
here."
'Thank you, Katie," I said faintly. "I
will hand you the money when I get some
change." Katie's slang and manner gratod
upon me, but I realized that this was no
time for criticism. When a person saves
your life it Is not quite clubby to object to
the manner In which he docs It
'That's all right," said Katie grandly,
and tanlshed to the kitchen. For a minute
1 whimsically envied Katie. She had no
complicated financial problems. So much
work, so much money and only herself to
suit In Its spending.
For the first time since my marriage I
dreaded Dicky's home-coming. Our little
dinner each evening had been tho one event
of my day; something to look forward to
and to dross for. Today I felt as I were
going to execution.
THE PEIIPLEXING rBOBLEM
"But It is a point of honor'to dress one's
best even for that," I said to myself as I
do nnd keep quiet nbout the elf
Keeping money was enne -. ...i"
Dicky would know that somethfa.
wrong, that I never could hato iUSv
short time we had been keeping!
"What Is she botherlnir h
now"? Settling the war or the Tb
Dicky's mischievous face peered 1
,.w..u. ,.w me mirror I n
absorbed In my worries that altn
"w vi iny iuuiii was ooen i n.s
heari Dicky enter the apartment nirl
him Wmt Into the room. iT"l
"Dicky I How you atarii.4
dropped Into the banal to at old teJtt
mv rint fhniivh ' .
'This may soothe vnur ir.mi.ii..
Dicky Bayly tossed a dalmv i
me. I knew its contents before 1 dm
its nxu nrougni, me many slmljar i
"DINNEIt 13 SnrtVED"
... Ba,n ' n' DIcky, how
UU 1
The temptation to let thlnrs
tako the easiest way out nf ikj
waa very strong. Then th ii,r..W
shabby little man whom Dicky had
or o tong struck my conscience
w hlnlanl.
trintnt t UM..I . . . '-4
, ....! . .uiiium over iancy graUfM
mo nnd for himself, nnd, for all he k
man who hnd Worked hard In M.1
sorely needed the money Justly jjal
My Puritan conscience, lulled toMJ
nciouaness in tnese days by the Kiss
Dicky's personality, awoke and Z
a hearing. I had no right to keen this (
frnm ninkv. fnr m ...... ... 'TTt
i:,z .ci"::.L-,z "'. "" "" p
ins, tula wiiuiu iiiianciat question '
settled before wo stent
Was It common sense, conilderttal
xsH.-K.jr vr inuui cowaraice that rates j
'" "" -itr uiscussion unui i
uinnerc
"Oh, say. Missis Graham, dinner Is t
x mean, ainner is served. Misses
xou lorgive me ais time. 1 no,
again." v
Katie's voice came a a welcome i
Something about her appealed to at i
ul Humor which x xear is rainer
In me. I had gently tried to cure i
her habit of addressing me as '.t)
missis," but Katie Invariably foVfetj
reminaer. lvaue intariamy asked
forgive her.
"Wilt you honor me?" Dicky he
nnd offered me his arm. "Such;, t
nouneement as mat demands that tu ajj
a formal entrance to the dining rolWl
How dear he was, this lover bu
mine. How I wished that our Id
Ideals were not so opposed as J.
they were! M,
(Copyright)
CONTINUED MONDAY
Jl
WAYS TO-HAVE BEAUTIFUL ARI
By LUCREZIA BORI
rrlma Ponna of the Metropolitan Opera Company
A demure frock of gray crepe dc
chine.
A Simple Afternoon Frock
TUNNY" CABUTHERS la eating out of
-) my hnnd these days. He has called
mo all kinds of complimentary names
from a "queen" to a ''brick." Every after
noon he comes hero to see what progress
we've made with the stage clothes. Today,
when I showed him the pretty afternoon
frock Mm. Mathon hud Just finished for
Betty Flemmlng, he rayed about our clev
erness nnd almost embraced Mrs. Mathon
In an effort to show his appreciation of
what we were doing to save tho day where
his play was, concAned.
The dress renlly Is a wonder, Betty
has a demuro. Quaky rlsh type ot beauty and
I kept this In mind while designing the
frock,' which la of pale gray georgette crepe,
wth a lining of chiffon taffeta. Betty
bought tho material from her own allow,
nnce, so that the frock will be hers after
the play,
Mrfl. Mathon cut out princess slip of
taffeta and fitted It snugly to Betty's trim
little figure, She stitched the seams and
turned It over to me for the finishing
touches. I stitched the hem by hand, bound
tho armholes and neckline with bias folds
of taffeta, and sewed on the hooks and eyes.
By the time I hid done these "chores" Mrs.
Mathon lstd Mia overdress ready for Us to
work on.
She cut tli a skirt four and one-half yards
in width and trimmed It with three deep,
hand-stltchcd tucks. Then she turned up
the hem an wide as the tucks, hand-stltched
It In place, and gathered the top, After
fitting It on Betty sho added a narrow
Waistband
While Mra. Mathon was working on the
tiltlrt I was getting tho bod lea ready for
fitting. It was very simple to pjit together
nnd needed but little nlteratln wheq Betty
slipped It on, Mrs, Mathon 'Lifted the
shoulders a trifle and scattered a, few soft
gatliers-ticrosa the front and at the waist
line In 'the back.
I made the sleeves below elbow lehgth,"
in two sections, one cruawpg aver tne otner.
To relieve tho frock of It absolute ladk pi
color, I trimmed each sleeve with a band
ot bead embroidery, using tiny crystal and
graylth-blue beads,
Mrs. Mathon cut out a fichu collar of jh
qrepe, yvhlch I beaded to correspond "with,
the sleeves. The collar waa supposed tq
flare away from the neck, and w had a
dr&Adful tlmo trying to stiffen It properly.
We finally threaded, a Bray silk. halr-Uke
wre about the top and stitched upright
pieces of wlro under the bead embroidery
at the, sides and tn the center back, "The
wlr0r,can pfcarcely bo seen, a,nd the' out,
atandlpif effect pf. th? oojlar 1 very smart,
X made u, narrow sash girdle of georgette
and finished the end with large crystalawd
blue bead tasaeVa. This gives an attrueflve
finish to tho Wftlrt lino -when knotted tan
front. Betty vowa that she hog never hadjt
lirmuer ivv. y ,
Mrs. Jimmy I glvlm? the first of her.
aerie of ta tnie atwWHi, i proteUsed
to MP P""-. Rnd h btttf 'Pto n??
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Quince Marmalade
Wis but do ts ul. WMfj
watr eM CO unw xfMar, i
Vf ana nu we e-is ym
Quarter pound of wear to turn
om
' I In
PnETTY arms are so charming and so
rare that It Is a wonder that more
women do not tako better care of this
beauty asset Women to whom beauty Is a
science know that arms are a great aid to
grace, thereforo tney
devote enough time to
their care to keep them
well rounded, white,
smooth and graceful.
There Is no excuse
for the woman who
dons a sleeveless eve
ning gown and displays
a pair of scrawny,
snakelike arms that
rob her of both beauty
apd grace.
Thin arms can be de-
developed by exercise
and the application of
LVCMSSSIA lioilt fattening oils and
creams. Prepare the arma by bathlnr them
In warm water ao that the pores will be
opened to absorb the oil. Then dip tho
fingers Into olive, sweet almond or cocoa
oil, that has been slightly warmed, and rub
It gently Into the Bkln. Bub the oil In
slowly, round and round, bo that every part
of the surface la massaged.
Another treatment essential to the Im
provement of the arms la bandaging them at
night This process takes only a few mln
utea and the reaulta after a time will be
most gratifying. It Is beat done by soaking
strips of old linen or antiseptic gauze In
aweet almond or olive oil. The bandages
ahould be four Inches wide. Wrap them
firmly about the arma, but not so tight
aa to stop circulation.
To develop arms that are too thin clasp
or hook tho fingers of one hand in those
of the other, one hand b)ng palm down
ward, while the other If upward. Raise
the elbowa shoulder high and move the
arma flrst to the rlgtt and then to the left
Follow this movement by raising the
arm, the hands still clasped, high above
the head, and then stretch them aa far down
n front as you can.
CAIIE OF THE ELBOWB
Very seldom does one sea a pretty pair ot
elbows. Uaualljr the akin covering la rough
arid wrinkled.. To Improve the texture of
alio akin scrub the elbow with a brush and
a Diana soap, 'vnen massage mem with oil
or cocoa butter and bind a greased pad over
each .elbow at night.
' f the arma are too fat they ahould be
massaged vigorously by some other person,
a wringing, twisting movement la necessary
to reduce the flesh and harden the muscles,
(haye noticed that many arm that ordi
narily might be pretty are disfigured by a
roughness that appear on the back of the
tipper arms. Thl I frequently due to laclf
of surface clrouuvtlori. apd the remedy He
In, exercise and the following treatment;
Take a flesh brush, preferably a long,
handled on, scrub the arm thoroughly
with soap and warm water, then dry par.
fully and apply a eoothtng apd whitening
lotion such a the following)
LOTlQN FOR THH ARM8
Ursa , ...................... 1 ounce
bough beesels to moisten It. f f
fit julee of 1 lewon,
Another exaellent lotion for the arm !
B,ie'Af Ulnae Iturredlenta!
t . .:.. i
i
Lemen Jules ,..,,,,,,,,,,,,, i euncs
QiyeerUt immmiiiikhiimi 1 ounce
Aeeewrter ,.,...! ..,..,,., i ounce
If a, sunerfluou growth of hair mm
thjt bajmur ef your rma, remove It by using
awry amtaiiuBs me teiiowingi
et seat er, asiswHO
M -.,... x.K,..y IM gMlas
Mix thorMfbJy-and keen 'dry In a w.u.
oorked bottle until ready for uaa. M; With,
if you lovk
" rm-t Y 'ikmM Xav
THf CUmtMY HQWtf MOe
-tei
fcjj
K'Sm-.ma
...... ...,r .i . . -i'..-'Ji
wui in wuicr unui ii luiius aeie
right consistency. Spread over the ia
and allow It to remain from one to flri
utea, according to the nature of the fn
and the susceptibility of the akin. MJ
scrape off with a blunt blade a, i
knife. It should be removed as seea i
burning sensation Is felt. Too 'lour !
tact with the skin should be avoided."
the surface gently with warm watej
apply a soothing cream.
Arma are so conspicuous at tb ;
time, when evening gowns are w
and afternoon frocks hate tras
Blcevcs, that It Is the duty ot etery i
io pay particular attention to me.
them.
(Copyright.)
Just Plain Mother;
She was steady and brave when tliJ
got on nro.
And when robbers broke Into the 1
She never grew faint on receipt ol!
Or squealed at the sight of a :
When thn Tinnt overturned she waa I
and calm: vi
Her driving was daring and aurfesjN
uut Ehe simply collapsed wjin;s.-s,
qualm
When the kid got a temperature
Corlnno Kockwell Salp,'H
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