Mk!'J---'.xjnmmmmmmmrmmill9ll 10 t EVENING LEDGER-PHIEADEIiPHIA-, WEDNESDAY, jTOVEMBBB it, 1918. H ON WINNING A MAN'S HEART Ellen Adair Criticises the Varied and Devious Methods Frequently Employed to the Above End. That cynical, delightful humorist of tho early 'Fifties, William Makepeace Thacke ray, declares emphntlcnlly that any woman, unless she actually has a hump, can marry any man she pleases! He chants a song of praise, howover, around the fact that the llttlo dears aro like tho beasts of tho field and do not know their own destroying power. There certainly Is truth In this. Tho average woman does not realize tho Weapons she Possesses. The hnrnlnn nt Thackeray's famous novel, "Vanity Pair," was an Insipid, sweat little crea ture, with whom I have no sympathy! Tho little vlllnlness, Becky Sharpe. was Infinitely more attractive to my way of thinking;! For she had brain and common sense, and her designing Bchemes were really so clever that one can torglvo her R good deall Certainly tho men all liked her! And why? Itccauso she understood the gentle art of pleasing them' Pos sessed, of very llttlo beauty, neither birth nor breeding nor a balance In the bank, the little Becky yet managed to charm II tho men and worked real havoc In many a calm domestio hearth! Iter own oex, to a woman, hated her and utterly disputed her meagre charms. But tho men wore nit crazy about her! No rnascullno heart can long withstand tho Insidious onslaughts of tho eternal feminine. Did women only understand their own advantages thoy could marry whom and whon and how they choose. But they don'ti "A woman," says ono of our most pop ular playwrights, "can do anything with a man as long as there Is not another woman In the casol" This Is a less broad, less sweeping as Milady's Necklace The smart woman has one bead neck lace at least to harmonize or contrast with her gown. Beads are very popular Just now, and ono shop shows a great many black and white effects. The largo pearl necklace coming almost to the knees Is being worn. Another Is of out Jot, breast length, with balls of flllgreo silver of the same size alternating. A very effective combination Is of Jet and crys tal with rhlnestones. Large triangles of tho Jet are used, both dull and polished, having bizarre rhlnestone centres and bold designs on tho chains. A new Im portation is the bandeau of dainty black lace, lined with white net or chiffon. This Is a substitute for tho volvot worn so much last season. Pendants of rhlne stone or cut Jet are fastened on these bandeaux and make a charming sugges tion for the elderly woman. The Gushing Girl "Oh, my dear. Isn't your hat tho sweet meat thlngl And what a darling suit! Isn't It perfectly dear of you to como to see us. We think, so much of you. Mother was Just saying tho other day that she hoped that stunning girl would come again. No, really I hadn't meant to tell you, but It Just slipped out Tou Just make me tell you things." So speaks tho "gushy" girl Tou all know the typo. She rushes excitedly Into a, roomful of girls and embraces each one tempestuously. Tou can always tell tho gushy girl by tho embrace. She makes everybody uncomfortable by her candid and uninvited criticism. "What a love of a bracelet! Did you have another birthday? Jack's got such good taJate." Oh. I beg your pardon. Of course, I didn't mean anything. The VorsMdea! I never heard of such a jr Tl" I(,ne great evil of gushing lies In the ...understandings It promotes and the : encouragement It gives to that despicable habit, flattery. The girl who deliber ately flatters any one be It man or woman for what she can get out of It, Is to ba pitied for her Ignorance. The principle Is wrong, In the first place, and the result extremely doubtful. People always see through flattery It Is a per fectly transparent falling and the ffat torer ends by being very heartily and sincerely looked down upon. So. It you are Inclined to be ovoren thuslastla or demonstrative, beware of Its next-door neighbor, gush. A girl has to be her own natural self, and If that self happens to be an affectionate one, don't try to change. Be natural, speak your thoughts and feelings as good breeding- allows you to, but first be sure you really mean Just what you say! To Clean Metallic Lace A fine powder should be mado of stale breadcrumbs and ordinary washing blue, which should be then rubbed into the lace (first laid over a clean cloth) with the linger tip till it becomes quite bright. Next take a piece of clean, soft old flannel and very lightly brush over the lace until all tho crumbs are off. Finally rub the laoe gently with a piece of soft crimson velvet, after which It Is as bright - and as good as when It was new. If it has got very much pulled out of shape An not attemnt to Dress it right with a flat-iron. Tho only way is, before clean ing, to gently and firmly pull ths hies ata shape so far as is possible. In ths "mm at etuied Dotnts. thoy can be gently pulled out and stack down -with a pin into position en Um wad of linen. A Good Hint In 'warming s, steamed puddlnr, or in sUomlns; a stale cake, put ths article on a, plata or a. fiat dish. Place the pudding In a coUndsr In ths steamer and you will trt surprised to find bow maeh lighter ana xnor delicate ths pudding will be ftfen If slate had bean used for the moisture t settle en and mako th pad din stodgy. When Making Rabbit Soap When making rabbit soup never put salt la until all tho blood is added and boiled for fira minutes. If put in before tea weed has cams througn tne coll u will curd! and form Into little hard knots j ths aoup will iook poor ana watery Instead of being of a rich, unl- t orw thlckniss and color. To Soften Brown Sugar ISrewn sua-ar that has become lumpy EfrSgj biag kept any length of time may tn4 in use rouowiag- manner: jrm KRUlcstua wltn boiling water ana put p ;ftwrar In s, pan, placing- It over the US SO twwua. To Keep Preserve ...;SiMOt so ofUa become moldy Just MW tap that it 1 well to KHavr that (He Ski Itusald edges of th4 Jars are jmiltea wKh glycerin before covering ; Jvs Me-ld Trill appear. "Whm PeeBflg Onion . testers ths unpleasant odor of awJian I rub elate, table salt over joy $p4e & tfcea wash, them is tfe wol - j of uuuni MtsrMt p-"-", , ... sertion than that of Thackeray's. But It la pretty true granted that the lady sets about things In the proper way! "Men," a student of the human race tells us, "at twenty fall In love with every pretty f.ico they look nt; after twenty, with every pretty faco that looks at lliem." Listen to that, O, ye damsels who would win a man's heart, and then try to extract tho groin of wisdom that lies hid In Its exaggeration! To win a. man's heart, show him first that you have one to win. Be your own bright natural selves. Talk to him as Sou would to any dear friend. Better still, encourage him to talk to you by showing your Interest In everything that interests him. If you are witty, bo chary of exhibiting your powers! Man prefers to amuse, rnther thnn be amused. Besides, should he be slower wlttcd he has a certain fear of tho clever, brllllnnt woman; and whon he la equally talented well, ho has no deslro for a river near tho throne! Ite nicmbor. If you aro bent on successfully winning a man's heart, that there aro such things as scx-nntagonism ond scx Jcalousy. Above alt, avoid all signs of flippancy. man mny scon nt many things, bo any thing but a pattern of tho virtues, yet In his heart of hearts he cordially dis likes tho woman who, often as a mere poe, indulges In a gibe nt conventionality. A flippant attitude toward things reli gious Is another dreadful error Into which many girls unwittingly fall. They il lustrate their humorous remarks by apt quotations from tho Scriptures. Bemem her, that, although tho average mnn may smile nt this, down In his heart of hearts he loses all respect for the flippant girl who originates such. ELLEN ADAIK. Ideas in Idleness Tou may send a boy to college, you cannot muko him think. but It's a long lane that has no ash-barrel. A fool and his canoe are soon parted. Money Is the fruit of all ovll. The country paper makes the Joke lost longer. A sermon In time saves an opiate. "'Tlo only noble to be good." How history repeats Itself! In the Stone Age, when a man was angry, he went out to find a club. Also In tho Stone Age, women painted their faces, hung stones about their necks and wore little. The new baby makes a walking dele gate of many a man. Tho first tragedy of the new bride Is the day he rushes off to work and for gets to kiss her good-by. Newly weds by their shoes you shall know them. Oh, for a law to restrain bridegrooms from wearing new shoes! Your Soiled Carpet When a carpet Is soiled and black lead, take a little fuller's earth, put It Into a saucer, pour onto It a little cold water and a few drops of liquid ammo nia. Mix the whole Into a soft paste, rub It on the carpet, and let It thorough ly dry; then brush oft with a stiff brush. Tho black lead will then all be removod. WA YS OF MAKING PIN-MONE Y Again the stay-at-home girl turns to a way of making pin money. Like the taste of blood to tho tiger of the desert Is the habit of making her own spending money to the American girl. Once she begins she seldom gives It up. unless Dan Cupid catches her unawares. The great trouble Is, some girls claim thoy never see a, chance to begin I Chances for the girl with clever head and quick Angers are all about her. Every peculiar circumstance of her par ticular environment can be turned Into money. For Instance, a little shop In New Eng land was originated by several clever girls. It Is the daintiest little place Imag inable and wholly and artistically femi The Doting Mother Thero Is a woman who lives across tho street who has two perfectly charming daughters. Wo have all acknowledged that they are charming nnd thflr mother claims so repeatedly. But people will get on tho defensive when they hear a mother talk of nothing elsel She sees her children as paragons, forgetting while she chants the monotonous litany of their superior attractions that there may be other mothers In the room Just as de voted, If not so eloquent. "I'm so sorry I was late, but I Just had to watt to see Isabel! She has a new dress for tho Engineers' dance. Bht looked perfectly beautiful. They said ah was the prettiest girl in ths room at the last dance. She has suoh a lovely complexion, and the boys fairly rava over her yes," and so on, ad nauseam. Poor Isabel is a swet dainty little girl, and thers are other sweet dainty little gtrls oil over the world. A mother's partiality Is certain to bo expected to a oertaln extsnt bat as a continuous per formance it Is, indeed, tireiomt. That kind of woman is not too oonilderaU of others' feelings either, The sam lady was overheard speaking to a chum ot her daughter's 'the other day. "Why, bow do you do, Ellen. Ton look very well. Indeed your hair especially. I lor ths way you put It up. It seems to go any way you want it to I Isabel has such a time with hers It's so fine, you know! But you can do anything with coarse hair. And again, "Why, Marjorla, I hear you are working. How did your mothsr ever oome to let you do it? I'm sure I'd never let Isabel work In anyone's office. Why? My dear, she's far too pretty. I'm sur you're able to take cars of yourself, though!" A mother like this is a great drawback to a girt She doesn't even allow her daughter the privilege of making enemies, to say nothing of friends. People get so sick of hearing daughter's perfections dunned Into their ears that they take an unreasonable dislike to the girl. Poor oblld, she is the innooont victim of her mother's doting fondness I Coffee Stains Th most difficult of all stains to take out or those made by coffee. With care, however, the stain can be removed from the most dellsato silk or woolen fabrics. Rub ths mark gently with a little pure gtyecrias, then rinse tt in lukewarm water, lay a oloth over the damp part en the wrong side and press with a oool Iron until dry- Do sst wet more of the mate rial than Is absolutely necessary. 0ttie Hard-Boikt! Egga nUMg tioad-beUed I and it sh4 to dtp Uve kntfe u eoki water HI : HI 1 "s JS?W vv -f"' 'sT&- '-,jSSVLS' " AN EGYPTIAN COSTUME This costume is Egyptian. Silver, blue and lavender brocade of rich pattern forms the skirt The tunic is of pink mauve charmeuse veiled in blue chiffon. The insert is of white satin medallions. On these are hand-painted Egyptian figures. The bodice is of lavender chiffon, and there is a girdle of lapis blue. Over the front of the gown there is a jeweled panel of absinthe green velvet. This extends under the tunic to the knees. At the end it has n long fringe of green, beige and gold. The headdress is an Egyptian wig. The slippers and stockings are lavender. This costume is worn in the play of "Sari." WOMAN OUTSIDE THE HOME Around Tho weekly sewing class of the Equal Franchise Society will hold their regu lar meeting Thuraday at the society's headquarters, 9th street above Chestnut. The sewing will begin at 8 o'olock and will continue until dark. The llttlo aprons made by this class are very at tractive. Plain whlto ones, light tan ones and fanciful colored ones, decorat ed with the "gingham dog and the calico cat," are only some of the variotles they offer. They have no equal suffrage slo gans on them, so even those who aro Indifferent to the cause may buy them for gifts. The whole arrangement Is on a practical basis; the goods Is bought nine. The girls sell all kinds of attrac tive articles In tinware and woodenware. They make a specialty of Interior deco rations to match, and for very little will rearrange your rooms and furnish Ideas for Improving them. Pretty garden bas kets, watering pots for the summer pi azza, serving trays, tea set, tray cloths, caddies, china, etc, oven art nouveau desk sets and fruit hampers are Just some of the things these girls turn out "But we're not artists!" Learn to bI Tou can do what you aro told to do and art does not necessarily mean original ity. Take a course at some good school and don't consider failure. If these girls had, the fat checks they get at the end of each week would be conspicuously absent Across the Counter Tho Importation of foreign linen Is still sufficient to the day, for English, Irish, Scotch and even German linens are still seen at normal prices. Scotch damask table cloths In attractive designs are now selling In the 72-Inch width at H'a yard. Bleached table damask of Irish manu facture Is sold for 75 cents a yard In a 63 Inch width. At 90 cents a yard an excellent quality of Irish table linen Is sold In a width that measures two yards. Another quality, somewhat finer, in ths same width, costs tLKI a yard. Napkins that match this last-named grade of linen are sold for (2.C0 and (S a dozen. They aro M to H Inches square, Irish damask napkins, 3 by 13 inches, cost (3.79 a dozen. Linen napkins of Scotch manufacture that measure 19 by 1 Inches cost only fl.CS a dozon. Towels, a good quality of Oerman hack, are now selling for IJ.E0 a dozen. linen crash toweling is selling for 13 oents a yard and Turkish towels wtth hemmed ends can be bought for IS cents apiece. Plaid blankets, the pretty block pat terns In pink and blue, cost IS a pair. White blankets, with pink or blue bor ders, are sold for H a pair; bound with a wide silk binding, for ?3 a pair. Prettv sllkallna-oovered comfortables, cotton filled, cost tl.CS apiece. A heavier welrht, with a sateen border, is sold for 1176. Down quilts, covered with sateen and measuring f by 6 feet can ba bought for IS. With a covering of a better quality, the prices are IS and 13.60. Hands and Feet The great point In being warmly clad is to attend first to ths warmth of tho extremities. While the blood Is passing through these small parts it Is rapidly chilled unless ths heat Is shut in, and thus ths covering of the legs and arms I really mora Important than the cover ing of the body. Chilblains on the hands were less common a generation ago than at the present time. The people of those days wore woolen cuffs Instead of elbow sleeves, and thus they escaped the colu fingers which produce chilblains. We may not core to go baok to the fashion of woolen, cuffs, but we shall net look eon spleuoBsly oat of fashion if all our blouses ore made with long sleeves, and our shirt blouses fastened round the wrist wits a band. Kvtn then if there Is any fueling f chilliness In the arms we do well to wear long-sleeves uader-bodlees. or woolen armlets. And If we have neither time nor saosey for making or buying the letter we can make them frucn lU i parts of dlt arded uck- the Clubs wholesale, and sold almost at cost. Be sides this, playing cards, pencils, blot ters, stationery, thimbles, etc., can be bought with "Votes for Women" on them. At noon Friday, November 6, Mrs. Scott Nearlng. wife of Scott Nearlng, professor of sociology In the University of Penn sylvania, will be ono of the speakers at. the open-air meeting. Arthur D, Bees will also speak. Mrs. Wilfred Lewis, president of the society, will Introduce the speakers, and Is lending her car for the occasion. The last meeting was a most successful one; 675 leaflets were given out last Friday withlnthe hour. The meetings will take place twice a week In the near future. For the Coming Christmas Have you seen the new Initialed Turk ish towels? They aro very attractive In deed, and mako a charming Christmas suggestion. Tho Initial Is mado of French knots, In heavy mercerized cotton. Instead of being worked In the direct centre of the towel. It Is placed at the extreme left, above the border, Tou can buy tho alphabet, all ready to be stamped by pressing with a hat Iron. This Is especially useful for the woman with many friends, as a series of separate Initials is very hard to get hold of. Some of the Initials are done in the popular all-white, but the colored Initial to match the border shows up tho work better. The stores offer an almost unlimited variety of designs. The tan, unbleached towel worked In a little darker tan or blue cotton is very pretty. Another towel comes with a border In blue, pink or lavender. This has a wreath In the centre, with a place for the Initial, which can bo done In white or color. Thero are somo very stunning Bul garian effects, wtth plaid border, and large stripes. These work up very nicely, and are a good suggestion for a man. French Cauliflower Take a cold cooked cauliflower, pass It through a sieve, add two whole eggs, two spoonfuls of whlto sauce or cream and ono ounce of butter melted; mix this all well together, turn it Into a well but tered mold and cook in a pan threo parts full of boiling- water; when ready turn out, and serve either plain or with a cheese sauoa. Household Hints When washing windows put f sw drops of turpentine in the water. They will dry much quicker and they will be olear and bright When curtain pins have been In use for some time they aro apt to become rusty. To remedy this, let them stand for a few minutes In a cup of water, to which a lit tle ammonia has been added. Then re move and rub well, and they will look like new again. A tiled floor should be wiped over with skimmed milk ones a week after wash ing. It is a good plan to rub the tiles with a little Unseed oil once jn two months, and afterward polish them with a clean cloth. ' Save all scraps of toilet soap, weigh them, add a little water and dissolve In a saucepan. Then stir In their weight of fine oatmeal, mix thoroughly, and pour into a tin to coot Then cut Into small cakes. A pleco of bread tied in a bit of muslin and dropped into the water in which greens are belling will absorb ths unpleas cnt odor. Honey asms. Use one-half eupful eaeh of honey and sugar, one-halt oupful of butter, one egg, (we oupful of cold wa ter, two teaspeenfula of baking powder, two eupfuls of flour. Stir all together thoroughly and flavor with lemon or va nilla. Bake in a hot even. Vheo Cooking Gretas a plese of bread tied in a bit of If is dropped Into the water in which gresns arc belay l".:;--i. It ttill COMPENSATION A Mother Says When I come In from a lone morn ing's shopping laden with parcels, tired out In mind and body with the wenry waiting In crowded stores, the trudge up and down dusty thoroughfares, nnd the strain of trying to mnko $3 do tho work of 6, tho rush of eager llttlo feet to the door, nnd the glad cry of llttlo voices "Oh, mummy, wo nre glnd you've como back!" makes up for all my weariness. And when later, busy little fingers search foverlshly through my purchases for tho "s'prlso packets" they know mummy has got for them this Saturday morning, nnd three radiant, rosy faces are held up to be kissed, I feel amply rewarded for tho loss of the laco collar I saw In Wnnamaker's, but Just couldn't afford. BUrtDENS-AND BLESSINGS. "It's tho responsibility of children that I couldn't stand!" people have confided to me when they havo come, perhaps at a tlmo when baby was teething nnd Jackie In bed with a soro throat ond Betty Just getting over an operation for adenoids. But, to my mind, that Is one of the most beautiful things about motherhood tho feeling that your babies depend on you for ovorythlng. And If to give Is mors blessed than to receive, a mother ought to be thrice blessed. If she gives of hor best, working early nnd late, and denying herself the small est luxury that tho children may havo necessities, nlie Is repaid a hundredfold by the lovo of her children, for whom no ono In the wide world really counts but "mummy." WHAT A MOTHEIt HAS TO QO THROUGH. Dark days must come days when her cup of anguish Is Ailed to overflowing nt tho sight of a beloved child sick and suffering, when oven a mother's care scorns to avail nothing, and all she can do Is to watch and wait But Joy, far exocedlng that of any other Joy, Is hors when that child Is given back to her from the dread Bor derland, and tho weak, little volco speaks Its first words of compassionate thought for "poor, tired mummy." Surely all hor anxiety was worth such compensation as this I "How you can stand betng forever tied to the houso, I don't know!" ex claims my unmarried sister, on tho rare occasions when she manages to find time for a flying visit to me at Philadelphia. HER REWARD. True, I nevor go to a dance beoauso I can't afford a proper frock, and couldn't. In any case, leave baby all those hours to the Inexperienced care of a 16-yoar-old colored clrL And tho same reason holds good so far as any pleasures are concerned that mean trips to other cities. But If I over harbor envious thoughts of my sister, With hor smart frocks, her week-ends In the country and never-ending round of gaieties, I havo only to oreep upstairs and look down on my son and heir sleeping so peacefully In his little cot beside my bed. One dimpled arm thrown across the coverlet, his golden curls forming a halo for the sweet, rosy faco, to feel a deep wave of happiness come over me, chasing all the discontent away. For, after all, my sister may have many worldly advantages, but she hasn't a cherub of her very own like mine! Banana Fritters Skin and halve the fruit dip In a nice batter, and fry a golden brown. Squeezo a llttlo lemon Juice over them, and sorve with sifted sugar and cream. Baked for 20 minutes In a good oven and served hot bananas aro very digestible and most nourishing. THE MISCHIEF-MAKING "I Just ran In to congratulate you, my dear! I read your engagement In last evening's paper. Bob's such a dear) I used to know him real well once. We ran around together for a year or so, but I was engaged to Billy at the time and he was so Jealous! But I know you and Bob will be happy. Wo used to get along beautifully." And with this encouraging finish to the song of her conquests our pretty llttlo Dora skips across the street Dora Is a harmless, even brainless, little thing; but she leaves behind her a heart saddened by her chatter. Tho little brlde-to-bo Is unhappy. What If Bob really Is a trlfler? What If he really did have a bad case on Dora and only loved her out of pique? Worse still, what If his love Is only a passing whim? Theso questions cast a shadow over two Innocent people, and cause a misunderstanding, or even two broken hearts. And all because a foolish little girl has not learned to tell the vast difference between a man's atten tions and his love. Dora Is the kind of girl who leaves a path of broken hearts behind her. The great majority of thorn aro masculine hearts, some easily mended, perhaps, and a few are femlnlno hearts. For Dora glories in "stealing" a man. The more devoted the man is to Dora's friend, the moro glory when his affeotlons nre trans ferred. Engaged men are her legitimate prey. She seeks them out and deliberately plans within her pretty head to toko them away. The man who can be so easily won over is doubtless better lost, but that doesn't epare the girt he leaves behind html Dora always makes a point of telling the girl who goes with one man that she has discarded htm. The truth of the matter may havo been that he took her out occasionally, and that was all. One cannot blame men for being attracted by a pretty face, a charming manner and a dainty, fashionable exterior. Even OVn NEWEST OFFICE Oermaatown ft'Steoton Avc. Wayne Junction. Burn Cummings' Coal MO.TIULIK MABJ$ SERVICE is the keynote of our business givinpr peo ple the coal they want, when they want it and at a fair price for a Square Ton. Big Pea, $5.50; Nut, $7.50 1 Stove, $7.25 1 Egg, $7.00 Chuted in 'Phono our nearest yard E. J. Cummings 4 Yards Main Office, 413 N. 13ta. 7 d tfo'BettM At& QaA WE DELIVER WHY NEW YORK GRADED By 0. HOUSTON GOTJDISS Hammer at a knotty problem long enough and you aro sure to And tho nnswor. New Tork city has been hammering for years at her milk problem, which was knotty enough to satisfy tho moot exacting tasto In knots, and she has found an answer so good that It prob ably will be taken as a model for milk legislation throughout ths whole United State. It Is nothing more nor less than a system of grading and Identification. Un der the old regulations, no matter how conscientiously they were enforced, thero wero a thousands loop-holes by which tho unscrupulous dealer might escape responsibility. Under the new ones every quart of milk sold In Now Tork city Is plainly and fully labeled, the label bearing not only Its grade, but the futl name and address of the dairy from which It camo and the dealer responsible for Its sale. The gradlnr Is based entirely upon the number of bacteria In the milk Itself. This Is the only test that con be de pended upon, for milk that Is old, dirty or diseased Is bound to reveal the fact under tho test of bacterial examination. Tho dairies are Inspected periodically and thoroughly and aro required to keep up to a certain standard of sanitation and to havo none but healthy cows In their herds. But these conditions aro regarded meroly as a starting point for the grad ing. Dairies falling to comply with thorn aro out of the running completely, for thoy are not allowed to sell milk at all. Grade A, raw milk or cream, Is tho purest that can bo produced. It Is also fresh. Consequently tho bacterial count Is verv low and disease germs of any de scription that try to effect an entrance would And the doors closed to thorn as rigidly as If tho milk wero "society" and i Woman, Lovely Woman The. days of tight lacing and its at tendant agonies have gone by enter tho era of comfortl Do you remember when tho ,low collar was looked down uponT And when you prided yourself on a wasp like waist? And, lastly, do you remem ber when you waited lmpatlontly for soma one to hook you up? As the practical and lasting remedy for all theso evils, let us sing tho praiseB of tho fashions. Tho V-shaped collar Is no othor than a godsend. We look baok upon tho hours spent In patiently clamp ing IhoBO enemies to beauty, collar-bones, to tho Impossible "choker" with regret And aro not our necks alt tho better for tho chango? After all, nature knows best what things aro good for her children, and the low, natural collar lino must bo one of them. The natural waist lino Is nnother bene fit to poor suffering femininity. Tho fixed, ghastly smllo of the dancer with tight slippers on Is a gleeful grin com pared to tho woman who Is all "pulled In." Long llvo tho M-lnch waist! A woman Is tho Inventor of tho snap fastener. Her name may bo forgotten, but her Invention, noverl The button- down-the-front costume Is another first aid to quick dressing. Tou can race madly for tho last train and snap your fasteners on the way a very safe proceeding when yon can see what you are doing. With all theso practical helps to good looks, and more Important still, comfort there is no excuse for the modern wo man to wear the ancient agonized ex pression. GIRL girls admire theso things, why not a man? Dora, has tho men all dancing at tendance on her for a time. The gap between "dancing attendance" ond "true love" Is bridged only by Dora's Imagination. Don't blame tho man. Just because he Is a man. They are not so lacking In Insight as you would bo led to suspect. So don't worry If your Harry or Joe wanders In Dora's wake. He'll come back chastened, and, perhaps, shorn of his Illusions! Apples Baked Take bIx apples, one white of egg, brown sugar, Jam or Jelly. Pare and core the apples, keeping them whole; roll up an apple paring tightly and place It In the centre of each apple. Brush over with white of egg and put asldo until It dries; then rocoat sprinkle with brown sugar, put tho apples Into a pie dish, cover with a greased paper and bake In a Blow oven until tender. Be careful not to overcook, or they may break. When done remove the apple paring nnd All the cavity with blackberry or black cur rant Jelly, blackberry or raspberry Jam, or whatever may be preferred; a small piece of butter and somo brown sugar is also very tasty. Bulter Frosting One cup of powdered sugar creamed with one tablespoonful of butter, soft but not melted; then odd two tablespoontuls of milk, one-halt teaspoonful of vanilla, and beat with a fork until thick. NEW Foreign Neckwear and Handkerchiefs We are fortunate, through the placing of early im portation orders, to be able to offer our usual com plete stocks, and more fortunate still, at No Advance In Prices Parisian Neckfixings delightfully French in every dainty twist and frill. Also a multitude of tasteful effects made after French models, and sold at very modest prices; Sheer Rolling Collars, organdy or lace, 26o and 60c: Vesteea, 50c to S3. ' High neck Guimpes military effect buttoned fa front, 76c to 'tis. Smart, new Mallne and combined Maline and Taffeta Ruffs, ?1.60 to ?4.60. Handkerchief s abundance of choice; even greater than usual. Embroidered white and very effective new conceits in color. CHRISTMAS Faney and useful articles of JBSHEPPARDSTSONS 1005 CHESTNUT STREET . HER MILK SUPPLY they were tho newly rloh This la ths milk that reduces the babies' death rate, helos children to crow ur sound and strong nnd eaves tho lives of Invalids. Next comes Grado A pasteurized milk, which Is as puro In every way as tho raw milk, but, being a little older, has a higher bacterial count and must bo mado safe by pasteurization. The cost Is not quite so high as that of Grado A raw milk and the milk Itself Is Just as good for general use. Grade B Is the lowest grade sold In bot tles In retail. All of it must bo pasteur ized, because Its bacterial population Is considerably larger than that allowed In Grade A milk. This does not mean that it Is dangerous, because most of the bao terla aro natives of tho milk world and aro harmless. Tho pasteurization simply keeps them from souring tho milk and does away with the possibility of troupe from any stray, outside germ that might havo forced Its way Into these less rig idly guarded circles. Grade C is sold in wholesale lots of not less than 0 quarto, and is Intended only for cooking and manufaoturlai. It Is doan, healthy milk, but Is oldcF than the others and may contain many more bacteria. Being pasteurized, It is entire ly safe and wholesome for tho purposes specified on tho label, and costs much less than tho higher grades. It took three years of steady work by the exports who mado up tho New York Milk Commission to arrive at this practical and sensible method of safe guarding the milk supply and at tho sams time preventing both wasto and dis honesty. Before tho regulations wore made law, thoy were approved by ths leading dairymen, veterinarians and milk dealers, all of whom aro keenly Interested In having the milk Industry put on a safe and sound basis. It has settled the question for Now Tork, and. Judging from tho lntorest takon In It by other localities. It will furnish a model for sensible and permanent milk legislation throughout tha whole country. HOME-MADE HAT FOR A LITTLE GIRL The above charming little hat can very easily be made at home. Fash ioned in some of the newer shades of 80ft velvet, it is exquisite. Orange Jelly This Is very light and nourishing, and It can often bo taken by a person who would refuse n boiled ogg or a custard. One-quarter ounce of gelatine, the Julco or two oranges, lis ounces of lump sugar, ono new-laid egg, one-quarter pint of cold water. Bub the sugar on to the orange rind till It becomes quite yellow, then put It Into a saucepan with tho water and gelatine Cut the oranges open, strain their Juice and put It In with the gelatine and water. Let the whole heat till the gelatine is melted, then remove the pan from the Are. Beat the egg up very well. Allow tho gelatine mixture to cool and then pour It on to the egg, stirring briskly all tho time. Havo ready a mold which has been dipped In cold water, pour the Jelly Into this and put It aside till It Is set. It Is a very good plan to make a Jelly of this kind in small cups, bo that tho Invalid may havo ono cupful at a time. When a large mold has been cut It looks spoilt, but this will not keep good more han a day or two In hot weather. Nut Sausages Put n pint of nuts through the mincer, add them to a cupful of granola mois tened with hot milk. Season well with salt, pepper and a pinch of ground sage. Form the mixture Into round cakes, and bako them 20 minutes In a buttered pan In the oven. Dish them on a hot platter and surround them with savory tomato aauoe. GIFTS READY the attractivoand unusual sort J Wl -Wa I 3j3prV,A ,rimnn, i " ii' miwumi mum m ill '" "L ' ' WMe tmutvuur- absurb tae uh.Ivbikui o&er. 1AM VrWiwi St.