ii BY MICHELLE S. RODGERS Extension Home Economist Hand in hand you see them traveling through the mall. Some are happy and excited, laughing while they juggle packages, while others look frazzled, their faces tear streaked. It’s back to school shopping time. Which picture best depicts your shopping trip? My childhood back to school shopping trips were enjoyable and memorable. Probably my mother and I were the original designers of the “shop ’til you drop” slogan. Mom designed one day to shop with each child. And, those shop ping experiences proved to be good wardrobe training. Parents can use these and other occasions WeAi C*td QaU Auoeiaiio*, 9*c. "the ONLY FAIR IN MONROE COUNTY ” PRESENTS CALENDAR OF EVENTS "H'l Udder! ] August 29 th - September 3'^ GILBERT. PA —ROUTE DIRECTIONS How to get to the West End Fair. Off Penna. Turnpike (Exit 34) take Route 209 North for 14 miles. From Rt. 33 - to Rt. 209 South - 7 miles From Rt 80 to Rt. 115 - South on Rt. 209 S, From Rt. 80 to Rt. 715 - South to Rt. 209 S FREE PARKING ADMISSION: $3.00 over 12 years of age Includes all Stage and Arena Shows. AGRICULTURE BUILDINGS Open Daily 12:00 Noon to 10 P.M. Except Wednesday and Saturday 10:00 A.M. to 10:00 P.M MEMBER b MMX -By Michelle S. Rodgers Berks Extension Home Economist as opportunities to guide children into a lifetime of successful war drobe planning and decision making. Although most children do not identify clothing as an element of self-expression until gradcs.six or seven, they let parents know what they like and don’t like to wear long before that. By two years of age a child will express color and texture preferences. These prefer ences are the beginning of a child’s individual style. Although later influenced by peers, a child’s sense of dressing flair begins at home. That’s not to say that there won’t be a time of fads, but a rec ognition of flattering colors, good design, and high-quality fabrics Delightful" 1988 PREMIUM LIST PENNSYLVANIA AGRICULTURE m write orowiiw ■ err at and workmanship can be culti vated early and nurtured. The understanding of good appearance is deeply rooted and may be easier to learn as a child than as an adult. Also, the understanding of a clean, neat appearance accomplished with a basic mix and match war drobe will be instrumental in meet ing clothing budgets now and in the future. Here arc a few tips to make sure that your shopping experiences are cheerful rather than tearful. One stop shopping is the ideal. Look for a store that reflects both of your tastes and patronize it regularly. If you don’t have one favorite place, then you might benefit by doing some preview shopping. Note stores that have the kinds of things you and your child are interested in and at your price range. Especially with younger children, plan to show them a few items then allow them to make the choice. This is not as overwhelming as choosing from a rackful and you get your shopping completed within the attention span of your child. Shop for major purchases (coats, dresses, shoes) at the begin ning of the season when the selec tion is best. You are more likely to get what you want and you will SUNDAY. August 21 West End Fair Open Horse Show - Grandstand Vesper Services - Main Stage MONDAY. Aui The Pleasant Valley High School Band - Band Shell R & R Auto Demolition Derby - Grandstand TUESDAY. August 30 Coke Video Van & Disc Jockey - Fairgrounds Shucks - Main' Stage The Hollywood Stunt World - Grandstand WEDNESDAY. August 31 4-H & Open Cattle Judging - Livestock Arena Big Band Ambassadors - Band Shell The Gold City Quartet - Main Stage Buckeye Rodeo - Grandstand Square Dance Demos - Leasure Squares - Band Shell Senior Citizen's Contests THURSDAY. September 1 Children's Contest's - Livestock Arena The Hollanders - Mam Stage R & R Auto Demolition Derby - Grandstand FRIDAY. Sei The Helen Cornelius Show - Main Stage P T P.A. Sanctioned Class A Tractor Pull - Grandstand Square Dance Demos. - Leasure Squares - Band Shell iATURDAY. Sepfeml 2 Wheel Drive Sanctioned Pull Grandstand 4 Wheel Drive Sanctioned Pull - Grandstand Open 2 & 4 Wheel Drive Pull - Local Contestant's The Bill Anderson Show - Main Stage ALL WEEK APPEARANCE'S Antique Engine, Tractor and Toy Club Smilie the Clown Circus Galaxy The John Bressler Show Dembroski Amusements & Reithoffer Shows - Midway Added Daily Attractions lust 29 itember 2 stand a better chance that your child will be more willing to wear them all season. Shop the sales for basics such as underwear, play clothes, and accessories. Take into consideration your child’s favorite colors. Children enjoy wearing clothes that have colors they like. Keep in mind that children look best in medium intensity rather than light pastels or electric hues. Accessories can be a great way jo liven up jeans and T-shirts. Sus "penders, ribbons, colorful stretch pants may add a special look to a basic mix and match wardrobe. If your child insists on expen sive designer labels, you may want to suggest that your child help use his or her allowance to purchase these items. The result may be bet ter care of the clothing and an understanding of the costs involved. As a child gets older, you may want to shop together for some basics, then allow your child to spend a certain amount of dol lars on their own adding to the bas ic wardrobe. By discussing how and why separates go together, how to match appropriate clothes to the occasion, and items that lasting wear, you can build life-long shop ping skills. 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Remember to praise your children when they look good in something they selected. Tell them why a particular piece of clo thing looks good on them. This helps reinforce individuality and establishes criteria for future purchases. I must admit that buying and selecting clothing for now one year-old Elise has been fun for me. However, in days to come. I’m sure we will have to work it out together, although we’re already off to a good start. On most morn ings, Elise is held up to the closet of play clothes and whatever outfit she grabs at is usually her selecton for the day (or at least one of the outfits that she’ll go through that day). And, of course, I’ve already' conditioned her to the fme art of loving to shop. I’ll probably be sorry later! Happy shopping. I’ll look for more smiling faces in the mall!