/ Farm Brides B Because Jaylene and John are both from farm families and will continue with agricultural careers, they wanted their wedding to reflect their love for farm life. Wedding With A Country Flair LOU ANN GOOD Lancaster Farmiffg Staff BELLEVILLE (Mifflin Co.) May 28 started out like any other day on the farm for Jaylene Yoder. About 3 a.m., she went to the bam and pulled a calf. But at 11 a.m., she was dressed in her satiny best and stood before the church altar to exchange vows with John Hess, a farmer from Gettysburg. The couple had met at Penn Slate, where both were pursuing agriculture degrees. When plan ning their wedding, it seem appro priate to give it their own personal stamp of individuality—their love for country living. The setting, attire, food, and entertainment expressed the couple’s affinity for country. The groom, best man, and ushers wore jeans and cowboy bools with a bolo uc and tuxedo jacket, which they shed at the recepuon and donned cowboy hats. The bridesmaids wore floral print dresses and flowers in their hair. The matron of honor worn the same style dress as the bridesmaids but was distinquishable with a straw hat decorated with wildflowcrs. “For the bridesmaids, I chose An Amish neighbor allowed Jaylene Yoder and John ness to borrow his white top buggy to drive down the farm lane where the reception was held on the Yoder's farm. dresses that could be worn for other occasions because 1 have seven expensive gowns from being a bridesmaid in other weddings that 1 will never wear again,” Jay lene said. The bride herself chose a stylish white satin mermaid gown. She did her hair in an upswept style and wore a fashionable hat with an detachable veil. After the ceremony that was held at Locust Grove Mennonite Church, the bridal party climbed into a manure spreader a new one to go to the Yoders’ farm for the reception. About one mile from the farm, the couple switched modes of transportation and climbed into an Amish white lop buggy for a carriage ride down the farm lane. A large tent was erected on the farm to hold about 300 guests. It’s not surprising that Jaylene, a former Mifflin County dairy prin cess, promoted the dairy industry at her wedding. An ice cream punch and a soup appetizer was served. The bean soup was cooked in a large cast iron kettle. Ham, beef, and chicken was made over an open pit barbecue. Guests could help themselves to the ice cream sundae bar. The wed ding cake was decorated with las- The bridal party left the church in a manure spreader a new one fortunately A large tent was erected on the farm for eating and country dancing. The wedding attire of the bridal party reflected the country theme with the guys wearing blue jeans, bolo ties, cowboy hats and boots; the bridesmaids wore floral print dresses—chosen for the versatilty of wearing them for other occasions. sos, cowboy hais, and flowers. Table centerpieces were wild flowers, which the bride and her family picked. Additional wild flowers were purchased. Preference was given to guests who were dairy farmers. The announcement was made; “Farmers gel to eat first.” This announcement stemmed from the experience of knowing how difficult it was to finish eating in time for farmers to return home to begin evening chores. Following the meal, tables and chairs were folded up and the bri dal part led guests in country danc ing on the wooden platform floor. It did not lake long, for the father of the bride, J. Loren Yoder, to shed his suit for a T-shirt with the message: Dairy farmers arc uddcrly remarkable. With balloons streaming behind them, children ran through the fields. Some guests relaxed on rocking chairs on the porch or JComestead Jfotes relaxed on swings underneath the large trees. The Yoders said that they incor porated as much help as possible from friends and family members. A former exchange student from Germany and his wife arrived a day early to arrange a rope of fresh pine and flowers to surround the doorway and to arrange the wildflowcrs. Guests were from Norway, Ger many, Canada, and numerous slates. Aflcra wedding trip to the Poco nos, the couple will live on the Hess family farm, where John will help his parents-, John and Bonnie Hess, farm about 1,200 acres and milk 240 Holstcins. Jaylcnc is employed as a scout technician for Agway. Jaylcne, the 1988-1989 Mifflin County Dairy Princess, is the daughter of J. Loren and Wanda Yoder, who farm 125 acres in Bel leville and milk 60 cows. Lancaster Farming, Saturday, June 18, 1994-B3 The nice thing about hav* ing a wedding on the farm is the ability for the bride’s father to dress in his favorite attire blue jeans and a T shirt with the message: Dairy farmers are udderly remarkable.