r Self-Esteem Defined And Developed We hear so much about self-es teem and the importance it plays in our children’s lives. But just what does self-esteem mean and how does it develop in our chil dren? Self-esteem may be defined in many ways, but one very useful definition states that it is an in dividual’s feeling of self-worth. In other words, it’s the value we place on something. When applied to the child, it is the parents’ ap praisal of. the child. From the child’s perception, it is how one sees himself or herself. How then is the self-esteem de veloped? Many people and institu tions play a part in shaping the in dividual’s self-esteem. The school system is one place where chil dren’s self-esteem is shaped through its daily evaluation via grades, rules, and classes where children either get lost in the masses or find their niche and feel okay. Society-at-large also influ ences children’s perception of themselves. If a child is different somehow, either because of ethnic or racial minority, handicap, or in some other way different from the majority of society, they may learn from society; “You should be someone you’re not.” Of course parents, being closest to Lebanon Co. DHIA (Continued from Pago D 26) Thomas & Shirley Krall 20 3 3-11 71 3 4-10 Robert Martin Pamela Trix Kenneth Mase Crystal 3 7-10 Megan 3 4-2 Jamie 3 3-10 Donna 3 3-1 Phares Z Musser 89 3 7-4 7 3 5-0 88 3 4-8 77 3 4-3 Wefnerway Farms 129 W 3 3-9 Raymond & Marlin Getz Honey 3 4-1 3 5-2 3 3-6 their children, probably have the greatest influence which can be frightening! How we, as parents, respond to our children and what are our attitudes are the child’s primary source of feelings of self worth. At home it is important to promote self-esteem every day. It is not a process to be completed and finished. It is a style of life. 4.3 3.7 19,477 24,270 280 305 3.8 4.3 21,194 18,707 305 305 3.5 4.0 3.5 3.7 22,624 22,518 24,398 21,837 305 305 305 305 4.2 3.9 4.3 3.8 23,212 25,294 22,528 24,306 305 305 305 305 23,530 3.4 305 3.7 26,676 305 MAILBOX MARKET FOR SALE Estate Hetrola wood & coal stove, good cond. York Co. 717-292-6592. 5 sets of mobile home axles, spring brakes and tires, only 35 miles $2OO ea. 609-629-6596 1972 Bulck Electra 225 4 door sdn. 70,000 original garage kept, new tires $9OO. Lehigh Co. 215-285-2611 evenings & mornings. 8' truck cap, old refrigerator working cond., large chest freezer, not working. Schuylkill Co. 717-385-2693. NH 855 round baler, very good cond. $9OOO. Hun tingdon Co. 814-669-4634. Satoh tractor, 650 Q, 25 HP/Woods five foot belly mower $2OOO. MiHer wel der, 275 Perkins diesel $l4OO. Carroll Co. Md. 301-756-2369. 854 911 Pheasants, males $6.75, Females $5.75. 215-267-5012. 806 804 AKC Chow-Chow puppies, AKC Doberman female loves kids, gorgeous also Lhasa-apso female. Trum bull Co. Oh. 216-772-5242. 813 904 875 816 Ml 705 diesel unisystegi with 760 chopper, hay hd. 3RN com hd. high moisture throat, 729 shelter, 726 husker, 325 stripper hd. Engine needs work. Make offer. Lane. Co. 215-445-7805. 996 1006 980 940 819 2 acres perk approved, lovely country setting. Cypress trees, pin oak see dlings. Lane. Co. 717-738-2091. 988 Four Charleau heifers bred to longhorn bull, also 40 ft. transcraft drop frame trail er, good shape $7200. BucK* ,Co. 215-257-2377. Trailer 6V> 'xB' $75. AC Dl2 tractor. Sauders snowplow, tires like new, one owner $1995. 8 ft. cultipacker $195. NH 256 rake $ll5O. Nl 323 cornpicker, very good $l5OO. 717-354-0266. 3 section spring harrow, Ferguson ABO-21 24 disc harrow $55. Victorian wick er baby carnage, ex. cond. w/parasol. $l2OO. Lane. Co. 717-653-7274 Old logs from a two story house, can be seen any time. Make an offer. Lane. Co 717-354-8507 30 HP Oliver crawler loader in very good condition, good for light industrial or farm work. Lane Co. 717-738-2573 7 foot truck cap $lOO. Push-bar $25, roll bar $5O for full-size pickup 2 Read ing truck tool boxes $lOO each. Dauphin Co. 717-533-7051 You’re Invited . . . To Our OPEN HOUSE 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. TUBS., FEB. 20! DOOR PRIZES - REFRESHMENTS - DISCOUNTS MOVIES AT 11:00 A.M. mmmmEA FEBRUARY 12 to 28 10% OFF 15% OFF PARTS PURCHASES SELECTED OVER $5O PLOW PARTS • Cash & Cany - Current Accounts Only MILLER EQUIPMENT Stauffer Road, Eshbach R.D. 1, Bechtelsville, PA Phone (215) 845-2911 unemtr Fanning Saturday, February 10.19904)27 App. geld. reg. 2 yr. 14+h beautiful color, very gentle, must sell. North Co. 215-252-3812. Cook stove with Warrrtjng oven, four foot wide, six lids, ex. cond. Wayne Co. 717-488-5181. JDI4T baler, good working cond. $4OO. Ruger .357 magnum revolver, 6 shot 7’4" barrel, never fired $3OO. Lane. Co. 717-285-5248. Minneapolis Moline Model R parts tractor or restore free. Call 215-847-5482 after 5 pm. Ottsville, Pa Bucks Co. Kennebec potatoes $4 00 a basket. We have about 20 bushel, anybody need some. Levi I. Huyard, 534 S. Kinzer Ave., New Hol land, PA 17557. 1977 Covette white with blue interior, auto, mint cond. $12,000 Northamp ton. 215-588-3797 evenings. 1940 Brockway, parts or restore $5OO. Also parts from Chevy CBO tandem rears 4 & 5 speed transmis sions, etc 717-458-5959 Onatrio 14x8 grain drill, hoe type on high rubber, fert. & grass seed, good cond. $5OO. Lehigh Co. 215-787-2049. IH 8414 with 2000 loader industrial front, Ferguson 40 parts tractor, John Deere B with cultivator $lOOO A.A. Co. 301-721-2897. 781 New Holland skid load er, Perkins diesel engine, no bucket, badly burned $l5O. Lane. Co 717-354-6706. Choose your Simmental bull from 6 registered halter-broke bulls, most polled $750-$llOO. 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John Deere 3 pt 4-14" trip bottom, gauge wheel, five extra shears $450. 4*x4o‘ hammermill belt $6O. York Co. 717-235-6733 IHC 656 hydro, utility, 2000 loader, Cat 2 hitch, very good condition Asking $7500. New tires, bucket, forks. Md. 301-798-1234. 1975 12x52 mobile trailer, great cond. includes stove, refng., washer & dryer and a deck. Not on land, on wheels already. $5400 215-262-0419 or 262-3707. Small Sough payloader model HA, good cond with bucket and pallet forks $2150. South Jersey 609-451-5971. Truck cap 43" high, 1% ton chain hoist, roof slate, 2" shop vacuum, office desk, push mower. Lane Co 215-267-5938. WHITE FAMM EOUPMENT Tha Amaritan Sarias Iran Whita Farm Equipmaat ro VV/ * STAUFFER X ROAD BOYERTOWN BALLY