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No fear of EXplosion—No offensive odor—Nof smoke—Very easily trimmed-4s easily regulated as a Gas Light—Can be adapted to all purposes—And better than all for a poor man-50 per cent cheaper than any other portable light, now in common use. , - SOLE AGENT, ALSO, FOR KNAPP'S PATENT ROSIN AND COAL OIL LIMP. .tom Lamps, Oils, Wicks, Shades, and every article in the line. S. E. SOUTIILAND, Agent. No. 38, South Second street, Phira. September 8,1858.-2 m. FANCY FURS, FOR LADIES AND CHILDREN. FAREIRA & Co., No. 818, (new N 0.,) 51.4mtEr Street, above Eighth, rnmuturnra—lmporters, Manufacturers and Dealers in FANCY FURS, for Ladies and Children; also, Gent's Furs, Fur Collars, and Gloves. The number of years that we have been engaged in the Fur business. and the general character of our Furs, both for quality and price, is so generally known throughout the Country, that wo think it is not necessary for us to say anything more than that we have now opened our assortment of FURS, for the Fall and Winter Sales, of the largest and most beautiful assortment that we have ever offered bctbre to the public. Our Furs have all been Imported during the present season, when money was scarce and Furs much tower than at the present time, and have been manufac tured by the most competent workmen; we. arc therefore determined to sell them at such prices as will continue to give us the reputation we have born for years, that is to sell a good article for a very small profit. Storekeepers will do well to give ns a call, as they will find the largest assortment, by far, to select from in the city, and at manufacturers prices. JOHN FAREIRA. & CO, SIS, 3htrket Street, above. Sth, Phira. September 15, 1858.-4 m. GREAT EXCITEMENT AT TITE MAMMOTH - STORE!! - 3. BRICKER has; returned from the East kith a tremen dous Stock of Goads. They are upon the shelves in his New Rooms, on 11111 street, near M'Ateer's Hotel, ready for customers. His Stock consists of every variety of LADIES' DRESS GOODS, IVRY GOODS. GENERALLY, GROCERIES AND QUEENSWARE. HARDWARE AND GLASSWARE, CROCKERY AND CEDARWARE, BOOTS AND SHOES, HATS AND CAPS, And everything to be found in the most extensive stores. His Stock is New and of the Best, and the public are in vited to call and oxamine, free of charge. FOR EVERYBODY TRY TUE NEW STORE, fl Hill Street opposite Miles cf: Dorris' Office TUE BEST SUGAR and MOLASSES, COFFEE, TEA and CHOCOLATE, - . FLOUR, FISH, SALT and - VINEGAR, CONFECTIONERIES, CIGARS and TOBACCO, SPICES OF THE BEST, AND ALL KINDS, and every other article usually found iu a Grocery Store ALSO— Drugs, Chemicals, Dye Stuffy, Paints, Varnishes, Oils and Slits. Turpentine, Fluid, Alcohol, Glass and Putty, BEST WINE and BRANDY for medical purposes. ALL THE ZEST PATENT MEDICINES. and a large number of articles too :numerous to mention. The public generally will please call and examine for themselves and learn my prices Huntingdon, May 25, 1858, T BRICKER'S BRICKER'S ' .J. BRICKER'S MAMMOTH STORE MAMMOTII STORE MAMMOTH STORE IS THE PLACE . IS THE PLACE IS TUE PLACE FOR DRY GOODS, HARDWARE, S:c FOR DRY GOODS, HARDWARE, B.:c FOR DRY GOODS; HARDWARE, ,te QTOYES ! STOVES ! STOVES! INDUSTRIAL STOVE WORKS, No. 33, North SECOND 'Street, apposite Christ Church, Prinankt.rntA. The subscriber respectfully in forms his friends. and the public general/3 , that he has taken the Store, at No. 33, .11rorth &cam/ Strcet, where he mill be'pleased to see his old customers and friends. He has now on hand a splendid assortment of PARLOR, HALL, OFFICE. STORE and COOKING STOVES, of the latest and most approved kinds, at wholesale and retail. WM. C. NE3IAN, • No. 33, North Second St., Phila. N.B.—Your particular attention is invited to 3II3GEE PATENT GAS BURNINGIVARMING and EN TIL AT' NG STOVES, for Parlors, Offices, Stores, Halls, Cars, &c., which for economy, purety of air, - and ease of management has no equal. • , IV. C. N. .86 - -Odd Castings for all kinds of Stores, on &roil September 15, 1558.,--3m. • HUNTIN - 415 - ON HOTEL. . . •, Thesubscriber respectfully announces to his friends and the pfiblic generally, that he has leased that old 'and Atien established TAVERN STAND, known . a.s the Huntingdon, House, on the corner of Hill and' 'n , Charles Street, in the Borough of Huntingdon.— e He hag fitted up the House in such a style as to __ z _ render it very comfortable for lodging Strangers and Tray elers. MS TABLE will always be stored with the best the sea son can afford, to suit tho tastes and appetites of his guests. ' MS BAR. will always be filled with Choice Lighors, and MS STABLE always attended by careful and attentive Ostlers. .11Z - •He hopes 'by strict attention to business and a spirit of accommodation, to merit and receive a. liberal share of public patronage. - P. McATEER. Tday 13,1858-Iy. ALEXANDRIA FOUNDRY ! The Alexandria Foundry has been bought by It. C. McGILL, and is in blast, and havaall kinds of Castings, Stoves, Ma chines. Plows, Kettles, ex., &c., which lie o rminrr t :aaldi will sell at the lowest Prices. All kinds V.-!!, , ,7:"44..4. of Country Produce and old Metal taken in exchange ibr Castings, at market prices April y, 18'ka gri:7 - rThr..,- COUNTRY DEALERS call - huy CLOTHING from me in Huntingdon at , • - WHOLESALE as cheap as they can in the cities,.as I have a udiolesalo store in Philadelphia. Huntingdon, April 14,, 1858. . H. ROMAN. XT:ARNISIT ! :VARNISH !!, • v • • KINDS; warranted good, for sale at ' BROWN'S Rardwaro Store •April 28, 1858--tf. LADIES, ATTENTION assort ment of beautiful dress goodeis now open;and ready eritspectiqn. Every article of dress you may desire, can too founkat my store. D. P. GWIN. HARD:NV:A:RE I • A Large Stock, just received, and for sale at BRICKER'S BIAMMOTII STORM riI.H.R 'NAM:MOTT:I STORE . • _M_ placo,for Latest Styles of Ladies' Dress Goods , 11:RICKER'S Mammoth Storeis the ey • -place taget the worth of your money, in Dry.Goilds, Hardwaro, Groceries, Ice., DOUGLASS & SHERWOOD'S Pat ent Estartsion Skirts, for sale only by FISILER & AIe3II7RTItIE. HEAT! For snlo at 2 do. 3 do. $ 373/ 2 ' S' 50 _1 00 2 00 3 00 1 Insertion $ 25.-. 50.-. 1 00.-. 70 1 50 2 25 7 00 10 00 15 00 9 00 13 00 0 0 00 S. S. SMITH R. C. McGILL , Iluntingdoil, Pa, D. P. ONVIIC,9 WILLIAM LEWIS, VOL. XIV, Wcittt tretrv. From the Norristown Register THE FAITHLESSNESS OF NAN. BY 0. D. MARTYS I've wooed and sighed at Beauty's shrine, And threw my heart away, And thought the charm I won divine, AND WORE IT FOR A D.Y. But like a full blown rose, it drooped, And lost its sweet perfume, Till from its lofty height it stooped, To wither in its tomb. Still thoughtless I—it seemed to fado lire I had knowu,it well, And like each beauteous flower made, It withered and it fell. This flower had lost its charm to me, I sought another flower, I wooed and won it but to see IT WITHER IN ..4.N HOUR. Is woman fickle? No 'tis sits Will love a life long love, Nan never fears to tun—'tis We Who false and faithless prove. Then wrong her not but let us strive To merit her esteem, And make life happy—be alive To good—BE WHAT WE SEEM. ttect THE MANIAC'S CONFESSION. A few years ago I visited an insane asy lum. The woman in charge conducted us through various apartments, giving us all the information in regard to the occupants she was able, and kindly answering all the ques tions until we came to a room where one of the patients had lately died, and now lay awaiting the disposal of her friends, who had been apprised of her. disease. We entered, and gazed reverently upon the face of the sleeper. She was a woman in the prime of life and bore traces of great beauty. What great sorrow had bereft this beautiful crea ture of her reason ? and by what relative, and for what motive, had she been incarcera ted in this living tomb? were queries which were in my mind as I gazed upon her lifeless remains. My eyes involuntarily wandered over the apartment. A little table stood in the corner, beneath the grated window. A Bible ]ay upon it, and as I took it up, a, paper slid from between the leaves and fell at my feet. I raised it. It was a closely written sheet, and a glance convinced me that it was some sort of a revelation which had been written there during the last hours of the life that had fled. "'ghat is this?" I asked, as I held up the paper. " Oh, that is probably some of Aggy's scribbling. Sho used to call for pen and pa per, and she would write over several sheets, and then. destroy them. That is probably one of them—of no consequence, I presume," said the woman. I asked if I might retain it. " Why, yes, if you wish to," she replied. I hid it away in my bosom, and we soon left the premises. " What could you possibly want of that crazy woman's scribbling ?" my companion asked, as we left the building. " I fancy there is something here worth preserving," I replied. " Let us examine it." As we rode homeward, I read it aloud to my friend. It was written in a trembling hand, and read as follows : " I was the only and idolized daughter of wealthy parents. I possessed a haughty and imperious temper, which was never subdued or restrained. My parents were not reli gious, and no care was taken to impress upon my mind religious truths. Consequently I grew up unprincipled and extremely passion ate, While every pains was taken with my education and accomplishments, my heart is-as left to run wild, overgrown and choked by the briers and thorns of selfishness and love of tyranny ; yet I was passionately at tached to my friends, and as long as they did not cross my imperious will, I got on nicely with them. "'Thus I grew to womanhood. Chance threw me into the society of a young lawyer of distinguished abilities,. - Who had begun what was predicted to be a brilliant career. I soon learned to love him with all the depth of my passionate and impulsive nature ; and was wild with joy,' when one day he came to me, and in eloquent language told me how long and devotedly.he had loved me, and asked me to be his wife. "We were married. If I occasionally felt a twinge of disgust of my own-qualifica tions for a wife, I soon silenced it with the argument that my love was strong enough to make up for all deficiencies. " My husband was all that was good, and noble, and generous. I was often passionate and unreasonable. But he would take me to his bosom, and, kiss me so tenderly, and say so gently, 'You must subdue this un happy temper, Aggy. It is making you mis erable.' " Then when he was gone, I would fly to my chamber, lock the door, and give myself up to an uncontrollable fit of weeping for very shame. " We had been married "about a, year.— One evening (would to God I could blot from the record of time that fatal night ; but it lives like a hissing fiery serpant in my mem ory, and has doomed me to utter despair in this world, and I fear the nest!) my husband did not return at the usual hour. I watched long at my accustomed place, at the parlor window. His slippers and dressing gown were warming by the_ grate, and everything was in readiness- for him ; but he did not come. Twilight deepened into darkness, and I began to grow uneasy. All my selfish feel ings were roused, and . 1. felt myself sorely grieved. An hour more, yet he came not.- 1 paced up and down the floor in a fit of im patience. A ring at the door, I waited to hear his step upon the stairs; but it was a . . • - I lighter stop than his, accompanied by the rustling of silk. Nellie B ,an intimate friend, bounded in. She was dressed for the opera. She said their carriage waited at the door for myself and Ernest. I told her Er nest had not yet returned from his office, and I could not go. She looked disappointed. A sudden thought seized me. Would it not be capital revenge for his neglect of me to find the parlor deserted when he came ? I went to the opera. We were scarcely seated in our box when a party entered a box oppo site. The blood rushed back to my heart, and my pulse stood still as I recognized Er nest, my Ernest, my husband, and leaning upon his arm one of the most beautiful young creatures my eyes ever beheld. This was my first impresion, for there quickly followed so deadly and jealous a hatred as made her look positively ugly. I quickly drew down my veil that my husband might not discover me and from my concealment, I watched them with glaring eyes. I heard nothing, saw nothing else ; and once when rallied by my companions, I replied that I was not well, and begged to be left by myself. "Then with the fierceness of a tiger fear ful of losing his prey, I turned my eyes towards my husband, and his guilty 'paramour.' She seemed to be enjoying the performance in tensely, but he seemed to see nothing but her. His head was bowed towards her, and she would occasionally lift her eyes to his face. Then I saw him smile (just as he had smiled upon me a thousand times,) while he bent still lower over her with renewed de votion. Each movement was like a red hot dagger piercing my heart. I knew not what demon possessed me ; I think I must have been mad when I vowed a terrible revenge. 'Twere better, I reasoned, that he should die while yet there existed in his heart a spark of love for me, than to see him little by little drawn away by the syren till perhaps I should be utterly deserted, and left with all my blind love eating away my heart strings like a con suming fire. "At my request we left the -opera at an early hour, and with a terrible purpose I en tered my home. But what was the home now to me? The love that had brightened it was no longer mine. Some demon furnished me with resolution to execute my desperate purpose. "It had been our custom somtimes to drink a glass of sweet wine of an evening when we were alone. • -I. drew the table to the fire, placed the decanter. and glasses. Then with trembling hands I brought a deadly opiate, the nature of which I well knew. The first effect it produces, was a deep sleep, which in a few hours, terminated in the still sleep of death. I filled the glasses, and into one I dropped the drug. All was done with ra pidity, lest my resolution should fail me. " When all was 'ready, I paced up and down the room, nursing the,fire which-raged within my bosom, by recounting to myself the wrong I bad suffered. I pictured to my self my idolized husband lying still and cold before me, and I fell into a passionate fit of weeping. Then I drew another picture. I saw him drawn from me, - giving his love to another. I thought of all .the agony I had suffered that night, and imagined how much deeper would be my wrong, if I spared him. At that moment I heard his night key in the latch, and he soon entered the room. I stood in the recess of the window, where he did not at once observe me. The wine first at tracted his attention, the fatal glass. I saw him lift it to his lips, drain its contents, and I fell fainting to the floor. I knew no more for• several hours. When I rallied, I was lying upon the sofa : the lamp was burning dimly—an easy chair was wheeled to my side, and in it I saw the form of my husband. I sprang quickly up. The drug was doing its work. He was in a heavy slumber, and already his breath came thicker and shorter, and his pulse beat but faintly. " My anger had passed away, and all the wild worshipping love which I had cherished towards my husband, came rushing back upon my heart. I chafed his hands, I kissed his lips, I strove to rouse him, but all in vain. Again I paced up and down the floor, but oh I what different emotions possessed me now. " A little folded paper, which I had not before noticed, and lyinc , upon the table, caught my eye. Scarcely knowing or caring what I did, I took it up and opened it. I saw it was in the hand-writing of my hus band, and I eagerly read its contents. Great God of Heaven ! What had I done? It was a note that Ernest had sent me, and which did not arrive till after I had gone out. It ran as follows: " Excuse me, Aggy dear, from coming. home to tea. My sister, of whom I spoke to' you _this morning, has come home, and has sent for me to come to her. If she is not too weary, I will take you both to the opera this evening, and will call for you at eight o'clock. Your loving HUSBAND." " Now, for the first time, I remembered that he had told me in the morning, that an only sister of his, who had been absent sev eral years, was expected home that day.— His parents resided in another part of the city. would call for me at eight.' I had gone out earlier, and probably by some carelessness of the carrier, the note had not arrived before the time. I afterwards learned that he did call for me, and being told that I had gone to the opera with some friends, and probably had not received his note, he pro ceeded to that place with his sister; hoping to find me there. "A wild hope that he might be yet roused, seized me, and, I sprang to his side. But alas ! too late ! He had ceased to breathe. " Oh ! heaven of heavens ! what evil had my blind, passionate temper wrought me and mine. Again I became insensible. "I opened my eyes. Loving, tear-stained faces bent over me. A soft hand was gently stroking my temples, and I gazed into the face of that gentle sister, whom I had never seen save upon that fatal night. She kissed me and whispered, " Dear Aggy, you are the greatest sufferer of us all." HUNTINGDON, PA., OCTOBER 27, 1858. -PERSEVERE.- "I was told that I was found in the morn ing, by the servant, lying upon the floor, in sensible, and my husband reclining in his chair, dead ! " It seemed that suspicion had not rested upon myself. The coroner was called, and his verdict, 'Died by the visitation of God.' " Heaven only knows how I loathed and hated myself. I longed to confess the truth, but for the sake of others, forebore to reveal what would have brought upon the family deep disgrace and additional grief. A long illness followed, and my reason reeled. I was carried back to my parents. I could not remain in the house which had been the scene of my sin and punishment. "Years passed; I grew no better, but was still trembling upon the verge of insanity, yet retaining sufficient reason to distinctly remember my sorrow, and to understand what was passing around me. What was perhaps strange, I was conscious of my men tal condition. " Years passed, and my parents both died. I was placed in the care of an uncle, who was my only natural guardian. From him I had inherited the selfish passion, which had been my ruin. " For a time, I lived in his house, but he found me too great a trouble, and under pre tence of solicitude for my recovery, he placed me in the insane asylum. I knew that it was only to get me out of his way, that he might have no hindrance in possessing him self of my large fortune. But I did not ob ject. I felt I deserved it all. " Twelve years have I spent in this retreat. Every one has been extremely kind to me.— During that time I have never seen my uncle. It is almost over. I feel that I shall soon fol low to that dark bourne where in my frezy, I sent my noble husband nearly twenty years ago. I have read the Bible—l have tried to pray." A few months since, I visited Cem etery. I found their graves. A costly mon ument marks the spot. The uncle is living in possession of his niece's wealth, and is seemingly prosperous. I have never made known to any ono the existence of the paper in my possession. I have learned that the family of Ernest are all dead. The dear friend who shared with me the knowledge of Aggy's confession also lies "be neath the sod of the valley." Hoping that it may serve as a warning to some who may read it, I give this history to the world. Some parents are troubled by a gloomy household. They indulge in frequent fret tiag4 and moroseness, are impatient at tri fling vexations, and censure the faults and errors of their children withisternness in stead of love. They know little of calm and sunshine, and home has few charms either for themselves or their little ones. Love and gentleness, combined with firmness have a wonderful power over the most thoughtless and wayward little ones, and parents who know how to unite these ,in due proportions, have perpetual sunshine in their dwellings, and loving and obedient children. There is a true philosophy in the following domestic scene, taken from Steps toward " Heaven." " I wish father would come home." The voice that said this had a troubled tone, and the face that looked up was sad. " Your father will be very angry," said an aunt, who was sitting in the room with a book in her hand. The boy raised himself from the sofa, where he had been laying in tears for half an hour, and, with a touch of indignation in his voice, answered, "he'll be sorry, not angry. Father never gets angry." For tfew moments the aunt looked at the boy half-curiously, and let her eyes fall again upon the book that was in her hand. The boy laid himself down upon the sofa again, and hid his face from sight. "That's father now !" He started up after the lapse of nearly ten minutes as the sound of a bell reached his ears, and went to the room door. He stood there for a little while, and then came slowly back, saying with a disappointed air, "It isn't father. I wonder what keeps him so late. 0, I wish he would come 1" " You seem anxious to get deeper into trouble," remarked the aunt, who had only been in the house for a week, and who was neither very amiable nor very sympathizing towards children. • The boy's fault had pro voked her, and she considered him a fit sub ject for punishment. "I believe aunt Phoebe, that you would like to see me whipped," said the boy a little warmly. "But you won't." " I must confess," replied aunt Phoebe, "that I think a little wholesome discipline of the kind you speak of would not be out of place. If you were my child, lam sure you would not escape." • " I am not your child; I don't want to be. Father's good and loves me." " If your father is so good, and loves you so well, you must be a very ungrateful or a very inconsiderate boy. His goodness don't seem to have helped you much." "Hush, will you 1 ejaculated the boy, excited to anger by this unkindness of speech. " Phoebe 1" It was the boy's mother who spoke now for the first time. In an under tone she added ; " You are wrong. Rich ard is suffering quite enough, and you are doing him harm rather than good." Again the bell rang, and again the boy left the sofa and went to the sitting-room door. " It's father !" And he went gliding down stairs. • "Ah, Richard I" was the kindly greeting, as Mr. Gordon took the hand of his boy.— " But what's the.matter, my son ? you don't look happy." "Won't you come in here ?" And Rich ard drew his father into the library. Mr. Gordon sat down, still holding Richard's hand. " You seem in trouble, my son. What has happened 2" The eyes of Richard filled with tears as he Into the Sunshine. .7",:47 ., -. , i i. 2 l : ' - ': , .;„ ' 1 ,; . 1. , :,; :i.: , ",. - ,:7,-; ::;:., . ; I. ~,.. 9 ) 111 -•,‘ ' ' N. 7". looked into his father's face. He tried to answer, but his lips quivered. Then he turn ed away, and opening the door of the cabinet, brought out the fragments of a broken statue, which had been sent home only the clay be fore, and set them on a table before his father, over whose countenance came instantly a shadow of regret. " Who did this, my son 7" was asked in an even voice. "I did it." " How ?" " I threw my ball in there, once—only once, in forgetfulness." The poor boy's tones were husky and trem ulous. A little while, Mr. Gordon sat controlling himself and collecting his disturbed thoughts. Then he said cheerfully— " What is done, Richard, can't be helped. Put the broken pieces away. You have had trouble enough about it, I can see—and re proof enough for your thoughtlessness—so I shall not add a word to increase your pain. "0, father 1" And the boy threw his arms about his father's neck. You are so kind— so good !" Five minutes later, and Richard entered the sitting room with his father. Aunt Phcebe looed up for two shadowed faces ; but did not see them. She was puzzled. " That was very unfortunate,' she said a little while after Mr. Gordon came in. "It was such an esquisitive work of art. It is hopelessly ruined." Richard was leaning against his father when his aunt said this. Mr. Gordon only smiled, and drew his arm closely around his boy. Mrs. Gordon threw upon her sister a look of warning, but it was unheeded. " I think Richard was a very naughty boy." " We have settled all that, Phoebe," was the mild but firm answer of Mr. Gordon; "and it is one of our rules to get into the sunshine as quickly as possible." Phoebe was rebuked, while Richard looked grateful, and, it may be, a little triumphant; for his aunt had borne down upon him rather to hard for a boy's patience too en dure. Into the sushine as quickly as possible I 0, is not that the better philosophy for our homes ? Is is not true christian philosophy? It is selfishness that grows angry and rebels; because a fault has been committed. Let us get the offender into the sunshine as quickly as possible, so that true thoughts and right feelings 4nay grow more vigorous in its warmth.. We retain anger, not that anger may act as a wholesome discipline, but be cause we are unwilling to forgive. Ah, if we were always right with ,ourselves, we would oftener be right with our children. WINNING- AND KEEPING ; Or, Before and After Marriage. [From the Pennsylvania Enquirer.] We some time since read an admirable es say On " THE ART OF WINNING." It described the polish and power of refined manners, the exquisite tact by which certain accomplished women of England and France were charac terized, and said that their whole study was to make a favorable impression, as well upon the eyes as the mind, and thus to captivate the heart. The women of this country are, generally speaking, less artistical and arti ficial. They rarely play a studied part. Their conquests are in some sense, involun tary. True, there are exceptions; and in some cases, we arc sorry to say, that n cruel system is practised, and merely in the indul gence of vanity and pride. Affections are sported with, and hearts are broken. We can imagine nothing more wicked, reckless and unpardonable. Our purpose, however, at the present time, is not so much to allude to the art of winning a lover or a husband, a betrothed or a wife, as to urge the policy, the propriety, the duty and the wisdom of keeping up the same system AFTER marriage, that was practised BEFORE, and of thus real izing as far as possible, the expectations that were held out, and the promises that were made, if not in words, by acts. We believe that the neglect of this course, is the fruitful source of much of the anxiety, discord and unhappiness that occur in married life.. In too many cases, both parties are in fault. For both are careless, negligent and indiffer ent. The system that won, is not persisted - in. It was, in fact, false to some extent, or at least artificial, and adopted for the occa sion. We fear that too many inharmonious marriages may be attributed to this cause. The lover and the husband are often found to be very different persons. So also the sweet-heart and wife. One is all courtesy, kindness, attention and affection, and the other all apathy, indifference, and sometimes asperity. The illusion which charmed and deceived, is thus dispelled, and the disap pointed turns with bitterness and anguish from a dream that is found to be hollow, empty and unsubstantial. It is not so in all cases, and these exceptions are every way desirable. There should be 'no contrast in manners, attentions and expressions before and after marriage. The part that was as sumed in the first instance, should be acted out to the letters, and the promises that were made, directly or indirectly, should be real ized as far as possible. The chief object of the wife should be to render home a haven and a refuge from the anxieties of the out door world, and thus the happiest spot On earth. The husband, on the other hand, should endeavor to make himself every way agreeable and acceptable, and to fulfil every obligation that he assumed at the altar. Both should remember that human nature is, in its best and highest condition, erring and fallible, that there is nothing perfect on this side the grave, and that forbearance and con sideration are absolutely indispensable in appreciating the conduct of each. And again, neither should be too exacting. The wife should not expect the husband to fore go and abandon all his former associations, and to devote every hour of leisure to her particular whims and caprices. The hus band, on the other hand, should not forget that the wife is, after all, but n woman, and therefore, liable to the characteristics, foibles Editor and Proprietor. NO, 18, and peculiarities of the sex. Each should strive to please and gratify the other, and yet too much should not be expected on either side. Carelessness of dress, indifference in household duties, and excessive fondness for flippant society and fashionable visiting, should be avoided as among the fatal errors, and calculated not only to offend the taste, irritate the disposition, and pain the heart of the husband, but to drive him from home, in the hope of meeting. ;:ith more agreeable society and associations elsewhere. On the other hand, the young wife especially, should not be expected to abandon the world at once and forever, to shut herself up in her own dwelling, and to avoid all participation in the gaities and vivacities, which characterize refined and social life. In brief, there must be mutual efforts to please and to gratify, as well as the spirit of mutual forbearance. It is not to be expected that the husband, the nature of whose business is full of care and anxiety, will constantly annoy his better half with dolorious accounts of the struggles and trials of commerce and trade, and yet a sen sible woman, who fully appreciates her posi tion, will readily gather enough of the facts, and shape her conduct accordingly. It often happens that a word of encouragement is needed, and that a gentle expression of sym pathy is absolutely essential. If, therefore, at such a moment, idle complaints be uttered and imaginary griefs be described, the effect is sure to be pernicious. This policy at once discourages and depresses, and makes home anything but the delightful place of refuge, that a true wife should endeavor to render it. We repeat, the art of winning is compara tively easy; but the tact of retaining and keeping constantly alive the flame of affection and the soul of confidence by which a con quest was at first achieved, is far more diffi cult. Nevertheless, it is too often the case with husbands and wives, that they imagine all the duties of courtesy, kindness and at tention are, if not to cease, to become re laxed, when the matrimonial knot is tied. A terrible mistake, as too many have found to their sorrow. We can conceive of no two beings who are more entitled to emulation and admiration, than the man and wife who, after having lived happily together for twenty years, are still as attentive and devoted to each other as in the days of their betrothal. What to them is the out-door world, with all its chances and changes, its lights and its shadows ? They feel that their lives and fortunes are united together, and that each constitutes to the other, a source of exquisite enjoyment, because of the harmony, the kindness, the appreciation, the confidence. and the affection that have ever existed be tween them. Wedded life, under such cir cumstances, is the highest and holiest of hu man conditions. Our Daughters. The greatest danger to our daughters, in the present time, is the neglect of domestic education. Not only to themselves, but to husbands, families and the community at large, does the evil extend. By far the greatest amount of happiness in civilized life, depends upon the domestic culture and habits of the wife and mother. Let our daughters be intellectually educated as possi ble ; let, their moral and social nature re ceive the highest graces of vigor and refine ment; hut along with these let the domestic virtues find a prominent place. We cannot saz, much about our danglitersr being hereafter wives and mothers, but we ought to think much of it and give the thought prominence in all our plans for their educa tion. Good wives they cannot be, at least for Men of intelligence, without mental . cul ture ; good mothers they certainly, cannot be without it ; and more than this, they can not be such wives as men need, unless they are good housekeepers—wthout a. thoiongh practical training to that end. Our daugh ters should be practically taught to bake, wash, sweep, cook, set the table, and do every thing appertaining to the order, neatness, economy and happiness of the household.. All this they can learn as well as not, and better than not. The knowledge is a burden that they may . easily carry. It need not interfere in the least with their intellectual education, nor with the highest style of refinement. On the contrary, it shall greatly contribute thereto. Only let that time which is worse than wasted in idleness, sauntering, gossip, frivolous reading, and the various modern female dissipations, which kill time and health, be devoted to domestic duties and education, and our daughters would soon be all that the highest interests of our society demand. A benign, elevating, influence would go forth through all the fami lies of the land. Health and happiness would sparkle in many a now lustreless eye—the bloom would return to beautify many a faded cheek—and doctors' bills would give place to bills of wholesome fare No TIME FOR SvrArrrNo.—An Indiana man was travelling down the Ohio, in a steamer, with a mare and a two-year-old colt, when by a sudden careen of the boat, all three were tilted into the river. The Hoosier, as ho rose, puffing and blowing, above water, caught hold of the tail of the colt, not having a doubt that the natural instinct of the ani mal would carry him safe ashore. The old mare took a " bee line" for the shore, but the frightened colt swam lustily down the cur rent, with its owner still hanging fast. , "Let go of the colt, and hang on to the, old, mare," shouted some of his friends. " Phree, boob I" exclaimed the Hoosier, spouting the water from his mouth, and shaking his head like a Newfoundland dog,," it's mighty fine, your telling me to .let go the colt; but to a man that can't swim, this ain't exactly the timo for swapping horses."—State of Maine. WHOM TO MARRY.—When a young woman behaves to her parents in a manner particu larly tender and respectful, from principle as well as nature, there is • nothing good. and gentle that may not be expected from her in whatever condition she may be placed. Were I to advise a friend as to his choice of a wife, my first counsel would be, "look out for ono distinguished for her attention and sweetness to her parents," The fund of worth and affection indicated by such behavior, joined by the habits of duty and consider ations thereby contracted, being transferred to the married state, will not fail to render her a mild and obliging companion.—Everett; 4er• A negro driver of a coach in Texas, stopped to get some water for the young la dies. in the carriage, being asked what, he stopped for, replied, " I am watering my flowers." A more delicate compliment could not have been made. ADVICE TO BACHELORS..-Be sure to annex a woman . who will lift you up, instead of pushing you down. In mercantile phrase, get a piece of calico that will wash. Se' A hospitable man is never ashamed of his ..dinner, when you come to dine with him.