by ffebecco Escott Extension Home Economist “Honesty is the Best Policy!” It’s late! My column should have been in today’s mail and I’m still writing it I had work assign ments out of town the last two days and J just rushed to my desk to do the necessities. So...my game plan was to write a piece about how to get kids to eat veget ables. That topic may have to wait because I’ve decided honesty is the best policy. Right now my husband and I are juggling a few things prob ably fewer than many of you but for us they matter. In addition to two crazy work schedules, we’re balancing softball, church, two graduate classes, a new gar den, garage door contractors, rou tine bill paying, home repairs (how do you get rid of carpenter ants), visits to family, weddings, showers, and sundry notewriting and gift-buying tasks. Sound familiar? What is it about our society that encourages such crazy schedules? Maybe I should ask what is it about my per sonality, too. Well, last night I made a choice. I stopped at the office after a long day out-of-town and worked for several hours. Instead of continuing to plug away at my rapidly accumulating desk work, I decided to keep my per spective and finally leave to do some family things. Two quick Far Left: 1 •Million Gallon Circular Manure Storage Tank Far Right: 2 Silage Pits In-Barn Manure Receiving Pit 300’ Long Manure Pit For Hog Confinement Invest in Quality - It will last a lifetime. All sizes available - round or rectangular errands and a softball game quick ly ate into my evening’s time. I did a lot of “that’s okay” self talk as I rationalized leaving the office. Bui die best thing I did last night was to purchase a copy of Stan and Jan Berenstain’s The Berenstain Bears and Too Much Pressure. I read it to myself. That’s when I decided the veget able article could wait Family specialists affirm that in order to be strong, families must spend time together. Parents can’t expect to come home and auto matically “connect” with their kids in the five free minutes in their day. Spouses can’t expect to be able to immediately engage the other’s attention. We need some buffers in our schedules. Time buffers allow us to unwind, to make transitions, and to warm-up to others before really locking in for a conversation or cooperating on a task. Recently all my buffers had dis appeared. In fact I was over scheduled and had conflicting time obligations. Am I the only one? If you’re juggling too many hats, try these ideas: 1. Ask each person in your fam ily to re-evaluate this week’s sche dule. What task is most important? What task can be deleted? 2. Before school ends, make a conscious decision about the num- Since 1972... POURED STORAGE SYSTEM The Original And The Largest SOLID Manure Storage For Hog Confinement Take the questions out of your new construction. Cal) Balmor Bros, for quality engineered walls. CONCRETE WORK, INC. SUN Area To Salute Dairy Industry SELINSGROVE (Susquehanna Co.) Boscov’s and the SUN Area Dairy promotion Committee will present the 19th annual Dairy Salute. The event will be held June 10.11,12 at the Susquehan na Valley Mall, Selinsgrove. The three-day event is filled with fun and excitement. On Thursday, June 10, K.J. Riemensnyder-Wagner, a local singer/songwriter will entertain on Boscov’s Mall Stage from 7-8 p.m. From 8-9 p.m., Kate Humbert, Penn State Extension Agent will present a dairy cooking show, ber of summertime activities and obligations. Identify two things (o simplify that schedule. Could you carpool and have one night free? 3. Decide to slow down enough to spend at least 30 minutes together as a family this week. Commit to a sit down meal, try porch sitting one evening or a pick-up game in the back yard. This may be a good time to read The Berenstain Bears and Too Much Pressure. I know a temporary change of pace will be very healthy. I’d like to say, “let me know how it goes” but then that’s one more thing for your To Do list Instead, just enjoy the opportunity to “take some time.” Ironically, I began this Taking Time column several years ago to encourage you to take time for the important things in life. This week I’m the one who needs to take time. Thanks for allowing me to be honest For those parents who are fuss ing with kids over carrots and peas, hang in there. The next col umn is for you! 92’ Boom Placing Concrete Dairy Does a Body Good! Friday evening at 6:00 p.m. a seven foot-tall giant ice cream sundae will be built on the mall stage. Turkey Hill Dairies of Con estoga, will furnish 13S gallons of ice cream. 10 gallons of chocolate sauce, 2S pounds of pecans and 5 gallons of cherries. The best part of this is, the public will be able to sample this yummy treat Saturday will be a very busy day. 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