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Having an experience like this may come back to her when she's thinking about house warming parties and filling her first home with furniture. Allowing children to experience discomfort in small doses may keep them from very painful financial experiences later on. Parents should discuss what items a child should be finan cially responsible for. It is rea sonable to expect a child who receives an allowance to pay for his refreshments at the movies or at the Little League game. A teen who spends a lot of time "on-line" should be asked to pay a portion of the computer bill (maybe the amount due above 'conn closeout Brack Oak & Veneer Doors »ge • VCR Storage Doors the base charge). This spring as you discuss vacation options, include your children. Set a dollar amount that can be spent. Write down a budget and see how each of the options fits into the plan. This is a valuable planning experience for the child. And if you have never planned for expenses before leaving on a trip, you'll benefit, too. One tool I encourage all fam ilies to use is the "wishing jar." This is used when a person real ly wants an item and has the money for it. Write the item and today's date on a slip of paper and place it in the jar. Wait for 30 days to pass. If the item is still what the person wants most to spend his money on, then con sider purchasing the item. With children, often the item has changed. If it has, write the new item down, and start the process again. This is a way to fight against the trend toward imme diate gratification. Being able to wait is a valuable quality. One caution I would give par ents of older children is to avoid Gum Tree 4-H will be having its 26 th fundraiser horse show on Sunday, April 19, at KA Equestrian Center, Cochran ville. This is the only fund raising activity for this 4-H Club. 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And (as often occurs) if they get into credit trouble, they need to deal with the co sequences, even if it means starting out their adult life with a blemish on their cred it record or being denied a loan because of poor management. Let them learn now. I think Sarah Kornfield, age 10 from Dallas, summed it up well. When asked, "What are the most important things you have learned about money and investing?" she responded, "First, I know to save money for the things I really want. Second, stocks are a better investment than banks. Third, I should not spend all my money on myself but should be willing to give some away. Last, but not least, money doesn't grow on trees - I need a good job!" Obviously, some adults were taking their job of teaching seri ously. Take time to do the same. will be Hunter, Western, and Saddle Seat classes. 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