Page 6- The Behrend College Beacon - Thursday, Janmarx 21, /WO Diaries O ’ Hair By Paul Duggan The Washington Post AUSTIN - Two generations ago, when Madalyn Murray O’Hair helped vanquish formal prayer from public schools and became what Life maga zine called "the most hated woman in America,” she reveled in the animos ity. A loud, combative woman, a de vout disbeliever in God, she rarely missed a chance to ridicule religion, often on her radio show heard on scores of stations. These days, though, long after obscurity has enveloped O’Hair and her organization, Ameri can Atheists Inc., the former Balti more housewife and U.S. Supreme Court litigant remains noteworthy for one reason: her strange absence. More than three years have passed since O’Hair, then 76, and her two closest allies, both family members, vanished from their Austin home. Are they dead? Are they lounging in the tropics? God only knows. Adding to the mystery is the fact that after the three disappeared, groups affiliated with American Atheists reported in tax forms that $629,500 in organiza tion money had disappeared with them. Police are searching, at least nominally, for them. No clues have surfaced. It turns out, however, that O'Hair did leave something behind a record of her thoughts during decades of pri- Advocates ask Holocau Los Angeles Times OAKLAND, Calif. Last July, Sid Wolinsky got a taste of how difficult it will probably be to gain greater ac knowledgment for disabled Holo caust victims, when he and Patricia Kirkpatrick, director of development at Disability Rights Advocates, vis ited Yad Vashem. the massive Holo caust memorial outside Jerusalem. Wolinsky, the litigation director for the international rights organization, argues that Yad Vashem’s depiction of the murder of people with disabili ties at the hands of the Nazis "seri ously understates the issue and is his torically inaccurate.” Yad Vashem Vice Chairman Johanan Bein wrote to Wolinsky af ter his visit, acknowledging the dis abled dead. But Bein called that mass murder a “forerunner” to the Shoah- Holocaust and said that his center “by law. is dedicated to the remembrance King honored with day of prayer, fun and By Lena H. Sun The Washin :ton Post WASHINGTON - Around the region and the country Monday, people cel ebrated the birthday of slain civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr. with solemn speeches, prayerful re flection and volunteerism, as well as fun and games. Last Friday would have been King's 70th birthday. In Georgia, crowds gathered at two churches where King preached to hear him hailed as a man who "paid the ultimate price” so that others could be free. No other man in mod ern times has done more to lift the dignity of the common man, Rep. Sanford Bishop, D-Ga„ told a packed Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta. Answering his own call for Ameri cans to spend the holiday doing vol unteer work, President Clinton turned up Monday with Vice President A 1 Gore at Regency House, a Northwest Washington retirement home. Within minutes, the two blue-jeaned leaders brought down a wall with hammers and crowbars in the basement of the city-owned building. The room is to be renovated by volunteers of Americorps’ National Civilian Com munity Corps for use as a medical of absent atheist headed for auction vale and public turmoil. Among her belongings, and soon to be offered at auction, were diaries covering 9) years about 2.000 pages of re lice lions, fears, complaints, boast-, la ments and anti-religion m \ ecu', a tV« m the best-known litigant in the I ‘-to? Supreme Court case that barred orga nized classroom prayer. They also re veal a woman who, alter sears ot hard financial limes, was eager for the per sonal comforts that often accompany fame, including a bigget house, a Cadillac and a mink coat. To help pay for the luxuries, she hoped to "humili ate (evangelist) Billy Graham for money" in a lawsuit, she wrote in 1973. And there is a lot of anger. “What is the matter with hating?" site wrote in Oclobei 195 b. belon- a laige number of Americans came t« ■ hate her, and she appeared to bask m ilteii ill will. She thought it odd that hate is "treated as a leper among the emo tions." Born in Pittsburgh, she mariied at 22. Her first child. William Murias Jr., was fathered by another man. and she and her husband became es tranged. In the early I 95()5. she v. ound up in Baltimore, living in poverty. She used the last name Murray. although she did not marry William's lather After another man fathered her sec ond child, Jon, she gave him the same last name, Murray. "My Inline has never looked more dismal and eon ol the Shoah-Holocaust." ueluted as including Jew ish victims alone. The Oakland organization got a slightly better response liom a survey Kirkpatrick sent to 70 1 loloeaust ecu ters and associations around the coun try. In the survey, she asked the groups if they mention disabled Holocaust victims in their icmembianee ceremo nies and. if not. would they con- idei it. Only lb surveys were completed and returned, but of those, four re- sponding organizations said that they already commemorate people with disabilities. At Rick Landman's eav and lesbian synagogue in New York, wui ■ 'nop.. i . have included the disabled in their Yom Hashoah ceremony for die past 11 years. Traditional!;.. six candles .is e lit during such commemoram >ie . i op resenting the 6 million Jew s v. im died in the Holocaust. After cvpei mi. nt mg with as many us I 5 candles n in ■dude all the various victim groups; "We had volunteer work Later, in brief remarks to d ' ol the home's 160 residents. Clinton praised the volunteers as a living example ol the “partnership across lacia! lines” that King had envisioned. "Remem ber what Dr. Kimzsaid: Everyone can be great because everyone can scrvc.’ Clinton said. And as the president quoted from a fasorite In inn of King's "If I can help somebody . . then my living will not be in vain" he elicited a robust "All right!" from wispy Idella Davis. 88. Like most of her fellow residents at Regency, Davis said she was delighted that Clinton was visiting her home. And his audience, though small, was a sympathetic crowd. They used words like "dreadful." "terrible," "a shame” and "very unfair" to describe the impeachment trial. In Prince George's County. Md.. dozens of students gathered to admire three dozen colorful posters draw n by their elementary and high school col leagues as part of a contest to depict King’s legacy of racial harm, my "I want people to know that we should treat all people the same, regardless of their color," said Cat,men Cuopct. 11, a sixth-grader at Hollywood El ementary who won first place lor it poster depicting people ol lilkevni World and Nation wisely my hopes have never been brighter." she w rote on Feb. 23, 1955. "It must be that: hitting the absolute bottom, now there is no place to go but back up. I'm unemployed, have a baby who lakes up every bit of my time, have no clothes, have no pros pects." .And she saw hypocrisy all around her liaek then. "We read books, maga- zines, newspapers ... sec movies hear piays ... have inculcated in schools, church and other institutions one type of moral code. ... Actually we ignore that code completely and live by raw rules that disgust, revolt and injure.” Having declared herself an atheist, she took up the legal fight against classroom prayer after notic ing that pupils in William's Baltimore school were taking part in organi/ed worship. Though she was not the lead litigant m the 1963 case, she was the loudest and most combustible, and quickly sei/cd the public stage when the landmark ruling was issued. She made atheism a livelihood, attracting supporteis and donations and even tually rooting her organization in Aus tin in 19(>5. I lie diaries, he cun in 1953. do not cover the period 1959 to 1972, so there are no contemporary references to the Supreme Court case. The 13 volumes and other O’llair personal papers are being kept in a bank safe deposit box here by a court-appointed st centers to include disabled a big fire." Landman says with a laugh, the synagogue settled on the usual six plus one for gays, the dis abled and others. Landman is the founder of the International Associa tion of Lesbian and Gay Children of Holocaust Survivors, which plans to eieel a separate memorial in New 3 oik lor gay am! lesbian Holocaust v mums in Mav. rather than askinc for inclusion in existing monuments. So la:. Disability Rights Advocates' effoits lor inclusion have caused sev eral Holocaust organizations across the country to rethink how they re member the Nazis' disabled victims. The lAS Holocaust Memorial Mu seum m Washington already distrib ute. a separate pamphlet on victims with disabilities and displays a pho tograph of a "euthanasia" center with smoke billow mg Irom its eremalories. And. because of Wolinsky \ request that remembrance ceremonies be bioadeiied. the museum's board is races titled "Don’t Judge People By Their Color." "These posters remind us of our humanity , of our kinship." said William Welch, executive direc tor of the county's human relations commission, which sponsored the poster contest. The commission was created in 1972 to help the county heal the rift between blacks amt whites alter court-ordered businc. Organizers of Monday's holiday stressed the importance of involving youngsters. Despite occasional down pours. almost all the tables were lull at an all-y ou-can-cat breakfast buffet in New Carrollton, Md. Sponsored by the Ebony Scholarship Society Inc., an organization of black profession als. many of the hostesses and mem bers of the choir were teen-agers. Julius and Javvii Pittman, both 35, of handover, Md., have been taking their five children to the breakfast for the last lour gears. Julius Pittman is a I'cdeial postal worker; his wife is a researcher at the National Institutes of Health. Their oldest child, Morgan Holland. I 3, w as one of the hostesses. "I'm glad people still remember Mar tin Luther King because he was a good man," she said. In Virginia, the organizers of Reston’s annual Martin Luther King Jr. Dav vowed that .the celebration bankruptcy lawyer, Ron Ingalls, whose assignment is to sell any O’Hair assets he can l ine! to help pay her $250,000 debt to the Internal Rev enue Service. Ingalls said he has found no assets other than the diaries. They are tilled with gripes about the dil I’ieulty of fund-raising; angry eriti cism of staffers, whom she regularly and often permanently alienated; and an August 1478 entry after the death of Pope John Paul. "This fanatical cretin who knew the devil existed in the flesh, who rem loreed the theology of the church, who gave the edict which charged women with unrelenting pregnancy, is being eulogized even by the com munist world in a sick debasement of the human intellect." she wrote. “I only wish I could spit on his corpse for the world to see that some of us consider this trust misplaced.” She became Madalyn Murray O’Hair after she married her second husband, now deceased. William Murray Jr., who survived years of emotional turmoil alter the Supreme Court case, is now a Christian activ ist in Virginia. His adult daughter Rohm, however, was one of O’Hair's most trusted confidantes, along with O'Hair's younger son. Jon. They dis appeared with her in September 1995. "eonsidering an appropriate re sponse," says spokeswoman Mary Morrison. The Holocaust Resource Center in Bultalo, N.Y.. is considering whether to include a separate commemoration for people with disabilities in its Day ol Remembrance ceremonies. The Holocaust Center of Northern Cali fornia will address the issue in the next year. And the Dallas Memorial Center for Holocaust Studies voted in early November to light a seventh candle during its Yom Hashoah cer emonies "in memory of the other vic tims, ’’ says Frieda Soble. executive director. "It wasn't a deliberate exclu sion." Soble says. "No one brought it to our attention" until the survey landed on her desk this fall. "Their letter made a difference." Soble says. w ould be fun. Rather than a few hours of solemn speeches, the committee planned a day-long celebration of music, community service awards, dramatic performances and _ of course _ a lew speeches designed to draw participants of all ages. So there were birthday cakes, bell-ringers and sing-alongs. All 10 public schools serving the Reston area were invited to participate, as were dozens of churches and community groups. "It’s a celebration of (King’s) birthday but also of the community’s diversity,” explained planning committee Chair man Alvarez LeCesne. "We wanted the whole community to be That plan worked. More than a thousand people streamed in and out of the Reston Community Center Monday, the largest crowd ever for a King Day celebration. They had free coffee and pastries, applauded foot stomping performances by local choirs, and joined in more than a few choruses of "We Shall Overcome.’’ Methodists take vow against church ban at gay nuptials By Rene Sanchez The Washington Post SACRAMENTO - In defiance of the United Methodist Church, nearly 100 of its ministers gathered here Satur day and gave an elaborate public blessing to the marriage of Jeanne Barnett and Ellie Charlton, a lesbian couple whose union is prohibited by the church’s canons. The unusual event at once an angry protest rally and a joy ful wedding was the latest illustration of how deeply divided the Methodist Church has become over homosexuality and same-sex mar riages. Its 8.5 million members make it the nation’s third-largest Christian denomination. "Nothing quite like this has ever happened in public before for us," said Karen Humphrey, a church mem ber who helped organize the cer emony, which was staged inside a downtown convention center here. "1 hope you can see there's a lot of line for us,” Charlton said after the cer emony. “The closet is chirk and damp and unhealthy. I hope those of you who are in the closet can find a way to come out." More than 1.000 rebellious church members, some of whom had never met the couple, came from across the West to the ceremony, which lasted for much of the day. It began w ith a solemn "circle of love," in w Inch sup- porters linked hands outside the con vention hall, and concluded with a formal wedding program. The min isters who performed the rites of mar riage were joined, at least in spirit, by dozens of other Methodist clergy men nationwide w ho could not attend but sent petitions of support. They could all be facing serious risk: Some Methodist leaders have vowed to put them on trial for violating church doctrines; if found guilty, they could all be defrocked. But the--ministers, who liken their cause to the civil rights moveinenl of the l l96os. are daring (he church to take action against them. Their mass blessing of the lesbian couple was mostly a protest because Barnett and Charlton, both in their sixties, already have exchanged vows rluring a re cent private ceremony in the company of a Methodist minister. The two women, who have lived together for 15 years, are members of St. Mark’s United Methodist Church in Sacramento. Its senior pas tor, the Rev. Donald I-'ado. has de nounced church policy from his pul pit for months. He took the lead role in S aturday’s ceremony, which he called his first act of dissent against the Methodist church in the four de cades he has been one of its minis ters. As the service began, a choir that was at least 100 voices strong sang hymns from a stage lighted with candles and covered with flowers. The entire crowd stood and swayed. Some closed their eyes and clasped their hands in praver. while others Poe grave “Roses and Cognac” mystery-man By Rob Hiuusen The Baltimore Sun BALTIMORE -A mystery man who for nearly 50 years left roses and co gnac at the grave of Edgar Allan Poe died in December, according to a computer-written note found early Tuesday at Poe’s grave. The note was tucked among three roses and a bottle of Martell’s cognac hand-delivered by another mystery man at Poe’s grave on his 190th birthday. “The gentleman who started the tra dition in 1949 died from a prolonged illness this December,” says Jeff Jerome, curator of the Edgar Allan Poe House and Museum. As he does each Jan. 19, Jerome spent the night in Westminster Hall and witnessed a man leaving the customary gifts at Poe’s original grave behind the church. Jerome found the letter mo- held bright banners alolt. Still more waited in a long line to sign the couple’s wedding guest book. Mam spoke breathlessly about be ing part of the unprecedented cer emony and said they were determined to keep fighting then ow n church. " This is our lunch countei. this is our freedom ride, 'said Barbara Heintzelman. 55. who came with two buses full of supporters from Fresno, Calif. "We’re standing up and saying, 'No more.' God’s love doesn't draw lines." "The Christian religion is not supposed to exclude people, said Curtis Moore, a Methodist from San Francisco. "Jesus hung out with lep Outside the convention center, the mood was tense. Under the close w atch of police officers on horseback, about a dozen protesters who were kept across the street railed against ho mosexuality. waving signs such as "God Hates lacs." Dunne the cer emony. Fado's voice quavered with emotion as he introduced the couple, calling them "two people whose love is an inspiration and whose commit ment is a challenge to us." The crowd erupted w ith a standing ovation. Later. Charlton's granddaughter read a poem saluting the couple's courage F’ado ami the oilier ministers here are angry w Ith the Methodist national leadership loi reasserting last fall that -sex union-' cannot he sanc tioned. 'I lie issue lus been a source of turmoil within the church and among oilier I’rotestanl denomina tions for several years. And both sides in the dispute use an assortment of Bible passages to justify their stance. No major Protestant denomination has approved the ordination of openly practicing homosexuals as clerics, and no Christian faith has established ritu als lor blessing same sex marriage So far, lewer than 500 of the more than 50,000 Methodist ministers na tionwide have said they would bless samc-scx unions, liul imiuv's ccr oniony is one ol mam signs of grow ing discomfort or outright defiance of church polio} on homosexual unions by ministers and the faithful. Some Methodist officials say the split is the most serious internal strile the church has had to confront in decades. Until today, the most significant outbreak of dissent in the Methodist church oxer its prohibition of same- sex unions occuired two sears ago in Omaha when the Res. Jimmy Creech blessed the marriage of a lesbian couple. I'lie Methodist church filed charges against him. hut a Methodist tribunal acquitted him. Creech was the liis t pei.son iiied ler breaking the church's covenant. That ruling, however, was over turned lasi tall In the denomination's highest court, winch said the church ban on gas marriage was binding law . Since then, other ministers across the country base stepped forward to bless gay couples, but none has gone as far dies meats alter the stranger in black left the cemetery around 3 a.m. In the let ter, the original visitor requested that the tradition he’d started be contin ued, Jerome says. He also thanked Jerome lor safeguarding his privacy all these years. The curator was touched and saddened. “I’m sort of disappointed to know it was an eld erly gentleman, and to learn he did die, Jerome says. "Part of the mys tery is gone." Still, much mystery remains. The letter, securely in Jerome's posses sion, revealed more about the origi nal visitor's identity. But Jerome will say no more, other than not to refute this guess: The latest visitor to Poe’s grave, only the third man to perform the rite, is related to the deceased stranger.