816-Lancaster Farming, Saturday, November 8,1986 Lebanon Homemakers Get Set For Holidays BY SUZANNE KEENE PRESCOTT “Please don’t buy me anything this year. I really don’t need anything.” This common phrase is often repeated at Christmas time, especially by the older folks on our gift lists, who are often difficult to buy for. To help gift givers select practical presents that will be appreciated, Francene Gates, director of the Mental Health Association, offered gift giving advice during the Lebanon County Extension holiday program here this week. When an elderly person requests no gifts, he may be trying to say he doesn’t want to inconvenience you, Gates noted. But everyone needs positive strokes or “warm fuzzies” and gifts are one way of giving them. When selecting gifts for the senior citizens on your list, “find a gift that satisfies you as a giver,” Gates said. But, she added, “Keep in mind the person for whom you are buying the gift. Buy them what they like. If they like purple, buy purple for them.” Mary Kreider, with the Retired Senior Volunteer Program, offered a few gift suggestions. Seniors who are still ambulatory appreciate gift certificates and transportation to the mall or shop, she said. Since many do not have the opportunity to shop every time they need a birthday or an niversary card, they may ap preciate a box of assorted cards and stamps, Kreider suggests. Large print books and magazines are always appreciated by elderly with failing eyesight, as are plants and flowers. Senior citizens in nursing homes without in-room televisions would probably appreciate a small television set and a subscription to a television guide or to cable television. Other gift ideas include, wall hangings, craft materials, tickets to a show and transportation. But regardless of the material gifts you may give, the gift of your time is one of the most precious, Kreider reminded. If you give grandma craft materials, take time out to do the craft with her. If you opt for show or concert tickets, attend the event with her. She’ll enjoy your company and delight in showing you off to her friends. The physical contact of a loving hug is a precious gift as well, Kreider said. “Give as many hugs as you can. They’re warmer than a sweater,” she urged. Senior volunteer Roseanna Slayton had suggestions for bed ridden senior citizens. Many, she said, would appreciate tape players and tapes. An informal poll of her acquaintances showed that Mitch Miller tapes were the most popular. Snapshots of your family, door decorations, perfume or special foods may also be appreciated. But if giving food, Slayton suggested Florist and lecturer Steven Stiles of Hershey demonstrated a few floral arrangements for holiday decorating. ~ .. of the Mental Health Association, offers gift suggestions for senior citizens. checking with the nurses, who will sure speak slowly and with serve it in the appropriate amount expression, ask questions about at Jr!?u opert i me ' • „ the content of the story and the But the most precious gift of all, pictures in the storybook, and she said, is yourself. Give the gift remember to indicate when to turn of yourself. It’s the best gift you the pages, she added, can give. a wooden egg can easily become For those with youngsters on a sachet for a man’s dresser their gift lists, Sherry Kalbach, a drawer or closet by rubbing it with free lance creative craft, lecturer, scented oil. When purchasing oil, had a few suggestions. look for essential oils which are A spray-pamted basket trimmed more potent that fragrance oils, with lace and filled with baby she advised, products makes a nice gift for Kalbach also had a few simple a -j y S -ri! irst chns V T^as ’ Kalbach decorating suggestions to share, smd. The name, date and birth Xo make a large lollipop for a weight can be printed on the wallhanging or doorpiece, cut two handle with magic marker or large circles of fabric and stitch P a i™- ... them together, leaving a small The same idea can be adapted to open space for stuffing. Stuff a preschooler or a busy mom. lightly and insert a dowl stick Kalbach suggested filling the (sticks from old calendars work basket with learning games for well) for the lollipop stick, toddlers. To make a simple matching game, fill pairs of empty film canisters with various objects like a bell, a cotton ball, and sand. Put the loaded containers in a bag and have the child shake the canisters to determine which contain the same items. A busy mother would certainly appreciate a basket filled with ingredients for a luxury bath. You may want to include bubble bath, a good book, a box of chocolates, and a coupon redeemable for two hours of babysitting on a weekday af ternoon, she suggested. Elderly folks would enjoy a basket or decorated box filled with notepads, matching envelopes and stamps, Kalbach said. A homemade cassette with a child’s favorite story would make a nice gift for grandma to give, she noted. When making the tape, be To decorate, write a message in glue and apply glitter. Complete the project by wrapping it in cellophane and adding a bow. To make a decorative candle holder, remove the labels from several different sizes of tin cans. Fill the cans with water and freeze. When the water is frozen solid, remove cans from the freezer and punch a design using a nail. 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