Make Each Anniversary Count Although in the 1990 s April and October have become popular wedding months, June is still a favorite time for couples to exchange vows. This means that June is also a time when many cou ples celebrate anniversaries. Most couples are married fewer than SO years. Consequently, it’s important to make each of these SO celebrations count And consider ing the current divorce rate—l.l million divorces annually—each of us who is happily married cer tainly has reason to celebrate. Dr. Thomas Lee, Utah State University, says, “Many couples will not have all of the (marriage success) factors in their favor and will still have successful mar riages. Some with the odds in their favor will fail nevertheless. Part of the difference lies in the extent to which couples take care of their marriage.” One way to take care of your marriage is to make your anniver sary celebration a special, person alized one. This past year my hus band and 1 really enjoyed our anniversary. I sent him on a “trea sure hunt” to spots around the community that held significance to us as a couple—the place of our first date, where he proposed to me, etc. We ended the evening with a gourmet dinner at home. I had a lot of fun reminiscing as I planned it, and fortunately, he had fun during the evening activities. Each year we also restate our vows to one another. To me, they get more meaningful each time we say them because we think back on the joys and sorrows that we have shared during the year. If you’re looking for a way to make this year’s anniversary spe POURED SOLID CONCRETE SYSTEMS 17 Years Experience In Pouring Concrete Manure Pits! 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What not so-positive things happened that you can leant from? • Arrange to take your anniver sary day off from work. Isn’t it as important as any national or state holiday? • Together do something entire ly new and different. Why wait until mid-life or retirement to do something crazy? Create a mem ory today. Research reveals that couples who talk with each other often, are sensitive to each other’s feelings, and use non-verbal communica tion will tend to maintain strong, satisfying marriages. Your anniversary is a great time to rein force some of these habits. And the exciting thing about taking time to celebrate your mar riage and keep it strong is that you set a wonderful example for the children in your home. Studies show that if a couple’s parents are J I 11 Take the questions out of your new construction. Call Balmer Bros, for quality engineered walls. 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The award, sponsored nation wide by Dekalb Genetics Cor poration, is presented to the out standing senior agriculture student happily married, the younger cou ple is more likely to be happily married and less likely to divorce. By taking care of your marriage, you’re giving a gift to your spouse AND your children. CONCRETE PUMPING SERVICE AVAILABLE M'.* Jt- o'i *- \ demonstrating superior scholar ship, leader and supervised agri cultural program. Dan was graduated from Juni ata High School, where he served as vice president and secretary of the FFA chapter. He has received the Star Greenhand, Star Chapter, Keystone degrees. His agricultural program con sists of registered Holsteins and grain drying. Following gradua tion, Dan plans to be the owner/ operator of a custom grain drying business. 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