The evening telegraph. (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1864-1918, August 01, 1866, FOURTH EDITION, Page 2, Image 2
THE DAT A EVENING TELEGRAM. rniLADELPLTIA, WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 1, 186G. and then ebe want? ft penny apiece and (he nioney (loan, tnd I never have aoi the roppc-rs, for 'tm hard to leeu three upon nothing!" "Docs Mr. Jones live fur from hf-re!" "No, mctn; in Oc next house bcyonst otir'n." "How do you pay onr rontT" Mrs. Tucker replied that the cottntre bdonircd to them, aud Sukev had aereed to render to days' work weekly to clear tbe rent, and home timf'B lor a week or two together "hp had no other employ, tbotmh she nlwas look homeiood enough to lnt her three or lo ir iav". "Suppose I allow Mrs. Jones lxpenee a week for.akli)jt enre of jour children, could you gel other woik ?" "I dare say I could, men), for the children's a grent hion-ninc." "Well, then, I will see Mrs. Jones on our wav hack, and 1 ln.pc to h-ar that you have not em ployment. Voit may be thanklul that the b.ibe is living intead ot drowned," were the parting word; ol liertna, as we took our leave. "My sixpence is very soon diipoxc l ol, M ll.y.'' "Hut this sum is not much to you, Bertha, whether you hud sold the waite bread or not." "Not o'ne Miigle sixpence, perhaps; bit how fhall I have any to Give away it I alio wate iti my kitchen 1 i do not intcriere wi'h the cook's perquisites in this mater, as -l,c could not dis pose of the bread, neither would I sull'cr It if she could, lor that would be offering n direct premium to waste, and it seems a sin to me to throw bread away; so with odd cru-ts I have given comlort to lour human being, not to say bvc. First of ail, Hetty is pleased to pxchaniru eegs for the bread, whereby she thinks herseli a gainer; then Sukey must Do well t-atislnd. knrw inn her ch Mren arc in safety; tnd tiio two In fants must be bciter otf and happier, poor little thines, under Mrs. .lone' care; and there Is Mrs. Jones, ho cannot but be gratified to add six pence a week to her income; so five pcrs'ins, jou fee, ar the better off lor onr wa-'e crusts." The reasoning was unanswerable. We soon arrived at Sirs. Jones', whom we found sur rounded bv a dozen children of all izes. from a twelvo-moiith old to eight years. The old lady, who was execeoingty neat and pleasinff looking, was making no attempt at tcacDinir. She ba 1 a young niece with her who attended chiefly to the young creatures, who were trampling about and playing without fear or care. Mrs. Jones ap peared almo tseared atourent.rance; thechildrcn looked at us in mute a-tonishment, and gro ied away togeibr-r in threes and touis. Our busi ness with the old lady was very soon set le i. and she wlllincrly undertook the care ol the children when payment was ins'ir?d to her, though she asserted that Sukey Hievens did owe her "a poiver o' coppers." CHAPTER VI. HOW TO MAKE I'tinniNOS UOW TO SAVK IN MAKING THKM TRIFLCS 0O NOT EXIST IN HOUSEKKEl'INQ MANAGEMENT A BKRVANT'8 ALLOWANCE BOW TO KXI'KND TWENTY'S EVEN FHiLI.INGS A WEEK THE ORDEK1NQ OF 8 K VYING-WORK NO BUITON3 OFF SHIRTS HOW TO WASH SMALL THINGS. My stay was not greatly prolonged w'th Bertha. I leturnci home, taking with me a strone healthy sirl, about eiehteen, to w hom my children hud been intrusted on my arrival at her botibe. My husband bad spent the last ten days with us, so tbat wc went back with renovatad health and spirits, aud witn eome considerable attainment of experienca in house hold matters. Tbo night b fore we left I was sitting with Bertha a one. I remarked, "How diiicrent is my income to yours !" "You lorget bow much more we have to ac-conipln-h with it. Yours is enough lor all reasonable pui poses; you cannot a ress expen sively, nor .keep company, nor command tbo services of two domestics which is no erent luxury alter all. A iiiead of mine has ten, aud, not having a housekeeper to see tottiem, her liie is perpetually worried w ith their contentions ancl bickeribtrs. You can pass through lite very happdy if you will only try, but to do so olen sanlly you must be able to assist yourselt, and, above all, the economy of little things nu be scrupulously a'ibeied to. Nothing must be wa-.ted. It would be quite impossible to give you rules for every or any course ol action to be a lopted your own judgment must guide you. You arc more skilled in domestic art airs than when you tirst married, but there is a wide room lor improvement, little Milly. You must ncq'iire a more compotciit know ledge ot coi.kit g than you have, so m to enable you to make tbe best use of everything. You must be your own housekeeper, a I urn. You havo spen me daily attend Elizabeth in the kitchen, who, without any assistance and direc tion, would be as incapable of sending up a dinner properly cooked as the girl you take back with you. 1 have given out to her every day all the ingredients necessry for miking puddiugs and pastry. If 1 had intrusted her to help herselt to the sucar for tbe tarts, she would have wasted by putting in too much, aud even an ounce too much of this alone would amount to twelve shillings a year; the same by butter, egas, and milk, corn-flour, or arrow-root. You must learn the right propor tions of every ingrcdiont or material in coakmr, or the waste will 0? prodigious, and the money will insensibly melt away. When Kli.abetb came first she told me she could make udmira ble corn-Hour puddings. " 'How much do you use?' I aske l. " 'Ono packet will make two puddings, ma'am.' "I stored at tbe girl with astonishment. ' 'One packet will ruukc eitrht good pud linsrs; each nuddms must have one egg and a pint aud a half of milk,' said I. " 'Why, that quantity would he lost in the saucepan 1' " 'Have no saucepan at all, then using one Is a wasteiul way of inaktua your puddias. Weigh tbe corn-flour, put it into tbe d .sh, grule hi to it a li'tlc nutmcL', and then mix it with a little cold milk, just as you would if you were making starch. Make a pint ot rnilk boll, then ' pour it on the cold mixture, stir it up well, bent up one egg and two ounces ot moist sugar with the remainder ot tbe milk, then strain it to the pudoinp, ml.ving it well ultogeiber, and bake it.' "Lli.Hbeth t-uccveded. well utter this, una at once sixneuce was saved Irom wasie alone will snow you now waste is insensibly made. A manutac:urcr m:tkes his esoerlmeuts, and, if success croAii bis etlorts, ho en leavors to produce an article at the lowest possible coat consistent witn excellence, me same principle should bo carried out in the kitchen. Wa-te beneuts no one, but, on tue contrary, tbe ser vant or mistress is; greatly demoralized by tue habit of wasting; to su?h an one mere is rever enough. You must not mistake me, Milly; a half pound of butter would not be deliberately thrown away; but I have known ninny servants waste more' than an ounce at a tune either dv mitkine melted butter badly, or through care lessness burning it, or bv nviusr too much. Six pence a week in loss soes thete twenty-six shillings a year. Again, in the simple i.rtielo of firewood, Bridiret was a famous waster of that article; although in your nei&hoorbood it is rather an executive item in housekeeping, enough was always heaped on to light one tire that would amply suffice lor three. You may smile, Milly, but it ts in little thinas that money melts. You would look at sixpence twice- be'ore ?rou threw it away, but this is constantly doue n unail mutters a kind of waste whereby In comes are silently diminished. You will learn this in time." "I shall learn many things iu time, Bertha, but I stall never learn to be a uiggard." "To be savins is not to be uignardly. If you come home weary and wet footed, and will take no proper stlmultiut, nor have a tire t warm you, because of the expense, this is to be 'niggardly. It you will not allow your servants proper lood, fire, and washing, on account of the expense, or prevent them Irom having a proper Are 10 cook bv, or necessary materials to me, this is to be n'iegardly and wasteful at the sain tiuto. But to take care tbat they have sufficient lor their use, and no more, to see that the Are Is lowered alter tbe nooning is over, that caudles are not flared away, or gas lighted at Improper times, that soap is not lett eoakiiu in the water, or cinders thrown away, or wood wasteiully burned, is no nigaardliness, but right and true .economy, and by caring for which you do jusfce to vourselt. and net rinhtly towards your oei vnnts. It, is all very well for piopl wbo have iuore Income than they need to permit waste 1f it so pleases them, bnt it is not the lew sinful towards their lellow-creatures Their servants are influenced by their example, and tint ol cinymg economy as a dower to their huibands, briii? them haoii's of wastefulness. If iu lame establishment a good housekeeper is an in aluab1o treasure In tbo domestic department, how much more must surh be in the person of a wi e to a man w ith a small income 1" "How serious you are about trltles, Bortha!" "Thre are no such things as tnrte. 'irities make the sum ol human tilings;' 'minutes the hour, hours the day, and days tho year.' VViib out the pence 1.0 pounds cnubo made.' A trifle, if you wdl have it so, leads to death. Tbe smallest theft makes the tbici; a sudden blow, a murderer. Then w hat Bre tntles ?' Here we were Interrupted by my husband, who wished to know if we intended sitting up all nigbt. The next day iound us at home, wheroeverythli.fr at first seemed in confusl in. Bridget was to stay a week to pet the fiirl into the ways of the boufe; but, poor Bridget, she only cot' us all into a muddle, ybehad bi'en her own mistress or some timp, mid all discipline and order had been forgotten. I was glad when she went. It was days aud weeks betore I made anv progress in housekeeping beyond my usual habits. Mary was a helniul eirl. She at once acked me tor her weekly allowance, a term I did not understand. "My usual butter and tea aud sugar, ma'am," was the ri ply, in answer to my inquiring look. "W hat have you been accustomed to have ?" said 1. "A qunrter of a pound of tea, half a pound ol but'er, und 1 have always bad a shilling a week lor extra.'' "But yon can use from that which I give out," said I. "Sometimes you may think I do not make it go tar enough, an i I would rather you would rfi.e me my own it it made no difference to yo.i, ma'am." I considered the matter over, and found Mary was right; her suegisuon broueUt me comlort. She had what she needed on a Monday morning, and I had no further trouble with her require ments all the week. As she bad no access to my. stores, I could not but be satisfied. I gave out each morning everything that wai required for consumption during the day, and I saw that everything was in its place. It was labor to me at first, and most especially was it vexatious to be obligt-d to give up playing with my chil dien to attend t this most essential duty ; but the habit soon grew into a pleasure, lor, no matter how I might be occupied, or where I might go, I had no tear but that the meals at hoiue were lieht. (,'radually I loun l tnat, by close attention to trijies. I was ultimately ena bled to appear a very liberal housekeeper; indeed, "extravagant'' was the gratuitous title 1 earned. By close attention to tbe trilles I once despised 1 was enabled to make tweuty -seven shillings a week go as lar as I once conli treble that amount. I need not say that I had no margin for waste; indetd, lo purchase the needful require ments ot wear sii i tear of lurniture and house linen, aud nlso to puy tbe wu.Miimr bills, both myseli and husband "were obliged tj give up a poition of tbe nimey originally set by lor clothes. The children 'bej;au to g'?t expensive, p.nd still their requirement? had to be met. I learned the urtot dre-sniuking irom one who came to make up rhe children's dresses; it I had not, I could not have manured to put out the work. Ouce in two ears I got a silk dress, and that well made; this was the extent of my extravagance. In Inct, I f'uind t lie only way to manntre was to make my sell acquainted Willi every useful household art; and amid all this cull upon my time and energy, at every spare moment 1 as siduously practised my music, w Inch was fast slipping through my Aimers; 1 also cultivated the talent I possessed lorsketc bine. Ho motive short ol eoucatingmy chilrtien, which, of course, I was obliged 1000, would have enabled me to bear this extra stiain upon my time aud temper. I should say bore that my hut-baud's health, vhich had never been strong enough to follow his prolession, gave way when my elde-t child was cix years old. He became afflicted With a tpinul complaint, which laid him nearly pros trate for the space ol eieht years, and during this sad time all our available resources were needed. Tbe eight shillings a week, resulting from tbe SL'M per annum w hich we hud reserved as u luud lor emergencies, was ull expended il what, was absolutely required to meet his cae. T110 most 1-kilt ul economy alone enable me to keep out of debt. Had I been Iu the c?uniry it would have been altogether unoi her thing, but in Loudon all eatables were expensive, though London had au equivalent advantage in that w e were not jblieed to know any one. lucre was 110 one that we cared about to whom our servant could tell that wc bad only potatoes and bacon tor dinner, or cold meut more than to days following; though certainly the latter circumstance did not happen very oiteu, lor experience taught me that cold meat was a heartless meal, exceptinsr now aud then, when a salad or tried potatoes ma le it, nerhaps, more aereeable than a hot dinner. II wever, wc lived unknown and unsought ex cept by our kind friends tbe (irays, who too nenrly resembled ourselves lor them to bs criti cal about our doings. I educated my children myseli, aud in doing so iound great delight. Each year my troubles Bceincd to grow less, lor I became economical n'.tonlyoi money and money s worth, but ol time also, ns my husband needed tbe greatest care and attention. We bad scrupulously kept up tbe insurance upon his 1 1 to lor tbe X5iKi, though each year the payment was increased. As I ceuticne'd before, I iearned to 60 every thing myself, so that 1 was, in a measure, inde pendent ot skill in a servant. 1 changed often tnis was unavoidable; each went ttwav "to better hersclt,"tobe succeeded by iueouipetence and, too frequently, idleness. The changes came so frequently (servants had altogeihei altered from those ol Bridget's days; they tound it so dull, or thoy could not rise early, or always wanted to bo ruuiiinrout), thai I Insensibly made up my mind that these nnso ries were la-t becoming uu estatilished order of things, and resolved to bear ihein as unruffled as I could. Kven Bertba CLupmaii co:nolained that, since the death of poor Itooert, things in her domestic metiage had altered. Two of her most trusted servants had married, and she could not replace them; several were tried, but were not eqnut to tueir duties. J.nere is no help for mis," she wrote, "out lor mistresses to educate themselves so as to teach their helps." I had long aso found this out, and for so long as I had my health all went on well. But I felt pity always ior every mother indelicate health, a prey to htr servants in her uncomfortable home. Theie were comfort and peace and love in our dwelling, albeit the sic knebit of my be loved husband greatly overshado ed our 'jovs. ju.v experience 01 the Dust uus been, that had I Bet out in liie with but a triile ot reliable prac tice in domestic matters, such as I afterwards taught myseli. and wi n moderate aspiring as to any position which two hundred a year income would warrant, and tuut hud 1, or had we both, set out with sufficient moral courage to despise shams, and not have endeavored to appear otherwise than we were persons of very mode rate income ve might havi.- been spared much uiistry. Even had i neen brought up to have know u tbe prices cf food before (entered upon niairiage, we should not have made a false start iu tbe world. As to economy, if a raspina of bread or a cold potato can be made available, lot it be used, not Thrown away. To cook food nicely docs not consist in the multitude or costliuess ot the ingredients used, but in the proper dis tribution ot actual requisites, in the knowledge of the time necessaiv for tho cuokine, and iu the temperature of the water or milk in which tuch food is to be cooked. An intimate acquuintunce with needle-work of every description Is absolutely necessary to tho mistress ot a limited income dress and frock uiukmar especially which should either be learned as an art or scquired Irom a dress maker who may be called in to assist. A work basket is a fruitful source of misery; its con tents have a habit of accumulating, and causing a depressing lufluui ce upon the temper and tpiri s. 1 What i to be done ihovld be quickly dew. ' No garment with buttons or tapes olf, or with rents or tatters, should bo placed away in a drawer, but be mended the very first opportunity row, if possible it Is a duty to be performed 1 be 1 ore pleasure. Stockings and socks should I not lie allowed to conio into holes-thin places are casiit mended. I hope 1 may not be con sidered dictatorial in thus insisting upon this very necessary observance, but I have suffered from procrastination in these very matters, and the obtaining of new articles of anv kind was, in my early days, a matter of difficulty. The looking out the linen on Mondays was at first a woriyii g trouble to me, and I (rutted this mat ter ir'eqiientlv to a servant, till the constant dis putes wilb the laundress, and tbe lost ot several articles, led me to perlorm this duty myself. Kvery Monday morning, as soon as breakfast war over, the servant brought tbe linen to the kitchen, where she sorted it over iu my .resenco, and I wrote it down, taking care to specify what kind the articles were linen or cal to. The e'ean tbtngs were then taken from the basket, every button acd tape tied, and all put upon the clothes-horse to air, be'ore putting them away in the drawers. It took something less than halt an hour to do this. Tho remainder of the morning till one o'clock was spent in repairing all fractures and other reeds. I never in my lite mended dirty linen, no matter how much it was torn. When my babes were young, after they had gone to bed I shook out and hung upon a clothes-horse all the garments they were to put on the next day, whether clean ones or other wise; each little one's clothes bv Itself; and manv a time have I washed out their little socks in the hand-basin, in my own room, which saved much accumulation ol these small affairs. My collars ai.d culls I washed and ironed mysel', and nlso many little matters ol lace and muslin foi the children. Tbe process 1 adopted was a somewhat rapid on. and involved but el'ght labor. 1 'blew a little borax Into some cold water, and when the loriner was dissolved I put in over niubt tbo urticies I desienci to wash. The next morning 1 kneaded thern well with my hatidp, wiung them out. and soaped them into tep:d water, In w inch also was a Hide borax, not soda. The dirt eas lv came out: I rinse 1 them well in slightly blue water, in which some iilum was dissolved to prevent accident Irom lue (as ulum prevents name), and par tially diied them; then made some thin starch, by mix'ng two teaspooustui or one ot starch in tw o tablespoonstul ot cold water; then poured boilme water upon it, stirring it all tbe time, till it was of the consistence ot well-mado nrrow- rbot. While the starch was hot I put in the articles to be stiffened, and let them stay in for ten minutes, or even more, then wrung then as dry as I could in my hand, and then each article again iu a clean cloth, thus preveuting toe starch from sticking to the iron, and rendering the lace or collars clear instead ot muddy looking. After squee.uur them hurd in the cloth, each article was shaken out, and lal I separately in a cloih, and tolded up tmht, ready lor ironintr. it Is astonishing how much ex ra nse I saved in niv laundress' bills, bv coir tinning olen to wash some litt'.e thing, at a time when 1 appeared to bo only wosliiug my hands This little empioymeul never made me the les? lit to be seen; in preparing for it I d d no more than pin a towel betore me a jmr of hot water and wbue curd soap (I never would de stroy the color and skin of my hands bv usinz other Kinds), aud with a very lnt'e borax, I manntii d to have a grent deal ot comlort aud (lean trilles in clothes, without the machinery by which I obtained it being observed. ClIAl'TER VII. THE ART Ol' PRKHl ING IN 00011 TASTE ALICES ACCOM rLlk'UlILNTS A Hl'SCAM) AND FATHEIt'3 death h!3 income pies with him the value of an insurance fl'tcbk employment Alice's and Edward's marriage. Ihere i one thing which 1 should mention as part ol my acquiied experience; tin- art uf drexfwig in qocd tuvte. ll 1 purchased au inexpensive materia1, I did not call attention to the fact by overloading it with trimmina and paltry lace, but it was well shaped, mid well mode, and simply trimmed, so that by this meats it escaped particular no tice. I also avoided buying anything with other wise than the niot siniplo pattern on it. I had no desire to be known at any distance by my dre-s. The pla'nesl, richest silk generally black was my best dress; und the exquisite, fine, solt, si Iky black alpaca my home and even ing oress. There is no pretension anout the latter material it is at once suitable and pleas ing to tl.e eye, and may be worn by a duchess witl out deteriorating irom her acknowledged good taste. The same by bonnets of a good material, but so simple anil plain, though al uy3 ol the best shape, that they were generally be coming. I may oDserve that my style of oress, which fiom its excessive plainness disarmed criticism, was studiously acquired. My Irequent change of servants from their own choice, not nunc led mo to give up the contentious point respecting exuberance in their diess. Ho long as they were tidily clad while attending upon my family, I permitted them to "Haunt in gay attire" as much, ns they pleased when absent from me. For some time I mourned their lolly, and rea-oneilwith them upon the bad tcLdt ucy of their excessive vanity, without in nking otherwise than an ill impression upon thtm, sulkiiiebs being generally the result. However, they lost and I guined, for I became almost severe in the pattern and style of my own i-iess. An amplitude of fold, and a rich or otherwise most simple material, marked in dress tLe contrast between myseli and my servants. To expatiate here on the lolly of servants dress ing bo extravagantly is not to my present pur pose, though I have often wished sumptuary laws were in force to compel tliem to attire themselves in a manner becoming to their sta tion, or that tbtir wanes might be partially demoted to the savings banks, as a little future provision against sickness or other casualties. My children giew up to be dutilul and loving. Alice, belcre ncr lather's death, became my right hand; :die was an excellent little conk, a methodical housekeeper in lact, a domestic treasure. I was determined that no self mado thorny path stould be hers; hence she was care fully instructed in every petty detail of house keeping, even to the baiting of meat and the baking ot bread; what the did at all was tho roughly doue. This "thorowih-floinqnestP was part of her nature; she did not inherit the i'ltiat-,tl do" system, but shook it off with a de termined effort, and kept ic at a distance. Alice was a pleasing reader; she also played with taste find expression, and she sketched Ircm nature with a firm touch, which at one time led me to thin!: might be turned to a prolessional account; this, on its being broached, she shrunk Irom with undisguised aversion, but she nevertheh ss keptupihe prac'lce of all hir acquirements with undiminished ardor, which leu me to infer tbat she saw some neces sity for it. Everv summer's morning tound her tit u o'clock reading und studying tor an hour aud a halt: then she went into the garden, aud busied herself ior an hour, coming in with glowing cheeks and the 1 brightest of sm.lcs. bbe was the ministering angel iu our home. I had accustomed her Irora her earliest y ears to Muil unon herselt. and as much as possible upon her lather and me also. The thouurht had never entered my biain to gave her trouble; therefore, year by jear, she more ana more hlled my place in all domestic atl'a'rs, Hbe learned to cut out and make- all her clothes, and wi;h on aptitude of contrivance quile for eign to my nature. 1 bad perfect rest aud peace as to her future, should she ever be left uiouo in the world; not that I could presuuio Bhe would be exempt Mom trouble, sickness, or privations, but I lelt she would be trepurcd to meet them, and therefoto would suffer less thau n she were an lsuorant. untaught mri. e were one (lay conversing upon the different uegrees ol happiness which women especially experienced, even when thev set out Irom the same poiut in liie. "I do not think it possible to be very unhappy," said she, "it w make tue best ol our means, whether they be li'tlo or great." "But suppose you don't know how to iuoke the best of everything?" "Why, in that case there must be misery for the wife, the children, ana the husband. I sometimes think 1 shull be Somebody' some day, mamma: and mat is wny i practice so inucti every accom plisbment 1 know. 1 should not like directly I was married to give up my piano, my singing, and my orawiug, ana so miry m yseir a wav Giving no joy to my bright little home which am sure I shall one day have." ( "Bui. Alice, darltnff. if oaDa should not live? it Kvery day, my chi'd. Is one of fear with toe. What is to be done then! I'apa hss only the tse of our income for his lite." Tho child's fuce blanched with terror. Hhe sat looklnir at mf as cne stricken with horror. At last the words ciitiic "What do you mean, mamma? Papa has not been worse lor some years, aud how dees he get the money, then. i . "My child, your papa's brain has been eradu ally softening tor now two years; and Dr. Mil ward assured me the otttfr dav tbat tbe ejd could not be lar off. 'One month of sad suffer ing jouwilljsee, and then 'was all he Tittered; and n'ay (Jod'aive me strength to pass tbrouph this, ihe worst of all my trials I Alice, my deep Is disturbed, niy a'tentlm always on 1bo ruck. 11 tcnine to ihe incoherent sounds which probably w ill come from jour dear father's lips, be ore he is lost to us." "Mamma, dear mamma, think not of this ; the olid msy be far distant." "Cod grant it I" was all I could then say. ' In cne short month from this, though nothing had occntred to mark that approach which we all dreaded eo much, i bad left my busl.and apparently sweetly sL-eping; the doctor came unexpectedly aud w atched him tor some minutes; he then litied his evelids the eye was riuid, tboueb bright. Dr. Mil ward called for a liirhtcd an die, and held it close to the eye; no move ment took place; and in twelve hours Irom this time my buuband was no more, my children weie fatherless, and myself a widow. These are words soon spoken, but to realize tbetn in their lull extent is the concentrated bltfernes of life. My tale is drawine td a close. I had now no two hundred a year to mnnage.-and how to manage with it was all that I was requested to write about, but my readers who have goue so tar with me will perhaps be interested in know ii.u something about our at.er lite. Mrs. Gray came to us in tir dark hour ot sorrow, as did my parents also. With the latter we removed to my early home alas ! to me no home now. My boy had been one year apprenticed to an old friend" ol his iaiher'u when our great trouble overt.hauowed us. Knoueh money was realised by tbo sale of our lurnit-ire to pay our good kind doctor, and with the five hundred pounds obtained from 1hp insurance company an annuity was purchased tor me. The house which tor seventeen years I had but seldom seen sluce I married from It, was not the hi me of my youth; my sisters and brothers tilled it, and I felt myself nn interloper. My Income would not suffice for me to live nlone with Alice, neither would Alice stay with my parents without me. My past ex perience bad educated me for something better than idleness, and I wished to ob'nin some useful position, where some one at least might be helped through my knowledge so dearly ob tained. My sisters three ot them were just no better than I hud been when I married. My mother still toiled ior tbeni. still hoped to see them many either men in their oau positiou or above than. My remonstrances nay, entreaties to them to render themselves seit-helpiul were in ; vain; ihey had never experienced a care or thoueht tor the tuture a system ot education too irequmtly adopted by parents, which leads J noiuntrequeTitlytocriniein married file there- lore my sut'ctstions were treated us out ot place, und niv conduct us intertcring and dominant. "Let them alone," my mother would say; "they Mill learn time enough." How bitterly I telt her words! My dower, truly, had been to learn the ways of lite but at v hat a cost 1 it was ot no use contesting the maiter, so I gave it up iu despair. I seat an adveitisement to the limes describing myseli as a usetul housekeeper. In due time it was an swered by a lady who bad the care ot lour orphan nieces, bhe herself wus unmarried, but had beet) called upon sudoenly to take possession of her deceased brother's household, be havinsr been a widower only a year. Miss Arkwright had never kept house, and disliked all domestic ties; nevertheless by her brother's will she was lelt guardian to his children, with so much per sonal income as long us she rest led in the house with them. For herfell she was a kind of missionary ladv, always begging money for some scheme which was to assist regenerating the heathen, while, fdus! thousands ol heathen lsted w itbm wilting reach. Mis9 Arkv.richt's letter explained all that she needed of me to lnaiiuge tne servants, to see that the children were uicely kept and watched, and to have tho bouse alays cutntortuble ot au tu ning wben she, arrived: ht r duties taking her Irom it the wbo e onv. My parents weie exceedingly niTrrv when thev henid ot my determination. Alice, with teariul eyes, inipio'red mo to renounce the idea of servi tude, ns sue termea it; out to ench and all I answered, "I can only loreet my trouble in active t-xirtiou, in being obliged to think for others;" and so I was allowed to have my own way. To Alice I nointed out the advantages my income would give herself and brother. ISot to myselt, mamniH, w ill there be anv advantage; lor Edward let your sacrifice be niiiac." 'l.ut. AHce. I cannot let you live here without paying ior your board. ' 'Aiumnia. 1 intend to go luto a school, where I iiif-.y obtain lessons tor my services." "Have you counted the cost, Alice?" I asked. "Cuii you submit to the discipline tbe monoto nous duties ot school routine?" "Maitniu, is this question asked with your usual judgment?'' she reproachfully questioned. "You hate all your hietimo been instilling into n o that duty cannot be laid down at will unful filled, or put aside for a future time; and now, when the iirst real duty of life presents itself. do you Ihink me u coward or incompetent, or what Is 1', mamma ? ' "1 think no ill in c ol tbe kiud. Alice. 1 merely think that, us you have tue choice of work or piny, it were as' well to weigh the consequence-- ot each; and whichever you prefer, H is my most earnest wish to see you happy m tbe choice j on Hiuke." "Aiammn, as you nave sncccedea in obtaining a situation, will you kindly insert an advertise meut lor me?" was all the nntwer 1 obtained. Thus our destinies were fettled, we both dwelt in other hemes, and Irom this time 1 cau date my prosperity in liie. Both Alice and I were Ctteu lor our positions; wo gave Tun satisiacuon each iu cur several employments, and icccived in return the most un'iouuded confidence and esteem. Al ce, at twenty Six, married well; au an. pie settlement was ma le upon her, subject on lv to tnty pounds a ytur being taken from it, and seemed to me during m v liie. Edwnrd about tbe same time enteied in' o partnership with the gentleman with whom he had been so many years, and ti-uii that hour gave me a tlxeu' yearly bum sufficient to have supported me, and which to this day noih u cau iuuuca him to rs nssume. although ho has married, and a young lanuly have their claims upon Inm. I am livum with the yonrgest of the family of the Ark wriehts; all tbe rest are married; tho e.dest niairied my boy. Miss Aikwrlght left me iluo a year nil her income: and Dora, her youugest pet, liec'aies that nothing shall induce her to leave her own "Minnie." She insists upon It tbnt. as Kuth followed Kaomi of old, so will she never leave, never forsake me. tSbo is but twenty wc shall see. THE CONCLUSION. WORK V0R EACH DAY IN THE WEEK. I have pouderr d over the pages w hich I have written, and certainly all my experiences are tnere et down. The only margin in the exocu diiure which could be allowed is in t'.ie articlo ol insurance. Tne Jt 25 yearly to be taken tuto tbo income, it a policy of insurance were not (fleeted, would srivo something less than 10s. a wvek extra. Thia sum, wben one Is bound to live so ven economically, might be done with out, to secure tne advantage w hieh would arise iron it in after life. To mako hor own happi ness, I would earnestly advise every girl to edu cate herself tor a don' est ic life ns assiduously as she does to play aud shil', and by no means, when fhe hBB attained the latter acquirements, to let them slip away out ot her grap for want of practice, irom the mooient a bride takes pob-ctbioii ol her house her chief duties In life commence: it is hers to form htr machinery for uctiou, to keep it in working gear, uud to so oiiiiimeiit it by her own Vraces uud accomplish ments that ibe wheels and Kiher motive, power be hidden. A woman who means to play her part v eil, in ever so .humble a home, must .be rood rhsnster, so that every duty shnii have iU allotted ttme-not onedulv to be huddled upon another. Be also a good financier, so as to make not only every penny do Its work, but occasion- fill? Ihp WArlr nf Urn it H l,n in Hlnlnmt. tist, for cor cord and comlort and a pleasant life SDOuid De the result of her mauaaremont. During the progress or this article throudh the press It has been sii7csfed to me to give definite rules for doing the work of a ho ise each day. I could not see that this was posi lle, any more than I could aive a mean calcula tion of how much cloth it would tpke to make boys' clothes in peneral, or how many bricks it would take to build a hoii-e ot no definite size. Unless 1 knew the circumstances ot each indi vidual this would be useless. Tbe week's work was tous divided and arranged in my own bouse: - Mondat. l.inen day and mending. " Tdkhdat. Washing and ironing; kitchen and scnllerv scrtibbiiiB. Wednesday. Scouring bright tins and dish covers. Thursday. Scrubbing out closets, cupboards, BLd larder and kitchens. Friday. I'ast ry makinsr; passnses and hall cleaning: one sitting-room tborougnly. Sattrday. The second stttiu.r-room tho roughly; a general scrubbing and thirough cleaning. Ono bed-room was thorouehly cleaned on each dav of the week, and others slichtly swept with a solt brush aud duster every dav. Stairs thoiouehly swept twice week, and sliahtly every day. By the.e nu ars the wnoie nruse wa cleaned throuehoiit everv week. But without mistress and maid are early risers, the latter being down stairs at 6 o'clock and ue m stns at 7, nil this work cannot be accomplished; and ono thine I would Trention, that a servant should never be k( pt up after 10 o'clock at night. Of course 1 do not say that these I have enu merated were all the nutios to be prtormed: but they are the chief in every house. On Sunday I hud as little work done as it was possible. ve diued at 2 o'clock. AHer 3 I suffered the ser vant to eo out till 8 o'clock. The tea I arranged myseli, and I gave the girl, at every convenient time, as much holiday as I possibly coull; not that I was served belter by this arrangement, but. on the contrarv. frequently worse; bat then it was a duty 1 owed her, and, whether she were grateful or not, it would not take Irom my im perative doty towards eacn ana an oi my iciiow cieatures, namely r To do as J uwu'd be done by. WATCHES, JEWELRY ETC. T,1 'DOTITT u :s (UlASiOXD DV.Mii'.'.l P. TVTiT TT WATCIILs, JE'.li 1.KV . ; :r.u: : win , vVTATCHi:3 and D, 8T? Onsr.-in f rv:' (.. OwlDpto the decline oi Gold, bai made irreet re Auction In price of idslarte ana we!i assorted utock I Mmnomls, Walehes, Jewelry, Silverware, ICto. The public are respectfullj Invited to call and cxamiua our stock before purcliailriR e.Kewhere. 2 ti SILVER AND PLATED GOODS, OF THU MoBt Superior Workmanship, at Tne N K W K T O R K Ko 704 ARCH STREET. The urdrv!jced (tat t'ie famous Kogers II os ti tnulf ciuiuiu C om wiiiT) rei-pect ully announce tlia tin, 1 uvt out nu n in w nnd iHiiulllu. store ior ihe ea ol till. VI 11 and J I.A1 1' D WAHK, at ho "M Aktl'O Mrcu. Cur lent: mnniaice an niunu aciurcra wil rniible us o kn p Drilling but llnt-cla-B t.oudn and ilu eLODii .v patronize our a ore will lind ourp'ted Mt'UMiai mrem r io any ever iniponra. anu our cua ti iLcrti n uy telv on the (luodn being precisely what thoy are rc,rcin'ou to ue. 'A BOWMAN & LEONARD. WATCHES, JEWELRY, &c. MUSICAL BOXES. A mil Bfforloitiit ol aU've gooot coustautl? on timid st nivdeiate price ihe lluaical Boxea playini Irom 'i to 10 U auiitul All. FAKE & BROTHER, Importers, Ko. 624CUF..SNU1 BTULKT, 11 llemiLgrp He low fourth. G. RUSSELL & CO IS'o. J2 North SIXTH St., IHVITE ATTEM'IOX TO THLIK IVLh 8T0CK or FANCY AKI I'LAIN SJLVEK W A 11 K, 01 tbe Finest Quality. 15 28 5 HIGH JE WEhin JOHN BRENNAN, DEALER IK DIAMONDS, FINE WATCHE8, JEWELRY Etc. rJtc. l.tc. 9 21$ No. IS S. EIGHTH 81 KAET, Philada. INSTRUCTION. rpilE LK11I0II UNIVERITY, BETHLEHEM I l'KNNA. Tli in new Institution, liberally endowed by the Hon Ana I'aeker. oi Maueh I bunt mid dculxned to give i iu'l practical idLC-ailon nulled to tbe reituirciienm ol tie a.e will be open to receive atudent In th Flltvr 1 WO C'LASHl'.M on liie In1 or nepieuioer, isoti Tbe locution la Leauniiil, and proverblnby bealtliy and it Isaituatcd In Ihemiilit' ol varied industrial luie renta, ail oi wblcb will be aubaldlzed for tne purpose ot tiibtruc Ion. .,, lie Course will conslut ot two parta. Hint. TWO YKAhH l)K 1 KH'AUA IOKV l81UUTI0N iu Ma tbeuiktlca ( hemixtiy, and Lanptiiitie (eaneoially tbe lnoueru lanicueyeJ. sludiea wbicb every toung man abou.d purxut, lor nti vei uroteemon tie ue intended se,wind mil Al LiIilONAJ, YtAlt-4 in ono ol tin fol owlny acboola In each of which un adcitional tpvclal ueartetiH conifircu: 1. 'I be hcbool oi Ueneral Literature. 2. 'i be bell mi I al civil t UKluet riu. 3 Tbe K'bool ol Aiecbanlcal KiiMlncerlng. 4 ihelcbool of Ueiailuruv und V Inlim. AppMcuiln for admission will be examined from tba ISl IU Hie I -Mil Ul aukub- uii iwuiiiih lut'llinvivn. hi iim PrAnidrnr. at lletlilelii iu or on the oin'iiinu dav. C'lrculara tflvinir tonus, ec . may be bad by an J ring to a essrs. I . II HU I !.. s u.,ito. Ml . ruum a Street. Pblladeli.hia. or toll Ml cOl'ttE, Preident, I'.etmeLieui. ra. i " 0 II E U A K A Jf INSTITUTE, EKGUHJI AND KUKSCII Hoarding and day pupils. Nox. l,Vi7 and 1W ePKUCE una a if rue: in. Street, will reopen ou llinthllAV . Hiptember HO. French is tbe luiiM'age ol Hie luiuily, and l uoustautlv spukeii In the lliMtitl.tu. J'rluiury 1 epartmeut. 96U per annum. liav Bcboli.rs P-r annum 1U0. Day iioardmn I'upi a i'iliU. .,,; . . MADAME Ui.B VILLI , 1 22 finw4ia 1'rloulpal. ICE COMPANIES. EASTERN ICE 00MPANi".-REA80NT OF 1H0C - Ibe. dull . Ml ceuta por vieek ei lbs d'JIv 15 cco's per week: lt lb dally, bO ceul per we-M Iba dully 1 l'S per ncek. Depot. Mo fcllUUr.kN street bjtow . jfe-. i 4 FINANCIAL. 0,000.000 SfcYKN VU CKXT. MfWT-lMflV First Slot-gage Bonds, ..i ; I11K NOKTU MlrtaodBI RAILoOAU COMPANY baa authorized ua to letl tholr first Mor gage Sersa Per Cent Thirty year Bond. Tbe whole amount In 6 0,tt. Coupons, payable on the first daya of JCN0AHT all JULY ot each year, in New I or It. tutors congesting to tbla Agency, we have made a cantul exiinlra ion ot the tneiliaof thec Honda, by endlBK m llliam M liner Kolxrts.and others, to report open lb e,,noltl( n and preapec a ol the Railroad. Tholr repert is on tlleatooroa.ee. and la bb satisfactory. W e oo not htaiiatc to tecomn end thcae Honda a beiair a first class aeouilty, and a moat aafe and ludlctoua In vestment. , Ibeproccedaoffheseboudfiwiilbeased meatendiug Hoad (alread.1 compltt no mtcs Into North Mlsaoarl) to tbe Ion a Hate line, when It la to connect with the railroads oi Iowai and to also extend It weatwrd to U June i Ion with the l'aclllc Railroad fat Leavcowni th. and other roads leading no he Missouri River, eo Uat tbistncrttage of 6 feo 000 will ootft a completed and neU'Mcckcd Road of 399 miles la length, coating at least H6,n,n,iO0 with a net annual revenue after the first yea , ot over ai.MWO 0. or a anm ncarlvfonr time tcyond tbe amount needed to pay tbe Intetest oa those Honda. Ihe It come of the Road will, of course, increase every year. The Batlrond connect the great city offit. Louta with lta two Lunered thousand Inhabitants, not only with tbe richest port Ions ol Ml lourt, but with the States, of Kansas ai.d lew a, and the treat Pacific Kal.roula. ' To the tirst applicant we art prepared to sell F1VK. IlL'MiKFD THOUS AND DCLI.AE3, at the lor rate of KICH1Y deslrlngto obtain a bettor ptlea for the rcmalnuer. 'Ihls will yield about 9 percent Income, and add 20 per cent, to principal at maturity. Anv lurtbcr inquires will be answered at our offle. JAY COOKE & CO., hilin BANKUUH, No. HI South Til 1 511) Street. JAY COOKE & O O. No. 114 South THIRD Street. A N K HUH AND DEALERS IN GOVERNMENT SECURITIES V. b. b Of! 1881. 5 20s, OLD AND HKW, 1040s;(KR'miCATKS Oi' INDEBrEDNKHS, 7 Ul i-OiEfci, 1st, 2d, and 3(1 borieg. VOMPOUmt INTEBKfiT NOTES WANT Eli. imRi.ST ALLOWED ON DEi'OSIl'S. ollccticna maiio. stocks r.ouht ac l Sold oa Conmuuion. isjiccml I ui-ire accuiiiinodatluus rtviorfed for LA1UKS. 8T 2ra if. S . S t (J I IU 1 1 Kg". A SPECIALTY, SMITH, RANDOLPH & CO., BANKERS & BROKERS, It S. THIRD ST. 3 NASSAU ST. rmi-ADKLIMilA. i NEW XOKK. STOCKS AND GOLD Hough 'i aad toil) on commission UEltK AND IN NEW YORK. II I A. A-liliS JiliOTlUaRS, Ko. 25 BOCK STEEET, UANKKRS AND liUOKKHS. aCT AND (-ELL L'MThD BTATF.S HON DM. l8la, -2Ca, III Wa UMTHi SI ATtS 7S-1Q, ALL lfbfJKtj, CKKllUCAltS OK HiDtBTEDNKSS &.ercanti f apcr and Loans on Co lattraie aecotiaCed Htoike I'.oukl.t ai-d fcold on Commihfioti. 111 rllK FIKbT K ATI OKA L IiANK LIAS KEMOVEU' Durnip tbe erertiou ol the Dew ianlc buildinr, To 1 17 Ip No. iJo.- .CIIKSNI.'T STHHET 5'20t. - I' I v i: - T W E N T I B S. 7"2Cs -SEVEN-THI TIES WANTED. DE 1IAVEN & BROTHER, 1 7 No. 40 H. Til t ed Si Bur. INSURANCE COMPANIES" 1 jltOVIDENT LI FK AND TUUST COMPANY J OF flllL AUe'.i PHI l, No. Ul South r Ol KTll Street INC'OK KiiK itlS" MOM H. iid.. UiS. . AI'ITAL. H0 f All) I S. Inmirancn on Liven by Yearlr Preiulauia ; or by S, 14, or Ji rear Premiums hon-:orieiture. hndownientH, uayubea' mure ae. or o a prior de eae, by Yearly I'reniiuiua, or 10 year Premium both e a tes Non-io'tclture Annuities K muted on tuvorahlo term Term I o i, lea Cbll 'ren'a i ndowuiunta 'II.Ih Con piiiiv. Hbile Klv'ntr tbe Inaurwl tbe security ot apiiidup C'a. Ha'.wlH divide tb entire pruiltf of tbe Li e buaintui among lta Policy bolder. Monet s rccelr. d at Interext, an I paid on demand. Authorized bv charter to execute i rusts, and io act as Fxecuior or Adniliilsirator Aanitttieo or (iuirdtati, aud In other fldui laiy capuculra unnet appointment o any ( curt el' lliin t oniiiiouwealib or of anv person ur per aeua, or bodies politic or corporate. PIUKCTORe, SA.MI'FL R.MIIPLM", HI 'HART) f'ADRUJtY, J I Rr MIA II HM Kr K, HKNltl' I1AIM . JOSHU A H. MOKttlS, ,f WISTAK M Kt) "VW. 11K I1AHD WOOD, I WM. I '. LiJ.NCiHIKElU, i CABLES (Mtl'FIN SAAlUEL B. SHIPLKT. UO V LAND PABRT. President. Actuary. TI OMA8 WISTAK. M. I)., J. B. T0WN9K 1. 7 21 S Medica Kauiiiier. Leual Advlsar. T ANDSCAl'E DRAWING CAUDS, A BKAU-. J J t it ul Frili s ot vlewa, tifteen In number doslgnel tor the instruction ot Juvenile artists trice, 16 cenis a parkaue Bf-llh ibe LVl MMi TKLKOKCPH. SEW YOl-K t'LITl EK etc . will ba Iound on Kale at the 2U1 NK WS STANn. p. W. corner BKVESTU and CHESNUT Street. OACi SO nil STREKT. J. DANCX)VA Ladia and e )H pay tbe bluhest pile lentn' CHiloil ClotbiiMf. bo. ''-! cJl fj blcvai oelow Kourtb.