wmmwwtmmm vi m mmt 12 EVENING LEDGER-PHILADELPHIA, TUESDAY, DECEMBER 21, 1015: to m HOUSEHOLDS OP RICH BOAST MANY SERVANTS, SAYS M'LISS There's a Maid for This and a Man for That, and Some of Them Get Four Meals a Day i to Keep Them Happy To those housekeepers who manage to get their wnshlnc, IfonlnK, cook ing, sweeping1, dusting- nnd polishing dono by ono maid (who In addition cares for tho babies In tho spare time), It will coino as a distinct surprise to learn that there are women In Philadelphia whoso servants are bo numerous that It requires a regular payroll with a specially employed woman In charge of It to keep the finances of tho menage straightened out. It Is said that the household of Mrs. Stotesbury Is kept up to Its high atandard of efficiency by no fewer than 50 servants, I was going to wrlto "me nials," but this lady bountiful treats her employes with such a ruro degreo rf thoughtfulness nnd consideration that that Is scarcely an appropriate wbrd. A little row of spick and span houses, with overy modern convenience, Bheltcrs them, not a stone's throw from tho Stotesbury home, nnd I am totd that there la even an underground passageway connecting tho two, so as to obviate the necessity of their coming out In the open on Inclement days. The Charlemagno Towers, too, havo a. little army In their employ. Nigh on to 30 maids, cooks, butlers, footmen, chauffeurs and whatnot compose the taff, unless my Information errs, and the Houstons, of Chestnut Hill, have n menago that comes In that class also. BUt a prominent Overbrook woman who "moves In this samo set," to use a current phrase, and whoso estate Is sizable, told me that she found nlno house servants wholly sufllcient. "I treat them well," she said, "nnd give them plenty to eat. Four meals r day If you count afternoon tea as a meal Is what they get. I pay them well, and they themselves prefer not having so many others around, My household affairs usually run without a hitch, but I always make a point of giving some time each day for personal supervision. I deem this absolutely necessary. It must never be forgotten for a moment that I am the head. Successful homckeeplng depends on this." Verily, oven nlno servants sounds luxurious; but how would you like to have to provldo Christmas gifts for fifty? It's almost like monopolizing tho Banta Claus Jobt She Wasn't Kitcing "There aro lots of women running for office In this election," said a punster it the BUffrnge convention In "Washington tho other day, "but I know one who Isn't Itoesslng." It was truo. I never saw a woman so distressed ns was tho erstwhile president of Pennsylvania's State suffrago association when ehe was an nounced tho new vlco president of tho national organization. Mrs. Frank M. Roesslng didn't want tho Job. Like all of the other hard workers In tho last campaign, what sho wanted above everything else was a llttlo surcease from tho terrific strain of trying to lend a conservative State to tho goal of a suffrago victory. But I think most of tho women at that Inspiring gathering In the national capital took home with them tho realization that there Is to be no rest until success is achieved. It Is this spirit, too, that will mako tho victory conic all the sooner. Have You Seen This Strange and Curious Sight? "Why Is a boudoir cap7" asks a West Philadelphia man with a vague and puzzled expression on his face. And then he goes on to explain: "Every morning when I come to the office I seo women on the street, either going to the corner grocory store or gossiping on tho front steps, heavily protected against tho cold with fur or thick cloth coats. But on their heads they wear these filmy affairs of lace and ribbons. Why?" Who knows? In Its proper place no daintier article of wearing apparel was ever devised than this frothy llttlo headpleco; but Just as u ball gown would give ono the shivers (!) If worn In a business office, so tho boudoir cap worn on tho street leaves one cold. The Shoe on the Other Foot Now Washington society reporters, I nm told, snubbed Mrs. Gait because she was the widow of a. tradesman, albeit, they were all ready to admit that she was, and Is, one of the most gracious and most charming women to be found anywhere. On Saturday they stormed her stronghold In droves, to no avail. To follow a course of "noblesse oblige" would seem to bo tho profitable us veil as the truly arlstocrntlc thing to do. Four Ounces, If You Please! If tho suggestion of our good friend Dr. Harvey Wlloy, tho pure food expert, Is taken wo will sit down to our Christmas dinners each with a scale In front of us. The master of ceremonies' will be suti' otllclal carver and ladler. Ho'll go around from place to place carving iwid ladling out Just so much and no more, and even though you've navMj a Rpaco for weeks for your holiday meal, you'll get only a specified pbrtlon. Four ounces of turkey and four ouwv&s of dressing is the maximum amount that should be consumed by any in'e, tho eminent physician declares, and though your favorite dish be ora-tiberrles, to eat more than two ounces Is a serious epicurean crime. In his, opinion. Two baked potatoes, however, may be taken without serious consequences, although he ndvlsew that Vue skins, since they are tho best part, bo also eaten. Oysters,. VAfne-made soup, lettuce salad and home-made mince pies o,V. "itrTjo" partaken of In moderation constltuto the remainder of his menu, " which, it has been estimated, should not cost more than 35 cents per portion. Despite the limitations tho good doctor has set us, H'h pleasant to know that rre can havn turkoy and cranberries nnd mince pie at all without violating a gastronomic code. M'LISS. Letters to the Editor of the Woman's Page Dear M'llss Is It necessary to make an announcement of a broken en gagement? jj, j, s. No written announcement of a broken engagement Is necessary, although I would advlso you to let tho fact be known to avoid any embarrassing sit uations. The announcement of this affair should be made as quietly as pos sible by tho mother of the girl, verbally where con'onlent, by an Informal noto to friends when necessary. It Is generally thJ accepted right of a woman to break an engagement, and sho may or may not give her reason lor so doing. Dear M'llss I havo heard that the women who vote In Colorado havo ac complished many changes In the government of that Stato. Could you tell jne some of tho moat Important measures they havo enacted and let me know where I can get the Information myself? J. McK. Yes, the right to voto was conferred upon Colorado women In 1893. Since that time the following changes have been made: Measures were passed making mothers joint guardians with the fathers over children; establishing a, Juvenile Court: making parents responsible for the offenses of delinquent children, when they have by neglect or any other cause contributed to such delinquency; forbidding the employment of children In certain industries; making the wife the head of the family In cases where she provides the chief support; providing for supervision of lying-in hospitals and maternity homes conducted by private Individuals; compelling men to support their families and making wife desertion a felony; making Immoral solicitation a felony; forbidding the Insuring of lives qf children under 10 years of age; establishing State parental schools; making employers liable for Industrial accidents These are not all by any means, but you may get tho rest by reading tho History of Woman Suffrage, as edited by Frances Maule BJorkman, and pub lished by the National American Woman Suffrage Association, 505 5th ave nue, New York city, Addrea all communications to M'l.lsn, care at thr Kvenlne I.rdger. Write on one tide of the paurr onl. SEEN IN THE SHOPS it k fit i 4L $ DO YOUR CHRISTMAS SHOPPING EARLY? WORDS! WORDS! WORDS! Why Preach a Principle, the Practice of Which Is Made Impossible by the Conditions of Life? Read These Confessions of a Father AN ADVANCE MODEL OP SOIREE TAFFETA THIS frock which auggests povcred wigs nnd patches of old Col'jnlal days is one of the early spring 'rnodeli. Tho gown Is of exquisite plo. taffeta ombrol deretl In sliver. Filmy tulle, outlined by narrow silver,, tirnld, forms the sleeve I'ffpct, while he crushed bodice li trim med with silver laco and a boutonnloro of French flowers Henenth tho pnnnler effect of tin- Rldrt cascade's of filmy tulle bound with silver nro seen. Tho price Is J77 60 Full particulars as to tho store whero this article may lie bought can be ob tained by sending n stamped, addressed cnvclopn to the Kdltor of the Woman's Tage, nvnm.vo LnnoEn, 603 Chestnut street. A clipping of the gown or fashion you want must be Inclosed, CRUEL EXPOSURE TO "HARDEN" BABY SEVERELY CONDEMNED BY DOCTOR By WILLIAM WE do i,ot believe any competent physician would ever advlso a mother to "l arden" a child by exposing the child to discomfort The first law of h!iith Is "Be comfortnble." A lady writes that a mother sho knows has taken up our fresh air "theory" with a vengeanco, nnd tho lady found the mother exposing tho scantily dressed bnby on a bed near an open window, tho bnby blue with cold, tho mother refusing to allow the lndy we suspect the lndy Is a settlement worker to cover the child with a blanket, because, the mother. Insisted, "Doctors nowadnys teach us not to coddle children with too much clothing." As ono of the guilty doctors, we pro test. Tho mother must bo a queer sort of mother. All tho mothers we have ever known, excepting those who Indulged In Intoxi cating bovorages, had enough common sense to keep their llttlo ones comfortably wnrm. Wo have known many a mother In fact, most all the mothers to over do tho dressing and Injure tho child's health, but never have we found a sane, unlntoxlcatcd mother who deliberately In jured her child by cruel exposure. In urging every one, old and young, to wear no more clothing than physical comfort demands, wo feel that wo arc doing cpod In tho world. Wo know that over-dressing, coddling and tho fear of tho open air that these bad hnblts Inspiro, aro prolific factors of tho various respira tory dlsenses. If this abnormal mother described by tho ludy exposes her baby to tho cold to the point of blueness, then there la a case for the Humane Society or the po lice lie Comfortable. If you are not com fortable you are likely to suffer in health. Open-air life, by day or by night, must be comfortable, enjoyable, else It can do no good. Any one who would shiver In a cold bed BRADY, M. D. nil nlcllt fnt thn fnnMa.l h.nnfl, ...U air knows nothing of tho value of fresh air. Porch sleeping Is a fine thing, nota bly for the youngstors, but special pro vision must be mado for physical com fortsleeping bags, protection against wind, rain nnd snow; sleeping hoods, spe cial sleeping garments, and espoclally some provision for keeping tho feet warm. Feeling cold can nover do any one any good. Breathing cold air can never do any ono any harm. Thero Is a nlco distinction hero. The problem Is to breathe cold air and yet nlways feel warm nnd that Is Just as ensy ns rolling oft a log. Let no render lmnglno wo would urgo him or her to Jump from tho frying pan Into tho fire. Fresh air. If you know whnt wo mean (cool,, moving air) Is tho most comfortable thing Imaginable. QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS Abscessed Teeth Will you ploaso name somo of the con ditions which might come from an abscessed tooth as a focus? Answer "Rheumatism." anemia. In digestion, gastric ulcer, diseased tonsIlB, neuralgia. And the abscess might bo un suspected were It rot for roentgenography. The Kindheartcd Neighbor Women Every time the neighbor women see n man stop to talk for a moment with a girl they don't know thoj begin to fear that ho is In the clutch of a vam pire. Ohio Stato Journal. THIS Is on Interview with a gentleman who tried It. Tried what? Tried to do his Christmas shopping early. I met him In a toy store. He looked gloomy. He looked morose. There wasn't a ray of Joy In either eye. Plainly he had some thing on his mind. Unless he got It off tho Yuletlde spirit would never permeate his being. So I prodded him. "Why this air of Irate pessimism?" I asked. "You look like a Prussian com pelled to rend Shakespeare to n Plcca dlllv audience." Ho shook himself and snapped his teeth, "It's all wrong," he said. "I've proved It." "Proved what?" "Proved there's nothing In this slogan, 'Do your Christmas shopping early.' Tho fellow who devised that slogan was soma fool dreamer. What difference does It make If you do your shopping early If you don't get It done. Now, If the slogan ran, 'FinlBh your Christmas shopping early,' thero might be something in It. "Take my caBO, for Instance. If I'd begun this 1MB Job of Christmas shopping year before last, whero would I be? Nowhere, Not a darn bit further ahead than I am this minute. Supposo I'd bo gun to buy a present for our cook In the spring of 1911 Ha' ha' Why, we've had 36 cooks by complete and actual count slnco then. We've had three new onas In the last three weeks. I'vo got Christ ma presents for all three. I got a book of German poems for G-retchen Sehn.eld.tr: Two days later aretcherrbeat it and wa engaged Nelly O'Toole. Again I pauso to utter a hollow hat ho! "When Nelly O'Toole came I hustled right out to do my Christmas shopping early for her. 'No more fool books,' said I to myself. 'I'd get Miss O'Toole some thing useful.' I asked my wlfo what useful thing I might get her. My wife said, 'Nelly's a llttlo shy on wardrobe get her a neat and Inexpensive dress.' "What's her slzo?" I naked. "Sho looks like middling fair 38," said my wife. "Well, I hiked right down to tho seeth ing marts of Christmas trade and got a neat pink 30. something light nnd inex pensive nnd trim. Again permit mo to twitter n frivolous hoi hoi Nelly eloped with my wife's sister's Swetlo chauffeur, and who do you think wo got now? Nono other than Miss Miranda Lincoln Wash ington Wellington, of tho Alabama Wel lingtons, Yes, and Miranda's a fairly pel feet f2. "What am I going to got Miranda? Not a blooming thing till 7 p. in. Christ mas Kvo. At that mystic hour I'll wend my way Into Market street, make my sim ple selection, ask tho tired salesgirl to hold It out for a brief spell and then leap for tho telephone. When I get my fam ily on the phono I'll ask If Miss Miranda Is Btlll on the Job, If sho Is I'll request that sho bo locked In and deprived of her shoes. Having given theso slmplo commnnds I'll clinch tho purchaso and hlko home In a taxlcab to help trim tho tree. BEGAN JULY FOURTH. "How about my wife's present havo I bought that yet? NO, NOT YET. Sounds rotten tardy of mo, does It? But wait. I began carls-, as tho fool saying advises. I began on tho anniversary date of the birth of tho nation, to wit, July the Fourth. I asked tho frau of my bosom what she would llko In the way of a Christmas present. "Sho replied, 'Take noto, I, will give you a list." She's practical and snappy. Is Lulu. 'Take these down,' she said; 'any few of them ttIII do as miscellaneous presents. Later on we'll discuss the real prescntl' Well, I took 'em down ana late In August I began buying said mis cellaneous presents. I tried to hide 'em away, but every Thursday when the housecleanlng was under way Lulu dug 'cm out nnd captured them. Once she had captured them they ceased to bo Christmas presents, even of the miscel laneous variety. "I kept maklnr up new lists. I'm n patient little feller, I am, and uncom plaining. I let Lulu tevlae and revise and kept on buying. I gave Up trying to hldo em at homo last Ootober and put 'em away In the safe deposit box. I got a dotcn artloles In there now. But by subllo Inquiry I'vo learned that not a blame one of them mako tho slightest appeal to Lulu now. You see, they're mostly Jewelry and trinkets and things mado by the Belgian refugoes. Lulu waa strong for tho Belgian refugees for a time. "Hut she's changed, Sho has swung her affections to tho Polos. She went to hear Paderowskl and decided before ha'd finished playing that no Christmas pres ent would really make her heart beat faster with prlda and Joy unless It was contrived and mado by aorao refugee Pole. Sure, I went to thoso Polish ba zaars and laid In a nlco little hamporful of stuff. I went oarly to avoid the rush, was waiting at tho door for the bazaar to open. And maybe those patriotic Polish-American blondes didn't grnb me .off and shako me down somo. AND TO WHAT END? "To what end? Pardon 'me while I de liver my bosom of a dry sob. Lulu's lost Interest In tho Poles. Nothing will do now but Serbian trinkets. I must help the Serbs. Sure I'm sorry for the Serbs. Way down Insldo of mo I palpltato with pity for thorn. And I've been to ono of their bazaars. "But I fool It In my bonos that Lulu's going to chango before Friday night. She's been reading up Montenegro for two days running. At first she wasn't Interested In that shin-plaster monarchy to any great extent. To tell you tho truth Bho was a llttlo bit vnguo on Mon tenegro up to very recently. She thought a Montenegrin was a mountnln Negro, and sho thought there were n whole lot more Montenegrins In tho United States than In tho Balkans "But she's accumulating tho real dope on 'em fast and Is getting stronger for them every hour. You seo about where I stand as to Lulu and her miscellaneous presents. What about her real present? Oh, she'll dccldo on that Thursday nnd drive in to town with me Friday and help mo buv It. "I haven't mentioned the children, you say? No, but I wns coming to them. You find mo In a toy store, don't you? I'm looking pretty grumpy and sad, nln't I? Because I'm late and rushed and hur ried : nd fretted? Nothing of the sort. I'm simply perturbed, buzxIm 77 plexed. I feel as If 1 ought i.8 the Osoar II, roping round Ybl5 gift cages Wth fhe ForrdnaVihr04?. wnat Happened. Ohl hi.t .1.7 ? mother-in-law has .$!? wearing some peaco Uami? ffl W-H going round the house elrX, dw N All military toys ehe pronoun.07 '5 and Insidious. She didn't briS.M " of her children to U "soldier V dldn't-thero were seven m S even stand for the lied Cm.'. ' W for little Lulu. Says Red oS? str.aok of war. i asked Ub.i 4 grandmother's presence If thi?, ? l doll to resemble Bill Bryan o, i ttt The poor kid had hysUri ? FIH grandmother waa Insulted. na t "Now, that's Just about how .... ' I stand. Don't talk to TmJ ?Ti!?1 ! your Christmas shopptne .5lBt '. want to know Is how to Vlss'i. ,A" Christmas ove." nl,h ' WotJ uenevmg mat it was best i... . " tur&r n,etal,ons " "ftft Getting the Kiddies to Si J The problem of gettlne (, v youngsters to sleep on Christ.. r4tl a trial to many mothers, so" I, mains to be done after ki3? ' asleep that It Is mo-rt necLarv ."'t ' that they are really . h woman whose knowledge of , 8o4 of children Is extensive and vrii nK her llttlo boys and rift. T.:!r ."oOm ' nnd then she tolls them Iend. , Christ Child. When thev hfS1.. .Hi signs of drowsiness she lilt. Jr iiu now ne is cora!mrr izzllnc snow nitHW. cania inus ami now he is com!n me niiiB or nnzznng snow with hilS "- oi rcinueers. inm picture never .ii ( stimulate the lively Imagination tfU, U youngsters, but their clever ?'! doesn't let them open their .r,?.M She tells them to count Sant", .5 ns they go flying over the tnttr n little folks count out loud for I'JS 'i but pretty soon you find them 5S Ing softly, dreaming of the preeenli ik!i Jolly Kris la to bring. If thlVXr tried after a warm bath and a tahtJl It Is almost infallible. , Here' sa 4 Real Xraassy i uiituruiiu iu ut-'ui, i hiu una unoiv nv.i.v mi mc year. i;io rolling silk, genuine ma. ncca handle a gift that IipIkitd nil... !.. .t I the -ttholo year $3,60. George W. .Tacoby tlEN'B WE An G20 Chestnut Street For Xmas Breakfast Allen's Scrapple, unsurpassable, put on edge on the appetite and makes folki cueor for breakfast time. AAfife cm$pv made the know-how aj- from an old family recipe, lllla the bill. It's pure appetizing economical. The best dealers have It in 3-lb. parchment paper packages. Clement E. Allen, Inc., Media, Pa. TIH CHEERFUL CHETO 5omeKou Wfore Ckristmus lm tutv5 so Good Tkt.t my conduct's iurpriiing "to 5ec, Dot rvtving my motive so misunderstood U ""etlly qwite. ptinFul to me. Hnd id like to convince the. uhole uorldiF 1 toyld Tntt the reason lm Cood 15 1 vjfjrvfc oA to be Good! ( 3RT(""i (vv--. i Willlllililillilllim m Gift Suggestions Quality and Usefulness Are Appreciated Silk & Woolen Mufflers Fur-lined Coats Motor Coats & Robes Mark Cross Leather Goods & Gloves Silk Hats Ladies' Neckwear Pins, Boutonnieres, Etc. LAYLOCK & 1 528 BLYNN.Inc. Chestnut St. B l'llllll.lli.l!ililllMillilililllllllllM (l This ntw Sornal.i model In black Mil ' kid. headed, and white kid, beaded. I Whatever your individual taste in slippers, you will 4 find amongst our wide rangr diversity enough to j completely satisfy you. , DOT SUPPERS -I I are made with the same care and of the same high- ' j grade quality materials as Sorosis Shoes. Our present . showing is of unusual interest. I $4.00 to $7.00 ; 1314 Chestnut St. ; jju&a"",'-'ws J. ULRICH'S New OoWn JHirShop NOW OPEN 1206 WALNUT STREET Afternoon Dresses, Evening Gowns and Furs SPECIAL THIS WEEK An unusual assortment of Blouses as Xmas Gifts at very moderate prices. I Hand-Embroidered Voile Waists as low as $4,00. Georgette Crepe, Lace, Chiffon Nets and Wash Silks a5 low as $5,00. Tailored Suit $30.00 Evening Dresses , 35.00 Evening Chiffon Velvet Coats ........ 45.00 ST IT VWAliH MILLIE AND HER MILLIONS ... ... (Copyright. 1015.) I tin wa., Mm r-- ir- iicdui .-re- ) e ..- ... ".,- Il l.mu mm.itv Vnn'ns ( . I 1 .1 1 I 1 ...'' fORWeAKPAST-Th U P riKV rfof'.LLAROU?V SlKSf.5. fiHL JPiTA IMU5T DECIDEP TO GIVE UP CIGARETTES ,J T 1 ucpt.fttm J -" -O 1 I n( UNt-t. r f .. . 1 i ) . i-i' . "txuz m mi 0 ' 1 ' s biutuK cigars i".c , MONTY IS SO INCONSIDERATE iVe ousroRPEReD 10,000 .SPECIAL CG AR6TTE5 FOR Y0 W wmi tuvh. riunuuKnn nmwj jl. n ,irr-n . S V' M I M 1 4 m 1 sSM F y I M I ' 0 & m if HW , flli'1 1 rniniciun 5 sr jt . At V Mr v i dm i NM "yj sJnfSf 1 i.