82-Lancaster Fanning, Saturday, February 9, 1991 Pennsylvania Farm Women President Reveals LOU ANN GOOD Lancaster Farming Staff MOUNT JOY (Lancaster Co.) Newly elected Pennsylvania Farm Women President Arlene Witman loves to throw parties all kinds of parties. “For a successful party, plan ning is the main thing,” Arlene stresses, “although some spur of the moment parties turn out well.” Arlene is distressed that many families no longer entertain because they feel it is too difficult. She said, “You must cultivate entertaining. It’s an effort if you only do it once in a blue moon, but if you'entertain on a regular basis, it’s easy.” According to this seasoned par ty thrower, it isn’t necessary for guests to know each other. “In fact,” she said, “I prefer to invite those who don’t know each other. But I do have a good idea which personalities will hit it off together.” Although she throws numerous types of parties, Arlene most often invites 24 people at a time. She sets up three tables of eight in one of the main rooms of her rambling stone farmhouse. Usually, placards with a small number appear at each plate set ting. For the main course, husband and wife are seated together, but when dessert is served, all those who have even numbers listed on their placards must move to another table. ‘That way guests don’t sit with the same persons all evening, ahd they learn to know those they wouldn’t otherwise,” she said. Types of parties When Arlene throws a soup and salad supper she makes three soups This pepperonl and cabbage salad Is one of Arlene’s favorite dishes to serve guests. such as vegetable, clam chowder, and ham and bean. A whole table ful of salads such as chicken, broc coli, and spaghetti are served buf fet style. Soup is served in mugs for ease in carrying. She advises, “At a buffet dinner, never serve food that needs a knife. “If you can’t cut it with a fork, it’s too cumbersome to serve buffet style.” Brunch parties usually includes baked oatmeal and an egg and sausage casserole. Arlene believes the traditional breakfast is one of the hardest to serve since eggs must be served at exactly the right minute, but the egg and sausage casserole and the baked oatmeal makes breakfast a bree/c. An after church brunch often includes her version of Chicken Stol&fus which is creamed chick en over pie dough. “I take a basic recipe and just keep adding what-' ever I like,” she said. Arlene loves giving tea parties where she uses her very best china.. She said, “Often we forget to How To Throw A use the pretty things we have. I love to use my mother’s and my grandmother’s things. I’m sure that they would rather see me use them than have the dishes set in the cupboard.” Another reason Arlene enjoys using fine china is that “it makes others feel special.” For 15 years Arlene has worked part time at the Linen Hope Chest, which sells fine china and glass ware. Every year, Arlene buys something special. She has pur chased the Lenox Holly pattern that she enjoys using for Christmas entertainment. She admits, “My pet peeve is Styrofoam cups. It doesn’t take that much time to wash dishes and it yet using them is so much nicer.” Arlene picks up many fine things at public auctions. She is especially proud of purchasing a 14-place setting of while china for $2O. Arlene believes January and February are good months for par ties to beat the winter blahs. She is planning a winter picnic where she will use picnic tablecloths and serve picnic type foods. “That’s when I serve potato salad,” Arlene said. “I’m very con scious of what I serve in hot weath er because I had severe food poi soning when I was in nurse’s training.” Sometimes she has guests just for dessert. “It’s not the amount of food you serve. It’s more impor tant to get together and ha ve a good time,” she said. “As fpr myself, it’s a pleasure to be invited to someone’s house just to get a break from cooking. One of my favorite meals is a stew for winter dining;” Arlene said that she doesn’t feel that she needs to make the food from scratch. Since she works one day a week as a hostess at Country Table Restaurant in Mount Joy, she often buys items from the bakery. Every five years, the Wilmans hold a drop-in party for neighbors. For those, she usually has a relish tree, which is a Styrofoam cone turned upside down and covered with parsley to resemble a Christ mas tree. Carrot curls, pickles, olives and cheese chunks are stuck on the tree with toothpicks. Nuts and mints, cake, and Christmas novelty ice cream are served with coffee and spiced cider. Scattered throughout the house are bowls of popcorn, candy, and oranges for guests to enjoy. Occasionally, the Witmans serve meals in their basement. The ground cave is carved out of stone and has a brick floor. These din ners are reminiscent of early Christians fellowshipping in caves. “One year we served the Successful Party This room is large enough to seat three tables of eight. Arlene freezes a lot of her own games. A favorite with all ages is vegetables. She said, "It’s nice to an old game called “Chase the have some frozen onions, peppers, Rat-” and tomatoes on hand to use with Dinner with Little Red Riding Swiss steak or in casseroles. I Hood, the big bad wolf, and grand wouldn’t be without my own fro- mother dolls are another favorite zen com.” for children. These dolls are hand- Arlenc knows for parents to made and when turned upsid6 Easter dinner there and had a whole new appreciation for the dangers early Christians faced,” Arlene said. The Witmans’ beautiful stone house between Mount Joy and Eli zabethtown dates back to pre- Revolutionary days and was built by a fur trader with the Union army. Th? family has had, the farm for more than 100 years. Of the many fine antiques that have been handed down through the generations, Arlene said, “Each piece has a story connected with it.” This past year, a picture of the homestead appeared on a Christ mas card by Pennsylvania House, which sold about 2 million copies. When the Witmans hold parties for 24 people, Arlene arranges six different game sites. Guests play at each game for about IS minutes, then pull papers to find new part ners at another game. “That way guests can talk and play at the same time and they get to know a lot of different people. If they don’t like the game, they aren’t stuck there all night,” she said. Arlene uses originality when it comes to centerpieces. “Don’t be afraid to try something different. Use plants or stuffed animals or something as basic as a lazy Susan I have a marble one that I’ve been using for 25 years,” she said. For centerpieces, she uses something as simple as some Irish potatoes for March. On Thanks giving, she uses the turkey. In preparation for entertaining, GUIDELINES FOR SUCCESSFUL PARTIES • Keep food simple. • Don’t think everything must be spic and span. • Use what you have. You don’t need to use expensive china and crystal to entertain, but if you have use it—it makes guests feel spe cial. • Serve hot foods hot and cold foods cold. • Don’t feel obligated to make food from scratch. Baked goods such as a pumpkin roll purchased from a bakery is easy to serve and deli cious to taste. • Relate your food or centerpiece to the season. • Make the occasion special for Children. • Relax. Enjoy your guests. • Practice makes perfect The more parties you have, die easier it gets. Pennsylvania Farm Women President Arlene Wltman enjoys incorporating stuffed animals into her party theme. This bear Is representative of Arlene because It holds a gravel and wears a Farm Women pin. enjoy her parties, it is important that their children are enjoying them also. Children enjoy what slie dubbed the Boston Tea Party where she serves hot tea and s’mores at the fireplace. Then the children like to play board, marbles, and dice lm down, the grandmother doll turns into the big. bad wolf. Arlene packs the children a little lunch in a basket for them to carry to a nearby bench or coffee table where the dolls are placed. Arlene would like to see the younger generation carry on hospi tality. As a past4-H leader, Arlene led a party time club. “It was a neat club and -I’m proud that four of my members got to attend 4-H CJongress for foods,” she said. Some of the 4-H’ers most unique dishes were using a tomato that was turned upside down and sliced almost the whole way through. The tomato spread out like an accordion and egg salad was placed between the slices. Party loaf was another favorite. A loaf of unsliced bread was sliced horizonally several times and but toed. It was layered with chicken (Turn to Pag* B 3)