84-Lancaster Farming, Saturday, August 31,2002 On Being a Farm Wife (and other hazard Joyce Bupp Winding down. Wrapping up. Typing the loose ends. Finished. Unofficially, that’s what this Labor Day working-folks salute has evolved to be about. One last vacation trip, one last backyard party, one last picnic before shak ing off the lingering laxness of summer, straightening our shoul ders, putting our heads erect, and marching forward into fall. And boy, are most of us ready. Or, to share an observation from a friend: “It’s like we’ve been under siege.” Holding us hostage, of course, has been the seemingly endless onslaught by heat and drought, dust clouds and wildfires, high humidity and near-non-existent rainfall, low commodity prices, low crop yields, and the spectre of skimpy feed supplies for the winter. Casualties of the siege have been pastures turned to straw, gardens shriveled up (if bugs, beetles, and grasshoppers didn’t bite into them first), com strug gling to make ears, skimpy, sad hay crops, and sparse pickin’s from many produce patches. How many years are tomatoes and squash scarce around here, for goodness sake? Through it all, though, there is one constant that never changes. New Jersey Open Beef Show (Continued from Page B 3) Bootsma. Best full blooded Limousin 1 Daniel Pick. 2 Mosher Famil Lenape Limousin 3 James Robison Champion full blood. Daniel Fick Reserve champion full blood- Mosher Famil Lenape Limousin RED ANGUS Early senior heifer calf 1 JH Keifer Farm SIMMENTAL Junior heifer calf 1 Shelby Lynn Ranck 2 Sam Case 3 Shelby Lynn Ranck Champion junior heifer calf Shelby Lynn Ranck Reserve champion junior heifer calf Sam Case Early senior heifer calf 1 Elena Poliskie wicz Champion senior heifer calf Elena Polis kiewicz Late summer yearling heifer 1 Elena Poliskiewicz Apnl junior yearling heifers' 1 Shelby Lynn Ranck 2 Sally Peck 3 Sally Peck. Champion intermediate heifer Shelby Lynn Ranck Reserve champion intermediate heifer Sally Peck March junior yearling heifer 1 Shelby Lynn Ranck Early junior yearling heifer 1 Jesse Po liskiewicz ‘ Champion junior heifer. Shelby Lynn Ranck Reserve champion junior heifer Jesse Poliskiewicz Senior yearling heifer 1 Jesse Poliskie wicz Champion senior heifer Jesse Poliskie wicz Champion grand heifer Shelby Lynn Ranck Reserve champion grand heifer Sally Peck Cow/calf calf 1 Shelby Lynn Ranck 2 Charles DeLade 3 Jesse Poliskiewicz Champion grand cow/calf Shelby Lynn Ranck Reserve champion grand cow/calf. Charles DeLade Junior bull calf 1 Elena Poliskiewicz 2 Jesse Poliskiewicz. Champion junior bull calf. 1 Elena Polls kiewicz Reserve champion junior bull calf. Jesse Poliskiewicz March junior yearling bulls 1 Shelby Lynn Ranck Champion junior bull Shelby Lynn Rar ick Champion grand bull Shelby Lynn Rar ick. Reserve champion grand bull Elena Po- one absolute that never falters, one standard that can be de pended upon, regardless of what ever else is thrown at us. The weeds are still thriving. Battling unwanted greenery is an ongoing process, dry and wet years. It’s a battle waged in our yard and garden with mulch, hoes, hand-yanking, a heavy duty hand pruner, and a faithfiil sidekick spray bottle filled with basic weedkiller. But during our absence a few days early in the month, the weeks absolutely ran amuk. As if challenged to perform one final, glorious assault against the broil ing heat and dryness, ail the er rant, the unyanked, the missed seedlings hiding under leaves of cultivated stuff, bolted into high gear. Almost overnight, weed trees dotted the veggie patch, shaded the annuals, even estab lished thriving colonies under the thick, shaded and moisture-sap ping maple trees, where respecta ble plants refuse to set root. A forest of ragweed, ladeh with sneeze-starting pollen, towered over the perennial border. One comer prettily abloom with roses, daylilies, and black-eyed Susans revolted into a rebel pack of lanky lambs’ quarters and ram pant foxtail. Mile-a-minute vines liskiewicz Sussex County special. 1. Sally Peck. 2. Charles DeLade. 3. Sam Case N.J. special: 1 Sally Peck 2. Charles DeLade Best three head-1. Shelby Lynn Ranck. Best five head-1. Shelby Lynn Ranck. 2 Jesse Poliskiewicz. Breeders herd four head, one bull and three heifers: 1. Shelby Lynn Ranck 2. Jesse Poliskiewicz Pair of calves; 2. Charles DeLade 3. Elena Poliskiewicz Pair of yearlings- 1. Shelby Lynn Ranck. 2 Sally Peck. STEER Lightweight 1. Gwen Wagner 2. Sally Peck. 3. Sam Case. Champion lightweight- Gwen Wagner Reserve champion lightweight: Sally Peck. Middleweight light: 1. Paul Wagner 2 Jay Underhill 3 Cody Gertach Champion light medium. Paul Wagner Reserve champion light medium- Jay Underhill Middleweight heavy-1. Gwen Wagner 2 Shelby Lynn Ranck. 3 Melanie Sinon Champion heavy medium. Gwen Wag ner Reserve champion heavy medium- Shel by Lynn Ranck. Light heavyweight-1 Courtney Moms 2 Megan Lawlor 3 T.J Banght Champion light heavy Courtney Morns Reserve light heavy- Megan Lawlor. Heavyweight: 1. Jon Petry 2 Sean Sinon 3. Timothy Snook loiKisler Farnimi's Classified Ms Set Results! raced through the blueberries, curled like puppies at the feet of the dogwood tree and scattered off into the snowball bushes. And pokeweed poked its rub bery stalks and wide leaves into everything. It sprang up among fern in the greenhouse and bego nias on the front porch. It nestled up to the black-eyed Susans and dug its way up through thick clumps of daylilies. After knock ing down a handsome, three-foot pokeweed “hunk” hanging around the zinnias, its clones popped up from the tomato patch to the chrysanthemums and took to sunning with the sunflowers. In defense of the weeds, how ever, at least one variety proved to have a positive side through this brutal summer. Just about the time the first melon hills in the garden row had softball-sized fruits on them, the vines began to shrivel and die, attacked by the beetles which spread a wilt fatal to the plants. Diligent efforts in that part of the garden had kept it relatively weed-free. Other melon plants farther along in the row, despite my ef forts, spotted some thriving red root weeds too big to pull without uprooting everything. But the rough leaves of the weed seemed to attract the melon beetles. They dined on the weeds’ leaves which appeared non the worse for wear and left the melon vines to yield their tasty fruits. So while Labor Day weekend represents a salute to working people, a last vacation or picnic fling, return of school buses and football season, it also signals one more thing around here. Lifespan of our lush, lanky weeds is limited. And they’ll take the bugs with them when they go. Champion heavyweight: Jon Retry. Reserve champion heavyweight: Sean Sinon. Champion Class 13: Gwen Wagner. Reserve Class 13; Shelby Lynn Rar ick. Pair of steers (same farm): 1. Gwen Wag ner. 2. Courtney Moms 3. Kelly Von der Lieth. Sussex County special: 1. Jon Retry. 2. Timothy Snook. 3. Mark Van Boerum. 9 and under'l. Charlotte Case. 2. Kayli Sinon. 3 Christopher Snook. awg 10 to 11 years old: 1 Elena Po- ■ liskiewicz 2. Paul Hund. 3. Melanie I Sinon I 12 to 13 years old: 1. Jay Under hill. 2. Sam Case. 3. Cody Getlach. 4 to 14 years old: 1. Kachme Dixon. 2. Courtney Moms. 3. Kyle Jorntsma. 15 to 16 years old: 1. Hannah Case 2 Bradley Klemm. 3. Mat thew Von der Lieth. 17 to 21 years old: 1. Jennifer Hower. 2. Jesse Roliskiewicz. 3. Cathy Levan Over 21 years old- 1. Deidra Sinon 2. Kenianne Ranck. 3. Gwen Wagner. Stainless Steel # |r Flower Bed edging^ 7*o 7" x 10 ft. Sections f $3.50/section ( Can be Shipped UPS ) Glenwood Metals, LLC 265 €. Meadow Valley fid ~ Lititz.Pfl 17543 717-626-9674 Wm 800-804-0402 ALU BREED COMPETITION SUPREME CHAMPION FEMALE Heather Hoffman SUPREME CHAMPION BULL Durham Valley Farm SUPREME CHAMPION COW/CALF Shelby Lynn Rarick SHOWMANSHIP t-^x] 3 i ss - - -- 3 *mrn ' 3 3 •: - Back To School, Dads And Sports When I asked one of the men in my office what he thought of when I mentioned “back to school,” he immediately shouted “football!” He had played foot ball in high school and been an avid fan when his sons had played. While many of you may not have been high school jocks, sports have played a part in de fining who you are if you grew up in the U.S. Today, organized sports are bigger than ever. Your children will have the option of participat ing in some sort of sport almost from birth. For many families, “back to school” means after school practices and Saturdays and sometimes Sundays at the fields. If you have multiple chil dren, it can require the skill of an air traffic controller to schedule transportation, observation time and food issues revolving around these games. It can be downright exhausting! But it can also be fun. Dads play a pivotal role in de veloping a healthy attitude to ward sports. With the obesity epi demic that has surfaced even among America’s children, no ' one can deny that sports are an excellent way to schedule physi cal activity into a day. Of course, no one has to play on two soccer teams a week to be fit. Dads have traditionally been the ones to en courage children to practice sports skills between games, toss ing balls in the back yard, or shooting hoops. Little children love this inter action with their fathers. If or ganized sports are not your thing, activities such as hiking or biking can also be family activities. Participation in sports has the potential to be a negative experi ence, depending on the atmos- 5 Notes To Dad by Fran Alloway Family Living Educator Delaware County phere of the program and pres sure felt by the child. My coworker expressed the concern that fathers can try to relive their own experiences through their children, putting pressure on the child to excel. A child who is ex posed to repeated failures and who receives criticism without useful feedback is unlikely to thrive in a sport. As children grow up, their relationship with their dads will change the role of the parent in sports. During the preschool and ele mentary years, helping children develop basic skills such as run ning, jumping, kicking, and throwing is important. Sports should be focused on “coopera tive” games involving every team member. The emphasis should be on fun, not competition. I re member the T-ball games where every player got on base and the score didn’t matter. As children grow, dads should continue to guide their children toward greater skill achievement through encouragement to prac tice skills or being a positive rple model, some participating in sports themselves. Some dads even take on coaching. Parental involvement usually decreases in adolescence as children move onto school teams and a desire to be with their Mends. Parents can still be supportive by attending sporting events and giving posi tive encouragement. According to Daniel Perkins, professor of family/youth resilien cy and policy at Penn State Uni versity, the primary goals of youth sports are to foster the de velopment of general physical competence and to promote physical activity, fun, life skills, sportsmanship, and good health. Find some time in “back to school” to keep active with your kids. Dads, don’t let the “soccer moms” have all the fim!