] §o £ Notes To Dad Nancy Wallace Westmoreland County Extension Agent Gifts Of Love, Time The month of December offers challenges and opportunities for Dads to interact with their chil dren. Traditionally, in many households, Mom did the present buying, cookie baking, present wrapping, decorating...the list goes on and on. Dad’s contribu- 9- $ 1 69otp _ J S& Farm Boss Chain Saw s 299^p 56.5 cc, 3.75 bhp, 13.2 lbs Available at these servicing dealers Abbottatown Gap/Quarryville Reamstown MESSICK’S GAP POWER EAGLE 7481 Lincoln Hwy. Rte. 30E RENTALS » PLUS RENTAL CENTER Abbottstown, PA17301 Gap: 717-442-8870 Rt. 272, Reamstown Traffic Light 717-259-8617 888-285-0225 Quarryvllle: 717-786-2221 717-338-3945 Altentewn LEHIGH AG EG. 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