84-Unc«Bter Farming, Saturday, Novambar 27, 1993 by Rebecca Escort Extension Home Economist Visit To Remember The holidays are popular times to make visits to nursing homes or hospitals. These visits are often a resident’s lifetime to the rest of the world. But for the visitor, they may not always be easy. Sometimes conversations are Problem Water? Odor? Bad Taste? Stains? Iron? Manganese? Mineral Buildup? Color? Bacteria? Virus? Harmful Micro-organisms? Hydrogen Sulfide? THM Precursors? Other Contaminants? Do You Have Any Problems With: * Scours ja * Digestion * Mastitis : letter Si2e . * Too Much Medication m J| * Milk Production Y ' * Poor Feed Efficiency * Algae in Drinking Cups t/fj * Bad Conception Rate « Could Water Be Your Problem? 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Just by browsing through articles together, you can connect your friend to the community and also spark some interesting discus sions. Be sure to allow lots of pauses. By waiting silently, you encourage your friend to join in the conservation. Asking a resident for specific directions to complete a task is another way to start a conversa tion. Did this person make an absolutely delicious dessert? Did he refinish furniture? or garden? Think of a task that you’d like to perfect and ask your friend how she would do it One of the best techniques for generating good dialogue is to ask open-ended questions—ones that begin with “How,” “What," “Why”, “When,” “Where.” These questions cannot be answered with a simple “yes” or “now.” They demand a more detailed response. When you make your next visit, why not try one of these conversation starters: How did AGCO ALLIS 6600 SERIES TRACTORS SEE YOUR DEALER TODAY! MANOR MOTORS On Rte. 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HERNLEY'S FARM EQUIP., INC. Elizabethtown, Pa. 717-367-6867 you spend the holidays when you were young? Who is the most unusual person you ever met? What’s one of your funniest memories from your courting days? How did you earn your first dollar, and what did it buy? These are great ways to lead a person into a wonderful time of reminiscing and sharing. By ask ing an open-ended question, you take the focus off yourself and give the limelight to the person you’ve visiting. Over my times of visiting, I have discovered my favorite two conversation starters. They both require a lot of thought. The first is “What is one of the hardest decisions you ever had to make?” and the other is “What is the most beautiful think you know?" During the past few weeks, I’ve been asking people I see “What’s the most beautiful think you know?” Here are some of the “beautiful they mentioned: clear, moonlit night a red sunset on the high, windy plains of eastern New Mexico. “when Max or Rachel ask where I am and want to talk speci fically just to me” OPERATOR A. I AQCOI Furthe way you farm today SANDY LAKE IMPLEMENT B.H.M. FARM EQUIP., Sandy Lake, Pa. INC. 412-375-2489 AnnvlHe, Pa. 717-867-2211 NICHOLS FARM EQUIP. Bloomaburg, Pa. 717-714-7731 B. EQUIP., INC. 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