In Search Of A Homemade Holiday Have you caught yourself say ing, “Oh, if only the holidays could be as peaceful and uncom mercialized as they used to be...”? In these last few days before Christmas, too many of us are completely frazzled trying to cre ate a picture-perfect celebration complete with all the expensive trimmings while still fulfilling our normal responsibilities to family, farm, and employer. STOP. At this point, the thing you need to concentrate on is spending time with your family. Gather your family for a “pow-wow”. Talk about the things that are not yet done. What plans can be given up this year? What plans can be mod ified? What plans can wait until January (or at least until Decem ber 26 or 27)? What plans can be completed together? You may have to give up the idea of constructing that Wil liamsburg door decoration. You had intended to give each of your children a personalized gift, but you only have two completed. Give those this year, complete the others for next winter. Could you go to see Aunt Millie the first week in January? For older peo ple, the let down after the holidays may be severe. House guests are Fall and early winter lime application allows the limestone time to react and dives you the advantage of rich, balanced soil lor your planting. Ground lions during fall early winter also [p reduce soil taction and during 'eading. Hi-Caldum Hi-Magnesium Martin LIMESTONE coming for dessert, but the tree is not decorated. Could you, as a part of the evening’s festivities, invite each person to place three or four ornaments on the tree upon arrival? Almost every year my family hosts an open house for friends and neighbors. Because Mom has fewer hands to help with the pre parations, she has had to simplify the menu from year to year. The central event still occurs, but the non-essentials change according to the available resources. What simplifications can you make? Surprisingly, you may find yourself slaving over something, in the name of tradition, that means little to others. Wouldn’t it be better to rest or redirect your energy to a more valued effort? A way to combine family times with holiday tasks is to create a homemade holiday. With a “homemade holiday”, decora tions, meals, gifts, and entertain ment are created by the members of your family and your house guests. This allows a personalized touch. They will usually be less expensive, too. Families should strive for these reduced expenses because strained finances add ten sions and disappointments to the holidays. We tend to expect costly items to bring extraordinary satis faction. They frequently fail to It's the right time to apply lime meet such high expectations. Do you still have names to cross of your gift list? Consider putting together a coupon book for ser vices or outings an afternoon at the park together, a movie, a thea ter ticket, a sporting event, one closet clean-up, car washes, dog scrubbings. These act as lOU’s. Assess your resources. Do you have reusable containers, old calendars? How can you and the others in your family turn these into gifts for relatives? Fill tins, tubs, or tiny glass jars with home made goodies that your family makes together? Transform the calendars into handmade note cards. Add stamps and envelopes from a print shop for a college stu dent’s stationery set. Last week I was talking with a high school student who had little money. She was experiencing the uncomfortable pressure of trying to find inexpensive items for many friends. One suggestion a person like she could consider in future years is to pick names with in a group of friends. This reduces the financial strain on everyone involved. 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