Extension Agent II Cathy Guffey v. Tis The Season For Buying Toys It’s toy-buying time again! Millions of parents, relatives, and friends will purchase mil lions of dollars worth of toys. In a few weeks these toys will be in the hands of the nation’s young. Some of the toys won’t stay in their hands for long. Others will become favorites and be used for years. At this time of year it is inter esting to ask why some toys are big hits and others seem to be big losers. There are two reasons. Part of the answer lies within the child since each child is a unique person, with his own likes, dis likes, interests and abilities. It is very important to consider where the child is in his develop ment and where he is likely to be in the very near future. For ex ample one father gave his two year-old daughter a very compli cated doll. The little girl com pletely disregarded the doll once it was opened and held “once” on Christmas morning. A more appropriate gift might have been a stuffed doll that did not eat A PENNSYLVANIA CHRISTMAS and GIFT SHOW 1 7th Annual Nov. 29-Dec. 3, 2000 • PA FARM SHOW COMPLEX E o .. o CO 5 Bi «j W ■9 ro i E k. 3 O k. o (0 Q. 5 Indoor Acres of Shopping & Entertainment Plus a Special Christmas Display from The National Christmas Center CHRISTMAS SHOP at the largest holiday hall in the coun- ODORS Wed.. NOV. 29. 2000 at: try—over 500 specialty shoppes selling a wide array of exclu- A , sive, unique gifts for family and friends. You’ll be pleased with P** SHOW Com|NOX the quality, vanety and range of reasonable paces ($2 to 2301 North Comoron Stroot $700). Grits for sale include: arts & crafts, jewelry, clothing, Harrisburg, Ponnsyhrania Christmas ornaments, toys, household accents, ceramics, H M furniture, dolls, flowers, paintings and much, much more. 1 _ ' Telephone: 717-233-5100 YQiILL BF DATES: ,■ during your shopping expon ents. Take a 30-minute break to enjoy a professional ice show. On Saturday and Sunday, you’ll see our performing dance troupe Or, enjoy listening to our choral and musical groups. See a 110-foot tram display, 40 decorated trees, and holiday displays. Plus cooking clinics and Olde Christmas Village with its 19 life-size buildings and quaint tents. GETTING HUNGRY from all this activity’ There is a 600- seat cafeteria serving hot meals all day, and you'll find 8 con cession areas to serve you. ONE ADMISSION PRICE COVERS ALL EVENTS. The entire show is inside and under one roof, and there is FREE PARKING in our 5,000-car parking lot. and wet. Another family decided to buy a small indoor slide for their four-year-old son. Again, the boy was not at all interested in this rather expensive gift. The reason was simple the past summer the boy had mastered the large slide at the park. The small slide would have been just right for an 18-month-old or even a 2‘/2-year-old, but not a 4-year-old. The idea of matching the toy or gift with the child’s level of development is often overlooked because a parent may in fact buy the toy on impulse or buy it because he or she thinks the toy is cute. Any toy should offer some challenge to the child but not be so advanced that it will take many months for the child to grow into it. Before deciding on a toy it is helpful to sit back and watch what the child does in his play. Does he like to play make-believe using people and cars? Does she enjoy doing more quiet activities? Is she ready for a simple board game? Does a wheel toy fascinate him? Is she able to throw a ball? Can she read? Does he have books of his own? What you see your child doing should give you some hints about what kind of toys to buy. Many catalogs and toy pack ages have suggested ages stated. Keep in mind that these are in tended only as a guide. Each par ent must choose the toy that is suited to his/her child. Catalogs can be helpful be cause they are filled with ideas. Look through them and when a toy looks like a good one for your child, think about the above questions. Catalogs also give the parent a chance to make a list before hitting the store. The other part of the original question about why some toys are big hits and others are real losers lies in the toys themselves. Any toy should be safe for the child who receives it. It is unfair and unwise to give a toy to a child that requires an adult to be present for it to be used safely. It is also unfair to give a young child a toy that requires an adult to make it work. For example, there are board games on the market that require an adult to constantly be involved in playing them so that they do not fall apart. Look for board games in tended for young children that are simple in their design. There should be few, if any, complicat ed parts. The child should not only be able to play the game, but also even set it up and put it away. Any good toy is well con structed and is constructed in such a way that it will withstand Wednesday, November 29 to Sundey, December 3, 2000 SHOW HOURS: 10 am to 9 pm - Wednesday, Thursday A Friday 9 am to 9 pm - Saturday 10 am to 6 pm - Sunday ADMISSION: $6.00 General Admission I $4.00 Senior Citizens (over 62) ' $3.00 After 5 pm for Everyone (ni (children under 12 FREE with pai many months of hard child play. Look for flaws in the toy. Will certain parts easily come off or break? If it is made of plastic, does it appear to be strong enough to last? Are their lots of small parts that are likely to be lost? Be careful buying fad toys or toys that are pushed hard on television. A few of these nation ally advertised toys are worth while, but many are not. Televi sion can make a toy appear to do much more than it can really do. One example is the annual pitch for cars or dolls that seem to be able to do amazing stunts. TV close-ups can be deceiving. When your child gets the “super TV” car or doll, he may be very disappointed because it won’t do what he thought it would do. Another thing to con sider in buying toys that are part of a TV ad is that the toy is likely to pass rather quickly. We have seen this happen in recent years with toys that capitalized on the stars of movies and television programs. These toys cost much more, too. The business of buying toys for children is one that takes a good deal of thought and planning. Begin early and make wise selec tions. And by all means don’t overload the child with toys. A few well-planned and thought fully chosen toys are far better than a grocery store basket full, many of which could end up gathering dust in the basement on January 1! Toy Suggestions For children under 2 years; • sturdy rattles /sljH It f t \ \ ** V t \v-* V s , V* I^4 trA* i o discounts sfter S pm) i rsnt) Lancaster Farming, Saturday, November 25, 2000-B7 brightly colored objects • rubber or wash able squeak toys • stuffed dolls and an imals • large, soft, colored balls • blocks with round- Hershey MmeumOpens Annual Christkindlmarkt Dec . 1-3 HERSHEY (Dauphin Co.) Join the Hershey Museum in kicking off the season in true German style with Christkindlmarkt weekend, as the mu seum is transformed into a traditional German Christmas market. Hours are Friday, Dec. 1, 11 a.m.- 5 p.m. and Saturday and Sunday, Dec. 2 and 3, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Museum regular admission is charged for ac cess to all of the events and crafts. More than 40 handcraft vendors are participat ing this year. All vendors at the Hershey Museum Christkindlmarkt are carefully chosen from a wide range of applicants. Saturday, Dec. 2, is Bel snickle Day. Watch this traditional Pennsylvania German un-Santa-like Christmas character make up his list of naughty children to visit on Christ mas Eve, with special performances at 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. The museum is closed Christmas, and New Year’s Day. Museum admission is $6 adults, $5.50 seniors 62+, $3 children 3-15, children under 3 are free. For more information, call (717) 534-3439, or visit our web site at www.hershey- ed comers • push and pull toys Children 2 to 3 years: • sand box with bucket, shovel and spoon • large peg boards • wooden animals • cars and wagons to push • tip-proof kiddie cars and tri cycles • large crayons • low rocking horses • small chairs and tables Children 3 to 4 years; • small brooms and carpet sweepers • toy telephones • dolls with simple wrap around clothing • doll buggies and furniture • dishes • miniature garden tools • trucks and tractors • non-electric trains • drums • costume clothes • building blocks Creativity in a child be gins at about age 4. To en courage creativity select toys such as the following: blackboards and dustless chalk • simple construction sets • paints and paint books • doll houses and furniture • small sports equipment • skipping rope • wash tubs and boards • paper doll sets with blunt end scissors • costumes • modeling clay Children 6 to 8 years: • sleds • roller skates • approved electrical toys • playground equipment • items for playing store, bank or gas station • puzzles and games Children 8 years and older; • hobby materials • arts and crafts • photography • coin and stamp collections • puppets • musical instruments • gym and sports equipment • bicycles • science sets museum.org. Visit our (ntiifue.s Genten advertising on line! ’.lancastei ww