EVENING LEDGERPHILADEIiPHIA, SATURDAY, APBIU 22; 1916. M'lJSS DISCUSSES SUBJECTS 9 OF IDEAL ETIQUETTE SCHOOL It Should Prepare Us to Emerge Gracefully From Embarrassing Situations That Books Take No Account Of i . nfnHBRB art some things, wo aro told, that one cannot learn nt school. They .,.Xmust bo taught Us nt our mother's kneo or by that most merciless of all teachers experience, tint more hnd mora the colleges aro usurping tho teaching of these subjects. - j Pyfy a HtM while ago Oouchsr College announced a course In love and mnrrlago ,rdr its seniors, and now comes the New York TJhlvcrslty with a school of etiquette. What a mission a school of etiquette could fill, were It conducted on the right lines! How many embarrassing situations could be avoided, how many painful moments obviated! Tho mistake such n school will probably make, how ever, will bo In expounding the formal principles that the veriest anarchist Is familiar with In this day of grace. lis purpose should be not to tell a man tho ethics of his spoon In relation tu a full cup of coffee, or his kntfo to through excruciating situations for which tho ctlquctto books leave him en tirely unprepared. It was Catherine of Russia, I believe, who, 'in sending out her dinner Invi tations, inclosed a warning to tho women that they would not be tolerated it tltcy wiped their mouths on the tablecloth, nor would tho noblemen be received again If they struck their wives at tablo. ; t This was practical etlquettu. But where Is the school that will tell us how to behave after having slipped on the lco or a banana peel; how to turn confusion Into poise and aplomb. What to say after having thanked a person for an anonymous gift, which, it developed later, ho didn't glvo us. How to cmcige triumphant from a situation like this: A young man has beerl forbidden tobacco by his physicians, Ho meets a young woman with Whom ho is Immediately smitten Sho smokes, nnd pt esses cigarettes upon htm. If le yleldsiio will doubtless bring on a heart attack tho undesirable kind. If he doesn't, she'll think him a ninny. What is tho answer? How to behave when tho young woman hanging to a strnp nnd swaying llssomely above you drops, unintentionally, a soft custard pie on your shirt front. Of course, you know you ought to havo got up and offered your seat long before tho catastrophe happened, but that Isn't thp point. You didn't, nnd now you look llko Humpty Dumpty .'.fter ho fell from the wall. How to gloss over the awkward pause that follows your husband's bland remark, What are you kicking me under tho table for, dear? when you had a very definite reason for 60 kicklnc him. If n school of etiquette coul-i help us with such little problems as these, It would not havo been established In vain. M'LISS. Letters to the Editor of the Woman's Page Address alt communications to M'U. rare of the Krenlnt Ledger. Write on on Ida ot tlio paper on!. Bcnr M'Xilsa I never havo any success Washing nnd Ironing ribbons. They al wnys get stiff and nre not usable. Can you tell me a good method? HousnKEBPnn. Never wash silk ribbon In water, tlso gasoline, precious fluid nowadays, and he careful, for even friction cin causa Igni tion. After the ribbon Is clean, hang In the nlr after stretching them smooth. Then roll In a damp cloth and after nn hour press with a warm not hot Iron. Dear M'l.lss A says that tho Presi dent's daughter Jessie has only one child and B says sho has two. Who Is right? A. It MAKING By JOHN Tawns may bo mado either by seeding or sodding The gain of tlmo In laying turf Is really very slight and the results nre not so good as when tho lawn la seeded. Sods separate In dry weather nnd tho grasses nro usually coarse and hnrdly ever uniform Tho lawn should be carefully mado In tho beginning. A carelessly made lawn "runs" out In a season or two. Instead xt gaining In smoothness and turflncs3. Consult a reliable local seedsman, who Will know what blend of t-ced will go best on your soil. If some portions of tho ground are shady, or sandy, or noticeably "stiff,' provide special teed for tho situ ations. Don't hesitate to use plenty of seed In tho beginning. Thick sprinkling oaves money later. Careful preparation Is necessary for permanent results. Tho soil should bo thoroughly pulverized to a depth of C to 8 Inches. If there Is a stiff subsoil this should bo broken, but not brought to the surface. In the case of an extensive lawn It will pay to havo tho ground plowed and harrowed. A small plot bhould be spaded thoroughly and raked fine, and to a uni form surface. Breakage ot the subsoil In . sures undcrdrulnage, so that surface and rain water will go down through the top solL keeping the roots moistened but pre venting both saturation and drying out. The depth Indicated Insures deep rooting, fin that th tlhrnun nnilprirrowth will be less susceptible to drouth or heat In sum-1 trier or freezing in winter. The soil should be thoroughly enriohed before planting. If tho lawn has been prepared by the builders about a new houso. be sura the ground la dug over and Plenty of fertilizer dug In, for more often than not, the earth from excavations has been spread as top soil, and It Is tlmo wasted to attempt to build a lawn on this surface. If It Is stiff and clayey, work In some sand, a ton to a plot 50 by 20 or 30 feet (cost J 1.73 per ton). What Is known as a. "load" of manure, the contents of a tall cart, should be spread over each 1000 square feet of sur face before plowing or spading and should ba Incorporated tq the depth stated. The -price per load Is ?1 to 11.23. A well known horticulturist advises 10 to 20 tons per acre In building n new lawn. Tha lower figure I think enough for any aver age soil. This would mean, for a smaller plqt. one ton for one-tenth of an acre, or approximately 4431 square feet. For easy reckoning, calculate two pounds to a square foot of your space. This manure for spring usa In a new lawn must be completely rotted. It should tie six months old. The larger quantity (50 tons per acre) would be proper to spread In fall and plow under tn the spring Jn the case of a new lawn. A supplementary dressing of rough ground bona meal should also be used at the rate of one ton per acre, or 20 pounds for a space 438 square feet. Stable manure la likely to contain many weed seeds, and some persons object to It on this account They can use powdered sheep manure lit the proportions pre scribed for bone meal and used In con junction with it One-quarter to one-half the quantities prescribed can be used as fall or early spring dressings for lawns, already In ETasd. to replenish exhausted nutrients. "An application of hardwood ashes Is bens 8clal to lawns old or new, but sprinkle toese very lightly. It Is wise to avoid farmyard manure on a lawn where there I a good stand of grass. A good com bined fertilizer Is made of equal propor tions of hone meal, Bheep manure and wood ashes. This should ba applied In uUi wise as to give the lawn light grayish appearance This can be put on cither before the grass begins to appear ur m, cuupia ot weeits mer Aiur a rain, when the ground Is no longer soggy, roll the dressing In. For stimulation of (he grass give It a Aresslng. at fortnightly Intervals In April and May, of nitrate of soda, one ounce tp the square yard dissolved in a quart of water Becently a new and tery good fertilizer luxs bee put on the market in the form of humus, or natural organic matter, treated with other plant foods In acces sible, fsro This has the advantages of Hot scorching smothering or over-feeding tt ssioaith, lltnv persons, however, pre fi th older vay gt ttuUIng or freshening 1WB. sH feat nf attention baa ba "n tii fWUittVK ? iC'flc instruc Wa r a-ju. .iMf hj wb- 'fe ltf-f LJ .. .... - fliUlfcl lli JiJjjZSmMMS T f JfA- " mm PA recalcitrant peas, but to guide him safely V, Mrs. Francis Bowes Sayro has two children. Dear M'LIss If a couple were married In church nnd no Invitations were sent out, would It be proper to send announce ments after tho wedding? Friends of both btldo nnd bridegroom would hear of tho wedding and ho at tho church and many of those that witnessed tho ceremony would receive the announce ment, which does not seem altogether proper to mo. What sny you? INQUISITIVE. Announcementn nre proper. Thoso friends of tho bride and bridegroom who nttend the wedding uninvited aro guilty of n breach of etiquette which ohould not be recognized by yu. THE LAWN BARTRAM Urine yeur problems of gardening to (lie Ktenlng Ledger for solution. In mldltlnn to practical article, timely to tlio senson, the editor will answer, either utit of liN own experience ns smnll-nu1 Rurdener or through con snltatlnn with nutlinrltle., iiuestluns of readers. Address John llnrlram, i:ve Inc Ledger, Philadelphia. to suit. See that tho entire lawn Is properly topsolled to tho proper depth and graded with a very Blight slopo to tLe edges to carry off surplus water. Flvo bushels of lawn seed is requisite tor an ncre, or ono pound to nn area of 300 Bquaro feet (15 by 20 feet). The pest time is early fall or early spring, to Insure the benefit of the, Ainnni ii Any time up to Jfay 1 Is safe it tho lawn " ,. ,reu lw sowings should bo , m."?Mna..Eccond " .TieM angles to tho is watereu flrst, for evenness of distribution. A quiet uaj. nuuuiu oe seiecteu ; it Is well to re member that between 5 and 0 a. m. Is tho quietest time of day. After seeding roll tho lawn so that the seed comes Into close contact with the pulverized soli. One or more rollings will be beneficial. This Is tho time of year to mend old lawns. IUke over bare places very finely, spread some fertilizer, sow the seed and roll. ( Begin mowing as soon as the grass Is two to three inches high. It Is best to set and keep knives high. Go over the entire lawn once a week. If It Is very large divide Into plots, Leave the clip pings on the ground, as they coon shrivel. They will furnish a desirable mulch and when rotted add humus to tho soil. Water In nature's wnvthnrr.nc.ii mni,. Ing. Divide the lawn Into six parts and water one each day, so the entire expanse will be soaked once a week, to a depth of at least a foot To maintain your lawn each fall, spread a generous dressing of whatever fertilizer you select QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS ) Tools for Small Garden J!fleni3 Jo,hn. Bartram(l) will you pleas bo sood enough to tell ma tho tools that I will -?i5.i bf YS ln ?rder to work a medlum-alzed sardtn? I do not want to havo tn spend any more money than la necessary and vet I want an adequata equipment. (31 Also what la tood to "limber up'' a rusty lawn mowerT AMATEim. (1) Spade. 60 cents to II; hoe. 25 cents to S2 SL" : rB k. (no,t " raits. 80 cents; J1"" sarden trowel. IS cents to 23 cents, are & .V??"?1"; u sardn Is as blir as DO by SO feet, a whsel-boe or garden cultl If,t?r(.at ." '? ".. -eedln 5 number of ?.l.iLhlSent" yul, rluc labor of weeding and 2iWrVlnir ,2 n2r J" "'J 'h rusted parts with kerosene., which wll cut tha rust. A couple of applications may bo necessary; micB'lM'olL'" U"'"W" f.w d" p. of Small Vegetable Gardens SUBURBAN. U.C. S. and AMATEUU will solve your obleros. -" "" Beets EXTRA Eclipse and Crosby's Egyptian aro reliable strains of beets A 10-cVnt packet should bo enough for a family of three. Flant one-third at a time at three-week Intervals. Tho joun tops may.. be cut o for use aa greens. They. are delicious. By doing this you can retard Uw maturity of a many of tb beeta aa you want to. ' Dogwood and Mock Orange Friend John Hartram J have been advised to plant cornus and Ptolladelpbus la develoDlnir my new auburbau home. Shall I order In thu w ALUURT ( ,.U '??'' "', t0 'a" b th acientino name. The popular names of the shrubs ars lva above. Late Cabbage X. L. N T It( will bo all rlxht to plant late cabbage la the cold frame now and even later. Late flat Duteb. Danish Ball head and Copenhagen Market are all sood attains. You had better wait tiU the murserymen put their cabbage plants on sale for "earlier.' Early Jersey Wakefield U a good sort, always heads. American Drumhead Savoy la a sore header of delicious flavor, almost as good aa caull aower. ' T Pot-grown Rosea; Planting HAMPTON JJy no mejuj shake off (be earth from tha roots of pot-crova rose. Tbia U "T. ? ft1 ?uJta ttlf and It protects tfce rootleU from drying; out Via a good hole two feet deep. If aoll la not mellow put ta three Inches of cinders or small atone for S'laf't?.n', flU . Bbout Blt. Set at the height they were la pot, wtln the too soil nUxed w&ia till IU bulk of tlhorouzbly rot ad maaure. Sweet Peas Again' bf KNt JSK- Nil SM rta .,i, .,.-. i... Mit in bwiue t-L-i if ttn-j,7 j, rri w I .fn(rlt lu'a VT . s-i. J. ..t, ... t ' ifffi?. W SW dtMrSuot I let Xbth J UMp m 1 SEEN IN ftftR&r imn m w& CHILD'S FETCHING OUTFIT ' TODAY'S Illustration shows n rather elaborate dress for tho youngster. It Is niado of cnpcn-colfrcd chiffon over a foundation of net. Touches of taffeta nro to bo seen on the pointed culTs. on suspender effect given to the blouso. Tho bands on the boulTnnt skirt nre also of taffeta. Tho frill at tho nock features Van Dyko Points of net ttoscs trim tho suspender ends where thev trmlnnte In a sort of sash. I'rlcc. $15. Tho sanin mny bo ordered In other colors Sl.i Include 8 to 14 years. A drooping leghorn hat has for Its trimming black let ribbon streamers and a wreath of natural colored roses It also comes In olln . v.oloia I'rlcc, $8. The name of the shop whero these articles may ha . tu chased will bo suppllod by the Iklltor of the Woman's Pngo, Ilvn.vi.vo I.UDonn, G08 Chestnut street. Tho request n.ust be accompanied by a stumped, self-nddressed onvelopo nnd must mention tho dato on which tho article appeared. SHOWING MADE BY IN MARRIAGE By WILLIAM WHOSC business Is It whether a man marries? If anybody's, It Is tho dor. tor's. Tabulation of tho first random hundred bachelors over .10 shows fairly representa tive conditions, aa follows: Twenty-two of them nre aflllcted with a communicable illhense. Thirty-five of them are given to alco holic Indulgence AVhlio a drinking man may now and thou remain virtuous In his living, tho presumption Is that he will not do so, becauso nlcohol dissolves off tho veneer of self-restraint and releases a man's primitive Impulses, removes his oi dlnarliy cautious Judgment and leads him to excesses he would never commit In a perfectly sober moment Nor must n man becomo frankly Intoxicated to lose his self control; It only takes n social glass or two to cut through the veneer.' Ho theso 35 occasional drinkers aro to he classed as undesirable husbands Wo will leave them to their bclllsh lives. Tho remaining 43 bachelors size up like this: Eighteen of them are courting girls, have been courting the girls for from two to 20 years, nnd never making a very de termined effort to havo a wedding day fixed, on the ground that their salaries are not sufficient to support a wife In the stjlo to which tho girl has always been accustomed. which Is nil rubbish, or course. Tho truth of the matter Is that these 18 weak-kneed ones never will marry voluntarll) they aro too selllsh. The remaining SB bachelors nre "men about town." They hao no fixed asso ciates other than tho hangers-on at tho club, poolroom, bowling alley or street corner. They are on extraordinarily fa miliar terms with the class of girls who seem to enjoy being Insulted by familiari ties of young men ln public. They don't want to marry, because they don't meet girls who Inspire respect The girls they know so well are the kind who patronize public dances, theatres and such places without responsible escort. In Bhort, theso 25 bachelors have no Incentive to mar riage. So far, they find "variety the spice of life," and It will be quite a while yet before they discover that too much spice spoils the Joy of living. It was Bachelor Number Thirteen, in the above list, an eligible man, and a Novel Shower Showers for tho June bride-to-be are quite ln order Just now. A novel Idea for a realty up-to-date shower was carried out the other day. Instead of giving a regula kitchen shower, the young hostess gave a glass kitchen utensil shower. This In cluded pots, pans, baking dishes and other articles of transparent fusible glass, highly tempered so that It can be used tn the hottest oven without breaking. The future bride was an ambitious, but none too experienced cook, so that being able to look through the dishes and see the con tents cooking will be a great advantage to her. The utensils themselves are rea sonably priced. A Bas Crinolines! The reign of the iwlonalse, and In most cases the pannier drapery, Is assured for dance wear during the summer and fall. The tendency towards the very full, bouf 'fant skirt falling free from, the waist line Is Bald to be waning; Instead of this, the bustle drapery and the puffed-up on the hips are worn. A word to the wise is sufficient, dainty lace petticoats will be worn once tnore. THE CHEERFUL CilERUD mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmummttmmtmmMmmmiMWMm I couldrvt get rvev E-cster clotiSes: rk tyivnk tccoutst Topped snort ot tnt- Dirt my, th-fcx doesnt worrv me.- kJvst 9ze opon Rrjc"" l X X ftsIlflHf'' THE SHOPS 100 BACHELORS ELIGIBILITY QUIZ BRADY, M. D. really desirable sort of man, who gave tho only worthy excuso for his single 1 cuasedness Hero Is what ho said! "Mv I girl is beyond my reach She earns $16) a week, and dresses like CO. Took her and her mother out the other night Tho .mater wanted to take In a plain two-bits show, but Inez was strong for n $2 show, and wo blew Blx bones for tho show Inez wanted. I tell you, with my littln $40 Income I can't finance tho proposition." QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS Collcfjc Man Would Try Focty I'lcnso tell me what doBcs of asafctlda ono should take for nervousness, I am a student, aged 21. Answer Klo, lie, young man. Take a flve-milo walk. Ono pill (five grains) of as.ifetlda tlireo or four times a day won't hurt you, at any rate. Hair of tho Dog One of your articles alluded to the In fluence of certain nnimal emanations upon persons subject to spasmodic or bronchial asthma. I nccr have an attack unless I visit my husband's mother's home, where mere nro two aogs sometimes I am In tho house onlv a few mlniitp.q when ih attack comes on. The houso Is but a few miles from our home. Do you think It possible that the attack Is In my case pro duced by Inhaling dust or emanntlons from tho bodies of theso dogs? Answer. Very likely, Some Individuals surfer an attack If they ride after a horse or enter a stable. Others suffer If a cat enters the room. Many victims have at tacks If they eat certain proteins certain shellfish, eggs, cheese. In othe r cases tho foreign protein Is produced within the body In some hidden or neglected septlo focus by bacteria. In any case, the prob lem Is, find the protein to which the pa tient la sensitive, and Immunize the pa tient against that protein by a prolonged series of minute Injections a hair of the dog that bites you. This prlncple works successfully In many cases of hay fever. when the particular pollen can be Identi fied. Gift Suggestions Here are a few suggestions for gifts t Decorated flower pots, or bowls of Bo hemian glass 1n brilliant reds, blues, greens and purples. Pearl-handled fruit knives. noudolr clocks, featuring flowers and bowknota In French tints. They are made to hang on the wall opposite the bed. Wicker plant boxes. self-Irrigating. Made to be placed In the sun parlor or boudoir. Lamp of wicker and silk ahade to match. Sets of fine carving utensils. Floor cushions of heavy colored and oriental silks. Oval, tubular and square models, tied with silk cords. Japanese prints In lacquered frames. Summer FrocksN White batiste or muslin Is combined with pastel tinted silks on many of the summer dance frocks. Wander Thirst Beyond tha east the sunrise, beyond the west the sea. And (n4the west a wander thirst that will not let me be. It works In me like rare old wine, to bid rne say good-by; For the seas call, and the stars call, and oh, the call of the sky 1 I care not where the white road runs, nor ni iuo uiue mils are, For I know I have the sun for friend, and for my guide a star. And there's no end of voyaging when once tha voIca la har,f For the river calls and the road calls, and. oh, tha call of a. bird I Tonder the long horizon Ilea, and there by night and day The old ship draw to home again, the young ships sail away. And com I may. but go I must, and if ny ask you why You can put the blame on the stars and tb ma and, the white read and tfc sJQf. GEHALD OOyirx Marion HarlancTs Corner AH rommnnlentlon sddrei.efl to Marlon Hnrland Khonld enelofte a Mnmpea, Mlf nnrirtftsed envelope nnd a ellpplnr of tho article In which ron re Interested Per sons w-lshlnr to nlil In the thnrltnhle work of the If. II, O. snnnld write Marlon llitrlsml, In. cure of this paper, for d dretses of thou ther wonld like to help, nnd, hnrlnjc received . Ihera, communicate alrtct with those parties. "T INCLOSE a few stamps to help tho JL Corner. I came hero three years ago and havo few Intimate acquaintances. The Corner Is like a visit from an old friend. It brings mo lots of cheer. Long may It live. M. E. II." The budget of stamps was most wel come. Whllo I record with gratification that an Increasingly large number of correspondents who expect to be an swered by malt recollect to Inclose tho hit of pink paper that makes. If not all things easy, tho labors of editor more comfortable. It Is, nevertheless, true that every one of your stamps went to cover the deficiencies of forgetful querists. I am glad the Corner softens somewhat the malcaso of Btrangerhood. Magazines to Give Away I have quite n numbor of magazines to give away, all of flno quality. If any of the readers will send for them. I shall bo glad to let them have them. A L." Your offer and address are gratefully registered. The number of magazines will bo diminished speedily. Tho demand for really good literature never slackens. For Little Church "Dear Mr, C.s The lllble came this morning. It Is In good condition and will make a flno Blblo for our llttlo church. Shnll I Inform Marlon Htirlaml? MT- T A The note Is Inclosed tcf mo In nnother, the familiar characters of which send a thrill of pleasure to tho heart of the Cor ner. Tho acknowledgment of the receipt of the Hlblo Is from tho wife of a clergy mnn who Is doing fine mission work. Tho Corner hnd the great honor and delight a whllo ago of securing nn organ for the same mission. It Is to this that our trusty and highly esteemed colleague al ludes In his brief eplstlei "You will bo pleased to note that the Ulblo has followed the organ to tho little church mission. What a lot of people will bo mado happy among thcml Your Englishman, WM. C." Who finds his chlcfost Joy In lending n strong, warm, loving hand to all who need his services, and who mny be reached by that samo "hand!" May It long abldo hi strength. Asks for Abdominnl Bandage "I havo rcclved help from your Corner before but venture to nsk again, for I need an abdominal bandage, olzo 38. I will gladly do somo servlco ln exchange such as cleaning or caring for children, If the mother wants to go out. I hopo you will not overlook this, ns I have no other means of getting a supporter. I shall apprcclato what you do for mo. MltS. J. C." If we can get the supporter for you, we nsk no return except to lenrn that it has helped a good, brave woman to flnht tho battlo of life with less discomfort than If alio were not able to secure this appli ance. We aro looking nnxlously for a reply to your modest request As soon as wo recolve one you shall be notified. For Music Lovers "I havo ono musln hnnlr tn tha mnh tlvrt for hef-lnnern nn tlin ulnnn n.., .,... ! for beginners, also for advanced, on man dolin, which nnv one mnv hnv !. t,.iii I pay postage. All aro almost now. "T T- Tr Kindly hold the treasures until our host ! of muslo lovers can read your generous yrujiuBai. no register it witn deep thank fulness. It answers sundry communica tions already In hand. Let us know when tho portfolios are omptled. Bible for Country Church "I answered Miss D sending her tho name of n pastor of a country church, a few miles away, whose building was burned. They wllUrlndly neefpt the nible To Mrs. S. I wteHe, gratefully accept ing 1 offer. I should like to write moro, but I feel I have already trespassed upon your valuablo time. Mny God bless the good work of tho Corner! "M. E. J." Do not hosltnts tn write nt length when you have such subject matter In your mind! It Is one of tho sweotest rewards to be assured that the work done by our Informal "circulating library" is going forward and accomplishing what we would have.lt do. Your report Is like a generous cordial to a weary toller. New Fruit Cup A very nice chilled fruit cup for the Informal luncheon Is made of oranges with mint leaves. Separate the oranges Into sections, peel nnd cut them up aa for sliced oranges. Cover these with a dress ing of olive oil, lemon Juice and mint leaves, finely chopped up. Leave Btandlng tn the Ice chest for an hour or two before Bervlng. Place ln Individual fruit cups and garnish with green maraschino cherries. n " rflE housekeeper whose task it is 1 to provide new dishes to please the different members of the family will find the Woman's page of the Public Ledger extremely helpful. Each day it contains recipes for pala table dishes written by authoritative women, which are well worth a trial. Are you reading the Public Ledger? Make it a daily visitor to your home each morning. And when anticipating serving "something different," take, advantage of the excellent recipes it contains. MwBm$W&Ji i I Y 1 Pis life. MsKsi "Tiipilhsyyst(HBlgMissti ! Wt,1MJiMBriWik-KX&aflMf T----'--Pli--------' "' " " "H--" "' " r""'T',TI T7 GOOD FORM Good form queries should be ad dressed to Deborah Ruth, toriffn on one We of the paper and signed tcllft full name and address, though initials Oh'LY will be published upon request. This column tclll nppcor In rues day's, Thursday's and Baturday's Evening Ledger this week. With the cowing of a gift senson nn In cident cited hero lends to a little talk on the subject of giving, though tho Incident has nothing to do with gifts on various occasions, such ns Easter, for the occa sion generally furnishes tho excuse. Hut I would refer to promiscuous giving, which Is a form of quite Impossible taste nnd places the recipient In" n most awkward position. Of course It Is a splendid thing to be generous, but there nre times when gen erosity goes too far. I have met persons In whoso presence one would not dnre to mention a liking for anything, for nt tho next moment It would be presented, This is not only embarrassing but It is In ex cessively bad form The Incident ot whlrh I nm thinking was this: A woman who had great means and also a desire to bo always giving knew another woman In tho samo town for whom sho conceived n great liking. Tho mother of tho latter was about to pay her a visit and shortly1 after Bhe had arrived a numbor of packages were handed In nt tho door, addressed to her. On being opened thoy pi-oved to bo all sorts of presents, fancy work and some quite personal things, and from tho nfore said woman whom the mother hnd not oven mot yet It wns In such cxcruclntlna taste and poor Mrs. M. wns much embar rassed nnd. In fnct, annoyed If tho kind hearted womnn who sent tho gifts hnd only known what a mistake sho made, but sho was happy In thinking she wns giving pleasure to others. A few flowers sent to her friend's mother would hnvo been a very grnclous thing to do and not In tho least too much of a good thing. It Is tho knowledge, the savolr falro, so to speak, of those very things which distinguishes the cultured person from tho uncultured. A Legal Query Dear Deborah Rush Will you kindly glvo mo tho nnmo nnd address of n good, rollablo patent lawyer In Philadelphia, also If It would bo possible for mo to con sult ono on Bomo Saturday afternoon, nnd oblige nn old reader? , II. C. As legal queries do not como under tho good-form column. I havo referred your lotter to our "What Do You Know" column, which Is run on tho editorial pago. Send Mnn an Easter Card Dear Deborah Itush I read jour col umn every time It l In tho paper. It Is great I think ; I wish It was In every day. Would It bo nil right for mo to send a imn nn raster card or postal? Do you think It would bo bad form to do bo? And would he be likely to think I wanted something from him? JANE. I can see nothing sentimental In send ing an Easter card to a man, nnd bo do not seo how ho could sensibly mlsconatruo your Intention. It Is not bnd form to send one, unless you havo very slight acquaint ance with him, as In that case ho might think you wanted to nttract his attention. Many Questions Dear Debotah Hush Is It good form to wear a bouquet Bent to ono for Easter? Should gloves bo worn ln tho stroet al ways? How should I lntroduco a mnn to my girl friend? Is It necessary to Bend a wedding presont when one is only asked to the church and not to tho reception? J. F. O. First Yes, n bouquet Is usually sent with the wish that it bo worn. Of course, I nm speaking of a corsago bouquet. It would not be In good tasto to wear u dozen American beauties, for Instance, or a number of vlolont-colorcd carnations. Second. A woman should always wear 1 WHillill'li'iWiil H'HiWlM.I I i'il 'I'll l WillilMHil ildillllllilll Wlii'lili A Bath of Unusual Qualities For sheer quality, for beauty of design, for perfect hyulenlo qualities this "Mohican" Hath la exceptional Dealdes Its many other distinctive features It has a special Pawme Waste that prevents bHCklns up of residue In the overflow and wuste pipes You should exumlno this model which Is sold under tho Iron clad n-KCK linoa CO. aUAIlAKTRU. Description of tho model lllustrntod "MOHICAN" l'orcelaln-llnanwled Until on Itorcelaln-Kniniekd "llleek l'eet." fitted with No 3 I'.iwneo I.lft PIub Waste with China l.ever. Heavy Pattern Double faucet with China Handles. Heavy N. V. Supplies and Patent Overflow. Write for full particulars or visit our easily reached show, rooms today. II! i. 'i . i i VMM JLECK. HIIOWKOO.MH 44-46-48 nnd 50 NOKIll l'lnil STItEKT ' ' I ll'IOMO UI1I1 UV .AUnill . MM. Ill (3 . MZt H A. I " y 1" j r II m tn tn nn vkiiwit Kftitf (m -rftr"! Jl I i . . ' iii ! ssi i wmmammBtmm i lll !! IJ.II II ; ' i ms. I gloves In the street, In winter or summer. xnim, use tho words or form "Miss Jones, mny I prosont Mr. Smith " Always present n man to a womnn, unless1 tho man In tho case Is ono of distinction such as a prelate or oho who holds n very superior position In tho world. , Fourth. No It Is not required, nor Is It necessary either to send a presont when Invited to tho reception, but It Is custom ary. Fifth. Tho expression girt friend Is not ln good form. Meaning of R. S. V. P. Dear Deborah Hush Will yo kjndly tell mo what tho letters "It S. V. V." at the bottom of an Invitation mean.? , INQUIRER. Tho Initials n, S. V. P. stand "for the French words "Ilcpondez s'll vous plait" The English meaning Is virtually "Pleaso answer." Who Precedes Dear Deborah lluih Once before you cime to mj aid, nnd I now call upon you to solve this perplexing qieston. When n gentleman takes a lady out to dine', who should lead tho way to tho table? A friend of mine nnd I had nn argument over this, nnd your decision will nettle a little bet. PREPAREDNESS. Tho man should lend tho girl ts the table. In nearly every case of this kind tho man should precede, us ho Is the pro tector of the woman, so to speak, and thereforo lends tho way. DEBORAH RUSH. Use Old Newspapers Paper is really more serviceable as a clcauor than tho dlrt-coltectlng brush. The advantages of newspapers are many, hut the fnct that they nro used to clean and polish stoves, windows or greasy pots and pans, to store furs, to fill up crocks and keep out drafts, to protect tables 'and flno furniture nnd to keep the dUBt particles from flying about on sweeping dnys establishes their usefulness without question, A greasy kitchen Btovo should bo first rubbed over with a thick wnd of news paper beforo applying tho polish. It re moves tho worst of tho spnttored grcass without giving tho extra trouble of wash ing nut soiled cloths that have been Used for this purpose. Tho same may be said of greasy pots and kitchen utensils. The papers may bo thrown away Immediately. Keep your old papers In some convenient placo for purposes llko this. From Paris Waistcoat blouses aio faorcd by , the lending r.irls designers, lienco nro des tined for tho Amcrlcnn woman In n very short lime. Thty are mado somewhat llko the Russian blouse, which Is so fn)i lonahlo Just now. Only the waist Is made In n colored Jacket style, with sleeves and collnietto In white goods, or In somo slindo contrasting with tho Jumper. One stylo features a palo blue taffeta Jumpor, with Bleavcs of whito chiffon. Another Is of cornl-tlntbd falllo, with flesh-colored silk net. Theso blouses are very chic. Indeed, with tho dressy suit. Thoy aro premised for fall wear In velvets, brocaded, heavy allks and satins New Collar Line The lampshade collnr U Just what It Bounds like a tound. plaited arrange ment exactly like n lampshade, and laid ncross tho front nnd b.icl. of the bodlco In a now line. Tho shoulders nro patly bare, and framed in n high, upstanding ruche of silk or organdie, and ory becom ing to somo types of women. A niching below tho band which Fut rounds tha- top of tho blouEo corresponds to the ono over tho shoulders. , 'n'l1. ll'lil iWiH IWIlitflllJl,. '.I' ! l,l Mlm I ! 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