Family Living Focus by Penise H. Continenza Lehigh County Cooperative Extension Where Sibling Rivalry Has Its Start Imagine, if you will, that your spouse walks in the door tonight and says, “Hi, honey. I want you to meet my new wife. She will be staying with us from now on. I expect you to love her and share your things with her. Okay?” Feeling a bit outraged? Possi bly even vengeful at this horrific scenario? How about sad, reject ed, or duped? Such is the experience for many children when a new si *■ • P.S. - Don’t Forget Your Father-In-Law! | PLEASE SEND MY FATHER LANCASTER FARMING Jfj ENCLOSED IS A /| □ CHECK □ CASH □ MONEY ORDER OVISA □MC □ DISC. ftfi (To help correctly code your address, please furnish COMPLETE address. 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However, it is not unusual for them to perceive the new ad dition as an invader, complete with a mission of taking over his or her position in the family. The birth or adoption of a child is truly a happy event, but it does create at least a moderate degree of stress for everyone as the family works to regain its bal ance. Subscription Price: $37.00 per year; $67.00 - 2 years $48.00 per year outside of: PA, NJ, OH, MD, DE, NY, VA & WV (Check One) □ NEW SUBSCRIPTION □ RENEWAL The family can be compared to a mobile with its members acting as the weights. When another anchor is added, the mobile tilts, tips, and sometimes spins wildly. Tlie mobile has to be restructured and things rearranged in order for it to regain a sense of balance. For families this ‘rearranging” might include: • Allowing the older child to assist the parents with care of the baby (with supervision, of course). • Spending special “one-on one time” with the older child on a regular basis. (Reading together is a great way to do this!) • Talking with the older child about his/her feelings regarding having a new brother or sister. • Setting and reviewing ground rules related to the han dling of the baby. • Recognizing and celebrating each child’s accomplishments. • Talk with the older child about what she/he did as a baby, took at his or her pictures, share your memories and stories of their childhood. Acceptance of the new baby may take some time, and ambiv alent feelings may continue for a while. But take heart! With love, support, and guidance, most chil dren eventually adjust to the changes as the family takes on its new identity. ‘Fruit, Vegetable, and Herb Dehydration’ All Dried Up GENEVA, N.Y. Dehydrated fruits and vegetables are increas ingly available in the market place. Dehydration is one of the oldest processing techniques a method to preserve perishable produce while making a nutri tious product that has a long shelf life and does not need re frigeration. A workshop conducted at the New York State Agricultural Ex periment Station in Geneva, N.Y., last month addressed some of these issues. “Fruit, Vegetable, and Herb Dehydration,” was or ganized by Cornell University food scientist John Roberts and focused on small-scale produc tion of dehydrated products. There were 29 attendees, includ ing five speakers. “This hands-on demo in the pilot plant was very popular,” Roberts said, “because it allowed attendees to see, taste and feel many different fruit, vegetable, and herb products and leam what products and pre-treat ments work best for dehydra tion.” “Since most of the attendees have their own farms and are quite busy during the picking sea son, they were happy to hear that fruit could be frozen during the picking season and then thawed and dehydrated later in the fall or winter.” Participant Dave Evans, direc tor of Nelson farms at SUNY Morrisville, who has been work ing with small-scale food proces sors for the past four years, said he has had few opportunities to learn about dehydration. “This workshop was excellent,” he said, “to learn the basics, find out what SHIRTS / 3 OR SWEATSHIRTS Shirts • 100% Cotton Denim Long Sleeve • Embroidery Blue & Black • Lancaster Farming Logo • Button-Down Collar • Left Shirt Pocket • Stone Bleach Blue $2O - Small, Medium, Large $22.50 - X Large $23.50 - 2X Large Plus $4.50 Shipping & Handling Costs QS Phone 717-721-4416 Or Mail Your Order To: Lancaster Farming P.O. box 609LFS 1 East Main St., Ephrata, PA 17522 Or Stop @ Office -1 East Main St., Ephrata, PA Saves Shipping Cost! 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