84-Lancaster Fanning, Saturday, July 29, 2000 Emily Living Focus Nancy E. Wallace Westmoreland Co. Extension j Today childcare and the na tion's economy go hand in hand. More than 13 million married or single women are in the work force. Childcare is the challenge of today’s family. Many parents fear that a child will relate more to a caregiver than to a parent. From infancy, a child needs warm consistent care. Researchers report the im portance of a good fit between parent or caregiver and child or infant. Good news for worrisome par ents. Research notes that infants, from a very young age, are cap able of becoming attached to more than one person. However, they do develop an order of pref erence. So, what does this mean? Warm, consistent care is key. Childcare can be a good experi ence. Good care by parents and caregivers is essential. Good child day care requires three components. First, a care giver must provide care and guidance to the children. The caregiver must be willing to work with the parents. The goal is to ensure the child will grow and learn in a warm, secure environ ment. A good caregiver is well trained. Being an experienced “Mom” or “Dad” is good train ing. Maker certain the caregiver likes children. Even though the caregiver is in business , caring for children is not “just a job” Caregivers need to know child develop ment. Knowledge of developmentaily ap propriate behavior and normal growth pat terns is essential. Care givers should under stand what children can and want to do at different stages of growth. Parents should be assured that the caregiver knows that each child is unique and special. Talk with the caregiv er about behavior is sues. Are the caregiver’s child rearing attitudes similar to the parents? Are the family’s cul tural values respected? A young child needs caregivers who re spond in a consistent manner. Infants need to know that when they cry, they will be held and cuddled. Interaction with the child from the earliest age is critical. Check and see if the caregiver reads, talks and sings to the children. Com munication skills begin with infancy. It is the basis of learning and social development in later years. Parents need to know the ratio of care gi\ers to children and infants. Ask if the caregiver is licensed or registered. If so, the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania places restrictions on the ratio of caregivers to children. A child needs individual attention from a care giver. If too many children are “in care,” each child will not have a chance for someone to lis ten to them, be read a story, or sing a song. Second, is the setting suitable? The facility must be safe and healthy. Is the facility clean and comfortable? Ask yourself: “If you were a child, would you want to stay here?” The equip ment and supplies toys, games, and furniture should be in good condition. Toys should en courage physical, social, and cog nitive development of the child. Is there enough space indoors and out so all the children can move safely and freely? Watch ing television or videos, even ed ucational ones, is becoming a prime activity for the children. From the earliest years, children need to be engaged in activities. Ask if the caregiver has the children on a routine. Most chil dren feel more secure with even minimal routine or schedule. However, if the schedule is vastly different from the schedule at home, the child can become very confused. Children thrive on consistency. Finally, what will day care cost you? Day care costs vary de pending on the type of care, the days of care and the hours of care. Most caregivers ask the Morton Buildings Farm/Sh > V * BOO-447-7436 MORTON BUILDINGS PO Box m Moilon, IL 61550 www moilonbuildings com ©1999 Moilon Buildings, Inc WV Contiactoi's License #WVOO7B4B Lebanon County 4-H board members Maxine Maser and Jack Ferry preview items that will go up for bid on Thursday, Aug. 3, during the Lebanon County 4-H Benefit Auc tion at the Lebanon Fairgrounds, Cornwall and Rocherty Roads, Lebanon. The board hopes to raise $4,000 to fund costs of educational materials, activity fees, transporta tion, and awards. To donate items or for more information, call (717) 270-4391 be- parents to sign a contract. While caregivers may love your child, they are in business. Signing a contract is good business for all parties. A contract tells parents what they can expect from the caregiver and the facility. Poli cies are stated. Parents know their obligations. Ask about paying for days your child is sick. What happens if you are late picking up the child? Expect a fee for care after regular hours. ' Deciding on a day care pro gram is a challenge. Visit a vari ety of programs. Talk with care giver and parents. Take your child along. The caregiver, the facility and the health and safety of the child are the key elements. Select a program in which both you and your child will be com fortable. < ?< * % ./T (4 '* „ , f ' 'Si */* < i _" r " 1 *_ ’ “V «■! tpi, *1 *» w v II Barbecue Benefit Aug. 3 LEBANON (Lebanon Co.) Food, fun, horses, and support ing a worthy cause all this is possible at the Sixth Annual Chicken Barbecue to benefit the Four Diamonds Fund for chil dren with cancer. Sponsored by the Eastern Ara bian Horse Show/East Coast Championships and Country Fair, the barbecue will be Aug. 3 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Quentin Riding Club, just three miles south of Lebanon on Rt. 72. The meal includes half a chicken, baked potato, com on the cob, pepper cabbage, roll and ... Efficient In Ev. Gettysburg, PA 717-624-3331 Mt. 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