6 EVENING LEDGER PHILADELPHIA, SATURDAY, APR. 1916, MUST ONE GO OUT TO WORK TO HOLD HUSBAND? ASKS M'LISS Softie Do Say That Staying at Home and Mind ing the Baby Induces a Proecss of Vegetation Which Bores Spouse WlLVT la a poor, weak woman to do, anyway? First comes Teddy to toll us tliat onty tlio exceptional woman can marrj' nnd go out of tho home. Comes now Mrs. Chariot George she's nn aelreat and In addition a prominent Massachusetts woman, tho nleco of a Clocrnor and nil that who declares that tho only way to hold one's husband's affections la to go out and work. It does seem such n very dlfllcult feat to perform this "holding one's lilis band's Affections." Judging from the reams that arc written about It, one would imagine that as soon ns a man turns from tho hymeneal nltar his emotions tow aid his wlfo do a back somersault and his ardent lovo turns to nurplo luito. The distrait wlfo then, by means of curl papers, French gowns, good food nuiett good food bends her efforts to winning hint back. Some say she must bo womanly as womanly as a Dickons lieroliio lilits a Richardson lady rolled Into one. Others declare portentously that she must bo an ''economic entity." If only wo dHn't have to slcept If It were possible, nl-tst to bo tho ideal wlfo nnd mother and homekcepcr for 12 hours a day and tho busy little commercial beo tho othor 12, what an Eljslum would obtain and what a silencer would bo put upon tho dissenting commentersl Now Mrs. Georgo believes that In order to keep her husband for lief Very o-vn It Is necessary for n woman to hold tight to her profession. Not that itiott aro "brutes and like women to bo monoy-gettei s, hut merely that tho woman who ceases to rub elbows with tho world loses something that makes hor nioro nttrne tlvo than tho woman who submerges her peisonnllty lit the homo Sho says: "I don't bollcvo In a woman's giving up her work If sho can hoi!) It, for this reason: A man Is a ltally actlvo crcaturo mentallj. Ho not only likes to bo entertained, but, whether ho admits It or not, ho likes a woman who is bright enough to bo ablo to keep abreast of him. Now sho can't vegetnto and do that. Tho thing that keeps us llko burnished sword blades muntallv, quick nnd bright and supple. Is tho constant polish of keeping up with current events. If a woman wants to keep a man's Interest Rho must stay allvo. and to do this sho must bo In a position to see tho things that aio going on about her. Meanwhile, however, Bho must guard ngnlnst the serious nicnnco that lurks In this the danger of becoming so Involved In the tilings going on about iter, so nusoi licit that sho becomes abstracted and loses her sympathy with hut husband's Intotcsts. "Thero aro two pltfnlls which a woman nnd her husband must beware of Hnd ono Is as great as tho other. Sho must be on her gunid not to bocotno ro Interested In him and In nothing but him that sho bores him to death; and sho m'ist not bo so Interested In outsldo things and nothing but outsido things that sho hurts him bojond euro by her neglect." Wo renllj ought to consider outselves blessed, I suppose, to bo living In this wondorful woman's nge. But has It not Its disadvantages'' Mon nro beginning to expect so much of us. Wo mustn't boio them; wo must keep our mentality "burnished llko sword blades," wo mustn't glow old; wo mustn't demand too much of their monoj; wo mustn't neglect out homes; wo mustn't relinquish our professions. All mo! I'm beginning to boliovo that tho shackled dames of medloval times aro the enviable ones, after all. What do you think about lt7 We Never Learn Says tho philosopher of the olllce. who Is homethlng of a pessimist: "Tho only logical thing about life Is tho cei utility Unit It must etui. It theio bo nny logic at all nbout what goes on between lifu nnd death men would havo found It out long ago nnd wo should school, whereas we spend our lives under sho raps us over tho knuckles every othei moment becatibo wo cannot leant out lessons and be good without being prigs, and do right without sticking It thiough other pcoplo's peace of mind as ono sticks a pin through a buttoiily." I don't ngreo with him that men havo found out evci tiling either nbstiact or concrete but 1 llko what ho tays about being good without being pilgs Somo peoplo do succeed in making viituo so obnoxious. Just as otheis havo the wicked faculty for being vicious and attractlv o! M'USS. Letters to the Editor of the Woman's Page Afldress oil communication to VI'I.Ibs. care of Hi IZtcnlnc I-iileer. Virile on one Ida ot the tmpcr only. Dear M'LIss Am a young woman, 21 years of age: am very ambitious to do something with my drawings, as I am talented In that lino of work. Although I had. only threo years of drawing nt an art school, 1 feel I am capablo to do somo work in costumo drawing, as I havo been two years in tho life class and t! 'nk I can do figure work; but don't know whero to apply for a position Can also paint la oils; most interested In portraits; but would willingly do fashion drawings Where would I have to submit drawings? When I was a student nt tho "Girls' High School" I took the examinations to enter an nrt school which I pahsed I had been working for three jenrs; had my fourth year extended, but could not con tinue on account of conditions at home. I would certainly appreclato your kind ness If jou will toll mo where I could apply to tako somo work homo. AP.TIST. I am told that tho Sunday editors of some of the Philadelphia papers aro al ways glad to look at work fashion draw ings particularly for their sections. I be lieve If I were jou I should feel my way out In newspaper work before approach ing the magazine art editors Although MISSING GIRL FOUND WORKING AS SERVANT New York Young Woman Says She Disagreed With Parents NEW YORK. April 8 Alma Fuller Myers, the 20-year-old girl who mj'sterl ously disappeared after boarding a sub way train In the Bronx for her home at Ampere, East Orange, N. J., at 6 o'clock Saturday evening, was found yesterday living under the name of Grace Davis In Port Jervls, N Y., and working In a boarding house. Miss Myers was to have left the board ing house today to become a servant In the home of John D Swlnton, Jr , a hard ware merchant ot Port Jervls Since her arrival there last Sunday she had sought a position, and in answer to an advertise ment published by D. M. McCathle, an underwear manufacturer, tried to obtain p. plase as stenographer. "I left home Friday morning, March St. to visit a friend, Mrs. Arnold Nettle, of 1130 Bryant avenue, the Bronx, New York. I came to Port Jervls on Saturday and stayed at the Bennet House until Wednesday, since which time I have been staying at Mrs. Anna Wlckham'B. "I have not been employed since Jan uary, when I was with the Dennlson Man ufacturing Company, In John street. New York, In the art department. I have al ways lived at home, but could not always agree, with my mother and sometimes dis agreed -witn my ratner. x came out of the city determined to paddle my own canoe, Charles Myers and his wife left their home shortly after 9 o'clock last evening to go to Port Jervls to meet their daugh ter They would not discuss the reason given by their daughter for leaving home. HIGH SCHOOL TEACHERS MEET Hundreds Assemble for Discussion of Professional Questions Several hundred teachers of the high schools met this morning in the CJennan town High School, High street and Ger juantowa avenue, to discuss professional Questions. Members of the faculties of all the high schools attended. The Instructors are divided Into groups. The chemistry teachers, for Instance, met Ik one room, while the teachers of music or drawing or Greek assembled in dtf ferent rooms. At noon, there will be a luncheon, to be attended by all of the teachers as well as members of the Board of Education and Dr George Wheeler, associate tomerintenuent of schools. The KsseiobUEQ of Ugh achol instructors of ttSBWWIMiV V wvfaw wwv, t v beth sexes la probably the largest ever Veld la JhUadelphla. all know how to llvo ns mioii as wo left fate's ruler tijlng to understand while the majority of newspapers have a high standard, they art, I bellovc, a little mor accessible to joung .ma obscure artists than tho magazines I am ono of those who holds that good work Invariably finds a mnrket and much poor work alBo If jour art work Is good, if ou havo Ideas and tho talent to execute them attractively, all that jou need Is to learn tho eommort! il topes. Kxperieneo only cm tench jou this Perseverunce Is jour best OM-et. Kesolvo not to lie discouraged Go, and go and go again until jou hell something. Heed not of fice Ijoj, or If tiie people to wlmm jou sub mlt jour work aro kind enough to criticise even though their criticism be adverse listen to the pearls that drop fiom their lips What they say maj- tonlllct with jour Ideas of art, but they know what sells Dear M'LIss In regard to j'our query of April 0 concerning Mrs Pnt Campbell not several, but many jenrs ago Mis Put Campbell plnjed in "llej-ond Human Power," by Iljornsen. In which tho situ ation Is, I believe, tho samo as that de scribed by the querist IUIADCIt Thank jou GIRL DIVES 8 FEET; FRACTURES HER SPINE Daughter of Millionaire in Plas ter Cast in Effort to Avert Paralysis NEW YOttK, April 8 SIlss Marjorle S. Chase, 10-year-old daughter of Irving S Chase, millionaire clock manufacturer of Waterbury, Conn, Is in tho Poljcllnlc Hospital. She Is Incased In a plaster cast, which reaches from her chin to her hips, and the rear part of the cast envel ops the base of her skull. , As a result of a dive in which Miss Chase miscalculated tho depth of tho water she will bo forced to lie In a rigid position for several weeks One of the upper vertebrae of Miss Chase's spine is fractured, and this treat ment was resorted to as the only possible means of averting paralysis or inflamma tion of the spine. Despite her suffering SIlss Chase la a cheerful patient and is able to converse with friends over the telephone at her bedside. The plaster, which was wrapped about the torso while suspended In the air, was wound so the arms are free. Miss Chase was hurt on March 27 In diving at the beach ot Tort Antonio. Jamaica. She and several others accom panied her father; who was making a tour of the West Indies. Miss Chase, an expert swimmer and diver, dived off a rail about eight feet above the water. Although she made a specialty of diving In shallow water, she overestimated this depth and her head struck the sandy bottom with such force that her spine was fractured Although stunned, she was able to stand up and felt no pain Miss Chase did not know she was Injured to any great extent until she tried to walk, when she discov ered she had lost the use of her limbs Mr. Chase and members of the party carried her ashore, where medical examin ation disclosed the nature of her Injury She was immediately strapped to a couch In a position to prevent an Incor rect Betting of the fracture, and was sent back to New York on the first steamer leaving the island. Miss Chase is under the care of Dr Charlton Wallace, who believes she will recover with no ill effects. Slonroe Doctrine, Speaker's Topic The Monroe Doctrine and the relations of the A B C republics of South America to the United States will be explained by Dr Peter MacQueen, of Boston, in the Saturday lecture of the spring course of free Illustrated lectures at the Commer cial Museum this afternoon at 3 o clock, Argentina, the United States of South , MW4 Mt, WIU tl 1111C3 ttUU inaUStrteS, land Brazil and (li will be des, Hhd h Doner Mecjueen. SEEN IN MODISH TROTTEUK IT would Fcom a If tho designers had done their mlHhtlest on this costumo of crcpo meteor, foi It Is made to seive In three capacities It nuj- bo worn first ns it coat suit, as a frock to bo worn Indoors without n blouse, and tho coat may bo worn sepnrntolj" lis n swagger coat or sweater Tho most Inteiestlng detnll of trimming Is the three-tiered Prcmet cape of crcpo meteor, edged with pipings of self-material Iho pitch pockets nnd long sash are quite In keeping with the stjle of the gnimciit J'enrl buttons closo the front of thu coat The sltlrt Is plain Colois include white. Ilenh, i iel. midnight blue, llusslan green, Afilcnn brown nnd black. The prico Is special $19 75 The hit Is black nnd white Hat sailor model of hemp htraw, simply ornamented with ulustt rs of roses, forgot mo nots nnd polished leuves surrounding tho crown. Price $3-15 Tho same bat Is worn untrlmmcd, ns the two torn d effect of il.ingo and crown Is considered equally dlstlnttlve Colors Include uhlto with ro"-e. grnj, green navy nnd blink, or grav with green, and tnn with American Heuutj. Tho unadorned Hhnpo bolls for $J 9C Tho name of tho shop whore theso articles innv be piirchnseil will be supplied bv tho i:dltor of the Wnnnin Pugn, P.vkmmi l.FPor it, SOS Chestnut stieet The t quest must be accompanied bj a stumped, the date on which thu article appealed THE HOME GARDEN FOR PLEASURE AND PROFIT By JOHN HINTS ON PLANTING TIMES Tho tlmo for safe pi inting Is a matter that worries tho nmutfur girdenir It Is better to bo suro than sonv Karly planting Is nil very good In cortnln iltu atlons. well drained with eastern exposure and protection from tho north and west winds If this aggregation of circum stances Is not possible, it Is bei,t to dolay until nature gives a relWblo signal Ono of tho best indications of tho safe time to put flings Into tho ground is tho blossom ing of tho trees The earliest planting Is ot tho peas, tho smooth sealed varieties Tho wrinkled varieties must bo put in when the ground is warm, but tho others resist cold and oven wet ground When tho leaves appear on the maples It Is safo to put tho smooth peas In Tho flowering of tho peach Is tho signal for the other varieties, which nro of a moro dollcato ilavor, but lack tho earllness which makes tho smooth kinds so 'tastj" before any other crop is ready About tho samo time it Is hafo in thiH latitude to put out onion i-ets The"o aio tiny bulbs which have been grown the preceding jear Thej give n good crop of scullions for early eating and tho ground used for them can bo later sown with beets or tome other crop A pint, planted to the extent of half a dozen feet for a row. at Intervals of three or four days will glvo a sueeesslon Ono long row can bo planted to mature In the ground, onions can bo dug up from time to tlmo for ut.e. the row thus Is thinned out to allow room for tho remainder to attain full size As soon as tho ground can bo worked Into a fairly fine condition a couple of rows of spinach can be seeded in This will give room later for another crop. When the cheny blossoms open Is a good tlmo to put In onion seed for the main cron. These can bo thinned out generously for tnble use, permitting the residue to mature fully This, too, Is a safe time for putting out lettuce plants, which can be bought for nbout 15 cents a dozen, or started lit a cold frame or in boxes indoors. ilndlshcs can safely bo planted In the open at this time You will have to wait till the pear trees blossom before putting out the early car rots, turnips and parsnips I'arslej' and t.ago can be planted for the herb garden (which every amateur should have, as it takes up only a few square feet of ground In a corner) at this time The parbley Is very slow to germinate und should bo soaked over night to give the seeds a start before they are put Into their place In shallow drills This Is a safe date also to put out, cabbage plants if any have been grown In the cold frame Cabbage plants of the early varieties can be bought for a few cents a dozen at the nurserymen's. Late tomatoes can be planted out In the open In a temporary seed bed at this date But It will be too early to set out plants. Strawberry Dessert Now that btrawberrles are getting more reasonable In price, strawberry desserts are in order A tapioca pudding with a garniture of strawberries Is easily made. First of all, the berries must be cleaned and drained well. New prepare the tapioca with a quart of scalded milk, using about a half cupful to the tapioca. Cook for a quarter of an hour in a double boiler. Beat together the yolks of 2 eggs, a half cupful of sugar and a plm of salt Stir this Into the milk Cool the mixture, and put Into individual glasses. Now, in order to util ize jour egg-whites, beat them to a stiff froth with feome powdered sugar, add to this a cupful of fresh strawberries, slightly mashed. Serve as a dressing for the pudding. This dessert should be chilled before putting on the table. For Future Reference Twisting soft corks on to the places where the knobs of cooking utensils used to be has saved one woman many small burns. TPIE SHOPS Mwwi mi n se.lt addressed envelope, and must mention BARTRAM Urine vour prnlilrni nf eiirdrnlnic In I lie i:('nlnc Ledger for solution. In addition In priirllrnl urllclr. tlmi'lv tn tlm M'iihoii, llio tdltor will unswer, either out of Ills nun experleiH e iih it Himill-Hiiihi Kiirdener or Ihroiie-h roll niiltntliiii nltli uiitliiiritleN, iiurittloni of nuderN. AddreHi John Itiirtrnm, Kie In tr l.eilffor, 1'hllailolplilu. These can bo bought a Ilttlo liter for about 30 to 50 cents a dozen A half dozen earlj and half a dozen lato toma toes will bo nn abundanco for a family of thiee. Latgei families can bo provided for in proportion Apple blossom time Is earlj enough for several vegetables Hills of early cucum bers can bo plintcd then Squash, musk melons and pumpkins also wait till this dato or a little later Beets can be planted directly whero they aro to maturo at this time, or can bo planted In tho tempoiary seed bed and transplanted when they havo attained threo oi four leaves Karly corn can be put In In apple blos som tlmo It is bettei to wait on corn foi the sako of safety, as tho beed may rot In tho ground If thero Is a wet spell Wax and string beans can bo planted In tho rows shortly after tho npplo trees are in bloom Lima beans must wait till the weather Is warm and settled GARDEN QUERIES ANSWERED 1'etunia Varieties Friend John llirtram Kindly till ine the mimex of noino seleet kind of petunias and com! of name y jj h, iu do not state whether Jou want nuotn. tlons on tned or planla Tho new raeo of uetunlaB, dwarf fringed double flowering, ure very eholee, iManu grow to height of elkht .......la uu ncri, uium-lieu Willi an HUUIKI anc-e or flatters In the tyukal iwtunU eolors. mottled, striped blotehed or throated 'lhee coat .'.i centu u packet ami are earn to grow from teed Giant double petunias costing J"J eenta a packet are the Double Aurora Ilkht roe crimson veined, J.ady of the Lake, lame, f rinsed nuro white. Single petunias lostfng "i'k to -LH. cent?i. " P,ack,!,u Includo rimbrlata alba, white with yellow throat Herman Urn press lavender with black throat. Queen Alexandra, carmine ttllh purple throat and eluwlsh stripes, Ithelng-old tolden yellow with white margin bo called bedding petunias tome at S eenta u, packet Kxeelent varieties are bnow Morm. puro white and 1'urule ejueen purplish and often mottled veined, ete. Plants of the double fringed variety such as Aurora lavender erlmson veined, Ileauty elear unite, enobla, purple violet cost lit tents each II SO a dozen. The single nnd double seedling varieties cost 10 rents each or 71 cents per dozen lly the hundred petunias can be bought for $1 to It). The nurserymen will sort out colors acordlng to request If not too many are asked for. Petunias are free and ull season bloomers. If thu withering rlotters are kept cut. Planting Dahlias Trlend John Ilartram I saw In a. local paper headline that "Now Is the tlm, tn ni.n, dahlias " Is this so? It violates my Ideas on the subject IRWIN The. oaDer was (or lsl InaccurntA. i.nt April Is the earliest Soggy and cold ground Is fatal. I plant mine In May. Baked Potatoes There are many nice ways to dress up baked potatoes Try filling them with cheese some time. Take the baked po tatoes, scoop out the centres, mash, add butter, a little milk, a cupful of grated cheese and return to the skins. Bake lightly until brown. Just a Hint A clam or oystejf shell kept inside of the teapot will keep lime from forming. ne Perfect Diamond In beautiful now style (?Otf A AA Gentlemen's Ring..., dODl.UU Otbsr Oentlemea'a Slings, from 925 to 93000)0. THOMPSON Est mi ?" S. 8th St, iffiiaiafeagfg USISJSfSISSSl ' m Mi lil raa&iiT SW1 THE CHEERFUL OTRU5 P1WIH1.I.I H m I unsK I VctsL &. plrv of life., Tkc-t J1 my fcfcta td Words ware built. Into &. prtLciiCo.! design Inste-cji oF just n. pc.ttk- work qoilt. RMrnn Marion HarlancTs Corner All rnmmunlcntlon ntlilrtMrrl to Mnrkm ifnrlnml Iimitl nclo n otnmpfd. Mf nlflrrf(l fnvflopf nnd n cllpplnr of Ihe nrllrlo In which foil nrt lntfrrtftl. Prr nnt wl'ltlnic tn nld In the rhnrltntri work nf the II. II. t' hnuld write Mnrlnn llnrlnml. In rtro nf thl nnprr, for nil iln4f4 of tlioft ther would like to tirlp. nnd. timing rrrelrril tliem, communlcal illrrtt wltli those imrtlen. Why Parcels Go WronK "QIJniN'ft so many requests for quilt O pieces, 1 nm sending somo to jou to send whero needed I hopo they will ronvey to tho one who receives them tho spirit In which thry are sent W W " After many baitings nnd hindrances tlio parcel, pissed from pll ir to post (literally when ono thinks of pnstolllces), fell Into my hands it wns tnnrked nt the Inst "post": "Ileceltod In bid condition" A mild way of describing extremo shabblness th it left both ends ragged, Iho contents protruding nnd the supeiscrlption blurred Into Illegibility Wo guessed at, rather thin rcTd It, pncketl the parcel anew, and dlsp itehed It ns wo thought fittest It wns recclud th inkfiilly When jou cm make us happj- by another supply (vvhk.li can nover eoino iiinl'-s) send for tho ntldrtss of wilting quilt maker, nnd when jou havo this In hand dlrert jour donation to her Instead of to us or to tho newspaper of fice Time, stamps and dlro perplexity nio sited by obedience to this rule. Tound Interesting Correspondent "A few months ago I wrote, asking j'ou for an address of a joung woman, and jou sent me two mines, for which I wish to think jou 1 havu found one of them a most interesting coi respondent who his helped me pins hours plensantlj that otheiwlso would havo In en inthir (In II Xow, I am Inclosing a clipping from jour Tomer of AV II, asking for names nf shut-ins, nnd I should llko to havo jou send him mj address If jou would be so kind I lovo to rcail jour (.'ornei and I rend It every day' Theio are mi many hopeful things In it and I think jou are doing splendid work and bringing mueh Hiinshlno Into manj shadowed lives "I u " Our correspondent writes fromt ono ot tho Institutions concerning which homo ono paid "Abovo tho door Bhoultl be carved the Inscription Dante read nbovo tho door of tho Inferno: 'Who enters hero leaves hope behind ' Yet our brave mem ber finds eheer and helpful things If not hope, In this home of Incurables Iet us think the brotherly lovo that eueted sueh shelter i for the alllleted among tho rath er's children, and do our part In "sending sunshlno into shady places " Marking Quilt Patterns "Allow mo to mako a suggostlon for marking quilts, asked for by a Coinerlto. SUx laundiy starch with bluing water, then saturate a piece of twlno In It and snap It over tho lino you wish to quilt This Is quito satisfactory whero only stialght lino work Is required 1 S." Tho nbovo Is a suftlelcnt reply to tho member who asked for a way of marking quilting patterns which would not re main indelible when tho work was tlone. Tho plan Indicated by I S Is simple and tho linos aie easily effaced Wo aro her debtors Flavoring for Desserts "I should llko to glvo one hint In rooking nlmost any dessert I use nutmeg Instead of vanilla It is cheaper and gives a moro delicious tlav or. J S M" Let mo subjoin a scrap of Information itncnt this same nutmeg, which cannot be surpassed for splclness it is a trillo strong for delicate stomachs, and It Is well In such eases to substitute ground mace As we all know, this Is tho outer Hhcath of tho nutmeg, and lias Its frag rant Ilavor but In a milder degree There Is no pungency nbout It and It Is more easily digested Murmaladc and Jam "Will you please print tho following recipes nt jour convenience: Grapefruit marmalade, sweet or sour cherry Jain, plum Jam nnd Damson Jam. It. S." Grapefruit Jtarmalade Ono grapefruit, ono orange, ono lemon Slice in wafers or put through food chopper, using all but the seeds Measure and add threo times the quantity of cold water. Let all stand 24 hours, boll 10 minutes; allow to stand -4 hours Add to the fruit and juice an equal quantity ot sugar, boll J hours or until It will jelly when chilled, and pour off Into jars or glasses, as pre ferred Cherry Jam Stone and stem tart cher ries, saving all the Juice To everj- pound of fruit allow a pound of taigar I'ut sugar and Juice In tho preserving kettle over tho fire, nnd when the sugar Is en tirely dissolved add the cherries Cook until the sirup Is thick, put Into glass jars and seal Plum Jam Wipe plums carefully and extract the stones from slits In the sides, taking care not to waste the Juice Weigh tho fruit, and to every pound allow one pound of sugar and a pint of water Cook sugar and water to clear sirup, then lay In the plums and boll gently for 10 min utes. Take out the fruit with a skimmer and lay on dishes to cool When the sirup has cooked thick return the fruit and simmer 20 minutes more. Damsons are put up in the same way." MATEItlAL, You Httjb USEO ifJAIXK PlfcJBPi' -1 il ranyumenta poaalblc retfiromentl PL13T K HjeuT" ' ' -i- I 1 UUOS. CO. PI.LJIUING JIaKKIALS lecitil A VH II of tholr perfect dl?a itrutf eonmruetlon.f Lw- I IJS HBR II Guarantee ttit aeaurtTEaalut atufacjlon." If WaHHK t They Dave many polota of superiority tbaj are ItlLVlB apparent aa aoon aa they are compared jjmn is nBBBBBBBBBBBBn iV. ordinary plumbus future." ft Vtt'IVEbbK GOOD (rood form queries should be ad dressed to Debomh !uih, tcrlfcn on one side of the paper and signed tcllh full tinmo and addmi, though initials uiVil tclfj be published upon request. It Is a well established nnd accepted custom that only pleasant things should bo said of others, and It Is a pity that this requirement of good form is not tarried out Sid to snj, persons who would not think of making a sorlnl blunder at thu table or when trvlng lo make a good Im pression on others; will fall Into tho habit of pernicious gossip nnd even slanderous conversations without a thought Gossip Is about tho worst offense possible ngalnt good form, and denotes a want of things worth while stored nwnj In tho grnj- mat ter of those who Indulge In this form of conversation There Is sttrh n laxity In this matter In the world nt tho present time thnt the lemnrk made one dij recentlj- bj a very charming woman, who was obliged to leave after a luncheon earlier thnn the other guests, wns most apt As she bade goodbj, sho laughlnglv remarked, "1'leaso be kind to me when I nm not hero to defend myself" It had the desired effect, fortunnlrly, for the women gathered there wcro too well bred to discuss tho absent Should I'lovvcrs He Carried in After noon Dear Dcbniah tlttih Would jou plenpe tell me lliroiiRli the "Good I'orm" column ot your IJvtsviNo LtiPnnit, If It would bo appropriate to enrrj How en when wearing a suit nt a I o'clock church wedding If so what kind? Sincerely V K S. Dowers should not bo rnrrlcd In tho afternoon, but a eorsage bouquet pinned tn tho coit of jour suit would bo a decided addition to jour costume Hither orchids, violets or sweet peas mnko nil appropriate bouquet. Widow's Wedding litem Dear Deborah 1,'iish I am n widow nnd Intend being married ngaln after Hauler Should I went a brlilnl gown of whlto and a veil? Jl It. J. A widow on lemnrrylng should not wear whlto for the teremonv A hiiidsoino gown, practical for paving vIsltH or nn afternoon rcroptioii frock, would be nn nproprlate dieg for this occasion, Invilnlion Answer Dear Deborah Wmfc Will J'ou kindly tell me the coirect form to use In answer ing an Invitation to a dance the enid of Invitation reading ".Mr and Mrs John ASPERIN HABIT IS DEPRESSING; WARNING SOUNDED TO YOUNG GIRLS By WILLIAM HI j Is nn Instructive letter fiom a Xlhli high school girl "I hive beta a Hiiffeter foi some tlmo from hentliilie, which oiii fnmllj tlnrtoi sijs Is due in nveisltid) Ho advises mo to leivo school Hut, as I expect to giadiiate In June, I cannot give it up Somo time ngo I was told to trj- nsplrln which I did, and It soon telleved mo 1 htvo taken a gicat imnv of tho llve ginln nspliln capsules, sometimes as nianj ns seven or eight a tlav when mj- head lulled seveielj Now I do not hnvo head aches so much, but still want tho nspliin nnd cannot bo still In the house unless I take somo I fiequentlj feel ns though I would faint, nnd things tin ti bl ick nbout me I never bad this lit foro taking the aspirin IMease advise me It nspltiu Is a habit-forming thug mid If It weakens my htnit. thus causing those stt.inge spells " i:ldently this joung woman H educa tion Is faultj" Somehow sho has learnt il to place 'graduation" nbovo tho most I precious accomplishment a woman cm have good health Hvldontly her In structors aro giving her a wrong start hi life when they allow her and her class mates to feel that "graduation" Is so Im portant as this Of course it high school girl Is just a high school girl Often one sltled, from eairjlng too manv books under one aim and too manj data in hoi left thlid frontal ttmvolutlon Hut assuming tills joung worn in Is not imiely voicing the vngaiies of top lit av j girlhood, is slie in dangei ? Aspirin is ono of tlio coaltiu deriva tives Most all medicines nude from coal tnr Including all tho popular head ache cures nro tlcpnsslng to tho heart 1'iiither, they bieak down tho led blood corpuscles and ultimately ruin tlio noiv ous sjstem Wo sto quite a number of victims of tho coaltar thug habits event ually becomo neivous wieiks and some Units thej' re.u h tho Insane hospltnls Tho joung woman "wns told' to 'try" tho drug Who told her? What a terri ble responslbllltj ' Whv do human beings so love to oNpcilmcnt upon t.uli nthci ' Her sjmptnms aro chaiacteilstie slio frequently feels as though she would faint, and things turn iluk mound hot Acotanllldc, phenacetlii, nntipjiiu. acet phenctitlln, phenjlacct.imltle nny of theso In headache cures, "cold" or "gilp" cures Is a dangerous thug Aspirin Is perhaps less dt pressing th tn tlio othurs, but It Is depressing Our high schools, wo hivo tilw.ij'S bo llovcd, mako us a Ilttlo tophcavy. Wo Parting Mj' Ilfo closed twlco before Us close; It jet remains to sea If Immoitnllty unveil A thiid event to me, So huge, so hopeless to conceive, As theso that twlco befell; Paitlng Is all wo know of heaven, And ull we need of hell Hmll) Dickinson. Hoops All Summer Hoops are to be worn all summer They give tho necessarj- touch to tho verj- light, nlrv summer frock Touches of old laces quaintly tinted ribbons, black velvet, a ml J bucil uueillca auni'ij iiL't-e'aanaiu inu jiuuii. So featherbone hoops aro to bo had In all tho shops These may have tho hoop part at the hips, llko tho newer models, or at tho hem, as fancy dictates They nro very light, fashioned on a crinoline foundation It this Is not a convenient ar rangement, crinoline petticoats may be had Their prices are rather high Laundry Tip White silk blouses will not turn yellow If washed In cold water FORM Jones and Miss Jones for Miss Mary Smith Saturday evening, April 29; Lotus Club"? Shall I answer in tho third person or not nnd how should tho envelope bo ad dressed' Also, please tell me whether I nm expected to send flowers to tho guest of honor' Thanking you for nn early re ply, I nm. jours truly JOHN BYltD. I Ansttrr In thn third person, ns the Invitation Is In the third pfmon, ns follows: Mr. John Iljrd nrrfpts with pleasure Mr ind Mrs Inhn Jniifs nnd Miss Jones pollto invitation for Saturday evening April lit) at the Lotus Club S Mr nml Mrs Jones, Mlfts tones, (Address) fllj R There In no obllcitlon tn do so, unit, thnueli It wouli bo very courteous, It would not be expected UridcRroom's Place Dear Dcboiah Hush At which side of the nltar does the bridegroom stand and which arm docs ho offer to his brldo when her fnlher gives her to him In mnrrlngo? J. G. H. 1 he bridegroom stntids nt tho right-hand side of tho altar, outside of tho snnctunry or chancel Ho offers his left arm to the bride Another Kissing Query Dear Deborah 1,'uih I nav In jour col limn several weeks ago that volt considered It bad form for n girl to nllow n joung man to kiss hor good night after nn evening visit, If sho Is not engaged to him Do jou think thnt this Is rmlly not done' O H K. I tin lint ptetomt to answer whether this Is tlntie nf tint Thole nre piob.ibly a number of foolish girls who nllmv theso liberties It Is certainly In veiy bad form. A Poor Select ion Dcnr Debit ah tluih I went tn a pnrlj' lalelv where wo were chnpernned by n vniing wninnn about five voars older thnn the lest ot us She ilemnnded nil tho at tention of tho j'oung men and we girls had n very stupid time Don't j'ou think It would have been belter not to hnvo had n chnpeione? NANCY D. You m uln a poor selection for your rltnpemno, ns a thnpi rone's flint duties should bo to see thnt otheis hnvc n pleasant time nnd to efface herself to a cetlnlli degree Of course, the joung peo ple should show the t h.iperono attention nnd politeness, but flic. In turn Rhoulil nover monopnllrn tho guests No, It Is iilwajs better to have a chnpenone DHIIOItAH HUSH. BRADY, M. D. waste nt least a jear there Tho sight of a i nund shouldered, pueoelous, bespectn. tied joung woman staggetlng nlong homo with an nrnifiil of nlgebns, tlologlcs, bug ologlcs. et cctoiii, uluajs makes us sigh for the future of tho race QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS Diet for Totir-j ear-old Child I'lenso suggest a diet sultablo for a child ot 1 Answci Breakfast Glass of milk. 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