B2»Lanc«Bter Farming, Saturday. January 29, 1994 Spotligh Mother’s LOU ANN GOOD Lancaster Farming Staff HALIFAX (Dauphin Co.) Ruth Ann Miller is spending anxi ous hours around her two-year-old grandson’s bed in Philadelphia Children’s Hospital. In August, the toddler started running a fever. At first, the doc tors suspected appendicitis but some symptoms puzzled them. By the time the doctors did explorat ory surgery, the toddler’s stomach was so swollen they couldn’toper ale on the tuhnor they found attached to several vital organs. “He was so swollen, he looked like a malnourished child from a third-world country,” Ruth Ann said. Since then, doctors have oper ated and started radiation treat ment. A bone marrow transplant is scheduled, and the toddler will need to remain in hospital isolation for two months to rebuild good cells and to strengthen his immune system. The prognosis is better than before, and the family is eagerly hoping for full recovery. In the meantime, family mem bers frequently travel the 2'A hours to the hospital and take turns stay ing overnight. “He is never alone. A family member is with him at all times,” Ruth Ann said. “The ordeal drew our family closer together. We are all suppor tive of one another,” Ruth Ann said. It is not the first crisis the family faced. Ruth Ann’s husband died about 12 years ago. “We lived on a farm. I wanted to keep it and I did for 1 'A years after his death, but it was too expensive to pay help so 1 sold it,” she said. Ruth Ann misses the dairy farm. “I miss being outside and work ing with the animals. It required long hours but it was very reward ing. I wish I could go back to that,” she said. Instead, Ruth Ann needs to be content with her cow collection, which includes ones made from isman Cambria Co. Farm Wbmen president t On Farm Women Around The State Work Is Never Done ceramic, cloth, wood, and even two from cement that she estimates weight 500 pounds and are kept in Iter yard. Most of her cow collection are gifts from her five adult children and 10 grandchildren. Soon after Ruth Ann moved off the farm, she began work at Poly clinic Medical Center as nursing assistant. She is active in Society 10 of Dauphin County Farm Women and is now president of the coun ty’s 14 societies and its 256 members, Ruth Ann first became a Farm Women member about 25 years ago, but dropped out for several years when the children were small. Ten years ago she rejoined with the cncouragment of her mother Edna Snyder, who is a charter member and still active. “Our Group 10 had 32 members and now it’s 25. It’s hard to.rccniit young people and 1 think that is Ruth A. Miller Dauphin Co. Farm Women president cause for concern. I’ve been a farm girl all my life and enjoy it and I think others should join to pass on the traits,” she said. She said her society helps those in need, provides fruit baskets, gives donations, and entertains the elderly. “We are always looking for money making projects,” she said. The group operates lunch stands at public sales, panics, and soup sales, and holds white elephant sales to raise funds. Ruth Ann attends St. Paul’s Lutheran Church where she is on the church council and is the Sun shine lady for her class. She espe cially likes to help with the Bcthes da Mission, a home for the home less. This past Christmas, her class supplied gifts for 60 men and 24 teen-agers. Crafts, sewing, and baby sitting the grandkids are other favorite activities for Ruth Ann who said that she likes to keep busy. LOU ANN GOOD Lancaster Farming Staff EBENSBURG (Cambria Co.) When Mary Rossman was growing up, she adored her older brother who was bright, responsi ble, and perfect at least from Mary’s point of view. “I was dyslexic and irresponsi ble. I needed to make a place for myself," Mary said. So she developed a keen sense of humor that endeared her to her family and keeps people laughing until this day. “Bashful Mary,” as she is referred to by members of the state Farm Women’s organization, is far from shy. Outgoing, witty, and imaginative, Maty bubbles with ideas to make people laygh instead of cry. As a three-year-old, Mary was taught to recite poetry, songs, and stories by rote, and play accordian. “My mother was determined to have me make public appear ances,” Mary said. Mary became so adept at enter taining that she decided io study theater in college> That idea appalled her parents, who threatened not to pay for her college education. LOU ANN GOOD Lancaster Farming Staff DILLSBURG (York Co.) Angels are watchin’ over you when you visit Carolyn Neal on her Dillsburg farm. * Carolyn collects angels and dis plays them yefi- ardund in a coun try setting. She admits to not being able to pass up a craft show in search of one more unique angel. She estimates that she attends at least one craft show a week. Carolyn’s angels are fashioned from paper, crochet thread, wood, and other materials. She even has a few cow angels with Holstein bodies and angel wings. Carolyn has one requirement for herangels: they must have either blond or red Bashful Mary Isn’t Shy “My father was very strict, but I always knew I was loved,” said Mary who discarded her theater studies to become a teacher and librarian. While in college, she participated in the forensic club, and placed second in western Pen nsylvania in the oratory declama tion contest. This victory was made more distinquished since Mary was the only female compet ing against the 12 male finalists. Mary married Richard Ross man, a forester, and the couple has five adult children and four grandchildren. Twenty years ago the Rossmans purchased a small farm in Ebens burg. Of that purchase, Mary said. 9i (omesfpad * Carolyn Neal York County Farm Women president Angels Watchin’ Over You tA/o(es hair, representive of her two daughters, one is 25 and the other 7 years old. Carolyn’s favorite angel is one given to her from her oldest daughter. The angel is made from mauve country rose paper twist. The angel holds tiny candles and wears a grapevine wreath for a halo. For 28 years, Carolyn has work ed full time for Mellon Bank where she is now an operations supervisor. To help balance her personal and professional life, Carolyn finds stability in being a Farm Women member. (Turn to Page B 3) “We’ve been happy as clams ever since.” The Rossmans raise beef cattle, but “its mostly play,” Mary said of her melange of chickens, geese, two sheep named Esperaldo and Rambo, and a goat. “I can’t get along without a lab retriever in the house,” Mary said of her lab Katy. Mary taught herself to dye, weave, spin, and card wool. After she accomplished those skills, she sold her wool producing sheep to concentrate on other activities. After the Rossmans moved on the farm, Mary was .invited to join the Farm Women organization. “Farm women are special peo- (Turn to Pago B 3)